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You must be high on some cheap weed, so for every guy you dated, you went to labor. smh

Scam alert!

If you don't have money to marry, WAIT! If she pressures you, leave her and let her go.

Never you as a man borrow to marry, even with your current earnings, you can simply pay her dowry and plan for a proper celebration later.

PS: Never you borrow to marry, you will end up regretting.

After they have messed up, they will start giving advice upandan. Carry ur cross, when you were enjoying you didn't inform us

If not for them, people that produce anti mosquitoe medicines and the likes will be out of business. So nothing is absolutely useless. ( Not even N*g*r*an galz )

Beautiful nonsense

GooodHardDick:
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Oga, focus your energy in making money. Don't waste your time trying to date a Nigeria girl. Haven't you heard you don't date Nigeria girls? You only bang their pussy, dump them and move on.

You should know by now that Nigeria girls are completely useless. All of them

Alaye

Thats not a case of rape but consensual sex between little kids

Hamachi:
If u are earning 160k as salary, pls don't marry. Let's Break it down,
1. you transport to work to and fro.
2. You eat lunch at work.
3. You are to pay house rent, Nepa bills, security and water bills.
4. Food for you and your wife.
5. Laundry and other stuff.
6. airtime , MB and DSTV subscription.
7. Fuel for generator.
8. General house maintenance, buy clothes and undies.
9. You are expected to buy body cream, good relaxer, roll on and other deodorants for your wife.
10. At least 2 dresses per month for her.
11. If she is ILL, hospital bills.
12. Church women association dues and dress.
13. You are expected to render financial obligations to her family and your family.
Yet, You want to marry with 160k? I hope you won't impregnate your wife! May God help us all.

Is the wife handicapped?

Prettygirl200:
Well I joined nairaland two months ago but have been going through threads here. Now am curious to know,what nairaland men,or should I say the redpillers have achieved since they started bashing women here?

The term redpill is really giving this gender nightmares. Las las una go dey alright

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Your sanity and happiness is non-negotiable.

If u no use ur head, dey go use am for u. QED

Marriage is not a scam, just don't be a simp in marriage and you'll be fine.

Ternistacle:
My girlfriend and I can have our time(sex) the whole day and even be naked. But a normal day when she wanna dress up, she will ask me to close my eyes or leave the room. I noticed it .. why is that so??

Don't be scared, its normal for some "shy" ladies

Nkogheri nka àkalia

siofra:
No. Not really.

Nigerian men like to think women from other countries swoon over them but that's not true. I'm in a group filled with AA women and Nigerian men were being discussed. As a patriotic citizen I tried to defend Nigerian men because the dragging was too much (they were dragging Yoruba men most) omo! They almost kicked me out of that group that day. I had to turn off my notifications.

Another incident that made me realize Nigerian men are not prized among foreign women was in an international travel group I joined. Members of the group were asked why they don't like Nigerians and almost all the answers were "Nigerian men are scammers" a few were about the general corruption in our country.

It was interesting to note that none were targeted against the "useless, wicked, gold digging Nigerian girls" instead the women in the group (both white and black and from different nationalities) accused Nigerian men of being heartbreakers, scammers and being desperate for green cards.


So dead that thought that foreign women rate Nigerian men. MANY OF THEM DON'T.


Thankio

MadeINchenzen2:
my brother e get y... Remember, it's not a question of whether u used protection or not... The only focus would be that u had sex with her and that's all that matters.

There is a price for every action and consequences for every deed.

If she says you are responsible then take it as your fate and follow through with it till the end. Its your cross, carry it.

What a SIMPlistic advice

Yes majority of them are...

Infact all of them are

Which kind rough play be this ?

Wahala

Roycemadeit:
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Our feelings are born from different scenarios and influences, some are of no known origin. But, since the world will live would try to tell us to have a particular type of feeling for one person they fail to explain why we feel crazy about another person. It simply shows that our society doesn't know enough to tell us how to run our lives. Most people would rather run by the ideals of society relating to relationships than go by what their body is telling them. Most times when we please the expectations of the society we displease ourselves and when we please ourselves, which I must say is best, society will scorn us.

Having read through, I see some saying cry to God, relocate and all sorts of things. Yet, I will like to ask you a question... Will you be happier running from these feelings or will you be happier exploring them? Now, put in mind that marriage is an illusion and it shouldn't override our ultimate desires, which is freedom, but should be viewed as something we do solely because we want to experience who we are, In relation, to our partner... Peace![/color]

May your wife continue exploring all her ultimate desires with different men which will make her very happy. After all, marriage to you is an illusion and may you later find out at the age of 60 that all your kids (4) are from different men she has explored with.

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

On a kpokpogiri level, very soon u go collect woto woto

Preciousgirl:
She serves u this meal with the condition that eat it and she marries u

She is that woman you are so crazy over and chased for a year

Eat or not?

There are many fishes in the ocean so she's very much expendable.

Altruist1414:
There's this girl my course mate that has been my friend for sometime, recently I told her my feelings for her and asked her out.


Well she told me she liked me too, but we can't date, in her words: " I like you a lot, you are not just a friend, you are more than a friend to me, but we can't date". Which kind zone be this one?


Her reason is that she doesn't feel prepared for any relationship now, there's a lot of things she has to work on herself before getting in a relationship. This is someone that broke up with her boyfriend last year, according to her she just felt so stressed from academic work that she just picked up her phone to tell the boyfriend it's over.

I want to know if I should just move on and forget about her, or I should just continue in the "more than friends" thingy?

