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RichThugg:
Hello fellow Nairalanders. Please i need your honest contribution.

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U may be a contract staff now...focus on small development....keep applying for new job openings....u will get ur big break soon....

Nor go somebody house to go and do boy boy...where his wife will be treating you like a plague that wants to come and take over her kid's inheritance......besides, ur friend's uncle doesn't mean he cant run u street at the end of many years....Even family members have done worse

Goodmarlian:
I have this young female friend I use to toast back then she is 22,never knew she was married then I stopped immediately I found out but she still wants our relationship as friends to continue.

It seems her husband is rich or doing OK because immediately she got married she has changed phone to iPhone 13 and now looks very fresh and robust unlike before,I always compliment her with this.
Recently she has start getting close to me and billing me for money like crazy ... I dont even understand, not like she is hungry,this is a girl that comes to school with uber almost everyday.
Anyways I don't want to have anything sexual to do with her anymore since she is married but the constant billing na him I no understand.

Is it that u can't say no to the billing??

nairalanda1:
See, you hate women. Admit it

Yawn!!
Guy ...all these comments u are dropping because wife or babe monitors your comment in nairaland won't give u any trophy...

nairalanda1:
There was no where in the post that said she cheated or slept with anyone else.

You are the one projecting your hate onto women here.

You expect a woman to be left hanging for a man? You probably don't know that women have biologic clock. We don't.

Why do you hate women?

Yawn...


A woman financial gaining from from a man is suddenly engaged to someone else yet u asking where in the post did it say shes cheating... U dialogue like a 7year old, throwing fallacies here and there...
Your points are always weak without objective reasoning.......and I don't mean it at as insult because that how you also fallaciously conclude paying more tax is Nigeria's solution.

nairalanda1:
NO I am not.

You automatically believed the woman was evil. You never saw the part where she waited for 3 years for the guy to propose to her. You never cared about the pressures she may be under.

So, that means you hate women. To you, all women are whores, whatever they do.

So, why do you hate women?

Automatically?? Do u do selective reading?? Or fallacy is just ur follow come talent....

She cheated..wasn't transparent because she obviously was dating multiple guys because proposal isn't what u pick up in a supermarket
So, justifying her cheating and exploitation with dating for three years is another fallacy.....

Pple date for much longer...if U are not on the same page with someone's dating plans..make it known....instead of stringing the person along for financial gains and later go with someone else and not still tell them...

Like I said...it absurd labeling a man that invest millions on a woman as u lnserious.
...if all he came to the table with was marriage proposal without money...u will still call him unserious because money is more important than making a woman lord of the rings....

So why is he still unserious when he has come up with the what's more important than mere proposal.....and that's why I pointed to you the possibility that she was using the guy all along while waiting for who she really wants to be ready........but hey! U called it automatic because somehow u do selective reading....

nairalanda1:
Why do you hate women? Don't deny it, you hate women.

You don't have to hate women.

Hate women?? U are just deflecting.....
The topic is about one woman who exploited a guy.......but if u want to make it about all women at least articulate a proper context instead of throwing around fallacy

nairalanda1:
Well I am free to assume that this woman is not evil
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If U know u are free to assume wateva u like ..why are u all over pple's mentions trying to counter their own opinion

Seun:
Hello Guys,

I'm throwing this question to you because it's very important. Every time I ask, "how is Nairaland?" I'm told that it is fine. If I ask what are the challenges I'm told there are none.

So I need to talk to you guys directly about what you think is going on and what you want us to do. I have not had the confidence to make major changes on Nairaland. I have a little confidence now because of AI.

What are your complaints, your challenges, your issues. What are the things that can drive people away and need to be nipped?

Speak your mind, but don't be rude. Thanks.

1) your mods are not active on tribal bigotry/ assault..before it was just catching cruize like the name checkers .... Now pple open thread just to insult tribes and comments that will turn ur stomach ....your rule two should covers all insults but there is no enforcement

Its like u need a Yoruba/igbo neutral person that can be objective in their decisions because the hatred is majorly btw those two tribes....

2)Christianity for Christians as u have Islam for Muslims...and add the same declaration, ..that's if u want to be fair

DOUBLEBARREL:
Feminist better protest against this bill now because in 20 years time it will widen the gap between men and women in leadership positions and another clamour for adequate representation will start. A stitch in time saves nine.

The leadership gap btw men and women will always be wide and under-representation will always be exist even if all women stop birthing children....
The reason is inability to take risk and women don't really look out for each other when they are in power, only men have soft spot for women....

Built2last:
Maternity in every civilised world is minimum of 6 months full pay.

Fallacy!
U give too much credit to civilized world (whatever country u are referring to) ...

In the US, the family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) only provides up to 12 weeks of job-protected maternity and adoption of a infant it does not mandate paid leave.....some states pay, some states pay only new mothers, some states don't, let alone private coys..

U think it's easy to pay for unproductivity for half a year or more...especially for companies that doesn't have the staff to cover someone's absence for that long .....nobody send anybody to go and fvck

JuanDeDios:
That's the problem. I worry this will only make people more reluctant to hire working-age women.

That will undoubtedly be one of rippling effect.....

Already...there are more men in most large establishment to balance out the possibility of many women going on matter ity at the same time....

They might start considering no pay or signing of bond if working for a number of years before going on maternity leave....

IamANigerianMan:
Which employer? Government or useless private company

Wettin concern Goverment.....ghost worker plus redundant workers and embezzlement full everywhere on a normal day....if all the women like make dem go maternity for civil service....

Na private go para naaaaa.....

U know say some women dey get belle every year

nairalanda1:
It was nice listening to you.

