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Bintabisiriyu2:
Simps just deserve to dye.

That's too much.....

25 years in prison is enough

U are wasting ur time...one man somewhere is already paying school fees of one entitled chic and even bankrolling her inlaws that join to insult him tomorrow...

Infact, plenty niggas will read this post and still go and pay school fees of a woman that adds nothing to his life...

Its a psychological, ego-stroking move...
The average man always want to play Lord and Savior to a woman...

Its the same reason guys date and marry jobless women with nothing but liabilities to bring to the table....

Its the same reason the marry broken women and prostitutés.... You'll hear them say I brought her from the gutter changed her life..

It will never end....all the advice in the world won't work

musicwriter:
There was never a Jesus to begin with.

And you're right that Jesus wasn't born in December or died in April.

The reason you see the coincidence is because the Roman empire simply copied from the ancient Egyptians. So, like a dumb student copying from a brilliant student (expo) in an examination, they copied without cross-cheking! That's why you see those coincidences to begin with

I never told u I saw coincidences...U are the one seeing coincidence...there was never a coincidence to begin with....I just explained the reason for it...
But hey.....Wateva makes u sleep well at night is totally fine by me.....

musicwriter:
It nullifies Christianity because it's not a coincidence that:-

Easter is celebrated as a period of renewal by Christians. The ancient Egyptians did same 5,000 years ago.

Easter is associated with feasting. That's what the ancient Egyptians did too.

Easter is associated with egg. It was the same for the ancient Egyptians.

Christians celebrate Easter in the month of April. That's the same month the ancient Egyptians celebrated it.

Christians celebrate it for resurrection of their son of God Jesus. The ancient Egyptians celebrated it for the resurrection of their son of God Horus.

How many coincidence do you need to understand that it's no longer a coincidence?

Just go to Google and search "what month did the ancient Egyptians celebrate Easter" or better read the book I recommended for a broader understanding of the origin of the concept of Christo-messiahship

Lol.....first ...what do u even mean by renewal ?renewal of what?? Nigga u funny...christians don't celebrate any renewal.. ...

You Probably need to do some research because
there is a reason those that made a religion out following Christ, i.e the Roman Catholics)
fixed the remembrance of Jesus on that month ...it's the same thing with Christmas in december...... Jesus was never born in the 12th month becos we ddnt have 12 months initially

Furthermore, there is nothing like celebrating the birth or death or resurrection of Jesus originally ..it was a political move by the roman catholics just as the Muslims also started their Mohammed birthday and Salah celebration.

Like I mentioned earlier... this current 12 month calendar is an addendum to the initial 10 months calendar ....so the death of Jesus was not remembered in the April /4 month to begin with...

the so called coincidence u are referring to was deliberate by the roman catholics, a political move to kill the popularity of other pagan celebrations that existed thousands of years ago because the Catholics needed to use Christianity as a control tool by installing the king of England as the head of the church so the Monarchs of England can in turn give them the political relevance and financial resources backed by royal decree..

But hey!! U are free to believe which history u want ....I'm just saying u are doing the same thing as others that also believe the history they want

musicwriter:
I am speaking from the point of HISTORY not belief.

Yeah ....u believe a 5 thousand year old history exist.
.....Someone else beleives another thousands of year old history exist??

Are u not the same thing...u both believe in a history u were not there when it happened...

Btw...how does what one person choose one day to remember nullify what a completely different person choose to remember and eating eggs to celebrate

U know what's funny ..
..u insult others for believing a story they read somewhere but u are doing the same thing ..

Lol

Wananonly:
All I wanna know is this bro,

For how long was she comfortably stretched by such a fat thing

Hahahahahahahaha! Its not that fat naaa

Its was a 2-in-one move
1..move the cocaine to get rich
2...& have an orgasm on the way..

What a fantastic choice of packaging the cocaine..


Where is nlfpmod seff??

Naijji:
You have any 47-48 footwear?

As in 48 ?
Are u a descendant of Goliath ??

Mariangeles:
You don come!

U will come and poke me.....I will give my opinion ..u will start crying

"Gaslighting ooooo"
"That's how he used to do oooo"

Them nor sabi.....
No sense of humor....
No action...

