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rainluv:
Even his OWN children wants him to be sentenced? you are here crying more than the bereaved

Doesn't really matter what the kids think...judgement should be passed according to law not how pple feel or how wicked the perpetrator is

seunayantokun:
Some are crying foul here for want of knowledge.. Please lay your hand on the judgement and get details rather than depending on your own mind. You can also sue the court for delivery a judgement you don't like.
Battering a woman or man to death due to disagreements in marriage isn't a legal or morally acceptable resort. You call that culpable homicide.
I think the man should be hanged quickly if he doesn't appeal on time..

You are just contradicting yourself.....

..it's not murder in the first degree.....it's an aggravated man slaughter case which is almost same with culpable homicide u mentioned and that doesn't attract death penalty anywhere in the world including nigeria....

While it's unfortunate what happened to the woman.... judgement shouldn't be passed based on emotions but according to law.....culpable homicide or aggravated manslaughter attracts10 to 25years depending on the judges discretion......... Someone will definitely appeal the judgement

jmoore:
You were faithful to her?

Both of you were fornicating with each other.

There's nothing like faithfulness between boyfriend and girlfriend.

Yinmú..

No be boyfriend and girlfriend dey eventually marry.....?? Shey you go marry person wey no dey faithful to you while she was still your girlfriend??

Dennisochampa:
Omoh.... 2face no try for how e treat this woman....
I pray both of them are OK last last but it's unfair the way Annie was treated considering how long she's been with 2 baba....
She may have her excesses but alot can be forgiven considering how far she's come with him....
I'm sure those women surrounding 2face now won't be with him if they knew him when he started

I don't know why y'all like making it look like a woman is doing a man a favour by dating him

.as in ....is this real or fake story??
...u entered someone's laptop and deleted his personal files?? Na winch U chop or being a girl friend to you means you can force a man to do whatever you want.

Oracle411:
Thats just 0.00002 of Mark Zuckerberg net worth
They must pay

Net worth and money in bank/ income is not the same

U think 220million dollars is small money in actual lump some value?? ....hell will freeze over before META pays that money

These pple live on loans from the bank based on their net worth which isnt money they have but money they have potential to earn...

Icesnow:
Does this apply to a minor as well?

Nope

greenbrave:
I am not looking for a validation, but experience.

You don't just let people GO like that.

Yes ..you can let pple go like that ...especially pple that clearly told you that they don't want to be with you.....let them realize they need you on their own or get fvck off

You are in the breakup phase called denial..it's a bad place to be ....u keep blaming yourself over and over thinking it's totally your fault and you can fix it.....the truth is women never thinks it's their fault...they will even say u made them spread legs for another man

Have some self esteem man..... When they serve you breakfast, give space so the person don't start feeling too important like they are the air in ur lungs .....that's how u loose leverage and relationships and they start treating you like tràsh because u want to go and beg woman for relationship..

No let me vex for you ooo ....

Wait ..she nor get sense to say no their request?? because I don't get why the heck you want to control her finance..??

It's her family.......u can't tell her not to care for her own folks ......if the tables turn, y'all will say she's trying to cut your pple off because she wants all you money to herself...

With time..she will naturally see the need to withdraw when she start her own family and have greater financial need.....for now she's single....that's the period her folks can enjoy her...

chiommy123:
This one is not marriage but business transaction

Lol ....Technically, every marriage is a business transaction you women because y'all consider financial gains first before anything ... (Y'all prefer it's one way: "the man should connect and elevate a bró)ke woman" )

Okoroawusa:
Who is she?

The most relevant question on this page

They are hunters ooooo.....release them before the north starts to retaliate.....


Nigeria is a crimee scene on normal day

SocialJustice:
Cruel to stress my point but true, single parent kids are different and no one should be raised like that when both parents are alive.

It is fallacy to reach such conclusion about kids raised by single parents........while two parents family is good and perhaps ideal, ..the issue isn't weda the parent is one or two to begin with....the issue is the person doing the raising, or even the kids themselves that just choose to be ûnfortunate in life..

after all one good head is better two uséle$$ heads..

IMF must have joined opposition party

SocialJustice:
If you can't be there for your child due to any excuse then don't have a child. Stop this culture that produces half humans.

.calling pple half humans? U cruel man

2mch:
After all the primary school boys for Nairaland don ginger you to do wetin you no suppose do. Now na only you de use Facebook beg for your life. Carry all your supporters go beg. Also ask them for space in their bunk bed in their mama house

He tell you say he be nairalander let alone receiving advice on nairaland...

Kingpele:
What a simple man...u should have confessed what u did that put your marriage in this kind of quagmire....if u want to simp ,do it diligently

this is the last thing I will do....no matter the offense ....

Love800:
These 70s, 80s, and 90s generations you just mentioned, 90percent of them are sadist and unhappy in their profession, because of the useless traditional training their parents gave to them!

Y'all just pull statistics from thin air to make ur comment sound valid.....