Women aren't all evil, just as men aren't all good.

No one called all women evil....but This very woman exploitative, manipulative, and a cheat...

APOPTOSIS:
Typical of most of them.
I'm yet to see one take full responsibility for her actions.
Kids go break glass cup for house, their MaMa go flog them.
The same kids MaMa go break cup, she go turn around flog her kids for not removing the cup.

One on Nairaland once said men are the reason women are coming down with foul smelling punnanies. I was like WTF. Personal Hygiene don become a political affair.🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️💯

Women nor dey admit say them dey fvck up

There was a thread a girl agreed to go on date with a guy that asked her out ........baba agreed to book reservation at restaurant only for babe to ask for 40k saying she wants to look good... I shock when one babe here said the guy must have been disturbing her and she only said so becos she's afraid of him and wants to get rid of him....

nairalanda1:
She waited for him to propose for 3 years. 3 YEARS.

Yes, make she hand over the shop....but three years na long time in woman's life.

Also, do you know if the woman's parents are not shouting at her every day saying...when are we going to see our grandchildren? Her relatives are probably mocking her well well. Her mates have husbands with children.

And women have limited time to be truly fertile.

She waited for 3 years. She don try. Yes, she should hand over the shop...but there are women who have waited ten years for their boyfriend to propose, and by the time he does the deed, they are already peri-menopausal. Wahala don stanrt when they wan have pikin.

You wan make woman wait till she is perimenopausal or prematurely menopausal before her boyfriend proposes to her? In the name of loyality. You know women cannot ask for men's hand in marriage in this country.

U are just going from mentions to mentions with your one-sided view.. screaming 3 years.

Did she just stumble on a proposal by mistake on the road....u are talking as if she has not been cheating all along.....justifying her exploiting the guy with three years....

What made u think she wanted anything to do with this guy that paid for everything in the first place?? Or u don't think she was just using him and waiting for the guy she really likes...

Women are known for dating multiple men for money while their heart belongs else where

The fact is...u cannot say a man that poured million of naira on a woman is not serious... The least she could do is be transparent...

virginprincess:
They never had any contract, if the idiot know he was serious why didn't he at least propose, he want to tie the woman down because he opened one useless shop for her, dem suppose flog the idiot sef for constituting nuisance 😠😠

If he ddnt spend but only profess love and propose ..u are the same person that will call him unserious..... That he's tying her down with ring....

Fact is ..you women never admit your wrong.. y'all look for one reason or another to make it the man's fault....
Even when a married woman commits adultery and paternity fraud......it's still not the woman's fault........the husband must have spread her legs for another man to dive inside

KnowAll:
Na two Zeros 1 dollar = 16 Naira

Thank you jare

Bunnatex:
I don't understand this, how will they earn the targeted money?

It's not as if GWR pays.

Somebody that's already chopping MTN money.....his own is to play for 70hrs and win the record.....

Leave the rest for publicist and talent managers...they know how to connect endorsement with talent..... U go shock say u go start to dey see am for movies very soon

Worst case scenario, he will use his current status to get talent visa enter UK or US, collect citizenship....

Apparently, all their hungry and classless behaviour that goes wrong now goes under the excuse that they want to get rid of the guy

Nylon?? Take away?? God abeg ooo

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rabiudon:
I work in Telecoms. Finance department. 40 per cent of staff earn above 600k.

He's just trolling

Goodadvice01:
How? Are you working in the bank? Except you're politician, yahoo boy, business man or pastor

Answer my question na please.. I need your opinion please

Guy you dey troll.....no be me u go use catch afternoon cruize

Goodadvice01:
It's only yajoo boys that make such amount of money sir. Where the bank want see such money to be paying it's staffs like that.. anyway, let's leave that matter and talk important something

Is barbing a profitable skill?

Can I be able to save 5k to 10k from it every day after expenses?

Lol.....guy u funny...u are in a different world

Goodadvice01:
Have you ever seen a payslip of such amount?

U are actually serious....?? I have seen oooo...
I guess not everyone has folks in places like Exxon, LNG, Schlumberger, where entry level engineers earn as high aa15M per year.....

but most pple get family member in the banking industry....and ordinary ABO which is second level in most banks don't earn less than 600k..

I've seen pay slip of monitoring and evaluation officer with an NGO called Impact water...not manager oo...nigga takes home 550k

Guy u need to change circle of friends ooo...

Goodadvice01:
I don't believe this post. No job pays 650k a month in Nigeria. Highest is 200k or 250k.

Lol...... Are u trying to be funny or u are being sarcastic....

Englishisamust:
250k job in mainland vs 600k in island

Please for a person living in beger mainland. What advice will you give him .. there are many factors I need to consider someone told me I should not go to highland if I don't want to die young that it is very risky to work in highland because of flood and stress...


Pls help push to frontpage!!!!!

The difference is more than significant.... If u go island, assuming u spend 200k on transport, which woukd likely be less, u will still have 400k to play with....

With 250k on the main land....unless the job is near your house u can't spend less than 30-40k on transport.....ur purchasing power will just be around 200k...

So....unless the mainland job has runs that u'll be making extra 200k plus... the island make sense from a net income perspective at month end

The pastor ddnt even call it anything..... He was only thankful....

Someone else that ddnt know the animal said pastor killed hyena.... and that's how pastor became a liar without saying anything

StillDtruth:
Exactly.

Everyone can see that they never set out to acquire a second wife but see them all pretending as if their brains have expired.

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They are mostly Muslims trying to justify their prophets ways ... I have seen one lie that Mary was 9 years.....

U can see he never responded.....he has probably gone to Google and saw Moses never had 2 wives .