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seunsiju:
Still battling with one unwanted pregnancy ,expected to be a father soon, Read https://www.nairaland.com/6980702/over-girlfriend-pregnant
Another girl is pregnant for me and his parent insist on no abortion
Why i'm so fertile like this, Wheras i already had a year old boy, second pregnancy is now like 4 months, new one is now a month pregnancy
Three expected children in a space of three years is too much for me to handle, tho i'm financially bouyant, all thanks to crypto
Advise on what to do, i don't want any more child !!i hate using condoms
Pls no insult!!!

Didn't Hushpopy involve Kyari back then ?

chatinent:
Dem still need to check this Edafe too.

I don't see any yahoo boy involving a real and serious policeman in his scam...no matter what.

Your gaslighting isn't necessary, it is an open secret that your "holy" book supports, encourages and commands such dastard acts from you folks. Enough of the hypocrisy

PHYTECH:
So, The killing Of the lady is a criminal offence and warrants Nothing but death of the perpetrators in islam, following the following evidences.

1. *It Is A Sin To Kill any soul in islam* . In Q5 vs 32; Whoever killsa soul is like he has killed the entire Human Race.

2. It is a sin to Stone A Soul To Death. No individual has The Audacity to kill a soul, not to talk of stoning to death, whoever does this knowingly, should be put to Death, according to sharee'ah.

3. *It is a sin to Kill even a cockroach with FIRE.* Narrated in the tradition of The Prophet Muhammad SAWAbdullah ibn Mas’ood may Allaah be pleased with him narrated: "The Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) stopped in an area (during a journey) and went to relieve himself. When he returned, he found that a man set an anthill on fire, either on the ground or in a tree. Hence, the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) asked: “Who did this.” A man from the people said: “I did it, o Messenger of Allah.” Thereupon, the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention )
said: "Put off the fire! Put off the fire!" [Ahmad].
This is an Ant or Cockroach, how much more A Human Being.

4. *It is a sin In Islam to Kill, not to talk of being boastful of killing*
Whoever does this would definitely be killed just like he killed, this is an Islamic Ruling.

5. It is Not accepted in Islam for anyone to execute any judgement, even if your relative is being killed, you're not to take laws into your hand, all offences are to be reported to The Agencies.

Like always, men are to blamed Kpele oo

Nikrose:
Yes, calm down and read! I know most of you guys entered this thread with violence

Apart from some ladies suffering from low self-esteem n inferiority complex. Nigerian men are one of the major cause of dark skinned ladies bleaching their skin!
It is obvious and glaring that most Nigerian men have set their beauty standard of a lady to she being fair skinned, once a lady is fair skinned she is automatically beautiful and attractive!! Most men are guilty of this!!!

Most men seems to prefer and attracted to a fair-skinned ladies than the dark skinned ladies, which will end up making them bleach their skin to be attractive and preferred.

Gone are those days, when true African/Nigerian beauty were being appreciated, we are African and we are mainly dark skinned people as a black race! In the good old days where people like Agbani darego are seen for their true African beauty unlike nowadays in the model, fashion & beauty pageant world where once you a lady is light skinned, she have higher changes of winning and succeeding!

Foreigners & Outsider Men now appreciate and cherish our true African dark skinned ladies more than most of our African/Nigerian men!!! Just like how 5yrs old Jare Ijalana was made the most beautiful girl in the world for her true African beauty few years ago!

Well to the beautiful dark skinned ladies out there, appreciate and rock your skin with pride and confidence, stop the bleaching that is not who you truly are!!! Let's appreciate our African queens.

Seun
Mynd44
Ishlove

You cannot be hitting head on the ground 5 times a day and not lose your Sanity.
#Copied

Sounds fabricated though. Idontbilivit

"Religion is the opium of the masses"

A lot of things you ppl in your religion do are also blasphemy in other peoples religion, Even calling your so called prophet in my religion is blasphemous op, for that we demand that you
op and ur entire household be stoned to death and burned.

How does that sounds? F**k u blood suckers

You are capping rubbish. The fact it happened in a tertiary institution of level beats my imagination. So much for "educated folks" Very hypocritical home sapiens. Anyone justifying that act in any guise is religious bigot that reasons below the level of an unborn child. F**k y'all.

Modified: Even you op, f**k u 2 for typing all these B.S

Saifullah01:
I am not here to discuss the incident of her death, but rather the comment that triggered it.
So if you are unable to deconstruct and analyse issues without sentiments, this is not for you.

Below is a translation of what she said verbatim. I have removedthe expletives she used:

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Like I said the essence is to analyse what she said. One wonders, was she deliberately trying to start a religious crisis thinking it wouldn't go beyond the usual social media banter against Muslims?

I ask this because for some one trying to stop religious posts in a chat group do you start by saying "Holy ghost fire"? This is self contradiction.
Secondly, after making your point on not posting religious materials in the chat, why on earth did she had to insult the prophet (peace be upon him)

It is a fact that Muslims revere the Prophets of Allah more than anything in this world, and the prophet of Islam occupies a special place in their heart.

It is also a fact that although ignorant people have over time and in different places used bad words against the prophet (PBUH), no Muslim worth the name dear mention great prophets like Moses, Ezekiel etc without saying "peace be upon them or "Alaihim Salaam" or AS, not to think of using bad speech against them

So it is important to state that I condemn the act of taking laws into one's hand, but also condemn any form of instigation and inciting speech against anyone, Muslims and non Muslims alike

As if we care

Allow her bro and face your hustle. It's not by how far, but how well.

