₦airaland Forum

SocialJustice:
If you can't be there for your child due to any excuse then don't have a child. Stop this culture that produces half humans.

.calling pple half humans? U cruel man

2mch:
After all the primary school boys for Nairaland don ginger you to do wetin you no suppose do. Now na only you de use Facebook beg for your life. Carry all your supporters go beg. Also ask them for space in their bunk bed in their mama house

He tell you say he be nairalander let alone receiving advice on nairaland...

Kingpele:
What a simple man...u should have confessed what u did that put your marriage in this kind of quagmire....if u want to simp ,do it diligently

this is the last thing I will do....no matter the offense ....

Love800:
These 70s, 80s, and 90s generations you just mentioned, 90percent of them are sadist and unhappy in their profession, because of the useless traditional training their parents gave to them!

Y'all just pull statistics from thin air to make ur comment sound valid.....

Toxic!!

2024's most abused word and topping the list with gaslighting following at number 2

HisaacPlus:
Hmnn..
Orisirisi. Aye ti baje.

So no be boyfriend and girl friend go date to become married couples....so ur own faithfulness na the day them sign wedding certificate e dey start.... So why do y'all get àngry when ur partner go and get pre-wedding séx few day or a month to wedding...

placeofallure:
Mi o ni issue, just let me be.

Okay oooo.... Na u enter my mention ooo.... I nor come meet you

placeofallure:
Wò ó, mi o r'áyè ejọ́ wẹ́wẹ́. To ba n ta ẹ l'ojú ko f'àlùbọ́sà sì.

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Lol....
Be like this one get issués oooo....

placeofallure:
These days, many women work and contribute to the financial strength of the family. Apart from this, they still do the rest of the things required of the woman of the house. Would you ask such women what they bring to the table?

In my comment that you mentioned, did u see me asking a woman that is significantly contributing to her home what she's bringing to the table?? because I'm trying to get why this ur comment is thrown my way...?? ......Or am I missing something??

Justnation:
For you to itemize all these faults of your wife alone shows that you have a big problem.
I see you as a perfectionist who never sees anything good in your wife and never appreciates anything she does hence she decided to recoil to her shelf.

It will be great to hear from your wife as well .

But my little advice is instead of thinking of divorce, go back and unlock your wife, be a husband to her not a principality, cuddle her and make her feel valued instead of lamenting on her inadequacies and mistakes
Go through her close confidants and let her know that you truly love her.
She is not ready to quit the marriage, and I don't she is cheating on you ( I stand to be corrected) otherwise certain actions would have confirmed.

You can save your marriage, your family and restore your happiness.

Captain sàve a bra say make op go unlock as a padlock that she is naaa.. nairaland is always a funny place

ojuu4u:
Not until couples involved in marriage learn how to manage each other, marriages would keep scattering everyday.

Meanwhile, with epistle you wrote up there, anybody going through that, should knowl, the woman left him long time ago,........ur title not in tandem with what reality, you are not the one to leave the marriage, she already left you if you ready to accept really, you urself knew, she has another man in her life, but you dnt want to be humiliated, that's why you didn't include that reason here.

Some pple just like to take their partner for granted when they see they have more leverage.....happens to both sex...
power is sweet and it often makes pple misbehàve.....pull out a divorce letter and u'll see them begging when they realize the person they've been treating badly actually has more leverage

Walai:
Can someone give me at least one convincing reason to get married apart from children (I can get any number of children without getting married) and sex (the cheapest commodity right now) ?

I read in another thread where one girl said they bring more than guys to the table...infact she said they are the table...
..somebody now asked her what they bring that is more ...she said emotional intelligence, and vision that drives the society....I laugh nearly fall comot for chair...

So I don't know maybe u are looking for emotional intelligence, vision,....that might be two reasons to get married

wemzack:
Good morning my people I need your advice I am a graduate, since when I graduated I have not been able to get a permanent or suitable job and I have wife and two kids, my wife is the only child of her parents ,her father is a farmer almost 85 years old and her mother is dead her father like me so much that there is nothing he can not give, one day my wife called me that since I don't have permanent job why can't I join her father in his cocoa farm I was like do you want me to be like your father and be living in village she said what is wrong there that this is what her father has been doing till now and he can still afford to give us anything we ask, apart from that her father is aged he can't do much of the and since I am a graduate I will know how to modernize everything, but my own problem is that I don't know anything about agriculture, and is normal for me to go and join my father in-law and how can I modernize everything. Note my father in-law has cocoa farm,palm fruit,(he has lease that one out) he has cassava and other small farm but he can't do anything there because his strength has failed him. Please what should I do. How can I turn the project to something else even if I accept

U don't sound like you have money to bring new tech, mechanization, and automation into the operation.....just go learn the current working operation from the old man so you can at least know how to manage the place..

know the pple that he works for him and trusts , clients that supplies him needs on the farm and the ones he also supplies with harvest......
And if u need help, hire experienced farm manager...but not before u know the runnings of the place, if you don't want them to run u street

someone is giving u a push not so many pple get in their life ...if u like blow it with this ur uninterested tone

Merry100:
Women don’t just bring something to the table; many times, they are the table.

