IQ = Book-smart
EQ = People-smart
SQ = Street-smart
AQ = Life-smart

Well said OP, these types of intelligences are required for overall success in life. Sadly, IQ is glorified over others.

I saw video of the scene on Instagram showing droplets of blood, my body shook to the bones. This man has caused the girl an everlasting pain. I really hope she gets the physical and mental assistance needed for her to heal on time.

1. Your skills might be relevant to your company today but become irrelevant tomorrow. The world keeps evolving, and demands keep changing.

What should you do?
Learn new skills every year, whether your company requires it or not.
Understand market trends to make it easier to secure your job or find a new one.
Be open to learning and prepare for unexpected changes.

2. Employers are not obligated to be loyal to you.

Why?
They pay for the services you provide.
Companies prioritize their interests and profits.
Businesses are not charities, and your employers are not your family members.
Markets keep changing.

What should you do?
Give your best at work; you will be more valuable and less dispensable.
Let work be work; go back home to the people who will miss you the most when you are gone.
Always prioritize your health; if you drop dead today, your company will replace you within a few days.
Have multiple streams of income; prepare for rainy days.
Continue to[b] network[/b] regardless of how comfortable you are at your current workplace.

booblacain:
Despite all the atrocities Jim Jones was committing, his worshippers were still loyal to him to their death.

Despite all what Reverend King did, they are still worshippers that are still loyal to him till today

So, I am not surprised. The mind is a very powerful but yet very feeble thing.

Exactly my thoughts. It is just some human psychology. A lot of similar religious cults are still thriving all around the world despite their leader's atrocities.

Yashita:
African/Nigerian women love hair attachments and wigs. I just don’t like putting on my head anything that is not growing naturally from my head.

These Asian women that we see their hair as the world’s standard of beauty carry their natural hair year in year out all through the seasons (winter/summer/spring/fall) taking care of their hairs with their locally made products and never feeling the need to wear wigs to “protect” their hairs during harsh seasons.

In fact, when I get rich, I’d like to start a movement/NGO to help African women emancipate themselves from mental slavery. Our natural Afro hair should be our standard of beauty.

We can research and locally produce hair care products and accessories. Grants would be given to researchers/manufacturers of Afro hair products.

Natural Afro hair stylists will be rewarded from time to time.

Schools and higher institutions will be visited often time to sensitise people/girls/women to embrace their Afro hair and be stylish with it.

There’d be a TV show/program where natural hair carriers would creatively style their hairs and earn like BBN, etc.

When would this start?

You have refused to address the root cause of ladies not wearing their natural hair instead you only focused on branches.

Take your time to carry out a survey on why women prefer wearing wigs, instead of assuming it is a race's beauty standards or self esteem issue. Else, you will be fighting a lost battle.

Mind you, most of the comments here are from males.

adventurous

aufad68:
This is not the first time, and in Ooni's palace.
Daddy is a man of God

A lot of people don't understand spiritual hierarchy, and know that lesser spirits are subject to higher spirits.

When a 9 year old boy becomes a king both old and young bow to him. They are not bowing to just a mere 9 year old boy, they are bowing to the ancient spirits that backs the throne he seats upon. The generational spirits that abide with him and posses him.

When these spirit recognize someone that carries a superior spirit, they must pay homage.

The Kings only recognize that baba carries a superior spirit that is greater than the gods of the land. Even the gods can do nothing about it.

If an ordinary person or someone with a lesser spirit try this, he or she will be dealt with by the gods of the land.

I love cooking but i still want a man that know how to cook very well.

pipnator00:
It's crazy out there.
Byju, an India eLearning that was once offered about $750million to sell now wants to sell for less than $20million.
Meanwhile the company was once valued in billions with the owner worth over $3billion.
Now the owner just put 2 of his houses on sale to raise about $12million to pay salaries!

Yes, I read their story when the financial crisis started. They did a lot of things wrong.

17 years

On Dec 01
Hi

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Thanks for your response.