You're 100% correct

skoskosko:
No need advising him again. He knows what’s best for him. He found out it was her ex, which means they were both co-dating her and co-sexing her while he was actively dating her, because she can’t convince that an ex just popped out of the blue after marriage. He has been in the picture all along as the third leg in the wheel. Nature has revealed all he needs to him, but he is too weak to act. He doesn’t even know for how long they have taken him for a fool, all through his dating and courtship experience down into his marriage, no respect and honor. Allow him keep her secret and move on like nothing happened, his end will justify his actions today. People that are simply going to go stealth, if they did not quit while you started dating her, nor respect her matrimony and quit after marriage, it’s because she was caught now that she will quit?

Una no dey tire?

Man divorce her cheating a*s. Once a cheat, always a cheat. This incident will forever stick in your memory, and it will be difficult to trust her again. Forgive but divorce. Remember, your peace of mind is paramount.

Also do DNA if you've got kids with her.

Op Are you really okay?

Follows your guts and instincts, they are most times right.

Give her 20k monthly and manage 13k.

SMH

Southernigbo:
Well we all know that these women unlike many other tribes don't cheat. The reason for this is mostly because of their upbringing and religious inclination. By nature they are so shy as well and hardly wanna expose their nudity except to their husband, even at that many only practice intimacy with their husband in the darkness of the night. Their shyness is really out of the world. They are also very obedient and submissive and will hardly ever disobey their parents, husband and imams

You're day dreaming

Absolute rubbish

Wen u dey enjoy the fresh puna, u no tell us oo. U don enjoy finish kasala burst u come dey tell us

Anyways, wait till Monday and do all the necessary tests. Everywhere good

Women are always the saints and men the villains. They will always say trumped up emotional stories to gather empathy to their manipulative selves. Laslas we go dey alright

People have different temperaments and limits, if you know still being there in the peak of anger can make you go physical or violent, its better you leave the house and go somewhere else to cool off. Then when the anger is down you can iron things out. So its not totally a wrong approach, different strokes for different folks.

janejjjjj5000:
No. I grew up in Winners Chapel and Papa and Mama always say they have never argued in their marriage. Even last year, Papa still said that he and mama have not had their first argument almost 40 years later. That is the kind of marriage I always wanted but now, I feel bad because I cannot boast of the same thing. Shouting at your wife is abuse. And worse is that our children see it. I have read that it can affect children psychologically. I feel that I have failed.

No offense intended, you may be an adult but you're still a confused child. Get a lawyer and file for a divorce so that you don't kill someone's son. Go and be with that small boy deceiving you now After 5 years of divorce, you will look and see how stewpid you must have been. Papa and Mama my a*s.

Marriage is indeed overated. Guys we need to wise up, this gender entities are very cold and ruthless.

oldienavie:
These are the kind of men littering the streets of Nigeria, no sense of pride, no principle allowing women to be tossing you around like a ball.
As a man, you only owe a woman 1 toasting, if she does not accept you that 1 time, move on, dont look back.

THousands of women are going to shiloh every year looking for a husband, there is no reason for a man to run after a woman in 2022.
No matter are poor you are as a man, there is going to be that one lady that will love you the way you are.

THose are the kind of women you should marry, never ever beg to marry a woman and never ever allow a woman use you as a back up plan....

It's really quite unfortunate.

You can clearly see the handwriting on the wall. So use your 6 before one gender like that will use it for you.

Nice one bro...

questionanswer:
I have a lady whom I want to settle down with. The lady is respectful and behavior well. But I'm being bordered by suitations surrendered her. I'm really rethinking the possiblity of proceeding with the marriage plan. And the reason is:

1. I'm being bordered because the lady doesn't really have a work or a skill. And she's not making an effort to empower herself. I told her to go learn work but she refused and keep giving excuses.

I don't really want to marry a liability who cannot assist the family.

2. Her family is very poor and broke. And I don't really have plans to take care of my wife and her entire family.

Please I need a mature advise on this.

Thank you.

PSA: Never you date or marry a broke girl from a broke family. On the long run you will regret it. All her family problems will be on you. Just collect 3 points and move. (RUN!!)

Issues40:
That's the problem. Romance Romance Romance! Is romance all you ever think of? I bet romance occupies 92% of your total brain capacity. Morning, afternoon and night, your mind is filled with romance. Was that how it was meant to be?? If you channel half of that youthful energy into productive ventures, you won't even have the time for nairaland.

Mr Fixer why don't you go fix all the Nigerian problems you're talking about? I believe you have all the solutions to the problems. We definitely can feel the impact of your channeled youthful productive energy globally and the world is now a better place all thanks to you

If wishes were horses

Islandlady:
Being a lady with standard and an independent lady will save you from a lot of embarrassment!

A lady who can't buy her cream or pay for the money of her hair, don't need a relationship but a job and self actualization

A lady who can't buy a birthday gift for her partner but ready to offer just sex doesn't worth keeping a man

As a lady, you should learn how to be rich yourself. Set your standards!

Don't be an entitlement
And don't think sex is enough reason he is entitled to your needs because sex is a mutual act that both partner enjoys

If you're an entitlement to your boyfriend for all your needs, and he provides them for you unlimited, think about when the relationship will ends.
You will just go back to trenches and join the sub for me and urgent 2k geng

Rich when dating and poor when single!
Think about it

Guys check my previous trend for your own advise!