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Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

Apparently ur mum and mine, are the same age and got marry the same year probably gave birth to me and U the same year. My mum has been a widow since 2005 when our dad died and have never considered getting married again despite the sexual urge and numerous toasters according to her but decided to honour our dad by keeping herself till death according to her.
This generation of women/men think everything start and end with sex or enjoyment.
Hala ur mum for me and may God give her the strength to resist all temptations.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
So no one caught on to his false tactics all these while

Or no man was brave enough to challenge him even if he "supposedly" had a gang? When you can clearly tackle him and lock the door.


And even those male colleagues in the office, no one was smart enough to catch on, or they couldn't tactically and bravely face the gang

The same thought bro, just wondering, could d robbers know my house more than I do, no brave man was able to face a single fellow man.
Chaiii weak men everywhere

So he no even reach Ronaldo
Mtchwwwww

timibare:
Arsenal na FAILURE

...and ur country is what??

fashionale:
Sex deprivation was the main reason I ran away from my ex fiancé, she always used it against me whenever we had a little issue that's even not insignificant. My wife doesn't used it against me and I'm happy with my marriage.
Dear ladies, stop using it against your husband's, it can only drive them away than bringing them to you.
My 2cents

Hmmmmmm, I'm currently what U went through. In my case, my fiancee is a virgin while I'm not.
Is a no sex relationship, we discssing earlier about sex and asked her what if she can't satisfy me sexually. D answer she gave me shocked me; that I can always go get outside. Me that has vow not to indulge in extra marital affairs oo.
Honestly, I'm reconsidering her.

Righteousness89:
I will be blunt with you!

It's Good to note, that you know you are confused!

I will never support pregnancy outside Marriage! It's a No as long as I am Concerned! Anyway, the deed has been done..

Your parents are not together, so You need to be very careful! So as not to carry over their issues to your Home..

Try to sit down with your mom and know her reasons for not accepting your baby mama..

What is your real reason for wanting the lady in question!
Did you pray about your Marriage partner?

Or you wanna marry her due to the pregnancy..


Marriage is not what you rush into anyhow!
If not you may end up coming back here to tell us another story of Wahala!

Calm down... ask God for Forgiveness for Fornication..

Seek divine Guidance on your Marriage..

If you get divine approval, then you go on and Marry Her. If you didn't, do not marry!

How can he receive divine approval on things like this??

Osagyefo98:
Gani Audu.....

Christian-muslim ticket.



Well that's balanced for a state with over 47 percent Muslims....

........ and U guys support Muslim-muslim tickets in Kaduna.
U guys have serious issues walahi

Then there is truth about the 50k slots allocated to nas.

sirciao:
Hello everyone
Have been pondering on this over the years and I think i need wider view and advice on this.
I'm from a family of 6 my father separated from my mom several years ago and remarried another woman and has several other side babes
now he paid our school fees wen we wer in uni but has neglected every other aspect of fatherhood.
we hardly see him because he stays in a different state
He did a court marriage with only my mom. so please what can we do because its becoming unbearable, i decided to concentrate on my self and hussle but its getting unbearable seeing your father with so much money squander it for another woman,side chicks,church etc and neglecting his very own family.
The last straw is he wants to stop paying rent for my mom claiming he has no money due to covid 19 but i got Intel that he just rented an apartment for another side chick. he will retire very soon and his gratuity should be nothing less than 30 m. He has no property for his children only a huz in the village and several cars he lavishes money on.
What can we do to salvage this situation
should we continue to look on as he waste his money and neglecting my mom that started life with him.
Can my mom file for divorce and will she get any benefit from it.
Can we the children out rightly sue him for neglect?
Mods please help push to front page so i can get wider contribution
please share your experience if you have a similar case like mine and how you tackled it..

Guess ur mum married him cause of the money and get dump on realising she can't contribute anything and now can't fight for u guys and U to pick a fight that isn't urs.
Guy, go hustle and forget about him, ur priority is ur mother and siblings.

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espn:
Dont give her shishi except for HBD message. She will do auto reversal of her yes...

Even the birthday message, he shouldn't sent. If he knows how to play his card very well, he ll chop her.

MrMcJay:
Burden of proof on the court? You must be a comedian.
Do you even know what burden of proof means?

Most of you are ignorant about basic laws and legal processes, that's why you always enter into problems.

Where does the burden of proof lie?

[quote author=greatstephenho post=90972101][/quote]Where is your location?

greatstephenho:
tokumbo or Nigerian used

Clean Nigeria used but any idea how much tokunbo ll cost??

FlordFlorez:
Especially no.4. Never never try to rush into marriage. There are alot of reasons for that.

What are ur reasons/experience??

MrMcJay:
On who lies the burden of proof in criminal defamation?

J
D court not police

manuelreports:
Bow your head in Shame
go to other Countries and see how your fellow Youth are living
living in bondage
ndi suffering and smilling

U don't need to reply him, their type have no hope in this life.

