BATified2023:
if peter obi won d pdp presidential election will u say he dinstinguish himself?

Y didn’t he distinguish himself by turning down atiku offer to b his vp in 2015?

So the moment he saw he won’t win the ticket n moved to Labour Party was what made him distinguished himself?

Do u realize some 5 months ago peter obi was with this same people u now label evil n they were rocking together?

Your analysis is very correct. The bitter truth is that Obi is not a saint. He is a flawed man like everyone of us who has made wrong choices and will still make more wrong choices. However, we can not afford to continue with Nigeria's current situation. Our future as young people is seriously at stake. All our politicians are have greed and their own selfish interest but if we must tell ourselves the bitter truth concerning 2023 presidential election, Obi is the better devil.

ontarioache:
Hello all,

A mutual friend has drawn my attention to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7357845/complex-marital-issue-thoughts-please/15#117128240

MY RESPONSE.
First let me thank our mutual friend Imelda for drawing my attention to this.

Well, I am here to set the record straight.
I did not see any need to respond, but some commentators really got me laughing hard so let me indulge you all.

To kick start, I am in touch with my 2 kids on almost a daily basis, and the event she described is not the first time. Hanging up on me is a routine since we married, it has happened un-countable times. Also the guys that said I am childish are right, when they finish reading they will truly know that, no man will behave the way I have, except a child. Lastly, I am fully responsible for the upkeep of my family, every penny and not much age difference between us. I have never hung up on her for one day. She has even blocked me on phone over some arguments while we live in same house. (LOL)

For the readers, what happened is this :

You called me that you were going to made some budget and you will be spending … amount of money on that plans- you know the plan. I told you it was okay and we kept on talking about It. ( I did not raise any issue immediately to avoid conflict) so after some days, I told you that next time, it will be appropriate that we ought to discuss such plans together and that it was not the best for you to decide all by yourself and only informed me of what you have chosen to do for a decision that affects the both of us. You flared up immediately that I do not have the right to tell you that, and THAT YOU ARE ALONE WITH THE CHILDREN (like you always say) and furthermore, you said you have many things that you are doing at the same time. I then replied you that I also have many things going through my mind. ( I replied you this way because you always say this, anytime I want to have a discussion with you. You even say this even while we were together, and I will just be amazed). You flared up and insulted me then hung up.

I called you immediately many times. I called you again at night, I sent you several messages, although I did not apologize directly but the messages I sent reflected that I was sorry. In one of the messages, I explained that I was critical of the amount you intend to spend , because you do know we have other more pressing plans that we needed funds for, and that what your budgeted was a bit too high. But you refused to let go like you have always done for these 8 years. Every week for 6 weeks I sent you messages that you never replied to.

In this period, you also changed apartment without even deeming it fit to tell me. (Yes I know before this misunderstanding, it was already the plan that you will be changing apartment. But the anger still did not allow you tell me as at when you finally moved to the new apartment, till now, it has been more than 3 months that you moved, you still did not inform me although the children told me about it, you know they did, but I expected that at least you should tell me about it by yourself.)

I did not just stop picking your calls because I wanted to stop, I did it for my self respect and sanity. It is the first time I am refusing to pick your call, or even not to talk to you after 8 years of marriage.

Have I ever held any grudge against you for more than 24hrs ?, have you ever had to apologise more than once on anything without me accepting your apology immediately, that is even if you choose to apologise at all. ? !. Rather you are the one that reminds me at every giving opportunity that I know you can decide not to talk to me again and stay on you own, and that I am the one that will suffer. In precise terms, you always do this, while I was at home. You can stay on for weeks and months without talking to me for the slightest misunderstanding, I am always the one that will try and make peace, and each time you either humiliate me by refusing to make peace till whenever you are satisfied. It has been like this for these 8 years. Even if I want to hold a discussion with you at home, it is either you are busy on the phone, and If I try to ask you to focus you just tell me I should summarize and that you listen with your ears, and not your phone or your hands. However, sometimes ( like 20 per cent of cases) you do listen to me.

