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pachigo001:
Can you imagine the scorpions I killed this night I’m suspecting agbado urchins are after my life

If I saw this in my house I'd be really freaked out. Especially as they're quite big. Just spray insecticide regularly. You could also try using cinnamon oil to keep them away. If it persists then you may need to fumigate.

Wizzyonyxphoenix:
I didn't realise some females could be this wicked until my cousin called me up yesterday, and told me that one of his female friends, whom he invited for a hook up, had recorded a video of him naked and was threatening to post it online if he didn't pay her 50k. She gave him a deadline, which is next week Monday actually. According to him, they had just finished doing the do, and the girl had started flashing her phone light, while he moved around naked (the room is pretty dark) so he felt she was helping him see clearly, not knowing that she had recorded not one but TWO videos of him stark naked. Now he's crying profusely and running around like a headless chicken. What is he supposed to do guys? He tried calling her bluff but the girl in question seems pretty intent on ruining his life if he doesn't pay that money. He also has the option of giving her his phone, peradventure he doesn't get the money.

Honestly, I feel sorry for the guy, but that's what he gets for not being able to keep it in his pants. What would you advice him to do in this situation guys? His reputation is at stake here oooo....

He should get evidence of her blackmail and report this to the police. That's the best course of action in this kind of case.

Bintabisiriyu:
There's this Young girl in my Area in bariga about 16 yrs still in secondary school i really like this girl and i have toast her but she refused,
i have even brought her gala and minerals but she no gree.
What scattered my head most is i saw her with one small boy like that in my Area and i suspected that they are dating and that's what had made her turn me down,

so now I'm angry and i want to chop her her house is just 2 houses from mine and she always go night messages for her mom,
Pls what should i do?

You have no business wanting to sleep with an underage girl unless you want to be charged with statutory rape. Look for adult women and take your eyes off children if you know what's good for you.

BadRadio:


It looks larger than the regular brown pigeons or those domestic coloured ones.

It looks like a very big pigeon.

post=118910947:
Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/12/woman-conspires-with-lover-to-bury-their-newborn-baby-alive-inside-toilet-in-jigawa.html

This is utterly despicable. I don't understand how someone can carry a child for 9 months and then do this kind of thing to the child. Some people desperately want a child but can't have one and then someone else chooses to kill a baby like this. If you have a baby you don't want or can't care for then why not just give it up for adoption instead of murdering the poor child? Or better still why not just prevent the pregnancy in the first place by practicing responsible sex?

[quote author=Fahvvy post=118914114]Last i checked, God instituted that union ...

So if the union is a scam according to you, does that mean that God is a scammer? ... [quote]How can a fictional character that doesn't even exist be the one that created marriage?

Wealthbrain22:
Who says s are man cannot have a child out of wedlock and be very happy? Why do you have to legally sign away your freedom to a gender that has 90 percent to gain from it while you have less than even ten percent to gain?

List the advantages of marriage for men? I bet you it’s going to crack your brain to start pointing them out because they actually don’t exist. Our fathers toil and break their back’s literally for us their entire life while our mothers do same for us as well. But the man also breaks his back for the woman but no woman on earth will ever break her back for any man. They can offer you serx initially in the marriage but soon that fire quenches. They can’t loan you money without making you feel like a failure for it. What do you stand to gain as a man ? Food? The same food you provide money for and she still adds jara to the amount to make her hair or fix her nails? Men wtf are y’all getting married for at this point??

Marriage is a foooools paradise to my mental thesis at this point because it doesnt in any way assist me in getting better rather it takes all from me while society is proud of me? But am I genuinely happy deep down? Will that my 2 million not take me to Dubai and watch the World Cup? But now I can’t because I have to provide for “chioma” who is my wife so all my needs are put on hold and still yet all chioma does is take and take till I fall one day and give up the ghost? Isn’t that the case if almost all our fathers? Provide and provide till they die?

At this point it would take a miracle for me ever consider that “union” in my plans in this my life’s experience because I have only one life and I’m planning to enjoy everyday of it till my breath is gone. I don’t mind having a kid or more but that doesn’t mean I must commit to any soul.

