₦airaland Forum

Ebonyeyes:
I hope this is a new movement towards real untouched images in magazines and tv. Wrinkle creams dont work, the only thing that helps is Melanin (Thank God im black), good genes, staying out of the sun, sleep and exercise.

i sure do hope so too

lmao

nice!

50 thou a year?

Are you kidding me?

Thats some messed up system!

daylight03:
Interesting,

Yes a wealthy man can find true love. If he realises that he shouldnt just be looking for someone who loves him truly, he should also love the person truly. Guys always complain about how girls only go for the money. But most guys when given a choice of a wonderful girl with a good sense of humour, intelligent, lively and truly in love with them, and a very pretty girl who likes them only for their money, will choose the pretty one so they can show off to their friends.

For girls its easy to fall in love with a rich guy, even if money isnt your initial concern. this is because its soo easy for them to make you feel special because they can afford it.

most guys especially those who are not well off, dont understand how important it is to make a girl feel loved. Most girls realise that a card from an ordinary guy who shows you true love is worth more than a car from a rich guy who can afford more. but if the poor guy doesnt even bother to give the card, then you're better off with the rich one aren't you.

PS its not only rich guys who are finding it hard to find love, there is something genetically wrong with our generation, we just dont fall in love. I've wanted to fall in love all my life, hasnt happened. hasnt happened to many people i know either, maybe we're too selfish or working too hard. but love is being very elusive these days.

i agree

It comes to a point where you have to say "F anyone else's opinion, AM DOING ME"! and i seriously think that point was a few miles away for this couple.

Their love, is proof that age gets too much attention and love gets too little.

15 years, 12 years, 34 years, who cares?

If they are in love, they are in love. Easy and done.

olulu:
have u ever had your privates fondled and done much more to, by an older cousin and/or an househelp (of the opposite sex) when u were less than 10years.
are u supposed to feel bad? and go for counselling? or is it confession?
cos i think i might have enjoyed it then, and i definitely don't feel bad about it.
or is it because am a guy?

just want your views

Alot of children who experience this, end up integrating the experience into their view/values about sexuality; hence why its not suprise, that some do, end up being sexual predators themselves.
Children do develop abilities to experience relatively sexual feelings, wayyy before they become adults so, how is a 9 year old to know that what this grown adult had just done, isnt right, when it felt so good?
But enough about the child.
And no, you are not "supposed" to feel bad/ go for counselling/ anything, unless it has affected you negatively (which I assume that it would). Where it becomes difficult though, is when you dont feel like it has affected you, or when you have managed to "get over" it, and you never did tell anyone and then that person who did it to you, has a child.

Then, what do you do?

2morrow is definitely the day after today

"You got me" - The Roots (f. Jilly from Philly)

Abojupupa:
Wonderful! From which language does the word 'aikebulan' originate?

That is a good question, Abojupupa. I really cant answer it though. I dont know, myself. However, the whites (Romans) changed our name from Alkebu-lan (sometimes referred to Aikebulan) to "Afru-Ra-Ka" (Africa) during the slavery period. I hope to eventually pick up a book and read up some more about this someday

First you say,

honey247:
pls help me out, i don:t really know what come over me

THEN you say,

honey247:
i dont really mean the other kind of love that the nairalanders are talking about but the agape type of love. the whole family are in love with themselves and i expect everyone in this house to also express and extend this kind of love to themselves.

and then you totally lost me.

hbabe:
Also why do silly guys run from babes with good cars?

Intimidated. I think some men do expect you to be enamoured with them (but by their cars), so when they see that you've got your own, all of a sudden they realize that they need more than just a car to get your attention, and well, they arent used to using their characters to get females,  , at a loss, they just decide to abort the mission.

Bye Bye miss american pie!

I did once. And had to do a bunch of stuff to get back to "life". Suffered back, leg, neck pain and the works. Could not go back to work for the next 6 months. It is the one moment of my life that has had the most impact on me.

No one died, thank God.

carnal:
i will tell u exactly what i did before i got married,i disguise myself,rented a one room apartment in lagos,borrowed a friends toyota celica 1980 ooo made sure AC de sha then i started the project and i tell u my broda afta one year i got the deal sealed,my wife got upset but she later understood my reasons.

Are you serious? You went through all that? Wow! Talk about a determined man. Most people wouldnt, you should be proud.

I feel silly for answering this question because it seems to me like by now, the world should be past this race-shnit but, yes, its okay.

And by the way, i know black females who insist on paying for their own meals/ drinks on dates, some, out of fear of being stereotyped as gold diggers/ moochers. Some, also insist on paying for the guys' expenses, you would be suprised though, that alot of men, refuse to have their expenses paid for (am guessing out of fear of losing their pride).

