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Romance / Re: Abstainence Till Marriage Or Abstainence Till Age 18? by aisha1314(f): 11:48am On Feb 17 |
LikeAking: Virginity doesn't matter and never will, sex (and of course money) makes the world go round. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is On Her 8th Abortion. I Feel Bad About It. by aisha1314(f): 6:18pm On Oct 25, 2023 |
Tonero5200: In as much as I'm pro choice and don't have anything against abortion, this both shocks and disgusts me honestly. For anyone to have this many abortions is nothing but irresponsibility at it's peak. Every sensible person knows that the withdrawal method alone is not reliable contraception at all. There's a joke that goes "What do you call people who use pulling out as birth control? Ans: Parents" Nobody in their right mind uses pulling out only, constantly and expects not to get pregnant at one point. Why couldn't you use condoms, how much do they cost anyways? Much cheaper than an abortion I should assume. And they're not hard to use and don't (contrary to what some think) affect sex. And why couldn't the girl whose had these 8 abortions get on some form of contraception herself, assuming you guys decided not to use condoms? Women have more than 10 effective but reversible methods to choose from so there's no excuse for this. There's a method of contraception to fit every woman's health and lifestyle. I'm normally not a judgemental person but in this case I'm just so shocked that someone can be this irresponsible. And yes, I do think you guys should break up since you can't together be responsible about your sex life. |
Romance / Re: Can She Take Miso Fem After Sex by aisha1314(f): 6:05pm On Oct 25, 2023 |
Amarahobu: Yeah technically someone can take emergency contraception up to 72 hours to 5 days after sex. But if someone has already ovulated, it won't work, since it's purpose is to prevent ovulation not terminate a pregnancy. I suggest you guys wait a few weeks, then buy a pregnancy test. If it's positive you need to decide whether to keep it or abort it, based on your situation and beliefs. If it's negative, then I suggest you as the guy learn how to use condoms correctly to prevent them from breaking. Ordinarily, condoms don't just break like that except they're expired, wrong size, have been stored incorrectly or weren't used properly. And your girlfriend should also consider getting on some form of contraception, such as the pill. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Man: How Do You Stop Ex-girlfriend From Aborting Your Baby? by aisha1314(f): 5:57pm On Oct 25, 2023 |
Dimaya: Definitely |
Romance / Re: I Finally Had Sex With D Love Of My Life, but.. by aisha1314(f): 7:31pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
Reminderz: That's not what the thread is about!!! Who gives a shit about fornication anyways? Nobody but stupid religious prudes. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Single Mother Pandemic by aisha1314(f): 8:36pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
CareerBegger: I see nothing wrong with it. For me, I plan on being a single mom because I think it's cool. |
Romance / Re: Abstainence Till Marriage Or Abstainence Till Age 18? by aisha1314(f): 8:34pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
Fortune118005: And who gives a rat's ass what the bible says!?! For me it's abstainence just till you're an adult (age 18) |
Health / Re: Why Do Some Girls Hate Using Condom by aisha1314(f): 8:22am On Oct 12, 2023 |
Slynation: For God's sake, contraceptives don't cause infertility. Why not do your research before saying stuff |
Health / Re: Why Do Some Girls Hate Using Condom by aisha1314(f): 7:13pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Rayban26: Exactly. My body my choice. I just want to avoid unsafe abortion which could definitely cause barrenness or worse. |
Romance / Re: Abstainence Till Marriage Or Abstainence Till Age 18? by aisha1314(f): 4:10pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
sta1: I'd rather have sex and not make heaven because heaven, just like God doesn't exist, it isn't real, just a made up place religious people are fond of. Sex is too good not to have just because of what the 'bible' says. Bleep religion and go Bleep as much as you want!!! |
Romance / Re: Abstainence Till Marriage Or Abstainence Till Age 18? by aisha1314(f): 4:08pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
sta1: God doesn't exist! |
Romance / Re: Abstainence Till Marriage Or Abstainence Till Age 18? by aisha1314(f): 4:07pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Samantha124: This is what my parents told me though in my case they said having sex, or even dating for that matter when underage wasn't an option our home. I didn't lose my virginity till 19 with my first serious boyfriend. |
Romance / Re: Abstainence Till Marriage Or Abstainence Till Age 18? by aisha1314(f): 4:05pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
SuperOnyi: Hmmm. Why do you say you can't break away from your parents (outdated) teachings though you're an adult. Me I stopped following most of my parents advice the minute I turned 18, except for a few things. Nobody can tell you to be abstainente after you reach the age of consent. Once you're 18, you own your body and what you do with it is completely your choice. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Why Do Some Girls Hate Using Condom by aisha1314(f): 4:01pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Rayban26: Use of contraceptives does not cause infertility. Every educated person knows that. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Why Do Some Girls Hate Using Condom by aisha1314(f): 4:00pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Alusiizizi: Nope. And I don't think I ever will. In my opinion, anal is for gay men. And besides it has health risks. |
Romance / Re: Non-virgins Don’t Deserve Bride Price by aisha1314(f): 3:58pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Emekaphilip360: Go Bleep yourself and your mother. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Smelled Of Condom Down There And I Broke Up With Her by aisha1314(f): 10:57am On Oct 11, 2023 |
Davindal: Being furious, I slapped and pushed her out of my compound Future wife beater already committing domestic violence!!! The poor girl is better of without you before you send her to an early grave in the name of cheating. Not like guys don't cheat and sleep around more than women anyway. |
Health / Re: Why Do Some Girls Hate Using Condom by aisha1314(f): 10:52am On Oct 11, 2023 |
