₦airaland Forum

Sermwell:
When I was in the university, me and my ex girlfriend cohabited for close to 4 years. She was studying pharmacy while I was studying law. There was nothing we didn't do sexually, including an*l sex and all. She even mistakenly took in 3 times and we had to abort because we weren't ready. We eventually broke up amicably after school.

Last Saturday, she had her wedding and invited me. To my shock, right in the church during the sermon and marriage counseling or whatever, the pastor began to praise her for keeping her virginity till marriage, and also praised her parents, who are elders in the church for bringing their daughter up in the way of the Lord. As if that wasn't enough, after the reception, I saw the groom lieing on camera of how it's a Godly marriage because he met his wife a virgin and they kept themselves till marriage bla bla bla. The girl's parents also spoke to the cameras advising other parents to train their children morally in the way of the Lord and sexual chastity bla bla bla.

My question is why lie about these things that are not even true in the first place? Why fake sexual chastity that's not there?

Nemesis0147:
lol
Davido paid Chioma bride price in imo state

https://www.nairaland.com/7511344/davido-reportedly-pays-chiomas-bride#119742832

DomPerignon:
What's the recoil like?

The latest AK-100 has zero recoil which makes for better accuracy and its range is higher than the 600-800m range of the older models and best of all is made partly of composite material and not wood.

Kemetian:
PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO TYPE THIS "TOOTHPICK" NONSENSE YOU HEARD FROM YOUR IGNORANT PARENTS. WAKE UP. NIGERIA IS FULL OF THOUSANDS OF FACTORIES MANUFACTURING A HUGE VARIETY OF ITEMS.

Kaczynski:
whats all this are we in the 18th century that making weapons is now an achievement

DBestDoc:
How can you pay an Igbo woman’s bride price in Lagos? To whom would you pay it to? It’s not done that way.
What you’re proposing looks shady and suspicious, like you’re hiding something.

zainabicy:
People must realize that , whilst you have your plans for marriage based on your circumstance,

The parents and family have planned, talked about and dreamed of the marriage of those daughter since she was born,

You- you just came into her life less than 3 years ago and now want to change everything.

Just be more considerate sha

GreenCovering:
Fact:
Islam has spread more through non military conquest than through military conquests. These efforts were led by muslim saints, scholars and ambassadors who voyaged or journeyed into other countries and regions. No amount of posts on Nairaland can change this.

Fact:
Wars were fought against rulers who prevented God's word from reaching the people. It is necessary practice in Islam to deliver its message to the people. So those confrontations were inevitable during the eras of fiefdoms. There are many muslim centres and outreach posts today all over Europe and America who are responsible for the increasing spread of Islam in these continents.

Terrorism is a different thing entirely. Terrorists only seek forceful control. It doesn't help any faith to spread. We know the sources of the terrorism agenda into Islam. The face they want to give of it for Islam and the evil hands behind it.

GreenCovering:
As far as the historical facts show that Islam has spread more and durably so through non military conquests than through military conquests, then much of what you have written there is false. Trying to sound correct does not mean being correct.

GreenCovering:
Nobody is trying to Islamise you, focus on your church jor. Islam doesn't need terrorists to appeal to peoples hearts neither are these terrorists helping Islam as well. If anything, they have constituted the major stumbling block to true muslim evangelism.

Hezzyluv:
Even the Muslims don't want it

Offpoint1:
Without insurance, that malaria treatment can cost him $500 or more

Maitunbi:
Malaria no do you for naija until you reach us wey mosquito no dey.

By the way, how u take know say na malaria?

Kobicove:
Na which one be Email injection?

enemyofprogress:
Please don't lend her o. The sister has a very strong body odour.

Afriifa:
The question is if your Fiance has a car, and your brother asks you to help him ask your fiancé to borrow him his car for a similar event, if you guys refuses, the question now is that how would you handle it? Your answer to that question solves the problem.

yad2eidi:
is this rhe only way out? Is this how Nigerians here treat it?

honor4me:
I believe that Trump has seen what is unguarded statement is causing our dear Nation. Elulu to pe ojo….

nairalanda1:
The school was warned to close down. They didn't

Elusive001:
What's jihad?

What's the aim and objective of jihad?

Elusive001:
Preach? Evangelize? How?

What do you think that boko haram, ISWAP, ANSARU, Fulani herdsmen, etc are doing? It's Evangelism bros.

ukukaegbu:
No problem.
Agreed it's Muslim genocide.

Then let's all support Trump to come and destroy those terrorists killing the Muslims.

Kushites:
PLS why are people calling it a Christian Genocide and religious persecution of Christians when MUSLIMS are overwhelmingly the targets of Boko Haram and terrorists?

IT'S A MUSLIM GENOCIDE!

Why does nobody care about the INNOCENT MUSLIMS being wasted by these terrorists?

ARE MUSLIMS NOT ALSO NIGERIANS?

PolyGamous:
Lol, you were told to believe polygamous was all about cheat and lust.

PolyGamous:
According to elderly ones, polygamy in the tradition of Africa was not because of lust, but because of productive purposes.

PolyGamous:
People with many wives are more productive (amount of land they cultivated or the amount of trades they own), people don’t just marry in African traditions if they are not capable to take care of wife or wives and the children.

PolyGamous:
If marriage is still based on the traditional knowledge, it will be far better.

PolyGamous:
Polygamy is for growth not for lusting around!!

PolyGamous:
Numerous selfish interests have resulted in numerous failed marriages worldwide. God forbids blasphemy as the greatest sin, and love prohibits cheating because it can lead to more serious crimes and negative consequences within marriage. When love forms the foundation of marriage, it tends to last forever, eliminating any reason for either partner to cheat.
https://agbole..com/2025/11/marriage-should-never-be-built-on-lust.html