Even when the children are being difficult, you threaten them by telling them to go ask their father the kind of person you are, and that you do not tolerate nonsense from anyone.(lol, when I was young, our mothers threathen us with our father) Yes, you are right, I wonder why you are so proud of these difficult attributes of yours.

Recall that before that very day that you hung up on me,( in fact also since the beginning of the union), you have been insulting me on each time I call, If we are discussing and I ask you a question about what you have said, you always say that I don’t pay attention. You accuse me of not caring about how you managed the children alone by yourself. I understand it is hard to raise 2 kids under the age of 6 all by yourself, however like I have always told you, lets thank God, it could have been worse- not having children is hard, having children is also hard.Remember at home, your mother and your sister once said that, I show too much care for the kids and that is the weakness that you are using against me. This is from your own family. Imelda was also there !

I can barely talk to you on phone, each time I call you, you tell me you are busy with the kids, and most times you just ask me to summarise and then you hang up even while we were at home together, you say the same thing.

Recently before this sad event you even said if I do not call before 9.45pm, I can no longer reach you, few times when I have to call like few minutes to your deadline, no matter how important our discussion is, once it s 9.45 pm, the phone disconnects and that will be it.You can not even bend that rule for me. You barely return my calls, if you see my missed calls, sometimes it may take you days and most times you do not return them at all, if I ask, you are quick to say, you are alone managing the children and that your are already too stressed up to be bothered about missed calls.

Much earlier than this incident that you hung up on me, you asked me never to wish you any kind of good wishes like happy birthdays, Christmas, mother’s day and all those. Because you said I do not care that it is all lip service. I thought it was just frustration, but for the last 1 year, you have consistently refused to respond to my Christmas, New Year and even your birthday wishes.You ignored all my wishes!
5 months before that faithful day that you escalated your disdain for me to a whole new level, you talked to me on the phone with reckless abandon, even on my birthday, you managed to call me around 11 pm and your birthday wish to me was this “ I WISH YOU WHAT YOU WISH YOURSELF”, I told you it was not a fair wish, and the next thing, it led to outburst again and that was that, and you hung up.

Remember, you forgot my birthday for the past 3 consecutive years.

Obviously, in the preceding 5 months, you have been looking for what I will do so that you can cut me off, the opportunity came and you took it like a Viking.

How often can a married woman stay without getting in contact with her husband for this long over a matter as simple as that, and she is not bothered at all.

I needed to let go for once. I am tired of fighting for the advancement of this union. It has been 8 years of this gruesome treatment. You think everyone is wrong apart from you.

Please if there is any FALSEHOOD in what I have written, I will be glad that you tell your audience. IMELDA YOUR SISTER IS READING THIS AND SHE CAN TESTIFY TO ALL THESE. Moreover, this is just one small aspect of all that has happened these past 8 years. I just decided to skip a thousand others.I only choose to focus on this alone. You know there are a thousand things that are worse than this that you have done.

I am glad that the vast majority of your audience could not be manipulated by your story.

Maybe I would have just stayed back home in Nairobi 7 years ago, may it could not have been this bad. This is my Canada reality!

I would be a liar if I say it has not been daunting and I do not miss you. However, I have since come to the realization that no matter what , no man should dine in the table where love, respect and dignity are not served ! This is my new reality!

Dear Wife, Enjoy your own reality that you created for yourself and stay blessed...!

Oga you don try, I salute your efforts in the past to always restore peace in your marriage and your perseverance so far. I'm glad you payed her in her own coin. A lot of people dish out what they can't take, taking the other person for a fool.
However, if she is willing to change and make the necessary adjustment, please do forgive her. Let peace reign in your family.
Once again, I salute your perseverance

Gabless:
I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.

I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.

We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.

He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.

The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.

So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.

So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.

Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.

Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.

