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miracle002:
After singing about love love love in almost all his music, he couldn't even keep his wife. Fame and popularity cannot give peace even in marriage. It is only Jesus that can give peace

3 decades ?? Yet U are saying he can't keep his wife...is 3 decades a joke to you......some pastors marriage ddnt even get to 10 years...

.if she has a reason to leave after 3 decades then she's the one looking for what's not lost

spiceadole:
Akon Is a polygamist.
I thought they said polygamy makes women behave and stay with men forever .

What could have gone wrong?

Hmmmmm

She's been behaving for 3 decades....that's a long time to be classed as forever..

As in ....why on earth will something called spousal support payment be legal when I am no longer your spouse.....

I mean...who the h£ck came up with the idea that a man should be paying money to his ex wife they are no longer together and somebody else is probably officially sleeping with her

ugodson:
As the child grows you will know what kind of things that will hurt her. True be told she would hear things but i wouldn't tell her myself i will leave the shame for her mother to do so.

person wey carry another man belle give u get any shame??

Kobicove:
My friend 6 months is enough for you to know if you want to marry a lady and make a serious commitment.

You can't continue to lead her on for 3 or 4 years after forcing her to close all contact with other potential suitors then later you tell her that you're no longer interested in the relationship

We are talking about expecting loyalty from who u want to marry,...... U are jumping to length of court ship.....
If u like marry a woman u met 30 days ago... How can u say a woman can cheat until they get married....

Don't women themselves expect loyalty from the man they want to marry....??

Be like ur babe or wife dey read ur comment on nairaland. .

Kobicove:
If you have not yet married a lady you have no right to ask her not to keep her options open

So you want to string her along then after 3 years you dump her and leave her stranded?

So a lady is free to cheat until the Saturday y'all get married.......?? Lol...y'all are too funny .

Faithfulness is a habit ooo ....a ring on the finger doesn't manufacture faithfulness out of thin air...
... If loyalty is not there during dating then don't expect loyalty inside the marriage....

U never see anything. .........Weréys wey buy coaster biscuits of 20 cartons for 22 million.
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U go shock say that ur inferior kit alone na 100 thousand dollars Dem buy am...

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Aprocco:
Women don't cheat alone. Both genders participated in this particular case, it just depends which side you're.

Cheating is one thing....paternitu fraud is a separate issue....

Paternity fraud is the decision of one person to deceive two pple........y'all should try and call a spade a spade...... Always looking to pass responsibility on someone else.

casualobserver:
Ok! Believe what you want.

The world designed men such that you eventually learn to take responsibility for your life or he will never make it.

The world is designed such that if a woman does not take responsibility for her actions there is always some gullible man who will believe her tales of woe. Such men enable single mothers and all those women who fail to take responsibility for their actions.

The proportion of single mothers who were raped is less than 1%. The rest are widows/divorcees and never married.

As far as divorcees and the never married, nobody forced you to open your legs, nobody forced you to marry. You are 100% responsible for being a single mother. At least the child of the divorcee does not have to deal with the trauma of knowing his/her father did not want her.

No man worth his salt marries a single mother. It is a sign of weakness or he is broken as a man. Either you cannot get a proper single woman without kids because you are not doing what you should do as a man and have to settle for a single mother or you are too old in which case you have become weakened by age.

Either way it is a sign of weakness in a man.
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I repeat no man worth his salt settles for a single mother.

The only exception is a widow.

U shalayé too much
Why u dey stress yourself.....??

Them nor dey explain single mother paroles to a guy......experience is the best teacher

lilyheaven:
Let the change begin with you child of God
Don’t have sex with another woman except your wife.
Thank you!

Sex is a biological urge......everyone wants to fvck ........but u that have more to lose should choose wisely how u spread ur legs ....bur if u want someone else to blamed for ur own promiscuity....carry go

lilyheaven:
Push as much as you can, men remains the head to take responsibility to heal the world.
Our women are the way they are because many have been pushed to the wall. Yet you say they are playing victim, yes they are the victims.

Looking for someone else to blame for the decision u took thats destroying your life doesn't change the fact that ur life is destroyed anyway....

So u either make good decision for ur life or keep waiting for someone else to blame

Mariangeles:
Is that your alternate?

You're too similar to be different people.

Lions and Tigers are both big cats of the wild and top predators....but they are ain't the same....but hey!! pple like u will say they are the same ......

lilyheaven:
Eve is a weaker vessel, that is why God handed her over to Adam.

weak vessel is .the umbrella yall run under when u dont want to be responsible for your actions...when God was dishing out punishment did he exempt eve?? Did he call Eve weaker vessels and say it's not her fault??

God did not hand over eve to Adam....he created Eve as Adams helper.......that's was all the bible recorded....

lilyheaven:
But where was Adam, when eve was misbehaving?

she had free will...the helper was supposed to be with who God told her to help....she left her duty....m.she went to a secret place in the garden the way you modern women sneak to hotel to climb on top p£πis...

lilyheaven:
Just as today, these female children sleeping around , committing abortions, doing all atrocities, where are their fathers, brothers, uncle? What about married women, where are their husbands?

u are still trying to blame someone else for a woman's decision..
U can keep asking for the men......or u do the right thing by holding the women doing wrong accountable for a wrong choices...

lilyheaven:
If you keep blaming women for these problems without taking an action, we won’t get right.

there is only one action.... The owner of the v@g!na should chose a life of chastity......how can u be looking for orgasm but be blaming the men that u spread ur legs for?? Please make me understand this..

lilyheaven:
Why won’t they open legs, aren’t they supposed to obey a man’s command ?

