That's domestic violence. He should file a report at the DSVRT of Lagos State , it's under the ministry of justice. If she's not remorseful, it would be escalated to the Gender Unit of the CP's office. If her brain doesn't re-configure at that point, she will be arraigned. Sometimes it's necessary to take drastic measures to stem such a threat to life. One day she'll murder him with one little bang on the wrong spot!. Alternatively, he should move out and seek a divorce. She's not in order, mentally.

onez:
Suddenly COS is now more powerful than SFG. Do we have a president?

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Try to imagine the aged village head for example, he usually has a spokesman, akin to a CoS. With time and great skill he would in actuality be the village head. All he needs to say is baba said.... That's the scenario I believe. Especially with PMB's age, educational background and rather lacklustre career.

Dear OP, what was the widow's marital status at the time of the man's death? Did he formally divorce the previous ones? You can sendd the details via mitchelliyobe@gmail.com.

post=88532065:
Four weeks is a long time.
We pray that he comes out negative at the end of it all.
Our prayers for him and for his young family. (He's only 31).
We pray he recovers ASAP.
There shall be no more deaths pertaining Covid-19 in our nation..........
Get well soon Mohammed.



Coronavirus is not a joking matter please.
You won't wish this on your enemy.
Show some sympathy for his family biko..


You are 101% right Chairman.
But that is the reason we need to show the world we are better than the enemies of the nation.
The hateful and wicked lots that abound.
The whole world is reading.
Kill them with kindness and love.
Thanks for your very mature comments here always sir.
How we wish we have just a dozen of your kind on the forum.
We pray Mohammed recovers ASAP.

We Rise!

I pray he gets cured soonest, he is very young and very important to many people. Nearly a month o, of anxiety, restricted movement, absence of loved ones....! Those touted home remedies may even help but as he is a facility, they won't use such. My only fear is let this disease not resemble hepatitis b , a carrier may never be sick but spreads it.

Sermwell:

let me help your illiteracy!!
COVID-19 means
CO=Corona, VI=Virus, D=Disease, 19=2019

Utterly classless to insultingly correct him. Perhaps his permutation is even correct given the evil machinations of the rulers of this world.

icebird25:
Someone should summarize please .. because the heat is too much here ..If I decided to read everything my head might explode o

Read! You will learn of the crux of matter, (a proprietor of the fifth estate of the realm, grovelling before the powerful). Read joor.

The current situation proves beyond the shadow of any doubt that the heart of man is desperately wicked. Church house fellowships is a veritable tool to disburse funds or distribute relief items. But nay, the richest pastors in the land had to give money to known corrupt government to be lavished on their already luxurious lifestyles. To what end exactly? If you still don't know, it's called patronage, eye service, notice me, etc. That's the height of hypocrisy. Fast forward, post lockdown, Christians will be exhorted to give even more than before as Thanksgiving for surviving this plague, ....the pastor prayed day and night for his flock.

People, just help those around you, nothing is too small, food, cash etc. That's the real charity. I remember in a special way, Hungerbad. He was a giver. He gave and gave. He sought out those who helped him the past and gave. Don't let hypocrites deter you. Peace.

ZombiePUNISHER:
Useless government

Just looking for easy ways to loot...

Simply use bvn and get palliatives to everyone is rocket science

Don't mind them o! They think we're slow pokes. They are only deceiving themselves. We can easily estimate what is being carted away through their opaque sharing formula. Hence, they cry about fake news and seek to punish rumour mongers!

Ezemust:
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He should share palliatives directly to hungry people, starting from Alimosho , full stop as in your dot comment �. The area hot,a in crime. My relative suggested that people may add matchete to their shopping list as a way of protecting themselves when returning from the market with groceries fah!

Simplyleo:

Pls, is this your comment from the report or you have an insider source?

Because after seeing your comment, I had to go back and read it over and over again but couldn't figure out how you arrived at this your deduction.

. It's a mere speculation and unjust justification of a wrong a la the victim deserved it! Don't bother with him, it's a ridiculous/ evil
mindset.
For victims, move on, if suffering abuse. Relatives, please assist the victim financially to resettle; it usually ends in disaster, grevious bodily harm or death!

NextD18:
Then Youths of Nkpor are braver than Late Awolowo.