Toxic!!

2024's most abused word and topping the list with gaslighting following at number 2

HisaacPlus:
Hmnn..
Orisirisi. Aye ti baje.

So no be boyfriend and girl friend go date to become married couples....so ur own faithfulness na the day them sign wedding certificate e dey start.... So why do y'all get àngry when ur partner go and get pre-wedding séx few day or a month to wedding...

placeofallure:
Mi o ni issue, just let me be.

Okay oooo.... Na u enter my mention ooo.... I nor come meet you

placeofallure:
Wò ó, mi o r'áyè ejọ́ wẹ́wẹ́. To ba n ta ẹ l'ojú ko f'àlùbọ́sà sì.

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Lol....
Be like this one get issués oooo....

placeofallure:
These days, many women work and contribute to the financial strength of the family. Apart from this, they still do the rest of the things required of the woman of the house. Would you ask such women what they bring to the table?

In my comment that you mentioned, did u see me asking a woman that is significantly contributing to her home what she's bringing to the table?? because I'm trying to get why this ur comment is thrown my way...?? ......Or am I missing something??

Justnation:
For you to itemize all these faults of your wife alone shows that you have a big problem.
I see you as a perfectionist who never sees anything good in your wife and never appreciates anything she does hence she decided to recoil to her shelf.

It will be great to hear from your wife as well .

But my little advice is instead of thinking of divorce, go back and unlock your wife, be a husband to her not a principality, cuddle her and make her feel valued instead of lamenting on her inadequacies and mistakes
Go through her close confidants and let her know that you truly love her.
She is not ready to quit the marriage, and I don't she is cheating on you ( I stand to be corrected) otherwise certain actions would have confirmed.

You can save your marriage, your family and restore your happiness.

Captain sàve a bra say make op go unlock as a padlock that she is naaa.. nairaland is always a funny place

ojuu4u:
Not until couples involved in marriage learn how to manage each other, marriages would keep scattering everyday.

Meanwhile, with epistle you wrote up there, anybody going through that, should knowl, the woman left him long time ago,........ur title not in tandem with what reality, you are not the one to leave the marriage, she already left you if you ready to accept really, you urself knew, she has another man in her life, but you dnt want to be humiliated, that's why you didn't include that reason here.

Some pple just like to take their partner for granted when they see they have more leverage.....happens to both sex...
power is sweet and it often makes pple misbehàve.....pull out a divorce letter and u'll see them begging when they realize the person they've been treating badly actually has more leverage

Walai:
Can someone give me at least one convincing reason to get married apart from children (I can get any number of children without getting married) and sex (the cheapest commodity right now) ?

I read in another thread where one girl said they bring more than guys to the table...infact she said they are the table...
..somebody now asked her what they bring that is more ...she said emotional intelligence, and vision that drives the society....I laugh nearly fall comot for chair...

So I don't know maybe u are looking for emotional intelligence, vision,....that might be two reasons to get married

wemzack:
Good morning my people I need your advice I am a graduate, since when I graduated I have not been able to get a permanent or suitable job and I have wife and two kids, my wife is the only child of her parents ,her father is a farmer almost 85 years old and her mother is dead her father like me so much that there is nothing he can not give, one day my wife called me that since I don't have permanent job why can't I join her father in his cocoa farm I was like do you want me to be like your father and be living in village she said what is wrong there that this is what her father has been doing till now and he can still afford to give us anything we ask, apart from that her father is aged he can't do much of the and since I am a graduate I will know how to modernize everything, but my own problem is that I don't know anything about agriculture, and is normal for me to go and join my father in-law and how can I modernize everything. Note my father in-law has cocoa farm,palm fruit,(he has lease that one out) he has cassava and other small farm but he can't do anything there because his strength has failed him. Please what should I do. How can I turn the project to something else even if I accept

U don't sound like you have money to bring new tech, mechanization, and automation into the operation.....just go learn the current working operation from the old man so you can at least know how to manage the place..

know the pple that he works for him and trusts , clients that supplies him needs on the farm and the ones he also supplies with harvest......
And if u need help, hire experienced farm manager...but not before u know the runnings of the place, if you don't want them to run u street

someone is giving u a push not so many pple get in their life ...if u like blow it with this ur uninterested tone

Merry100:
Women don’t just bring something to the table; many times, they are the table.

They bring emotional intelligence, resilience, vision, and daily sacrifices that keep families and society going.

Lol ....

Xannadu:
She may have changed it legally for her official documents and only be using Joke Silva for her showbiz contacts

Why on earth would I wanna change a fine name like Joke Silva when I'm not swapping it for a name that speaker greater volume or power

LadyExcellency:
It's against the Law of God, especially in Christianity.

God called both Adam and Eve by the name, Adam. Eve was a name given to the woman by her husband.

Genesis 5:2 KJV
Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created.

The practice of name change is white's man invention at a time when a female was considered her father's or husband's property.....it's not God's invention.