MrMcJay:
Who is talking about dictatorship and military rule?
He made an allegation, let him prove it.

Has ur demigod clarify himself??
We shouldn't encourage impunity in a democratic settings.

MrMcJay:
Let him simply prove the allegations he made online, instead of shopping for court orders.

Let also the accuse prove his innocent instead of using government apparatus to intimidate a citizen.

manuelreports:
All they know is to play politics and divide the citizens
Look at them some of them have no Certificate, yet they are leading you with a First Class Degree. Ethiopia is generating billions of Dollars just through tourism yet States which have high Tourism potentials than Ethiopia are running to Abuja to collect monthly Allocation.
At 40 Years you are still depending on your mother to get monthly stipend
No job
No capital
No good road
No good health care facilities
No good school
Nigeria Youths are You not tired
Suffering no dey tire You

if You are a Nigerian Youth join this movement lets Claim our Country back
Join the Trend on Twitter
#weyouthsaretired

I no dey Twitter, no any platform Ni?

cicero:
I wonder how much the writer was paid to write this trash. This is why journalism is a toothless, daft and irrelevant profession in Nigeria. How could the president’s wife be disregarded and her child slapped by some extended family member who has no business in the villa? Bihari and the cabal needs to understand that the photos of his wife Aisha and kids swayed a good measure of public opinion in his favor, that led to his victory. She deserves more respect and say in the villa.

.......in the end, U agreed with what writer wrote.

youthsinitiativ:
Aisha is getting what she deserves.

She is nothing but a narcissistic power-hungry woman who cares less about the plight of women and children in the country.

All she wants is to be allowed to take control of the government ala Turai, and she would have done worse.

You'd only hear her nonsense complaints whenever she is blocked from having her way otherwise, she is good and fine with the status quo.

The only First Lady in recent times without much of a known pet project.

A very self-centered bitch.

Good for her I say again.

No need to blame the poor woman. She realised how weak her husband is and how he is being played by the cabal.
No any sensible woman ll allow her house to be hijacked by external forces.

adubam:
Abuja

Please if you come across semilar golf 3 with good condition as urs please, Hala me on 07056361915

Judeerons32:
Very apt. Apc members refrained from criticizing Obaseki for long because he was an Apc member allowing him to just spew unsubstantiated allegations against members of his party but now the truth will be spoken without colouration.
He has not mentioned one instance where Comrade forced a decision on him.
He claims to have refused to share Edo money with godfathers one would have expected infrastructural development to b twice as much from the savings. But the reverse is the case.
In 3yrs plus not a single school or hospital built. Roads are a sorry sight.
Comrade fought godfather by showing Edo what he built without godfather interference. Obaseki should show his score card.

Were you this vocal when he was still in APC?
If yes please direct to all of your thread.

adubam:
Please don't be deceived that you can get a Golf 3 that is good for #300,000. It is not a rule. I went to Kaduna looking for Golf 3 as my first car with 300k but coundn't get a good one. I ended up buying the one of 400k and I spent close to 200K yet the car was still problematic. I ended up selling it at 450k and bought another Golf for 500k and had rest of mind till date. Belgium Golf 3 is up to #1.1m. Cars that are less problematic are no longer cheap. I am also in Abuja.

My thoughts exactly. Thanks, Appreciate.
D one U re driving, U bought it in Abuja or Kaduna my state?
My first car too.

nurey:
Stop saying what you don't know.

I recently bought a 2008 vehicle manual transmission less than 200k, yes I got there inspect it and told the owner all the wahala the car has and I can't pay upto 200k for it.

It's not a stolen car anyway, I drove it that same day to southwest Nigeria from Abuja a journey of 700km plus and it didn't break down on the road even once.

The idea is to know a little about cars and remove fixing price from asking price stand your ground, if seller no gree move on to the next one.

Note if you are looking for cheap cars please leave Toyota and Honda and afix your mind on manual transmission

Nice info, please I dey Abuja where can I get a clean golf 3 at a reasonable price

Just fear of buying a problematic car

Akintunde1964:
How much is Toyota Tacoma pickup now in the market

A friend of mine bought it sometimes February this year at a car stand here in Abuja at the cost of 2m tukonbo.

fotadmowmend:
This may sounds funny but it is true .... After getting an trusted expert to inspect the car for you,check the car's safe and boot to see if there are some old changed components in them. This will go a long way in telling you the many things about the car . My experience: I bought on golf 3 some months ago, inside the car safe are used brake pads. On getting home to further inspect and do some minor works on the car, I noticed the whole braking system has been modified (imagine facing the highway with the car) ... Recently, I got a 2005 Toyota corolla, inside the safe is fuel pump and some spoit power steering belt in the boot and ever since I have bn facing the two problems with the car

Nice tips bro. Please how much do you think a golf 3 tukonbo car or a Nigeria used ll cost? Ur assumption should be base on an average clean golf 3.

I too, dey in need of golf 3 clean and sound engine. 07056361915