Anytime i see news like this, i just shake my head looking at Lekki and it's environ. If countries with well planned city could be going through this, what is the fate of my people that are only concerned about paying the ministry for stupid approvals?. I was discussing with some real estate agents that Yaba, Ebute Meta & Surulere will become one of the hotest real estate hub in Lagos soon and they were bent on how my point is not valid.

Tell us about those left homeless nor retirement money to live on, those that ended up committing suicide or died of ailment cos their insurance could not cover their treatment. Are they less human cos they are whites? If your parents got scammed of their life savings or retirement dependence would you spew this backup epistle?

Mokason288:
Shut up already

I could give you one reason why boys engage in YAHOO YAHOO that overrides 100 reasons not to participate

NIGERIA IS A FAIED NATION AND THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO FUTURE FOR THE YOUTHS AND OUR CHILDREN UNBORN

Go to states like Plateau and Nasarawa the high rate of burglars and thieves will make you wish otherwise
Don’t get it twisted there are thieves everywhere even in America

NOTE: I said NO to crime no mean say I no get mind

Ok

Dem don come senior adviser to the rich men

Amaru101:
u no sabi read?

Started his business boom!

Yes but Not in Nigeria and again not in Lagos cos someone must make you swear daily. especially bubu

Let's call broke people. They love to argue alot

Biography without business details

What ever the criteria are

Social media is just a projection of what has been happening in the dark for long and making it norm to many. It has become a mainstream behavior for kids to priotize relationships over studies, aspiration and life goals in recent years which was not so back then. To be honest Kids from age 1 - 20 have no business venturing into such cos they are barely emotionally well formed not to talk about stability in decision making. The rave has brought about so many baby mamas, early initiation into drugs by peers and so many ills in the society. Parenting is slacking as the years go by and this is a major key player in this problem. That we are in the jet age shouldn't affect teaching Morales and paying attention to their behavioral patterns.

Imagine a girl being treated badly from 15 to 27 or a guy who started dating from 14, growing from heart breaks to cheap access to sex ...... how do you expect these lots to hold a home down ? Even though sex was cheap back then for some but the environment made it so sacred that you as a grown man might not have an access till you are 25 or more

Last i check we started with cowries and cowries are not sprayed but tied in bags to be given to the celebrants. The so called slave masters never sprayed theirs. I dont know where your theory of celebration is coming from

geemd434:

It is called celebration. Everybody has their style. Europe Indians America or Africa. Accept it and know peace

Making it already hence my take.

Laideabdulahi:



Just go and make Money , then you will understand.

LET ME WALK YOU A LITTLE


A marriage is not a funny journey and to be very honest with you, there is much to give in terms of sacrifices before you start enjoying the dividends. However brother sanity must be protected so as not to evolve into who you are not at the end of the day.

Now to your case.... Training a child by both parents alone can be overwhelming not to mention one. Sometimes they miss out on some key human relationship skills, especially when the relationship between them and the single parent is not so cordial. Some of them grew up with an enabling environment and still want to continue the culture. Now lets talk about you. You cannot always have your way in a marriage so settle for compromise because you mentioned money and trust me that is just a tool to finesse a marriage not what will make it work. LISTEN to what she has to say by keeping quiet even though she says alot ( She might lack communication skill by yelling but still listen ). Add more patience to what you have and on no ground should you be tempted to touch her. Appreciated her with words and try to see how you can fit into what she has missed all her life ( Father Figure). Don't be controlling ( She might never be used to that ). Have conversation instead of arguments and don't talk to counter her suggestion or concerns. Refrain from reporting her to families and friends cos that will always be your conflict resolution spot and your home will be run by people's opinion or decision making you a simp at the end.


Now if you have tried all these & they don't WORK

Go for a therapy session
Learn to ignore in times of crises
Keep to only taking care of your responsibilities as a man and nothing extra
In times of crises get a recording device cos you might be manipulated
Talk to someone who understands how life works for genuine positive advice
Adopt a way to avoid her problem ( Hobby )
Avoid excessive conversation on things or subjects that might lead to the usual
Protect your mental health by not responding verbally
State what you want and stand by it
Make sure you are not cheating or doing some funny things too
Don't dance to her emotional manipulation .... IGNORE cos she knows the pattern to trigger you
STOP REPORTING TO HER FAMILY OR YOURS ( But make sure your parents understands your ordeal)

IF IT IS LIFE THREATNING OR TOO MANIPULATIVE FOR YOUR SANITY BRO LEAVE....


HOPEFULLY THIS STORY IS NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND THOUGH .... Cos nobody hardly blame themselves in time of marital crises

You just stated what i need to hear. Now we can deduce from your statement that

Armed robbers = Product of Yahoo politicians cos they don't exist in better climes

Kidnappers = Products of same lots cos they don't exist in sane climes

Rapist = started existing cos of bad governance.

BAD GOVERNANCE IS PRODUCT OF BAD DECISION BY THE POPULACE

BAD ATITTUDES IS A PRODUCT OF PERSONAL DECISION BY ONESELF

Honest people still exist in this clime and are surviving ...... Justifying a man stealing from another man as a result of some specific lots they chose to rule them speaks loud of the rot in our homes ( Same homes that breeds leaders with selfish mentalities)

NOBODY ENFORCED POVERTY ON US BUT THE CONVERSATION IS WHEN WE ARE READY FOR REAL REVOLUTION

seyz91:
That's the only difference

Yahooboys elected themselves base on hardship instigated and enforced by yahoo politicians

But we gullible nigerians blindly elect yahoo politicians cuz of there lies campaign promises and shared bag of rice with small money to some mumu people

ARE YAHOO BOYS ELECTED BY US?

seyz91:
For your mind

Are politicians not yahoo boys?

Yahoo is not and will never be a job. Stop swindling people pf their hard earn money and basing it on some useless theories. What goes around comes back around cos your cashing out now is just a way the devil is using to rob you of time to do something productive for the future! YAHOO YAHOO NO BE PROFESSION

Chemicals reacting always

Oponu its for people that can think not mosquitoes

Sazeals:

Pele ogbomosho albert einstein or oshogbo who ever said this quote

So when there's war they should just stand there and be looking abi