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Um,  post partum psychosis? post partum depression? crazy woman? sick in the head? lack of social support? i dont know,  all i know is, i'd take that baby

_{and give it to someone who would take care of it}

I can say I have attempted to cheat once, but I was young and stupid. I was 16. I was caught before my hot silly plan had a chance to cool itself down.

Since then, I havent dared have another try. And it isnt even because I am scared, no, Its because I have too much pride. I cant imagine giving someone the right/chance to be able to consider me a coward or a liar. I stand by my word, and do have alot of pride. When I tried to cheat at 16, and got caught, I reflected on it. I asked myself why I had bothered to try. I certainly did not love (not even liked) partner #1, I was in love with partner #2, so why did i not leave #1? It was because I was too scared to break up with him. I feared that I might hurt him. Well, eventually, not only did I hurt them both, I also tarnished my image of being the type that 1. always stands by my word and 2. is blunt to a fault.

I cannot stand being called a coward. So, I never tried it again. Since then, it doesnt matter if I think the person will commit suicide; I break it off the moment I find an unforgivable fault. (So now, instead of being the type that would cheat, I am the type that is single-prone lol)

lol this is an interesting question.

Oh and i meant to say
4. The girl you like DEFINITELY doesnt like you. (Sorry, i know it hurts)

Okay am lost
1. Did you propose to girl #1 (the one you like)?
2. I will tell you something I wish someone had told me sooner: you are MUCH safer, learning to love a person who loves you, than chasing a person who may not. I hate that I feel this way because I know its wrong, but its SAFE and sometimes, you just cant afford to be hurt.
3. The other girl obviously likes you. If I were you, I would take the time to consider the possibilities with her. She may not look as good, but you would be supsrised how little physical appearance matters when it comes to love.

Adrenaline:

Nowadays love is not blind anymore, some may even argue there's no such thing as love.

Nothing goes for nothing, no free lunch, no romance without finance some will say, hmmmm. . . .

Seems you can get almost any girl or woman if you have enough money to throw around, girls that didnt care when you had nothing suddenly come around when you'r made, displaying brand new affection and ready to do anything thinkable, just for a taste of your cheddars

IMHO, only a very few women (about 5%) out of the total population of women in the world have the moral right to call anywoman a pros.titu.te, any other woman doing that is just like a black man calling a fellow black man nig.ga. . . they all nig.gas anyway. . .
Million dollar question now is, can a wealthy man ever find true love?

This is just a general question by the way

Interesting topic. I'm really itching to read more about this but, am stuck at this one point, can you explain what you mean by that bolded part there? Thanks

Akebulan:
Macy Gray's "Smack a naughty woman"

i didnt realize the site censors words

okay, lets try this: "Smack a bit*h" ?

Aloy.Emeka:
Did you check their ages compared to the battered girl?

I did. Apparently, age means nothing to these people. Cant believe neither one of them thought better

nalijah07:
I guess, but they always looked so happy together to me, I guess looks are deceiving.

very much so.

I hate to sound irrational but I think once you cheat on a person, you've pretty much asked for it. If these females did this because the man had broken up with one of them, then I'd say this is silly but no, instead, he went ahead and betrayed their (her?) trust by cheating. He is lucky all he had was gluing. He may not be so lucky next time.

On the other hand though, people really do have too much time on their hands! FOUR women and not one of them thought to snap out of it and say "good riddance" and let the man move on with his foolishness? Sometimes we forget how lucky we are to have caught a cheat. It could have been worse, he could have passed on HIV to his wife. At least, she (presumably) got to find out before he did.

This reminds me of Jill Scott's "Whenever you're around", one of my favourite tracks of all time.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0_f8tWkz08

Yes, it is very much possible to be lonely in relationships. I think that, coupled with lack of counscience, is the #1 reason why people cheat. Sometimes when you're in relationships, you lose the connection you had with the person. You realize that you arent communicating like you used to and things arent thesame. You feel like a stranger, around your partner. You become, "lonely", because as opposed to when you're single, you do not even have the liberty to go out, meet a new person and maybe, confide in them about your problems (or even share your joys with them).