Just dey collect woto woto. No time to check time. FWB better pass dating.

ellaV:
he do no wrong in the eyes of his family..its just a wasted effort my family has talk , he will listen and will still do what's on his mind...Maybe the next person you guys will see carrying PlaCard in search of a job atleast if it's govt job word of mouth can't take me out, cos the frustration is too much,right now there is nothing to eat because he has not sent money for me...it is well

Well, for your sanity and peace of mind, i think you should leave (Separate). Not hastily though, plan your exit careful so that you can fall back on something be it business or a job. Make God see you through.

LaPrimero:
My Brother got gainfully employed mid 2021 due to the efforts of my parents. He had been struggling with a 10k job since he finished service before he got this well paying job. Everything was going well as he started well at his working place and was even getting applauded by his boss and higher ranking staffs as he was taken as someone of great promise. He was also in good times with my parents.

Around November last year, he sighted this chubby fine girl and became restless. He even said "she is the one". He hustled for the girl's number and soon started something with her. She accepted his proposal the moment he asked. Our Dad told him it was too early for all that and he needed to focus on building his still budding career but he turned a deaf ear. He soon started lavishing funds on the girl to my parents consternation. He even started discussing intimate details about our family with the girl within a short frame of time. Around January this year, Matters came to a head and started being utterly disrespectful to our parents. He even cut off Everyone that tried to advice him on the folly of the "relationship". He basically became a stranger to the family and his friends all because of a girl. The girl was so demanding, Manipulative and infuriating. The worst is that the girl was a serial girlfriend, having dated at least 8 men before him. She was a so called Dj and her whole life was all about parties and fleshpots. My brother on the other hand came from a strict Christian family and abandoned all the values he identified with because of the girl. The only thing he got from the relationship was premium billing.


The Crux of the matter now is that he went bankrupt trying to fund her extravagant lifestyle and even went into debts. He borrowed money from 7 different loan apps and they have been on his neck. We have been able to handle 3 of the loans and some of the remaining loan companies are even threatening to post his photos on social media and Newspapers as a fraudster and also blacklist his bvn.

He has been getting troubling phone calls from the loan apps and is basically ruined both mentally and physically. He looks so lean this days and has become humble to my parents and even to me his younger brother. The family he rejected and refused to even give one Kobo in his heydays is now trying by all possible means to rescue him from the slump as we are his only backbone . The girl in question does not even know what he is going through.

How do we rescue the foolish young man as he still isn't ready to fully give up the girl. A friend told him he can't even help him get back on his feet because it will be like pouring water into a leaking bucket. While I was at school this dude hardly sent me or my younger ones anything but was sending a sizeable amount to the girl monthly because he was "in love". I really need helpful suggestions from the house on this matter. Mods help me get this to fp

When other men (Simps) do that to you and your friends, you call them real men and broke sham others who see it differently. Now it is happening to your brother, you're complaining.

Don't you know that your brother is being a real and caring man to her? Anyways lets leave matters for Matthias

Okonandmary:
To be fair and sincere, there is a difference between the mindset of men who have money and those who do not.

I noticed that men who don't have money are easily attracted to ideas which are dangerous.

For instance, as Nigerian, most men will want to be in the situation where they have enough cash to spend and also enough cash to sleep with different girls but because of their lack of money, they pretend to hate girl, the truth is that they want the lifestyle but since they can not afford the lifestyle, then end up hating the players who are enjoying the lifestyle.

No wonder, they spend all their time and energy calling someone who is spoiling his girlfriend simp. The Fact is that they wish they are the ones. That is what poverty does to your mindset, when you are poor, you hate rich people but also in secret aspire to be like them. It also similar, when you don't have it, you hate those who have it but secretly admire them.

No redpiller here will accept this but deep down in his heart, he knows he wants the hottest girl, wants to spoil her but he can't have her because he can't afford the lifestyle so he hates everything that comes with the lifestyle until he is successful.

My only question is this, if redpillers claim they are alphas, how come many of them don't have a girlfriend and can't approach women, many can't even get the hottest girl.

Now, if been an alpha means not been bothered with how another man lives his life and spend his money,why are they bothered about so called simp life and how he decides to spend his cash

Lol, pure Okoto meow
Reverse psychology. Please get to know what red pill really mean

Romanoff:
So why did you come into her own life?


Everything I've learned about these two and their private life, I've learned against my will.

It's a case of two scammers who tried to scam themselves and found out they are both hustlers.

She came in to your life for sex and money, two things she has said you don't have and can't do well.

Make una rest abeg.

Very well said.

Chosen44:
Yesterday after closing from work a co-teacher and i were just walking home together...i didn't know what came over me i then asked her what she would do with her salary...she hesistated at first before she told me she would use half to circumcise her son,i was so shocked and angry at the same time because he is 9 months old...why did it take her so long?and why didn't she speak up?i had to calm down a bit and asked her this questions she didn't say anything instead she was argueing with me and telling me her pastor's wife will help her and that they would inject the baby with painkillers...i am really feeling for the baby,and i am also scared that he might not survive it because of the pain and the mom isn't financially buoyant her salary is 10k for now...i know i also don't have enough but i would have helped her if she had told me ealier,please what do you think make people not to talk about their problem?
And is 9months safe to circumcise a male child

10k Salary for a teacher Its really quite unfortunate

From my experiences with the women folk, be careful when listening to their one sided stories [No offense intended]. Everyone is right and blameless when they are the judge in their own case.

Nonetheless, involve ur families since it has degenerated this much.

Sixfiguresmart:
I am single still. Not ready for marriage yet.

Alaye weldone oo

AntiMen:
I no fit collect....I get too much pride for my body.

Alright oo
Remember, Tomorrow is confession and private counselling with daddy G.O.
Remain blessed sister in the Lord.