Please calm down and Receive Sense! Covid 19 is a leveller. Have you not learnt anything in this war-like situation we unexpectedly found ourselves? Have you no thoughts at all for the victims, the suffering in our nation? Take it easy on tribal stunts. You people are spoiling this authentic Naija forum. If you have nothing sensible to contribute, waka pass! Let's be civil, that's all.

Feeling so sad about the insincerity of our leaders. This is not rocket science nah, why complicate simple matters? ....... Billionaires being made at the expense of suffering people. Where are they carting the money they are scouping off the money meant for palliatives to? I just tire o!

It's going to be tough for everyone. My heart beats faster when I think of how I will coordinate Ogba, the old Secretariat, Ikeja and later Lagos Island, on Monday! I feel the stress already. But one thing I believe is that the blanket ban is most probably due to insecurity, i.e., the unchecked influx of unknown/unregistered foreigners into the trade. The residents of VI, for example, must have felt surrounded! The arsonists that looted/burnt down the Ajeromi LCDA were really atrocious. They weilded so much power, what effrontery; what gave them the guts.....?
A partial ban would have caused ad uproar,.......
Let's wait and see how it pans out in the coming days.

IamPatriotic:
Please accept my apology if my comment has trace of tribalism.

Why is it that most violence against maids are being perpetrated by Igbo women? virtually all the cases I've read on Nairaland or other media platforms, they are usually the perpetrators.
There's this lady in my office, anytime she called her maid, it's either she's cursing her dishing out instructions to her harshly, twice the young maid had ran away and she would bring her back and double the maltreatment.

The observation is correct. Most women who do this, don't work, live off their husbands. Woe betide the maid if the man is well off, the arrogance is doubled and so they Lord it over whoever is in their household. Boy, boy,servants on 6-7 contract of apprenticeship are usually petrified by these madams them! I knew of one who almost resigned his apprenticeship due to Madam's nastiness at home. The contrast is that the oga, the owner if the money/business is very nice/humble. These kind of woman never thought they would handle lump sum of N100k!
Forgive, if you feel offended. I am a patriot at heart

Did anyone notice the many grammatical blunders/spelling errors in the report? A report from the highest office (Police) in the land!

[quote author=AreaFada2 post=68401885]A thread like this shows women's hypocrisy. It also indicates that lots of women are into it as already known.

You will only see tame comments from women. Their focus will be on if the man has a small dick or impotent or treated the woman badly or had affairs too.
Because many of them can identify with this lady.

He had a kid (DNA proven) from a previous marriage.

A few years from now cheaper DNA tests will unmask many women.

Bros, faithful, virtous and disciplined woman dey o! I have seen some women do this and it's really disgusting. It's more honourable to divorce than leave a lie. A man just lost his entire nuclear family- good to know, he had a child from prior marriage, at least he has someone to comfort him. He lost, big time. But I think he wasn't vigilant, the signs must have been there. Or he didn't care to know? I hear say some dey use juju mumulize their husbands, so they don't even complain.

2. All you guys permitting separation of your families in the quest/craze for immigration by all means, this is one of the consequences. Very soon you will look very small to your wives because drug dealers/swindlers are ready to take them from you with their ill-gotten wealth. In the end you will lose as the reason for emmigrating would have been forgotten. Think before you use your hands to split your families. Many examples already.

So, Bros we dey, quietly building our homes, doing good deeds in our communities. We're ashamed of these happenings on behalf of the culprits. We are many Sir! Peace.

desoul2004:
Where are all these abusive women on nairaland, they've turned blind on this one. We're in trouble, what can that man do again at his age?

If you're yet married, please shine your eyes very well. There are many unfaithful spouses disgracing loyal and virtous women out there. These adulterous ones make amorous feel it's okay to hit on any married woman they fancy. It's really disgusting. Bros, faithful and virtous women dey, just shine your eyes very well before you decide. Don't be swayed by outward beauty only. Peace.

What a waste of time and resources for her husband. These grown up children with all the money invested on them and now out of the blues nothing to show for?
+ Years of emotional investment! That's the hard part. I pray for him and hope he has a strong bond with his extended family to help him bear the sudden loss of his entire nuclear family.

stefanweeks:
Take heart bro

The country is messed up

Try and write to CBN fraud unit

As quickly as possible!

simple250:
Political stunt...what about the ones that died what did you give to them..