Meritjoshua: I'm a girl and I don't like using condoms. I know it's important for safe sex and disease prevention but I just prefer sex without a condom. When I tell some friends this, they immediately begin scolding me about putting my health at risk by being irresponsible about sex but I have a different opinion. I only have one sexual partner who's a long term boyfriend and (as far as I know) I'm his only partner too. We were both virgins when we met so there's little worry about having a disease from a previous partner. And to prevent pregnancy, I use the contraceptive pill which is even more effective than condoms. I'm not saying everyone should just have unprotected sex without worry or concerns, it's about what you and your partner feel is right for you and your level of comfort with each other. In your case, I think it's good you stood your ground and refused to have sex without protection though. If that's what makes you comfortable (which is wise I have to say) then you stick to it no matter what anyone else tells you. 14 Likes |
Romance / Re: Abstainence Till Marriage Or Abstainence Till Age 18? by aisha1314(f): 10:43am On Oct 11, 2023 |
Reminderz: abstinence till marriage is stupid to you because you're a olosho... oloshos are very easy to spot by their comments It takes one to know one. And even if I'm olosho so what? Is it a crime? Am I harming anybody? 1 Like |
Romance / Abstainence Till Marriage Or Abstainence Till Age 18? by aisha1314(f): 8:33am On Oct 11, 2023 |
Is it better to tell children or teenagers when giving them sex education to be abstinent till marriage or just till they're 18, that is when they're adults? I think abstinence till marriage is stupid and old fashioned but, though I'm a very sex positive person, I also don't approve of minors or children having sex. |
Romance / Re: Non-virgins Don’t Deserve Bride Price by aisha1314(f): 8:29am On Oct 11, 2023 |
Emekaphilip360: Misogynist alert!!! All misogynistic guys like this who think they own women's bodies and get to decide what we do with our bodies should go and die!!! The number of partners someone has does not define them or their worth. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Actor Chidi Ike: I Believe In Abstinence And My Goal Is To Marry As A Virgin by aisha1314(f): 8:25am On Oct 11, 2023 |
jesusjnr2020: What a prude! She doesn't know what she's missing out on. Just my opinion but nobody in their right mind marries as a virgin in this day and age. Abstainence till marriage is for the stone age, not the 21st century. |
Romance / Re: Until You Are Legally Married, Don't Live With A Man, Visit And Go Back Home. by aisha1314(f): 8:23am On Oct 11, 2023 |
Stephen2324: Why not? Just because some senseless, old fashioned, over religious prudes say so? Or is there a new law that makes it illegal here? |
Romance / Re: Why Do Husbands Pay Full Price For What Bfs Got For Free?? by aisha1314(f): 11:45pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
BigBashiru: This opinion is just nonsense and shitty. Yet another man with misogynistic opinion about women and women's sexuality. |
Romance / Re: 16 Year Student Has A Crush On Me by aisha1314(f): 6:58pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
PaganTerrorist: It's wise of you not to get into a relationship with her as she's still underage. Yes I think you should tell her parents what she said, they need to know what's going through their daughters mind. How it goes after that will determine whether you'll still continue the lessons or not. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 16 Year Student Has A Crush On Me by aisha1314(f): 6:56pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
PaganTerrorist: It's wise of you not to get into a relationship with her as she's still underage. Yes I think you should tell her parents what she said, they need to know what's going through their daughters mind. |
Romance / Re: My Gf Is Pregnant And This Is Happening by aisha1314(f): 6:51pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Ukafor: I'm sorry to hear about your situation. While I'm not judging you but honestly my opinion everytime I see things like this remains the same. All this unwanted pregnancy trouble is not worth it. It doesn't have to happen to anyone because it's easily preventable. All you have to do is practice safe sex and be responsible. Sex isn't just about pleasure and enjoyment it's also about responsibility. Nobody gets pregnant by accident anyone these days rather people get pregnant by irresponsibility. Women have more than 10 different contraceptive options, both hormonal and non hormonal to choose from! For guys if you aren't sure the person you're dating is on contraception (and using it correctly) you can always use condoms. There is no excuse at all for this kind of thing to happen to anyone when you aren't prepared to support a child. Me for example now, I'm still a student in school I know I'm nowhere near being able to care for a baby. But I want to have sex with my boyfriend so I'm on the contraceptive pill. I can get a 3 months pack for just N1400. Much cheaper than a baby (or even an abortion) I should assume. Anyway it's too late for advice so about your situation I think you need to get a side job or even jobs to make some more money to take care of your girlfriend during her pregnancy and the baby when it's born. After she gives birth, she should also get a job. Both of you need to step up and be adults not begging for money on an online forum, or even from your parents or family. And after she gives birth I'll advice that she gets on some form of contraception immediately to avoid another unplanned pregnancy. Wish you two all the best and congrats in advance. For all ladies, if you're sexually active and don't want a baby, use contraception!! It doesn't cost much and is safe! No excuse for unwanted pregnancy and unsafe abortions!!! |
Romance / Re: My Gf Is Pregnant And This Is Happening by aisha1314(f): 6:36pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
galantjoe: Utterly disgusting thing to say |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Been With A Partner Who Steals From You by aisha1314(f): 4:01pm On Sep 06, 2023 |
IconicR: Bleep off you old fashioned nonsense hypocrite.This thread is about stealing not sex. Acting as if you don't have sex yourself. |
Romance / Re: Enugu Girls Caught In party In Enugu Hostel: Pictures by aisha1314(f): 7:26pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
So are (heterosexual) sex parties illegal or what? |
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