Hi

I trust you are doing well. I am part of a team working on the design of a telemedicine app. Your insights would be invaluable in shaping its future.

We've prepared a brief survey that will take just a few minutes of your time but could make a world of difference. I understand that your time is precious, however, your responses will directly influence the app's features and functionalities.

Could you spare a few moments to fill out our survey?

Here is the survey link

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScTjHd9dqjb2KhcczZJAf8vAqMWtB8sjnoConRpUDuBruxakA/viewform

I kindly ask not only for your input but also for your support in sharing this with your esteemed colleagues. The more diverse perspectives we gather, the better we can tailor the app to meet the varied needs of healthcare professionals.

Thanks for your response.

nanauju:


Was tilting towards your angle of analysis until I read the last paragraph of the article. Maybe you should read it again

No mark according to the police in the suggested case of suicide was found around the neck

Great job! When I saw the comments here, I thought I was the only one that saw that part. Truly, a lot of Nigerian can't comprehend simple logic or judge situations based on their emotions alone.

This is completely wrong. I hope she will be punished and used as a scapegoat. Else, this kind of rubbish might continue

Zetra7:
There will be consequences for Yourbas. Nigeria is watching...

As a yoruba person, I am seriously scared. Innocent people might suffer the misdeed of our tribe's men. Even those of us that didn't vote for him.

BItt:

I will try my best to explain my afore-expression. Just like you know, life has been difficult. This opened my mind to think deep about life. Look at the hunger, poverty, and the struggle we go through to find happiness.

I look around me, there is no real happiness when I think about it. So I won't mind if it's not too late to exit life and come back. Hopefully in a place where I will be able to invent something reasonable.
I love seeing light and I have always wondered what I could do to make electricity more beautiful. But I made alot of wrong decisions and ended up in ARTS instead of Sciences classes, although my maths was poor.

You said I should Choose to be happy and content," what do I want to be content with?
The pain, hunger or the suffering and short-lived happiness?
Whoever created the Life/program is very intelligent but I don't know why I have to go through so much hardship

Yes, I completely with you, that the world is a sad place filled with hunger, death and struggles. But, if you leave, there is no certainty that you will come back.

What if there is only one chance to life and this is your one and only chance?

Amidst the hunger and the pain of life, there are people who are deliberate about their existence, desperate and deliberate to change their story.

Yes, you have made mistakes but you can correct the mistakes, it is not too late. You can choose to change your career path. Today, I saw the story of a man who went back to school in his 40s to become a doctor at 51.

Currently, I'm also undergoing a career change into the tech world because I feel my current career is putting me in a box. So, I started by watching videos and reading books on computer science for kids, computer science for dummies, I graduated to computer science for high school students until I was able to comprehend more complex topics. Now, I amamazed at the things I can do and the things I know. Although, I'm still in the the transition process and still learning.

So, don't just accept what life throws at you, determine to fight back. You can also start your math journey by watching YouTube videos on maths for kids. The internet is fill with different valuable resources.

It is not going to be easy, I know. But it will be worth it I promise. Even if you completely failed, you will find fulfilment in knowing you gave it your best shot.

Know that there are people who are more disadvantaged who are still happy about life. People living with disabilities still hopeful for tomorrow.

There are people with terminal illness, old people that are praying and hoping that life gives them another chance.

You can still do great things with this single chance at life. I am rooting for you.

BItt:


I have always wanted to ask this question, at what age is the best to commit suicide?
I figure out, if one wants to escape this present reality and not reincarnate into this present state or life, is there a best age to commit suicide?

I feel if one commit suicide at the wrong age, one may be sent back to Nigeria or a much tougher life

I have always wanted to create a thread about it but I don't want to be criticized

Why do you want escape this present state or life. Yes, life can be tough and you don't always get what you deserve or want.

What if you have only one chance to life and there is no chance for reincarnation? What if the reincarnation is worse, will you quit again?

