₦airaland Forum

Christian36:
Thanks my bros, I once tried to be funny with one, na like so the lady lost interest... Again if the whole effort are coming from me, do you think such relationship will last because relationship should be mutual not for the other one to be acting as if they are above you.

The whole effort wont be from your continuously…if the first stages women dey always make u do more… her response will and effort will later balance with your own….if nit give am red card if u realize u are overdoing to keep the relationship alive

Christian36:
Let me start with this for those that will come to attack me, I'm not into woman things, just that I'm over due to get married. The issue now is that whenever I get a lady contact less than two weeks the lady looses interest, I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. I just want a lady I will settle down with. The second to the last and the last one just lost interest within a week. I have started seeing it as a spiritual thing. I will appreciate your advice because I'm really confused now.

Baba …its nothing…
Na so relationship be these days… pple are more shallow and superficial than ever…more interested in their phones, social media entertainment than engaging pple….
U just need small patience and also some tactics to engage women….because the truth women do very little to keep the spark alive at talking stage… na u go find common ground, initiate outings, call more, and be funny, etc…. No use money oooooooooooo, nor start what u cant sustain oooooooooo

No worry baba….u go dey alright las las

Drsnives:
Bro but there are some marriages that works right? I believe mine is one of them

Ofcouse marriage works but not because of all u are claiming… ur marriage is one year old where couples fvck like rabbits…u forming authority on marriage in such a short time of experience is just funny

tete7000:
If you say you yield you life to God and he doesn't help you make a choice in whom you marry, how does that corroborate your yielding to him? If you do God's will and follow his path, there is that one person whose path will converge with yours when you are looking for a spouse. If it God's will, it definitely can't be a random choice because God is not a random person.

There are so many decisions that will present itself in a person’s life once we arrive this cosmos.

My question is why is that its marriage time yall start looking for how to drag God into decisions u already made from ripples of other decisions

Yall chose school by yourself
Chose house on your own..
Took any available job after 1000 applications..
Even chose country to japa to
Heck! U even saw her big yansh before approaching..
But somehow yall drag God into it …….

Drsnives:
Sure..
There's eve for every Adam specially designed by God for that Adam.
Luckliy for me, God directed me to mine..
It's been one success story from one to the other since my marriage.
This month 15 will be our 1year anniversary
Please I need 1000likes to celebrate it

Prayerfully pray for God to lead you to yours, if you go by sight you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
Wives are like parcel wrapped, some are packaged liabilities, some packaged industrious, honest, respectful and loyal parcel. After marriage you unwrapped the gift and recive the content

Hey yall nairalanders…:.come and look at this guy…hahahahahaha!
His marriage his one year old and he's already forming authority on marriage…

Shebi u know the one they remove from adam’s rib na she run adam street….

Relax mr newly wed….. everybody must collect las las… if u doubt me…….:::ask why all these married pple like saying “marriage is not for the faint hearted”

Whoever knows how to teach btw you guys

Some pple just dont know how to teach which is why many pple hate maths right from primary school

Coolgent:
Forget what they told you.
Marriage is a good thing.... if you find a good spouse!

This is a vague statement….how exactly is marriage a good thing?? U married pple should start saying more about how marriage is a good thing…

Alas! You dont.. …instead,.Yall come online and start posting…..
marriage is not for them faint hearted,
marriage is not for the weak,
marriage is a battle ground,
marriage will test you..
Marriage will drain you
Marriage will wound you..
Marriage will break you…
If u dont have money like otedola dont marry

Oya naaa..when guyz now say they are not interested you will say marriage is a good thing…it just sounds like yall dont want anybody to escape, as in, like every body must collect wotowoto …::

The truth is marriage only works when one party is stvpid and allows the other person use them…

its clear yall know this and dont enjoy being used all the time especially when it costs alot to be the sacrificial lamb

CHoccolaTE:
To all the guys that are not planning to get married but want kids at the same time, better get professional surrogate mother's to carry the pregnancy and pay her afterwards.

Also get professional wet nurse to breastfeed your kids and pay her after she's done with breastfeeding.

Also get professional nanny to take care of your kids, bathe them, feed them, keep them safe from killing themselves while you go to work. Everyday.

DO NOT GET BABY MAMAS.