POLITICS

Hope you were just playing sha? This gesture demonstrates the premium the company/management places on their diligent/careful employees. This gift is most likely not in their terms of contract. Let us always commend good deeds when someone/institution deigns to be generous. This good news is very refreshing, contrary to the bleak goings on and nightmarish news posted everyday. Kudos to this company for recognizing that without their dedicated staff, they won't have had a success story of 25 year s! Cheers.�

Mutemenot:
And some are defending that useless short man called hellfire

As soon as I heard of it, my first thought of the most likely culprit with ulterior motive, opportunity, funds and generous dose of malice, was that man .

dokyOloye:
At least,d head of their victims are still intact on their shoulders.
Unlike d SKULLership activities rapidly taking over the ..uth ...te

Quit hating! When will you all realize that crime knows no Creed, race, region or tribe. Usually, Federal Character is well configured in crimes committed through multiple collaboration! You will be surprised that nearly all tribes are represented in this nation wide financial crime.

For over a year, an honest and respectable friend tried to woo me to invest. For her integrity, I would have invested but for lack of disposable funds. Prices were set at 46k minimum. I kept postponing, not knowing that it was akin to the MMM rip off.

Truly glad it's been busted. Many have been saved.

BlackPantherxXx:


This picture should be posted to Buhari or his kids' Twitter. It is just perfect

Killer response!

SHE DOESN'T BUILD A HOUSE OR BUY THE CARS, IT'S THE MANS WORK. (I DON'T SEE SINGLE LADIES BUILDING HOUSES WITH THE INTENT TO LIVE THEIR WITH THE MAN THEY MARRY

I hope you are teaching the young girls/women in your immediate and extended family, the beauty/power of empowering themselves. Every girl child I come across, I try to enlighten them on the fact that they can be the next Okonjo-Iweala/ other achievers. That, THAT which they seek from another, they can accomplish independently.

Meanwhile be fair in your assessment, For, there are cultural inhibitions to success in our clime. Gender discrimination is rife as well.

Born2Breed:
I knew it will come to this. The police feel on top of the world because of their guns.

Thanks for.
Familiarity breeds contempt. When money changes hand to look the other way always. Reality check; criminals have the upper hand in police stations, unless they have exhausted the cash at hand.
I sympathize with his family.

Flexherbal:
What will now happen to the IPO ?

He will continue with what he knows best. ARRESTS for Bail (money). Their antics is well organized; the money moves to the higher echelons of the institution. As a result, the scenario never changes.

Israeljones:
He wouldn't have been dumped like that if he the size of his d...k was the right size..... not too small and not too big....
I dont pity people like this, because he died a stupid death

You'd be surprised that he was actually sick, in the head. Mental health is perhaps even more important than the physical. It's a sad exit, albeit.

michlins:
Castrate him. Don't have sex with a minor even if she comes begging for it. The family are who you meet in the court not the girl cause her family will insist that she can't speak for herself

Thanks joor.Just listen to the ye ye defence. Statutory rape. 18 years is the legal age of consent. Some NLanders who sympathize with this defendant should get some enlightenment here. In Lagos State, it's a State offence with special Court. It means, the Government through it's officials in the Ministry of Justice will prosecute the defendant. Our children should be safe from sexual predators, whether they seemed to be 'asking' for it or not. 18 years is the legal minimum age for consensual sex, my people.

[quote author=baralatie post=65389015]I have always wandered the range of hyenas in Nigeria but the one I saw were already dead but that there is a hyena in bauvcji

I mean bauchi[/quote
Some years back, I saw hyneas�☠️ at Ikeja Police Command Head Quarters. Some criminals were paraded, allegedly using them to frighten and defraud victims in Lagos.

westernized:
God judge dz ekwensu and d two amusu's that beat dz woman. A woman wif a seventeen years old child still abused domestically, the couple ought to av passed dz phase nw. God go heal d woman

She may perish in that home. If you know her, let her run for dear life. They hate her. Economic consideration should not hold her down,!

Giddymoney:
What did she do the first place
Let me hear the man side of the story first before I say anything

It's a crime. Divorce exists. No excuse, the culprits may fathom for their atrocious conduct, is justifiable. Let's make our society better, please.