Is your fiance from your tribe? It might be cultural difference. I have noticed what we considered to be disrespectful in yorubaland might not be so in other cultures.
Anyway, I don't see anything wrong in what you have done. There is nothing wrong in desiring a marriage where your spouse will adopt your family as his own and you will do vice versa. There are a lot of families like that where you will think in-law is a biological child of the family.
I guess your fiance doesn't want such relationship. I have seen this trait in some men where the man believes he is only marrying you and not your family members, hence, he completely alienate you from your family member once you are married.
I remember a memorable incident that happened on new year's eve when I was younger, our neigbour ( a medical doctor) carried cutlass and chased his wife ( a nurse) into our flat because she went to see her sick parents in their village (after 10 years) and came back a day later than she had promised to be back. This was because she couldn't get a vehicle to bring her back to town on time. This man beat her.
She and her older children cried that night, she was saying " Mo ti shi oko yan" meaning I have married wrongly.

Konjiboii:
When it comes to being a redpiller and an absolute alpha male I will tell you now that there is nothing wrong with what happened, as a married man or even dating there is nothing wrong assisting a woman, your brother is a real man without such petty pride. There are certain things as a man you shouldn't do and this is not one of it.you look at it as running errands but you don't understand why he is doing it, just mind your business and let them live their lives, when you marry send your wife errands and let her wipe your yansh because she's a woman. Women are meant to be partners and not slaves.
Let me give instances so y'all will understand since una dey reason like cavemen.
Imagine she's cooking and there's no seasoning.
Imagine they ran out of gas.
I wish a nigga on nairaland would point at me and call me a simp.

These are exactly my thoughts, or she might be busy with a baby or other toddlers who wants to "poop" or "wee-wee".
Or she has something on fire, which she can leave for the urgent errand.
But trust some Nigerian men, they will turn everything to disrespect regardless of the woman's angle.
A typical Nigerian woman is expected to work herself to death, just because she is a woman.

floret23:
Osun State particularly Ile-Ife is fully Obedient.

Yes, we are obobidient. I currently stay in Ife, where do obidients meet in the town? I wish to join.

Truthisunique2:
obidents gra gra won't let them see road

500k fans of obi go panick register multiple times to get structure now every thing including the double votes don cast

Didn't you see between June 2021 and January 2022? presidential primary were not held at this time not to talk of Obi becoming a party flag bearer.

Yea, I have made some bad mistakes in life, but i have little or no regret about them. I hate regrets with so much passion, so i try as much as possible to avoid them using the following:

1) I make decisions slowly and thoughtfully, overthinking dey worry me sef.
2) I consult and hold myself accountable to other people (mostly my friends), so that they can knock some senses into my head.
3) I try as much as possible to give my very best to every opportunity i have. When things fail, deep down i know i tried my best.
4) I study other people's lives and learn from their mistakes. I believe it is only fools that repeat other people's mistakes or wait to learn from their own mistakes. Experience is not always the best teacher.
5) I see disappointments and failure as lessons, not regrets.

Kasssandra:
Yes, and without subsidy

1.There won't be massive smuggling of fuel across the borders

2.There won't be looting in the name of 'subsidy claims' and 'inflated figures for fuel'

3.There would be savings of at least 6 trillion naira per annum...immediately

4.There would be more investment in domestic refining...so that Dangote won't hog all the glory and money, and have competiton...apart from his pal BUA.

5.There would be free flow of high quality fuel.

6.Our forex inflows will rise, and the naira would get stronger...since we are no longer wasting money on subsidy

7.NNPC would be a proper private company, not a government dumpyard for 'federal character' candidates.

8. Our economy won't get better...but it would not be awful as it is.

Subsidy has to go. No buts. No ifs..it has to go.

Yes, we will pay nearly N500 for fuel, but we would not be wasting money anymore.

If you like, quote me to abuse me, to yell at me, to shout at me....truth is truth. If you like scream about how Nigerians will suffer...as if we are not suffering from losing trillions of naira to subsidy cabal, and from budget deficit that affects the poor more.


See why subsidy should go?

Yes, you are right but buying fuel at 500 hundred naira will impact the cost of transportation, which will inturn impact the cost of basic goods and services. Do the government have any plans to cushion this effect?