lol ....
Why is that u are only obeying command of spreading legs....why don't u obey command of being a virgin, being holy, being serious with your life, making money, and sharing bills with ur man...but no....u only obey fvck fvck command...lol.....
U like to fvck...but u don't want another person to be responsible for ur decision...okay ooo...

lilyheaven:
See eeh
Every man wants a virgin to wife, but your fathers and uncles destroy them at young age, what about those that won’t help a woman except they see their pants .

why do u keep going to men for help when u know they will ask for ur body?? Ask ur fellow women
...but no....u go to men..because u know that biologically men want pvsssi which will make u easily get what you want....but hey!! u then turn around to form victim....
madam...we know the game....it's just that u fail to see u are the ones the losing end....

lilyheaven:
The unfortunate ladies that kept their bodies but were raped because they said no sex

rape is the only condition where a woman is not at fault for sex...and this happens to but young boys and girls....anyone who rapes should be jailed....it's that simple.. but rape is not the context of this thread...

lilyheaven:
There’s no female child that ever planned to be wayward from the beginning ….

lol....there is a 19year old girl in front page story who gladly said she would rather make millions with her body than be in a relationship that won't make money for her...

See I like how u pretend like u are victims instead of facing the truth .....but the evidence is clear....u can only deceive ourselves...y'all choose to be wayward..>>>>start having sex as at teenage years..
why are u dating when u aint even ready for marriage ?? U stack up body count and start blaming men when u turn 26-30 years old.
..okay continue blaming men instead of educating ur fellow woman....y'all have no business having sex when u are young... If y'all close ur legs till 24/25....guys will marry early because they ain't getting sex for free...

lilyheaven:
THE MAIN PROBLEM ARE THE USELESS MEN WHO PRESS HUGE MONEY FOR SOMETHING OTHERS GOT FOR FREE/LESS

lol...this is the narrative u want because it makes u blame men.........but u forget that if cocacola ddnt make their product available no one will bring out money to buy......have u seen men present money to gracious, serious women,... Have u ever heard okojo eweala or funke akindele, say a man press huge money to sleep with them

.y'all choose to commercialize your body but turn around to blame the buyer....??
See madam....everyone wants it...but u are the one pretending to be victim after spreading legs for irresponsible men...

lilyheaven:
IF men are not useless, this lady won't say stuffs. So lets blame the enablers n problem - MEN
Please zip up

. Yes...let the person that will carry belle for 9 months blame the person that just cvm and walk and have nothing to lose....

ARISHEM:
When she is done she will now be looking for an understanding man that will forget her past to marry

Lol..... She will start foaming in the mouth when ediko5 starts his sermon

lilyheaven:
Eve ate the apple, who did God call first to query?
It was Adam.
Why did he call Adam?
Because Adam was negligent in taking care of his responsibilities, which includes protecting and providing for his woman.

To have a sane society, men must brace themselves and take up their Gods given responsibilities.

U conveniently forgot to mention that both were punished for disobedience....

Everyone is responsible for their individual choices
Y'all should stop twisting scriptures.....looking for how to blame adam for eve's disobedience ....why ddnt God punish adam alone since according you, eve is not responsible for herself

U spread legs...yet u want to blame men....if u ddnt spread leg in the first place, will the man see where to chook rod...

Yet in arab countries where women are forced to act in particular ways, y'all call it barbaric and trampling on ur rights .... But when u eff up the y'all be looking for men to drag for ur actions

ajalawole:
kidnapping is bad and a crime, but let be honest with ourself Yahoo isn't a crime. I know of many guys who don't force cleint to send them money, they do willingly.

Stay there dey deceive yourself.....

Show client your real face and tell him u are a Nigerian and see if the next chat will be give me your first bank account let me send you 50,000,000 naira ??

You dey job client, pretending to be a lady, show πudr pictures yet u dey say client just willing dash u money.... Welldone

diabeticdeals:
Trust me, not all of them partake in this heinous act.

All of them partake..... And the 1st reason is the allocation for fuel for their vehicle has been embezzled from the top...So they fund their vehicle from the money they extort on the road ..

2nd, is the dpo of their station receive returns from it....if u dare not submit returns, you will be removed and transfered to a section or location u will regret

Bemden:
Not catching cruise sir. It's my life story. You mean the thunderbolt will affect me too?

U refuse to leave her naaa.... If she's in your house u will sleep with her one day

omoiyalayi:
She shot herself in the leg when she took the matter to court knowing how slow our justice administration is

She rush to court to challenged her suspension

Which sentence is the court going review..?
..she has finished serving the 6 months sentence ....
.if u sentence an accused to jail for 10 years and they appeal and the appeal court did not sit till the 10 years is over ....what's left again....u can't keep the person in jail again

Bemden:
The thunderbolt will still work for another person that tresspass

It will work for you too......a serial cheat doesn't change.....give u self peace of mind.. unless u just dey catch cruise

Bemden:
I . Is thunderbolt a criminal offense in Nigeria?

U are asking for thunderbolt because u think your wife is a victim that u need to eliminate who's sleeping with her ....she will just find another person And the same thing will continue

Bemden:
I . Reason why I decided to continue the relationship was because she felt remorse that night and the statement she altered got into me.

.she felt remorse?? Can u still see the remorse now?? Or u just choose to deceive yourself like last time?
......baba....you are just a captain save a skirt....

bdon123:
Hav u asked her if hes better on bed?also wats dsize of ur tool?

I should ask the cheater why she's been sleeping with her ex ..?? u just dey justify cheating

Wait.... U dey research kobojúnki€? And u nor notice say whoever is behind that moniker is bottom line bipolar.....

Bemden:
So I should allow one ex boyfriend to keep kπacking my wife?

Lol....

U are not the one allowing it....

she's the one allowing it....

Lol..... U can't make someone stop doing what they enjoy doing......

Grow some self esteem man.....