You people are looking for women to turn to single mothers and to destroy with your selfishness. You claim women don't contribute anything but you want to get baby mamas to bear your kids and take care of them free of charge. Una dey crase.

Stupid mad men.

Why do sound very angry? why do u want to burst a blood vessel over pple’s choices??

there are also women who dont want marriage drama and also want to be baby mamas…Look at toke makinwa, linda ikeji, etc,

Its always sounds bad until your gender is doing same.

helinues:
So what would you now say about some last presidents that awarded most of their own projects in paper?

u award project on paper or u use 10years to complete 100k rd …Same thing sir… all na embezzlement

helinues:
Remember the governors stopped owing salary or borrowing unnecessarily as they are being taken care by the FG handsomely

Oh.. salary payment for work done is now an achievement sir?? If salary payment is the only achievement we have for all our oil revenue, IGR, removal fuel and naira subsidy, dont u think there is problem sir ??

helinues:
Oya tell us if there was something like the new Lagos Calabar coastal highway before

U mean the 10km in two years highway with trillions of naira gone ?? This is exactly why tax payers money will never benefit tax payers…. Projects like coastal highway is how money ends up in the pockets of few like mallami……

baba calm down….a slave will never be slave for life… If his master doesn't set his him free, time will do so eventually…. 8 years will soon reach

helinues:
That's why the government want to increase the tax base so that those benefits can be circulated. Na you people still don't want the government to be borrowing unnecessarily

Continue these lies sir….
Its the same lies yall spread when they wanted to remove subsidy on fuel and the naira….. una nor dey tire.. yall did the same thing with buhari…

One day…u will grow old and finally tell your children how you lied for corrupt leader who robbed their future long before they were born…

. I come in peace oooo but i know u wont see it as peace because all you see is opposition vs ruling party

RichBoy247:
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So 0.75 on a 200 Naira charge is what is making you to week, yet you want Nigeria to be like Europe. Ask your brothers in Europe how much Tax in different headings they pay.

Nigeria cannot be like europe because all the monies will go into the pocket of few…

Manculated:
Anything short of a kind, trustworthy, good looking, well to do, good character lady from a good and well to do background.

Abeg count me out because I'm very happy with my singlet position.

Big yansh and big b00bi not go let you see that one u listed above

Tenses:
Be it wrong or right. Marriage is not for the weak.

Why is it not for the weak??
Is it not supposed to be two pple helping each other.

This ur statement is another reason pple should not even marry

SultanYoung:
if it's a copy why don't you guys have this scientifically proven cases or it's just that someone extract them out of your holy book on purpose??

Lol….because the writers of the quran copied those else where… its the same reason the bible doesnt contain text that tells christians to go fight and kill muslims…

Its the same reason the bible doesnt contain your pagan worship of facing the box in the east to pray…

ask yourself why u have a bunch of old arabian pagan doctrines in your religion….ur prophet aimed at merging jewish text, injeel, and pagan practice…

i mean..tell me sultan.. why are u kissing black stone and matching round the black box the way idol worshippers do before your prophet came out of the cave??

See ehn….If those cognitive bias statements u call scientific proofs are the proof of your faith … baba… i genuinely pray that you to find God or your allah by a true encounter/experience … because u havent found him, u are a band wagon follower

Eraddray:
It's a rubbish advise at the end of the day... loneliness hit different when u're old...from 65yrs upwards...either for a man or woman..

Marriage is not a guarantee to escape loneliness… spouse can die, children will grow and go live their lives once they start college…..

Plan ur life and how u will survive old age..

Dnt waste your time..its the fault of the guys..

Odenscollection:
How did she get to do this. This can cause cancer in future years

The sad part is… nature is brutal…
the hair follicle will heal and hair will grow again after sometime needing more laser procedure

SultanYoung:
if that gives you the joy you crave for so be it.


The whole thing you mentioned please can you prove them logically?


The answer is a FAT NO so the jokes on you.

..its already there unless u dont want to read…what do i need to prove sir??

Ur quran contains half of the bible/torah but conveniently claimed the previous text he copied are false and his own is the original because he wrote it alone in a cave
he now added extra jara : that you must not accept any other because he is the last and only prophet…
. I ddnt claim all these ……ur book did ….. i am only surprised it doesnt sound stvpid to yall


Imagine me as a researcher write a journal on medical discovery then tell you all the other journals on the same topic are falls and when i am asked how my own is authentic….: i tell u its because i wrote it alone in a lab where nobody knows and i have no reference and co-authors… lol..