They bring emotional intelligence, resilience, vision, and daily sacrifices that keep families and society going.

Lol ....

Xannadu:
She may have changed it legally for her official documents and only be using Joke Silva for her showbiz contacts

Why on earth would I wanna change a fine name like Joke Silva when I'm not swapping it for a name that speaker greater volume or power

LadyExcellency:
It's against the Law of God, especially in Christianity.

God called both Adam and Eve by the name, Adam. Eve was a name given to the woman by her husband.

Genesis 5:2 KJV
Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created.

The practice of name change is white's man invention at a time when a female was considered her father's or husband's property.....it's not God's invention.

Pele...you don wake up

I've realized for a while now that love or lust or wateva pple feel or call it is not needed in marriage........the side that has less of this so called love or lust has the highest leverage..

Just marry with your two eyes open so that you can see bu!!sh!t from miles away, carry a rational mind to be fair when needed, and tuck ur heart away in hidden vault to prevent anybody from robbïng you of your peace so u can be ruthless when needed

franchasofficia:
Until crude oil dries completely and no more free crude oil to share, these nonsense won't stop.


It is the same crude oil that is making people who don't like other regions to continue to fake unity and force Nigeria to remain one even when it's glaring that we don't really like each other.



Crude oil is a curse to Nigeria than blessing it ought to have been

There are actually academic papers on resource curse

Otuegbe:
Kwara state used to be very peaceful. What has changed?

What changed is that we vóted for rúlers that use religióus and tríbal bías to handle killérs of Nigerian pple called herdsmén and jihadíc cleansers that want to install Islamîc state by all means possible....

CrisNews:
My Girlfriend went for a wedding and posted pictures from the event and I notice she Tagged her Ex-Boyfriend on the Facebook Post. On Easter, yesterday she also tag him on her post!

Should I confront her because I feel like something is wrong somewhere?

Advise me on what to do please

Guy....dem no dey run woman matter like that......She will just turn the whole thing around by calling u jéalous and ínsecure...she will even add their usual mánipulative ínsult like chíldish, t0xic, and cóntrolling, all to make u feel more gúilty and make it look like she did nothing......

she's probably still húng on her ex in a way
.do like say u nor see anything...u will see more....

give yourself brain, reduce how you spend your money on her ......time will set you free

Generalkoke:
Thanks for all you do here & all you have personally done for me.

God bless you chief.

👍👍👍

Sannisege:
My own is that if the north openly opposes Tinubu and he eventually wins, it mean say north own don finish be that.

Person wey run first tenure like this....All the regions own don finish if he wins second term because elected executives become more wicked during second term as it's their last run ..

. Second term is for mop up, intensifying looting and ensuring a successor that crediting him 30billion per month wins the next election

Agbegbaorogboye:
And you think knowing Jesus is not important?

Lol....maybe u should stick to what I said and not assume what I don't think .......

Agbegbaorogboye:
Christianity suffers misinformation and denigration more than any other religion I know of

I mentioned it a comment ago....maybe u missed it....the 4 gospel is packed with information enough to know Jesus...

So anyone suffering misinformation is just being lazy

Agbegbaorogboye:
Dear sir
I completely agree with you on the need to do what Jesus commanded

But how do you follow Him who you do not know?

The examples you gave of Muslims is apt. They kill for Muhammad because they have the right knowledge that he killed all those who oppose him.

Jesus on the other hand forbade killing your enemies. I have seen on many grounds when Muslims in a bid to justify killing of one's enemies quote the words of Jesus which he used in a parable of the unprofitable servant.

Thus, it is easy for anyone who lacks the right knowledge about the personality of Jesus to be misguided into thinking Jesus indeed endorsed killing one's enemies like Muhammad

That's why the right knowledge about Jesus Christ is important in my humble view

Again ...my point is focusing on what's important and has significance...christians keep dragging each other in public platforms arguing about irrelevant things, further sowing discord...u hardly see Muslims do these things despite all the controversies and bad eggs in their religion...

.... the four gospels has given the understanding of who Jesus is in my humble view....

Lol....

Y'all bother urself about unimportant things and end up missing the real significance of Jesus

See Muslims......their focus is to pray five times, defend Mohammed with their life even if he slept with 9 year old, and spread their Islam by killing their neighbors

But Y'all will be looking for :
weda Jesus collect or pay tithe,
Weda Jesus wear top or trousers or cap
Weda Jesus drank juice, beer, spirit

Thee one that Jesus clearly said u should do, y'all don't do it

Juliearth:
This person is very deluded in his thinking. It would be hard to convince him to see things from your angle.

Lol. ...I wouldn't say his problem is totally delusion ......i think he's just suffering from the error of cognitive or confirmation bias......


The human mind is fascinating......

Niok:
Na Helinues 18months salary u Dey use play like this o

U are wicked