Extremely smart choice.
I'm a lady but I don't want to ever get married. Rather, I want to have a partner (long term boyfriend) that I can live with without getting married. I feel like marriage is totally outdated. Besides the stress involved in being married is just too much for me. That's why I just want cohabitation not marriage. I want a partner for companionship, not a husband.
Even though I've decided that I don't want children but if I change my mind eventually I will want to have them with a partner, not a husband.

Aladeintl:
Okay, let's talk about this.

Does it really make any financial sense to pay dowry or bride price for a woman who is not a virgin?

I didn't mean one time offender or rape victims but hookup girls, girls with many body counts.

I mean, a number of men have been on top of this woman, sweating and thrusting into her, looked straight into her eyes during sex while savouring all of her anatomical bliss free of charge or at most with meat pie and one bigi.

So what exactly is the groom paying for?

This is a sincere question any business mind should ask from a financial standpoint.

What is the man paying for if that's who he is getting??

Why does it even matter what a girl's body count is?

Islandlady:
Without long story, in what way can I tell my newly moved in couple neighbours who occupies the top apartment that they should reduce their moaning when having sex at night!

It's very awkward and annoying...

Matured Nairalanders I just need your advice on how to tell them politely without sounding rude or making them feel embarrassed. Thanks!

Obviously there's no way you can tell them that kind of thing without sounding rude or embarrassing them. It's better to just mind your business and ignore it, however uncomfortable it may be for you, because you can't tell people what they can or can't do in their own private space.

kenzysmith:
Good evening guys went to my ex wedding yesterday and I saw how happy her husband was I dance to congratulate them and as soon I shook hands with my ex
I remember those nights she will beg me to sex her, I remember the styles I use her to learn, I remember how she gave me bj , I remember how I use to smack her ass when she use to give me doggy , I remember the countless time I have Bleep her then I burst into laughter the husband was impress and taught my laughter was joy and he thank me after I shook his hands why my ex shook her head towards the ground

I want to tender my apology for falling the wife brea....st drastically and the pu ...ss y I have handle with aggression I tender my apology to the unborn children for the brea...st I have su ck beyond repair am sorry they should forgive me

So? What's the big deal here? Everyone is someone's ex boyfriend or girlfriend. I don't see why people think it's such a big deal. Because a woman is a man's ex doesn't in any way make her "damaged goods". That's just something that all the sexist misogynistic men here like to say.

Yes I totally agree that marriage is very overrated. That's why I've decided that I don't want to get married. Rather I just want to have a partner (long term boyfriend) that I can just live with without being married. Marriage is just totally outdated. I want cohabitation not marriage.

TakeNigeriaBack:
You are afraid of freeing yourself from mental slavery. Christianity and Islam have enslaved the minds of Africans. Ask yourself why the colonial masters translated the bible into African languages but did not see the point in translating their science and technology books into African languages?

Christianity and Islam are tools of enslavement.

Very true. Religion is nothing more than mythology and pure delusion. Every religion is a form of control and just a means of imposing mostly rubbish, useless, and delusional ideas into our heads.

Pells1:
why are these girls bitter and always saying men are trash
Cc Magnoliaa Sweetplum virginprincess Shalommy Siofra Samantha123 Sweetvie

Because a lot of men are actually trash.

ijustdey:
BOY, 17, SINGLED OUT FOR IMPREGNATING GIRL, 16, AFTER SHE ENGAGED 6 PERSONS IN SEX ROMP



SOURCE

I never knew someone who is also underage could be charged for statutory rape. This doesn't seem fair on the boy though, because she wasn't forced to have sex but did so consensually since the article says 'sex romp' not rape. And he shouldn't be the only one in trouble, the other 5 guys should also be in custody too, not just him.
Even for a liberal person like me, I find this very shocking. A 16 year old sleeping around like this clearly has serious issues and should be taken for counseling.