Yungmil:
I find ugly or mature girls sexually attractive and fun to be with on bed. I can easily do play anyhow I want with them

I feel there is little forming or packaging when romancing or Sexing them because I can easily moan to their sucking freely and can also tell them what I want. We get to do

Even though I can say am handsome but whenever I see these kind of ladies or girls I get turned on and wants to approach them.

Am I alone on this or is there anyone else?

U are just a guy that has over time settled for girls that will not stress you....

bernardluccky:
Am regretting why I took jamb again after spending 2 years of my life in a maritime academy that those not have certificate.
Then my dad friend advise me to take jamb again to go to AAU which I did, now am just starting 100 level while all my mates are already in 300 level and some are starting their HND this year anytime I see them I feel ashamed think am not surpose to be here I should have just learn a skill and forget about school and this thought keep coming on my head every minute it mostly distract me while reading
Am tired I don't know what to do.

U worry about what's not important....

Focus on building yourself ...
Look at the labour market and see what's chopping money.....professional courses, tech skills, or studying a business niche and start small while in school and nurture it....

.at the end of the day...everybody go meet for front.......Those few years different won't matter.....some will finish with no job, some will finish and start leaning fashion designing, and makeup artist.....
some will go back for medicine when they realized they did a crappy course....

Welcome to Nigeria...

mecuries:
You cut this supply, they get another. I sometimes wonder if the Nigerian security outfits do undercover investigation

Undercover & Nigerian security outfits in the same sentence?? Are u training to be a comedian or u just like wondering impossible things

Annahh:
You don't expect banks to maintain your account and safeguard your money free of charge, that is where there are charges, you come to the bank, you fill form, have you stopped to ask the cost of the paper, the printer for printing your statement, salaries to the staff attending to you, renovations and maintenance done to the branch as a whole, the atm machines etc.

We will all be fine.

They run banks else where in the world without all these charges yet they pay salary and print paper including all the funny justification you are giving for over-exploiting Nigerian

...even right here in Nigeria....there are banks that don't charge all these outrageous fees with even better interest rate..

The average nigerian is used to being oppressed and exploited......bad part is, we smile and justify the exploitation/oppression on behalf of those exploiting/oppressing us

What I want to hear is how the woman's infidelity is the husband's fault and how he's childish and toxic for locking the shop

SeeWahala:
Go to Gabon if your uncle is very familiar to you and loyal to your family. After all it's just to do the normal buying and selling that even village boys who can't speak English leave Igbo land to go and do in sokoto where they have nobody to teach them Hausa language and still end up successful

Not his uncle......

RichThugg:
Hello fellow Nairalanders. Please i need your honest contribution.

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U may be a contract staff now...focus on small development....keep applying for new job openings....u will get ur big break soon....

Nor go somebody house to go and do boy boy...where his wife will be treating you like a plague that wants to come and take over her kid's inheritance......besides, ur friend's uncle doesn't mean he cant run u street at the end of many years....Even family members have done worse

Goodmarlian:
I have this young female friend I use to toast back then she is 22,never knew she was married then I stopped immediately I found out but she still wants our relationship as friends to continue.

It seems her husband is rich or doing OK because immediately she got married she has changed phone to iPhone 13 and now looks very fresh and robust unlike before,I always compliment her with this.
Recently she has start getting close to me and billing me for money like crazy ... I dont even understand, not like she is hungry,this is a girl that comes to school with uber almost everyday.
Anyways I don't want to have anything sexual to do with her anymore since she is married but the constant billing na him I no understand.

Is it that u can't say no to the billing??

nairalanda1:
See, you hate women. Admit it

Yawn!!
Guy ...all these comments u are dropping because wife or babe monitors your comment in nairaland won't give u any trophy...

nairalanda1:
There was no where in the post that said she cheated or slept with anyone else.

You are the one projecting your hate onto women here.

You expect a woman to be left hanging for a man? You probably don't know that women have biologic clock. We don't.

Why do you hate women?

Yawn...


A woman financial gaining from from a man is suddenly engaged to someone else yet u asking where in the post did it say shes cheating... U dialogue like a 7year old, throwing fallacies here and there...
Your points are always weak without objective reasoning.......and I don't mean it at as insult because that how you also fallaciously conclude paying more tax is Nigeria's solution.

nairalanda1:
NO I am not.