Consider removing suicidal thoughts completely from your mind. Strive to give this present life your best, do all it takes to make it count. Choose to be happy and content. This will put you at peace.

This is better than hoping for a reincarnation that might be worse and or may never come.

Op, your lamentions is similar to that of king Solomon in the book called Ecclesiastes. Solomon was one of the richest and wisest people that ever lived. Yet, at the end of his life, he found everything to be meaningless

Solomon in the second chapter of the book talked about how he got the best of everything available at his time. That guy had 1000 women from different races, tribes and color.

In the last chapter of his book, he said "Honor your creator while you are young, before you grow old and no longer enjoy living".

He concluded his book by saying "fear God, and obey his commands, for this is the whole duty of man.

A man journeying the earth without his creator will end up chasing shadows.

Yes, I have. My father has told me the story countless times

ChangedMan1999:
I am 24 and stil a virgin.
Please am I normal

You are normal jor. I know two men who are still virgins at 35years and some who got married as virgins in their 30s.

There is nothing embarrassing about being a virgin at any age or for any gender. It only implies that you have made a choice not to give your body to anyone that isn't your spouse. Sex is cheap, only strong people can make that decision.

dalaman:


American start up are also the same. Only 1 in 4 start ups succeed. Start ups are 80% scams. Even the venture capitalists that invest know its mostly a scam,but tthey go ahead to invest to promote the scam

Some venture capitalist see Investment as betting. Losing is part of the game. When they are lucky, they win big and cash out big time. This covers up for their past losses.

I will choose to stay back in heaven.

Heavy make up. Nowadays, people with heavy make up look like clowns to me

Option a is the answer, however you didn't include the ending backlash.

I have motion sickness when I embark on long journeys. To avoid that, I eat nothing and get soft drinks to sip throughout the journey.

AntiTerrorist:
You can't never see Nigerian females (most especially the "beautiful" ones) on an intelligent thread like this. They have allergy for intelligence. Beauty without brain.

You guys need to stop this ridiculous generalization and female bashing. It is so unnecessary.
I know ladies who are nairalanders who will never post because of constant ridicule thrown at females.
Some of you guys talk down on females all day, yet you expect them to engage with posts.

I will accept A , if small church wedding is included, with the maximum of 20 guests.
Instead of the big honeymoon, give me the money for business.

Simply cover the pot.

bamideleoyin:

Thanks so much for this
I guess am feeling better now

Great! 👍.
Just take care of yourself.
Stay strong.
I'm rooting for you.

bamideleoyin:
Sometimes I feel like ending it all
Am 26 years old and I feel like I don't worth living
I seriously need help
Just some words of encouragement will go a long way.

Hey, girl. What is wrong? Incase you don't mind sharing.

I know the world might seems so dark and it will make you question your existence. You keep asking why am I still here?

You keep wondering if the world and people in it really worth it. Worth the struggle, the pain, the energy, the effort? Trust me, I have been there.

Even though the world might be a dark place and some humans are terrible. However, I have decided to shine my light as long as I have breath. I will do my part to make the world a better place. I choose to see the bright side.

This sense of purpose gives me the energy to wake up every morning. It makes me keep trying until I win. I am not giving up, neither am I giving in. I will keep fighting untill my creator says my time is up.

I might not know what is going on with you but I want you to give yourself a reason to live. Give your life a purpose. Think about the little or big impact you can make in this world while you live in it.

When you give your life a purpose, then the darkness of this world will be worth it, because you shined your light.

Your life is a blank sheet, and you can still choose what will be written about you while you are here. You can choose to write your name in Gold. You can impact life so much that your name will be remember even in thousands of years to come.

Hey, girl. What kind of story do you want people to tell about you?
Should they talk about how you fought hard and won? Or how you gave up at the face of victory?
Always remember a living dog is better than a dead lion.
Will you be a hero or a villain in your own story?

I Remember all the choreography I did with this man's songs in late 1990s and early 2000s. Anyways, my favorite songs is come let's praise the Lord.