SultanYoung:
Islam is the only religion that has proven scientifically with 99.99 accuracy below are just 10 list of them , do with them whatever you want.

Lol…..All these list doesnt change the fact that its still a copy…..they are just more copying….just as he copied more pagan stuff for yall to follow

And thats why the so called author couldn’t live the life of peace it claimed he brought…. Spent years killing and forcing religion on pple…

Bakrabas:
There's no room for rapist and homosexualism in that community unlike America and other Christendom that support same sex marriage.

So the pple they flogged are homosexuals ??
They ddnt even commit adultery so whats their offence ?? Dating each other??


Why dont you pple make alcohol contraband in your country…instead of allowing alcohol into the country then start flogging commoners for buying but allowing the rich… is islam even a faith or just a tool of oppression??

Who is Lemo??

Where was Lemo when yayi was cementing his name into the heart of pple by lighting up their streets, shops and front porches, giving ppl bikes and Keke, helping market women and co..

U pple are still using first class in accounting as bragging rights for election?? Lol…leaders that will only show result on paper and doctored figures

Nigerians prefer leaders that will allow them benefit from their common wealth…and yayi has proven to a reasonable point he wont embezzle everything unlike others collecting allocations and diverting practically 100% into their pockets

ksmart027:
The number na him own, no need to blur anything. How can he be shipping the stuff he sale to himself.

Omoh…see vawulence!!

SultanYoung:
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Have you ever seen a Muslim or Jew trying to correct, compare and implement their beliefs on your religion¿??

Yes…….islam compares ……that’s literally the core message of islam…without the compassion, islam has no message.. its the very reason claimed the torah and injeel are corrupted otherwise it will just be copy with no validity

.lol..the authors of the quran literally wrote it with points to tackle the first two religious text

1) your god has no son
2) your god is not three
3) your book is doesnt have many authors. writer memorised it inside a cave making it very perfect and incorruptible ..

I mean yall literally pasted a giant banner infront of your mosque just to say Jesus is not son of God…. Lol….

danvon:
You mean the people shouting Nnamdi Kanu is another saviour, those are the victims?

So its the whole anambra state thats shouting nnamdi kanu is another saviour?? The fact is these pple enforce this sit at home with force and violence… but yall want to pretend that the whole anambra pple chose to stay at home in solidarity…..

The governor should first go and enrol his kids in those schools

LordIsaac:
I think I agree with Soludo on this...no group should hold a State to ransom!

Lol…..
Businesses and pple are being harassed by a group but its the victims u want to punish by licking up their businesses some more..??


Una wise ooooo

johannu:
They're not happy with Professor Joash Amupitan in INEC, but they're very happy with Professor Ishaq Oloyede in JAMB.

Islam is not a religion…..its a tool of domination, na una dey lose guard…

The earlier yall realise you are at war with them the better your decisions will be because thats how they see everything……

SisterAnn:
That would be wife no 3? I'm not aware he remarried after Rose left him.

Churchill and rose are still married.....

Tonto dikeh and Churchill are not getting back together....the reconcile context is that she has stopped being bitter towards him and allowed him access to his son after 10years

izicooo:
A man needs to be a man. You can't treat a humanbeing the way she treated Churchill & come back to say God this God that! That Churchill no be man, she go still vomit him again, she is a leopard she can't change her spots

They are not getting back together oooo...the man don marry naaaaa.....he just allowed him speak to his kid after such a long time

PulaPower:
This dude self no get level..

Mtchewww

....as how??

If woman carry you pikin wetin you go do naaa...court nor dey too award men custody

QuinQ:
LordReed and advanceDNA come and see o.
Can this happen if she were an atheist?

I don't know where u got the idea that I am an atheist .......but why do u think atheist cant be less bitter 10 years after divorcing their ex

QuinQ:
What surprises me is how some of yiu folks will be on NL for years and still not be able to know the "voice" of a Nigerian woman. That's how I know that Kobojunkie cannot be a natural Nigerian woman. Can't you tell that I cannot be a Nigerian woman? I'm amazed at you folks who can't recognize "voice". Unless the person posts very little, you can't fool me!

Sigh....another goal post.....

Talking with you is not interesting at all...