You automatically believed the woman was evil. You never saw the part where she waited for 3 years for the guy to propose to her. You never cared about the pressures she may be under.

So, that means you hate women. To you, all women are whores, whatever they do.

So, why do you hate women?

Automatically?? Do u do selective reading?? Or fallacy is just ur follow come talent....

She cheated..wasn't transparent because she obviously was dating multiple guys because proposal isn't what u pick up in a supermarket
So, justifying her cheating and exploitation with dating for three years is another fallacy.....

Pple date for much longer...if U are not on the same page with someone's dating plans..make it known....instead of stringing the person along for financial gains and later go with someone else and not still tell them...

Like I said...it absurd labeling a man that invest millions on a woman as u lnserious.
...if all he came to the table with was marriage proposal without money...u will still call him unserious because money is more important than making a woman lord of the rings....

So why is he still unserious when he has come up with the what's more important than mere proposal.....and that's why I pointed to you the possibility that she was using the guy all along while waiting for who she really wants to be ready........but hey! U called it automatic because somehow u do selective reading....

nairalanda1:
Why do you hate women? Don't deny it, you hate women.

You don't have to hate women.

Hate women?? U are just deflecting.....
The topic is about one woman who exploited a guy.......but if u want to make it about all women at least articulate a proper context instead of throwing around fallacy

nairalanda1:
Well I am free to assume that this woman is not evil
.

If U know u are free to assume wateva u like ..why are u all over pple's mentions trying to counter their own opinion

Seun:
Hello Guys,

I'm throwing this question to you because it's very important. Every time I ask, "how is Nairaland?" I'm told that it is fine. If I ask what are the challenges I'm told there are none.

So I need to talk to you guys directly about what you think is going on and what you want us to do. I have not had the confidence to make major changes on Nairaland. I have a little confidence now because of AI.

What are your complaints, your challenges, your issues. What are the things that can drive people away and need to be nipped?

Speak your mind, but don't be rude. Thanks.

1) your mods are not active on tribal bigotry/ assault..before it was just catching cruize like the name checkers .... Now pple open thread just to insult tribes and comments that will turn ur stomach ....your rule two should covers all insults but there is no enforcement

Its like u need a Yoruba/igbo neutral person that can be objective in their decisions because the hatred is majorly btw those two tribes....

2)Christianity for Christians as u have Islam for Muslims...and add the same declaration, ..that's if u want to be fair

DOUBLEBARREL:
Feminist better protest against this bill now because in 20 years time it will widen the gap between men and women in leadership positions and another clamour for adequate representation will start. A stitch in time saves nine.

The leadership gap btw men and women will always be wide and under-representation will always be exist even if all women stop birthing children....
The reason is inability to take risk and women don't really look out for each other when they are in power, only men have soft spot for women....

Built2last:
Maternity in every civilised world is minimum of 6 months full pay.

Fallacy!
U give too much credit to civilized world (whatever country u are referring to) ...

In the US, the family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) only provides up to 12 weeks of job-protected maternity and adoption of a infant it does not mandate paid leave.....some states pay, some states pay only new mothers, some states don't, let alone private coys..

U think it's easy to pay for unproductivity for half a year or more...especially for companies that doesn't have the staff to cover someone's absence for that long .....nobody send anybody to go and fvck

JuanDeDios:
That's the problem. I worry this will only make people more reluctant to hire working-age women.

That will undoubtedly be one of rippling effect.....

Already...there are more men in most large establishment to balance out the possibility of many women going on matter ity at the same time....

They might start considering no pay or signing of bond if working for a number of years before going on maternity leave....

IamANigerianMan:
Which employer? Government or useless private company

Wettin concern Goverment.....ghost worker plus redundant workers and embezzlement full everywhere on a normal day....if all the women like make dem go maternity for civil service....

Na private go para naaaaa.....

U know say some women dey get belle every year

nairalanda1:
It was nice listening to you.

Women aren't all evil, just as men aren't all good.

No one called all women evil....but This very woman exploitative, manipulative, and a cheat...