Moh247:




Obasanjo statement is clear.... Omo Eni Oni Se Idi bebere ka Fi ileke si Idi Omo elomi

After that order from ebora Owu no Politician would want to become another Akintola

Makinde that is negotiating with Wike, Ikpeazu on what to demand from APC

Adebayo salami of splash fm also re echoed it this morning same as all panelists

Anyways Jagaban done talk say make we farabale



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As if poverty and insecurities will distinguish a Yoruba household from a non-yoruba. You APC people have scammed a lot of Yorubas with the bolded statement. Shebi when the repercussions come, we will all suffer it together regardless of the tribe.
To follow the bolded statement, then all Yorubas votes should be shared equally among all the yoruba presidential candidates. We at least 3 Yoruba presidential candidates.
But I know this statement is coming from the point of greed. You expect all Yorubas to vote Jagban because his our son but to neglect other Yoruba presidential candidates like Sowore and Adebayo.

And this is not the only pastor or individuals organizing grassroot mobilization for Peter Obi. Other pastors or individuals are not just loud about it.
PDP/APC thinks LP has only social media noise. Before 2023, big structure will be standing for Peter Obi

Ajibade123:

what if he doesn't attracts you after marriage what will you do??
do you know a lot of good looking fit men becomes obese after marriage
what will you do in that case
divorce him or stop having sex with him?

Yes, I totally agree with some of your point. Even those that are attracted to each other before marriage might struggle with attraction after marriage. At that point, there's no option left than to stick with the marriage. You have to endure and make it work out by fire by force. But this case is different, this lady still has an option to either stay or opt out, if she knows she can't cope with the outcome of her decision.
As for me, I'm true to myself. I want to be sure I'm signing a once in a lifetime deal with someone I'm excited to be with and attracted to, and vice versa. Whatever comes after marriage, we find a way to work things out

Seunforward:

Well, I don't know the part of my response that interests you. To be candid, there's no advice I have for the man because he doesn't have any issues with the lady's physical appearance, it is the lady that needs every advice that will guide her to choose rightly.

Yes, the man doesn't have any issue with the lady's physical. But, the good girl he wants to marry has issues with his own physical appearance. So what advice wil you give the man, if he had sought your advice concerning this issue?

Seunforward:

Like you said, what have you gained from your past relationships where you had feelings for your partners? Feelings are temporal and subject to change based on events and circumstances. Going from your past experience, what should matter to you know is how you will have a happy home and attractions and feelings and attraction won't make you a happy home. If you had said you don't love the guy, I would have joined the bandwagon of those saying you should not marry him. Even at that, there are marriages that did not start on love. Both parties just agreed to give it a shot and with communication, commitment, and patience, they started having feelings for each other and the feelings eventually translated into love which is the bedrock of every happy home.

Many single who are asking you not to marry him because of what you said don't know a jack about marriage. They think marriage is all about sex which is more than that. Funny enough, some of them will jump at the man if they have access to him and divert his attention from you forever. In this era that many single ladies are looking for a man that his head is correct, you found one and you are saying he is dark and short? Is he impotent? Is he a dwarf? Is he not responsible? Please, give me his contact I have girls looking for such a man.

I find your response interesting, however, I have a question for you. Let's assume the reverse was the case, and the man in question was someone you know personally. He came to seek your advice concerning the lady he wishes to marry. He has found a good girl to marry but he doesn't think the lady is attracted to him, and she has issues with his physical appearance. Will you give him this same advice?

Juliusdaughter:
I met a man through my long term friend and he has made his intentions about marriage known from the start. He loves me, is attracted to me and loves to do PDA when we are out together.

He has everything a woman would want in her husband, but I am not attracted to him neither do I have feelings for him. I love him as a friend tho because his physical attributes will not matter in that instance. I am slightly taller than him, even tho I'm not a tall person, I am dark skinned and he is darker than me. He has a really small stature and you wouldn't know he has money or works in good company.

He has told me his plans for us and it's a really good one, he works in top management role and he earns over 20 million naira per annum.