Why not leave? I honestly dont know. I hope I never feel the need to stay in such situation, it can be quite frustrating and depressing.

this is too funny. i laughed so hard. lol

Okay, yes, i've had an experience with a sex addict who unsuprisingly, was also a peeping tom. This person was quite busy, yes lol. Anyway, it ended because the whole thing gets old after a while. An addiction, consumes. And this case was no different, it literally consumed this said person's life and I just could not take it anymore.

Cockyzy:
Reading una msg b like say i dey toast my self.e too bam.mine is "Smoochie poo,you so sweet an addiction.you are my only,you need not worry as am always down for you as economy.i more than love ya"

this is too funny

Do people NOT have better things to do? Like, if one of those females did not know any better, what about the rest of them?

posakosa:
well thats what kelvin was saying---- plus she was probably missing the sex part.


BUT, I think that HE must have hurt HER pretty badly for her to be crying---- but then I imagine that she would have moved on with her life and no longer stuck on the past

This is my bet. Sometimes, people get emotional when they think about the things they've accepted from people who did not necessarilly deserve it, you know what I mean? That can bring tears to a person's eyes. It doesnt necessarilly mean she wishes she was with him, no not at all.

Macy Gray's "Smack a bitch"

giddysgold:
nice Ake, nice is that urs

Yes it is. Thanks.

Please tell me you broke it off

I agree with Ebonyeyes, go see your dermatologist. Save yourself the stress. While at the dermatologist, ask about "Isotretinoin" or "Vitamin A topical". Those are really effective and they cost far less than a fortune.

A person who is able to live without you, DOES NOT deserve you. Move on, with every ounce of strength you've got, remind yourself that the situation could be different, you COULD be with someone who loves you enough not to put you through this. Move on.

I thank my lucky stars that not all SAns feel thesame way as this cheif and not all Nigerians are silly enough to believe that all SAns would agree with his point of view.

i think what you meant was "keloids". Those are difficult to deal with, much more so when they are on more visible body parts. No, you CAN get them surgically removed however, you would need treatments (injections) for months after the removal so that they would not return. The keloids, are scar tissues, forming from your body's attempt to protect you. When you get an injury in your skin, your body tries to make new skin at thesame spot, only difference is this time,t he skin is much harder, and tougher that way, it'll be harder to get another injury at that spot. Everyone gets this but in your case, your body disposes exsess skin tissue to the spot.
It really is a blessing, but too much of it lol.
In a nutshell, yes you can get it surgically removed however, you would need to have treatments so that they would not come back. If you do decide to get them surgically removed without any of those treatments, they will grow back and in larger bigger sizes.
Sorry. Hope that helps
P.S
You cant lose beauty, till you lose your morals.

i dont understand this but it seems to me like they are on her case unnecessarilly.She answered the questions well i think and she isnt so bad looking, she really does NOT look bad, she just has to pick better wigs thats all. She is actually prettier with less makeup

i agree with giddy'sgold.
Circumcision is a tradition that was initiated by men. With the knowledge we have in this new age, its about time that we start to make changes. You dont see men getting their joysticks resected at young ages to deter them from being promiscuous. So why cut off a females's sexual part?

It isnt fair. Its cruelty at its worst.

Brenda Fassie's "Mpoundulu"

okay, so you're about to do laundry, you throw your laundry in, you see your woman's laundry and throw it in too but wait a minute, you see shes got an underwear in her pile of laundry, you take it out and wash the rest? comeon people! who cares if its an underwear, its a piece of clothing, throw it in the wash and get on with your life.

Sugar, I am so human
That sometimes, i fail to realize
That there is a blessing in each encounter with you.

At all times. Even now.
Since the first time. And tomorrow.
And even if I should ever leave.
Or this is to cease.
Know that that will never undo.
What i feel at this moment.
You rock my world,

N.A.