Sanmel:
This happened in a well known family planning facility. We thought the young lady was lying until we asked for her mother's number and put a call through.
According to her, her daughter has a boyfriend and the boyfriend's father will soon celebrate his 70th birthday, she's not going to be there and she doesn't know how far the daughter has gone or will go with the boyfriend. She also said, she had all her children out of wedlock and she doesn't want same for her daughter, so she requested for her daughter to be counseled and a method chosen if necessary.

Just in case you're not aware, the Planned Parenthood Federation of Nigeria (PPFN) has extended it services to both singles and underage so far they're sexually active..

What are your thoughts on this topic?

I don't see anything wrong with a 16 year old being on family planning. After all the age of consent in many countries is 16. I don't see how this is such a big deal that it should be on the news.
In my opinion, sex should never be seen as something that is bad, dirty, shameful or immoral but just as a normal and healthy part of life and living. There's nothing wrong with sex as long as it's safe and consensual.

As an adult, should you still listen to and follow your parents' advice or should you just use your own common sense and instincts to figure things out?

As an adult, should you still listen to and follow your parents' advice or should you just use your own common sense and instincts to figure things out?

Sanmel:
This happened in a well known family planning facility. We thought the young lady was lying until we asked for her mother's number and put a call through.
According to her, her daughter has a boyfriend and the boyfriend's father will soon celebrate his 70th birthday, she's not going to be there and she doesn't know how far the daughter has gone or will go with the boyfriend. She also said, she had all her children out of wedlock and she doesn't want same for her daughter, so she requested for her daughter to be counseled and a method chosen if necessary.

Just in case you're not aware, the Planned Parenthood Federation of Nigeria (PPFN) has extended it services to both singles and underage so far they're sexually active..

What are your thoughts on this topic?

If the mother knows she's sexually active then that's the wisest choice. It's better for the mother to take her to a family planning clinic than to be forced to take her to an abortion clinic.

Please is Discover tab a good tablet to buy and use? Anyone who has this please share your experience with it.

Please is Discover tablet a good tablet to buy and use? Anyone who has this please share your experience with it.

UncleSpiner:
I met my best friend when I was just 16 years. We first started the relationship as girlfriend and boyfriend. Well things weren't going as smooth as we thought so we broke up.

We stayed apart from each other for almost a year before we decided to be friends again. This time, we accepted to be best friends. I love her so much and our closeness is way beyond the time we're dating.

One time she came to my place and we started making out. It's been a once in a while something. Note: I have a girlfriend likewise herself. Her boyfriend doesn't live in naija.

Since we started our friendship, I have witnessed her date lots of guys and the relationships doesn't last upto two months.

My female best friend knows about my girlfriend, but my girlfriend doesn't know about my bestie. I don't want someone who will ask me to choose between my bestfriend and her.

Since I'm not dating my best friend, is it right to be intimate with her??

No it's not ok for you to be intimate with your friend if you're both dating other people. You're both cheating on your current partners and that's not ok. If you still have feelings for each other than it's best for both of you to just break up with the person you're dating. Then you can give your relationship another try. But not to keep hooking up when you're with someone else who has no idea what's going on behind their back as that's just deceitful.

HarlequinLekex:
Does it make a lady cheap; if she asks a guy out?

I don't think asking a guy out makes a lady cheap. As long as she doesn't pursue or chase him relentlessly, it's ok for a woman to make the first move and express her interest in a guy before he does. Guys always having to ask the girls out is just old fashioned. It's totally fine for a woman to make the first move if she wants to.

SultanOfPuna:
My point is
If your parents don't like your hairstyle
Don't change it
If your parents don't like your dressing
Don't change it

Because old school parents are ignorant

Go to USA for brain surgery
You will see the top surgeon has a tattoo on his arm. Does the tattoo mean he is evil. No

So don't change your style or way of life because of your ignorant parents.
They are old school and are still learning
While you young ones have more information and are well exposed to know how to lead your life.

I'm very glad that the new generation is taking over. More power to you!!!

I totally agree with you. I listen to my parents only if they are actually giving me good advice. Otherwise I just follow my heart.