Leave your friend be, he has made up his mind and that is best. At least, he knows what he wants. We cant all want thesame things. There are men who LOVE black females, and those ones, will get them.

eyoniggar:
Yes she admitted she was one and even told me the name of her partner back then in school, but that she wasnt a lesbo to the core like that.

Truth is, I have straffed her thrice, but she never felt the pleasure, but pain. And babes pu.ssy is very very tight and juicy. And if she aint sexually attracted to me, she wont be involved in pre-intimacy with me which is what she likes best.
However she once told me that she needs to set her mind well on penetrative intercourse before she can start to actualize pleasure out of it. Tried my best to end the relationship, she keeps coming back, i don tire.

Haahha, oloshi how many of them??

hey! i may be wrong , who knows?

whitelexi:
I can boast of never double-dating!

Althought i have a high girlfriend turn-over rate, i always finish one contract before accepting to do another

SOML

maxtum:
PIKIN!PIKIN!PIKIN!
Its so simple, invite her come your room, then Nack her so well that she no go fit waka for like 6 hrs.

then help her home, she go hold you like lolly pop!!

na whick kain pikin you be self!!!

shameful

She may have a yeast infection. She'll need to see her doc. If she is lucky, it'll only be a yeast infection and that isnt such a big deal, its curable with a little treatment, some of which can be made with household items too, i believe.

The sad truth is that if you have a car, you're more likely to be broke . And a car is easy to get, you just need to be able to borrow money.

May be that your wheel bearings are getting damaged, if so, you cant go far with it, the car will soon stop moving, sorry

eyoniggar:
Naah babes still got the lesbian thing in her since she left all girls school in 07. I have been trying to change it, but could not. Girl only wants to get fingere.d and sucked till she come.s, aint like infiltration cos she complain of pain that she aint used to di.ck. And I dnt get head well cos seme.n comes out too freaking mush, babes aint like it, plus hand job takes her eternity to do, @ the end of the day, i got nuffin. .

Are you serious? Did she admit she is a lesbian? Or was she just experimenting? If she is a lesbian, you're both wasting your times. If she isnt, and this sex thing is important to you, I still say you're both wasting your time. She either isnt sexually attracted to you, or she hasnt found "her sexual self" which, you cant help her with, btw.

Sad, isnt it?

Kayraph:
"IM AYO BY NAME IM A 200 LEVEL STUDENT OF UNIVERSITY OF ADO EKITI IM FROM LAGOS AND A XTIAN I NEED A TRUE GUY THAT WILL LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM, ANY SERIUOSE GUY SHOULD CALL AND DONT FLASH ME 08064001314."

I guess those didnt clue you in?

Either way, what is meant to happen will happen. You were also meant to survive. Thank God.

1. Africa's original name, is "Aikebulan".
2. Akebulan, is my lastname.

omg i laughed at ths till i got hiccups


now my hiccups wont leave me alone

they need to, so i can laugh some more

lol@ "who went to hell and came back?" lol hell journalist!

"Mishaped" head?? Thats normal with newborns (its called "molding", not to be confused with the act of actually trying to mold it manually), but the babies' head will gain its natural (less oblong) shape. With newborns, the bones of their skulls arent closed like adults' are. They have spaces inbetween the bones in their skulls. This is perfect because then when the baby has to be born, the baby's head can squeeze through the womanly space, without getting crushed and damaged,  (i.e its much more flexible, as the bones can move up, against, around to get that big head through the hole). BUT when it DOES pass through, it becomes "mishape"d (lol), and that is okay because those holes in the skulls, will eventually close up. When it does, the shape scull gets reshaped accordingly, hence why you dont see adults with crazy crazy head shapes, unless of course, they are genetically predetermined to, in which case, may GOD bless them lol.

But no, PLEASE dont try to mold your baby's head, you can do alot of damages because they still have those holes, so their brain really isnt protected,  matter of fact, as "eww" as it sounds, you can actually poke a baby's brain though their scull. Manual molding, is contraindicated, though I understand that some people would say its some sort of cultural obligation,  hey, to each his/her own!

eyoniggar:
WORD!!!

I have for once in my life been faithful. But this is six months counting being in a faithful relationship. But omo girl dey dull me for sexual parol. Now I am about to cheat, cos I cnt stand the pressure of abstinence. And please dnt tell me sex aint all about relationship.

Retain your self respect, and leave her. Sex is obviously (more) important to you (than it is to her, i guess), and you cant have that with her. If you cant compromise that one thing, then leave her. Find someone who'll have what you like in her, and will match your libido,

Who is she? She is really pretty

sad. so, say 38 people DO become infected,, 38x 38,

Jesus, have mercy.