Romance › Re: "80% Of Broken Homes Are Caused By Women" Yomi Casual's Wife, Grace Says by akaahs(m): 6:47pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
She might/may be right. |
Politics › Re: "Fulani Militia Committing Genocide In Southern Kaduna"- SOKAPU President by akaahs(m): 4:44pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
donbachi: Make una dey dia dey soak akpu....while fulani herdsmen dey kill ur people anyhow..SOKAPU my nyansh. If U no get anything meaningful to say, just keep quiet at least ur dad sperm that begotten U ll not be wasted. |
Family › Re: My Brother's Wife Is Very Disrespectful. by akaahs(m): 9:54pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Samuelde: So I have been staying with my married elder brother recently, I have noticed his wife doesn't wash his clothes she only washes her clothes and the kids own and manage to wash his boxers.
My brother washes his clothes by himself and she will be gisting with him.
I think it is disrespectful for a woman to watch her husband washing clothes himself and offers no helping hand. Op please stay ur lane and when U get married U can call it an act of disrespect but for now since ur elder brother isn't complaining mind urself. Personally I won't like my wife washing my clothes oo |
Family › Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by akaahs(m): 9:50pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Please op allow the man be if he has paid everything on ur sister. U re unnecessarily paining urself and ur brothers. Face ur life and allow him take care of his responsibilities if ur mum insist on seeing them then let her go talk to him in a subtle manner. |
Family › Re: How I Was Scammed By Selfpaiid On Nairaland. by akaahs(m): 7:01pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
I have promised myself, I won't do any business with a nairalander cause there are many scammers in here and d moderators aren't helping matters at all. |
Politics › Re: Naked Women Protest Against Governor El-rufai Over Rising Killings [photos] by akaahs(m): 8:33am On Jul 25, 2020 |
.....and lala didn't deem it necessary for this to grace the front page cause isn't a snake post. |
Career › Re: STAAD PRO Connect Edition & ETABS Tutorials- for Structural Engineers in Nigeria by akaahs(m): 10:26pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
I really fall in love with you work. Nice one, I ll love to be part of it, how can I key in? |
Programming › Re: Study Any Course Of Your Choices In Ukraine Read Below Very Affordable And Legit by akaahs(m): 6:22pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
No civil engineering?? |
Programming › Re: Meet Emmanuella Mayaki: Hired By A School In The UK As Coding Instructor by akaahs(m): 2:05pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
Sunofgod: NCAN......over to you! This one na Kaduna breed |
Family › Re: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by akaahs(m): 8:22am On Jul 24, 2020 |
You understand my grouse perfectly. It is actually my sister that has persistently been asking me to do this. My mom asked me once but I reminded her that I am not aware if my sister is married or not so she did not ask further.
My Action Plan
Thanks to everyone who has contributed. An overwhelming majority of people have counseled that I maintain my course as it is the right thing to do. So, I will call my sister today and tell her not to ever discuss her marriage with me. She was 23 years old when she got married, so she wasn't a kid then.
To all the people who are saying I should forgive and recognize the marriage and then help work on mending it: thank you for your perspectives, but it is not the right approach for me.
Some people have asked what will happen to me when I get married: Truth be told, I don't care. When I get to that bridge I will cross it. U have done well to restore ur leadership by taking the right decision, if they persist ask them to follow the right tradition, if they can't maintain ur distance. |
Family › Re: Behind Every Successful Man, Stands A Woman; Let's Discuss by akaahs(m): 7:45am On Jul 24, 2020 |
This is exactly what its means
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Family › Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by akaahs(m): 7:40am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Madam upgrade ur thinking to see the possibility of establishing U fashion factory in the preferred country of relocation. Make ur findings and ur feasibility studies to see how U ll key in. Ur husband wants the best for you. Do it for ur kids and they ll live to thank you. This country no get direction. |
Crime › Re: Stella Okotie, UNIBEN Staff Killed, 1 Injured As Police Chase Driver Over N100 by akaahs(m): 2:18pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Niceone1674: If you need a plumber call 08137196991 Bros U dey Abuja ni  I want follow u learn the work |
Car Talk › Re: Lexus Rx 350 2010 Or Toyota Venza 2010 by akaahs(m): 10:14am On Jul 22, 2020 |
Chai God please pick my call, I need to buy my first car. |
Romance › Re: Who Can Answer This ? by akaahs(m): 10:50pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Loving and disciplinerian husband |
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TV/Movies › Re: Showmax Pro Brings EPL Live-Streaming To Nigeria by akaahs(m): 5:47pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Another way to collect our money. |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Warns Ministers, Others Not To Disrespect The National Assembly by akaahs(m): 7:18am On Jul 17, 2020 |
ThisisBuhari: Buhari is right. Right ke  Was it not the same man that told a minister to ignore the senate and go ahead with the implementation of 774k job scam?? |
Sports › Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by akaahs(m): 9:52pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
realestniggah: Lol.. Go back to your village where there is no bet naija shop and stay there for one year, that the only solution I see for you Honestly that's what I'm about to tell d op not just bet naija shop by but where no access to internet. |
Politics › Re: Tolulope Arotile: Father Speaks As Sympathizers Visit Residence Of Female Pilot by akaahs(m): 11:57am On Jul 16, 2020 |
donstan18: I have no reason not to believe she was killed by those threatened with her achievements.