Wordsfrombimpe:
You na too like sex oh

So you guys are telling me no relationship can survive without sex

Hmmn

Yes a relationship can survive without sex but it's rare because a relationship without sex is boring and would feel more like a friendship than a relationship.
Personally though I don't see the point of being in a relationship with someone without having sex with them. Even though a good relationship shouldn't be all about sex but sex is very necessary to show love.

ijustdey:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/11/19/final-year-student-in-okopoly-commits-suicide-over-failed-relationship/

This is so sad. May his soul rest in peace. I don't understand why someone would kill themselves just because of a break up.

Skygist23:
Keeping tabs on your ovulation cycle is a good method you can use to avoid becoming pregnant. Typically, a woman's ovulation cycle will begin around the 14th day after her last menstrual period. When pregnancy is a possibility, you should limit your physical contact as much as possible.

When a woman is ovulating and she is physically close to a man, the likelihood of pregnancy is very high. Ovulation occurs once a month on average, so there are many more opportunities for lovemaking activity without the risk of becoming pregnant.

Continue reading>>>https://medicalcaremedia.com/how-to-prevent-pregnancy-naturally/

A good method but not reliable for every woman because some women have irregular ovulation or may even ovulate twice in a month.
If you really don't want to get pregnant, it's better to use proper contraceptives than natural methods.

Nemesis0147:
A female friend sent me this...
Any advice?
According to my friend,the girl gave out her number to the doctor before the process so she didn’t know anything about it.

The person that brought her to the hospital (her roommate)left in the evening and nobody has heard from her again.

This is really sad. Please you need to find a way to tell the sister. The parents will think she's just in school not knowing she's dead. Someone needs to do something to all these quacks who do unsafe abortions and kill women.
I don't understand why girls can't just be responsible about sex by using condoms and contraceptives to prevent all these unwanted pregnancies.

jeromestarks:
There is this girl from a humble backgound that I have been chasing for some time now. I have spent on her but still she said nothing. Whenever we meet, she will just look at me and smile. I can see that she likes me from the fire in her eyes.

After months of chasing, I called her one day and she picked the call only to say
" I'm busy right now please"
And she dropped the call.

I was infuriated. Like " na me dis girl jons like dis?"

So a week later I called her and said
" You know it's been long that I have been trying to tell you how much I love you but it seems like I am disturbing you right?"

She paused for sometime as if she didn't hear what I said so I repeat the same statement with a calm voice. Then she replied
" Uhmm, sort of"
Then I said
" so , I'm just gonna let you be and wish you all the best. Take care dear and Goodbye."

She didn't say anything and we ended the call.

After four months, this girl flashed me on the same date that I last called her.
I called back and we spoke as if nothing happened. She told me about her coming birthday and I promised to send her a gift (I really love this girl). Somehow, I didn't send anything and the birthday passed.

Three months later, I called her and said
Hey, how you doing? I was thinking of you recently so I kept something for you. Come over and collect it" she said she will send someone but I insisted she come herself.

Next day, She was going to school so she branched my house early in the morning but I couldn't stand up to see her so I sent someone to give her the money I kept for her.

She collected the money and left.

I was expecting a "thank you" or SMS but I got nothing.

Later that day, around 8pm, I called her severally but She bounced the calls.
As a regular guy na, I stopped calling and let it slide.

Two days later, she flashed me.
I called back and I discovered that she has blocked my line.

What do you think is the reason behind her action?
(You can insult me. It's not like I can stop you anyway).

The reason behind her behavior is that she's not really into you. So you should just stop chasing after her and forget about her. There will always be other girls.

Izaya3:
How do you breakup with someone you've lost interest in, you don't love the person anymore

how do you tell them without hurting them.

There's really no possible way to break up with someone without hurting them. No matter how nice you try to be about it, they will still feel rejected.
Best way is to just tell them bluntly but respectfully (in person though not by text) that you're no longer interested because you're not in love with them any longer. Then block their number to prevent them from calling and also block them on social media.

Blessedmercy8:
I won't stop louding it until our girls turn away from their immoral ways.

Hear this elder complaining bitterly.

What you fail to correct now will come back to haunt you. Please let's speak against all this rottenness and put a stop to it any ways we can.

https://fb.watch/gPGCtzkrk4/

This is utterly repulsive.