I have told him what I feel and he is really persistent, he says I should try and reciprocate his feelings and love towards me and the feelings will grow, that I shouldn't worry about the height of our kids
I can't lie, I don't feel proud this few times he's done PDA with me, I see the way that makes him happy, making me feel like a trophy wife.

There was this other guy I had feelings and attraction for, and it disappeared the first time I saw him and realized he isn't who he said he is. This confirms to me that feelings is flimsy and depends on circumstances.

To married people here, both long or short years in marriage; is attraction and feelings one of the major things holding down your marriage? Did you marry who you weren't really attracted to but you're happy now in the marriage? How will I deal with public perception of us especially when it's comes to flaunting him as my husband?
I have entered my late 20s and I don't wanna waste time, I don't wanna waste my time in vain waiting for the guy I'll feel all these for, what if he isn't worth it?

Disclaimer: I'm not married and I'm approaching my 30s. But I have had to let go of guys because of the reasons you mentioned. I cannot imagine myself getting married to a guy I'm not attracted to or vice versa. Why should I suffer someone's son because of my selfish reasons.
Sis, don't just consider what the man has to offer you (husband material and money). Also, consider what you want to offer the man. Marriage should be based on selflessness, not selfishness.
Attraction is also important in marriage. Don't marry someone you are not attracted to or admire. Attraction is important for good sex
life. You will suffer yourself and the man.
I'm tired of seeing threads of men complaining about their wives denying them sex, cheating or disrespecting them.

Aidejay:
Nairalanders Scrolling Past The Thread Cause They Don't Know Who MrWhoseTheBoss Is Or Fisayo. What They Go To Watch On YouTube Is The Usual Trash.

Most people are not interested in their niche. Both are into tech and gadgets. Fisayo also focuses on economy, investing and businesses.
I have noticed most Nigerians watching YouTube are interested in comedy, hot gists and gossips, nollywood movies or religious activities.

Yeah, I saw the video. I love the collaboration. I'm waiting for his interview with Mr beast

Princebizzie:
I must tell you that this is a big lie, let me tell Yoruba will massively support and vote Tinubu, when Igbo people come to their sense, we may work together later in the future. It is not going to be easy for Yoruba to support and vote Peter Obi, we supported and voted Goodluck in 2011 only for Igbo people to start manipulating in against Yoruba. In the entire South, Yoruba will still be somehow comfortable with south southern thant the Southeastern people because of their utterances. Igbo will have to learn how to play politics otherwise no one will support them to become President in Nigeria. One does not need to think he is wiser than every other person in life. I will stop here for now but again the OP lied up there because we love and we will vote Tinubu next year to become President. Cheers

Brother speak for yourself, I'm also Yoruba. I know a lot Yorubas that will never vote for him. 2023 is almost here for the truth to become glaring

ecolime:

Do you know how many hungry people create thread begging for alms on a daily basis?

You expect the mods to move each topic to the front-page?

I would advise you guys form an association. Then start a go-fund so we can donate to all of you once and forever.

This is hilarious

I am from Osun state and I presently live within the State, I can testify that peter obi has a lot of silent supporters within the state especially in my town.
I had a meeting with three other friends last week. While we were discussing, I discovered everyone has successfully convinced their family members to vote for Peter Obi.

Frigga13:
IPOB bingos and Obi cretians can only insult abuse and curse

Give it to them ..

They will disappear from your mention

They have nothing in their brain and can sustain a simple discussion without insult

Mynd.. we don’t even understand how mods go allow all this insult and curses

Power to the people
North 2023

Hahaha , I know more Yorubas supporting peter obi than those supporting Tinubu. We are tired of APC's failure. Let APC try harder with their propaganda

Staphylococcus:



The 3rd class graduate can never fool my learned, versatile and eloquent personality.

Peter is just good with gimmicks and fictional tales that will never materialize. He lies and almost trying to portray himself as Jesus!

A man who lacks basics of happenings in the country, lacks feasible and realistic foresight, with no visible track records as governor for 8 years, outside investing in beer parlour business which Anambra state still ran at a loss!

I take my precious time to go through his fables and folklores, and just conclude that the level of illiteracy in Nigeria has made few to believe in his fictional tales!