Fear NORTH! Or was asked to join a fraternity and refused hence her and sudden death. Only God knows y |
Politics › Re: Video:‘killings In Southern Kaduna Too Much To Bear’, Senator La’ah Tells Senate by akaahs(m): 11:34am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Post like this will never grace front page because is coming from minority. Tribalism and nepotism everywhere. |
Crime › Re: Mass Killings In Southern Kaduna, Scores Buried, Many Flee (Disturbing Pix) by akaahs(m): 8:41am On Jul 13, 2020 |
favour32: Cut off Southern Kaduna from Kaduna state. It is the only solution. Mumu, why not cut off the entire north from Nigeria  |
Politics › Re: Akpabio To Joy Nunieh: 'You Married 4 Husbands' by akaahs(m): 7:30am On Jul 13, 2020 |
Maxymilliano: Same here, I kept reading over and over and was wondering where in the disjointed news was the part mentioned U need to watch the video clip |
Romance › Re: The Epiphany/Myth About Marriage by akaahs(m): 2:55pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
HomerTimpson: Am not married but i think you guys should stop writting trash like this to confuse the serious minded youngmen & women out there
P.S THE BEDROCK OF EVERY SUCCESSFUL ENTITY IS FIDELITY coupled with FEAR OF GOD
And here is a question for you people writting this kind of trash: DO YOU HAVE THE FEAR OF GOD?
ANSWER: YES cos you never killed or rape someone before
AM NO SAINT EITHER...have a good day Since I joined nairalsnd in 2014, I have never composed to read unintelligent post as this. Though is ur opinion, you hold urs I hold mine. |
Celebrities › Re: Ibrahim Sulieman And Linda Ejiofor Welcome Their First Child by akaahs(m): 11:05am On Jul 10, 2020 |
DuBLINGreenb: You will hardly see Emeka Kayode marry Aisha Muhammad,
northern Nigerian Muslim women are prohibited from marrying Non Muslims esp. southerners, even if you are a southern Muslim you still can't marry from there if you doubt me go try am and live to tell the tale, you have to marry without parents permission and run for your life.
Before Islamic ummyad entered Nigeria through the desert, we all lived not exactly as one, but we didn't hate each other, inter marriage wasn't really a big deal, but after Islam entered a line was drawn.
The agenda to dip the Koran in the Atlantic became a thing. To be achieved by fire by force and as such Yorubas we're forced to convert at knife point and dagger point in the war of Ogbomosho in 1840.
To keep Islam growing worldwide bars were set against non Islam men marrying, Islamic women and Islamic men were encouraged to marry not just 4 wives but also marry non Islamic women to procreate for Islam and kill out the infidels/Kafirs.
A woman can only produce one baby every 9months, a man can impregnate a new woman every week, this is part of the reason Islam places value on men, let me add that almost all religions were invented by men and as such more value is placed on men but as a man in Islam the incentives and privileges you get are too much so you won't even dream of leaving.
Some examples are 1. your wife can not stop you from getting a new wife, it is a sin on her part if she does 2. you are allowed to beat your wife to correct her, it's in the koran and various haddiths.
you can see that the Muslim populace will grow exponentially as opposed to the non Muslim populace so that was the plan and it seems to be working look at the growth of Islam no new converts compared to other religions, it's mostly hereditary in Nigeria people are prevented from leaving Islam through Disinheritance and disownment from family, if you leave the religion you are disowned and you cannot inherit any property from any of your family members and you are made an outcast so people don't leave even when they want to.
If you don't believe me because you suspect every Nigerian has a tribal agenda fine and good look beyond Nigeria, look at Turkey, only 2 years ago was the ban on Muslim women marrying non Muslims lifted, a whole turkey.
This goes to show us that much of organised religion as we know it, is an instrument of social control and not a race to heaven. A particular group trying to control the rest that's all.q
One Nigeria
Congrats to the couple regardless I just have to quote you to salute you. |
Politics › Re: Tunde Braimoh Is Dead by akaahs(m): 7:53am On Jul 10, 2020 |
loneprof: No sir, but 90% of these top politicians dying end up being reported as Covid-19 after a few days of claiming it's an unconfirmed illness. Never have people been dying at this rate... It is not a mere coincidence
Whatever you're insinuating, it's your decision to stay safe or not. All man for himself. Na lie, at least common sense tells me this guys can't travel outside for medical treatment hence d dying like chickens. |
Politics › Re: Tunde Braimoh Is Dead by akaahs(m): 7:50am On Jul 10, 2020 |
realstars: Something Is Killing Politicians. Simple, they can't go out for medical treatment hence the dieing like chicken |
Romance › Re: Don't Go To Where You Are Not Accepted by akaahs(m): 1:15pm On Jul 09, 2020 |
vivsravine: its means the guy don vex o Ok, nice one, I don learned Yoruba. D thing dey vex ooo |
Romance › Re: Don't Go To Where You Are Not Accepted by akaahs(m): 9:14am On Jul 09, 2020 |
Dicktion: No distance time. Bobo ye ti binu  I no understand Bobo ye ti binu? |
Romance › Re: Don't Go To Where You Are Not Accepted by akaahs(m): 9:13am On Jul 09, 2020 |
Dicktion: No distance time. Bobo ye ti binu  Ahh, I no understand Bobo ye ti binu? |
Sports › Re: Suarez Scores As Barcelona Win Relegates Espanyol From La Liga by akaahs(m): 8:54am On Jul 09, 2020 |
Sysdatek: Barca has been sub par sha Madrid has sealed the league this year
Waiting for ucl Napoli on fire City to on fire Let's see how the Spanish giants perform in the ucl  When is the UCL resume sef?? |