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Pecoleee345:
You are right............I only provide money and treat my wife like a slave.
Infact when I use the rest room I call.her to come clean my ass.....lol.

Like I always say ***you women are always the victim**

UjuJoan2:
So you think she’s lying? Well that is a possibility, it don’t think things like that is not possible.

Maybe he hated his job and married her because he knew she could support him.

Daejumong:
[b]General overseers need to treat local church pastors the way Jesus treated his disciples !

Ifakiland:
I can give you 4m loan....I'll have the car and it's original papers....you'd return principal plus 5% after 6 months, it goes up to 10% from the 7th to 12th months....after the 12th month....you can kiss your car goodbye....message me if you agree....090 93 19 19 19

Beverlyjean:
afterall if u separate from him...wudnt u still be providing for urself and kids ...Will ur financial burden change ??

Bantino:
Wenger should be there too

OriOko88:
Make we dey watch.

EreluRoz:
Where is it? Don't say career because PricelessHair Dr Chi is a medical doctor as well

OriOko88:
Dortmund 1x is 2.05 odds. I don knack am 10k. Make we see how far. I support Dortmund tonight. Cmonnn Adeyemi

Jackanda1:
I had some physical difficulties that made me to start doing alot of research into the spiritual. E.g I started reading books and asking the 'what if questions'. One day out of desperation and curiosity, i asked a pastor to pray for me. I then realized i had several demons who started manifesting, appearing, tormenting and speaking to me. So many things i can't talk about.

There are so many people who are held captives by demons. Only by faith in Jesus name can one be set free.


The atheism nonsense is a demonic mental manipulation itself. I'm happy to be free.

Gromilla010:
your unhealthy obsession about gays will lead you to your doom

Jackanda1:
There are so many things in this world that people do. They don't understand they're been influenced by demons.

I was athiest when i realized this. When i did, they started attacking me.

Silentgroper:
you shouldn't heap the blames on men on here only .. That situation goes vice versa ...

Pecoleee345:
PTSD....LOL...... you are just cooking things up in your head.
She is even beside me as I type.

What Op is doing isn't a bad thing............is just the thrash talking am against.

Isnt only lack finance that makes one complain in marriage, there are several aspects of marriage.


Once again until you are married you won't understand.

Pecoleee345:
So cos someone is kind that would stop them from complaining or thrash talk you??

Would her Kindness make her stay when you down financially and not complain /nagg your soul out??

Kindness self get limit.....never forget that

Pecoleee345:
I don't think you are married ?? Hence you don't know how bad people can pretend.

One thing have learnt over time is people change and you can't truly know what you can do until you find yourself in some certain situations.

Women are naturally stingy and not natural givers....they see there giving as an investment.

Whatever she giving or doing during dating stage is an investment to her.........relationship and marriage is two different ball game.
Most women change mostly in marriage after having the first child and most bad behavior show when the man is down.

It is just a mindset.......they just feel whatever they lack is there husband fault and the society supports them.
Only few see things differently.


Lastly in every relationship that leads to marriage there is always hidden motives.......Love is never the only reason.

Pecoleee345:
Like they make it look like the man is just a log of wood during those period doing nothing and not dropping a single kobo.

That 2022 I paid the house rent and was still dropping whatever I see but due to the fact she was the one dropping the lion share.....I was lazy and not ready to work.

She started telling people she was tired and complaining like this.......Men I went through depression.

This was a woman i married jobless and can't even boost of 100k in her account then.
The business she runs i set it up for her.

Things change last year and table has turned......now that same woman now expects me to give her money freely and help her family members....lol

She herself no the love I have for her is now 20% and she always blaming the devil for her behaviors but for me I can only labor on my kids.

Lovecode89:
Three years into marriage with a son. he resigned from his job immediately after the wedding, stop making effort to get another job. No business pursuit, no skill.
Left all the bills on the struggling wife. The marriage became so dry, no romance, the wife is always sad and over burden. Yet he wants intimacy from the wife. The wife deprived him for months.

How can she handle such marriage?

Goodlyhrt:
only you go stay for the world? Chilax bro!

Or are you gay?

sparko1:
Just because a gay man slept with a woman because the environment doesn't permit it.

sparko1:
Do you know how many Nigerian men/guy have anal sex with their wife and girlfriend?

sparko1:
The idea of choice is not clear to you, the thing you call lust is inbuilt, you don't choose to feel that way.

sparko1:
A choice implies I made a decision to feel that way.

sparko1:
The first thing you need to acknowledge is, is it generic or a choice, sexuality is not a choice, we straight guy don't have a choice, our attraction to the female folk is instinctive, we don't choose it.

If this is so, why would anyone hide just so they can be who they are?

This is the point of the discussion.

Whatsapp9:
My actions were out of immaturity and wrong advice from evil friends.

I realised my mistakes. How can I convince him to allow me back? How can I persuade my husband? Advise me please 🙏

sparko1:
You may think so, so many ill-informed young minds this days, it will be difficult in another couple of years.

lilyheaven:
😂😂😂😂
Money no go finish,
Yansh no go finish too.
Na Una cry say, girls don collect all the money.
Una hard earn money just for 5 minutes pleasure.

kumbhuru:
What identity document could I put here please ? I have voters card and NIN but those do not have expiry dates

MrDoGood:
Maybe you don't understand what you wrote. You don't need to lie to make her feel important.

Are you married?

If you're not, wait till you get married and see girls just want to jump on you without you impressing them. Let alone lying to them. You don't even really need to flash the cash. Except you're going after below 25 yrs old. This is not a confirmation that cheating is a norm. I'm just stating facts

The temptation becomes high the moment you get married