A man who went to Egypt to learn power generation, forgetting power generation is not even Nigerias major problem.

He screams about subsidy removal and always fail to clearly outline how the effects would be cushioned!


His analysis are fictions likened to Tom and Jerry cartoons, not real and not feasible. It’s all impossible imaginations!

Yes, we agree. But we still vote for Peter Obi rather than continue with APC'S failure. Let's APC try harder with their propaganda.

Throwback:


I bear Tinubu witness.

It is Tinubu that you need in your life.

Do you want to fly like Lagos or you want to tiptoe like Anambra?

Economic prosperity driven by infrastructure knows no religion.

Person wey no get Job or good salary no dey drop offering for church.

Secure your economy 1st, with a 1st class brain.

No go lose guard with empty promises of a desperate political prostitute hunting for easy ticket.

E get why.

I'll rather lose guard with "empty promises" than continue with APC's 8 years failure. If peter obi fails we will vote him out in 2027. Honestly, I'm not expecting so much from obi because APC has done a lot of damages in Nigeria which cannot be easily rectified. But I rather vote for the "political prostitute" than continue with APC. Let Baba Tinubu and Baba Atiku go and rest.

PandoraObi:
You are Yoruba? I doubt that because you don't behave like one, Yoruba are not insolent, we don't insult our parents nor wake them up with side tackles, so there no way we will insult others unprovoked, stop hiding behind a finger, Yorubas are not filled with bitterness and devour by hatred, we are well trained from home

So, because of everything you have listed we should support someone who is obviously sick? Tinubu has tried for Lagos, let him go and rest, so that he can enjoy the remaining of his years in peace. You can't handover a sick nation to a sick man. Nigeria needs someone that is physically and mentally healthy and agile. Tinubu should have support Osinbajo's ambition, at least, he wouldn't have gotten this level of embarrassment. But greed will not allow him do so.

PureFace1:


So it was PDP that did not buy vote?

Everyone that reside in Osun know it was both PDP and APC that bought votes, PDP even outspent APC in vote buying.

It is you that next year election will shock

you are such a big liar, i was at the polling unit and saw things firsthand. i have friends who voted at different polling unit whose experience were the same with mine. APC's offer tripled what PDP was offering, yet people rejected their offer.

PureFace1:


APC won all the local governments in ile ife during the Gubernatorial election although with a slight margin even despite the fact that PDP emerged the winner and you want to tell me Labour Party is going to win in ile - ife next year? not even PDP. Keep deceiving yourself

Hahaha, you mean APC won by buying vote. APC thinks people are still dumb. Don't worry next year will shock you all.

PureFace1:



Which part of Osun are you from?

Ile-Ife

PureFace1:
Few Yoruba Obi supporters on Facebook now means all Yoruba?

Peter Obi showed up for the mega rally in Osun guber election but Labour party scored 2500 votes out of almost 1 million votes casted at the end, Acord Party without any online and media attention and no notable politician got 5700 votes, that should tell you the popularity of Obi in Osun, at least if Obi is really popular in Osun Labour Party should have gotten nothing less than 50,000 plus votes in that election.


You guys were also having orgasm on the thread some Igbo youths erected Peter Obi Bill board in Osun, the truth is any party can erect Billboard in any part of Osun and because no party see Labour Party as a threat nobody care about it, same reason Tinubu Bill board was removed by PDP boys in Osun after they won Osun election, they see Tinubu as a threat.

PDP won Osun election with just 28k votes and you guys think all the votes APC got will just disappear like that in next year election, in fact the reason APC got that much votes was because of Tinubu and next year he is going to get more votes even from Adeleke home town in Osun.


I can boast 100% my street in Osun is on lock down for Tinubu next year, keep peddling cheap propaganda on social media but don't cry that Yoruba people betray you next year when reality dawn on you guys.

I also live in Osun state. Among people I know personally, those that hate Tinubu are more than those that like him. 2023 will shock you people, Yoruba are no fools who will vote for anyone just because he Is from their tribe or town. We are tired of the APC government, enough is enough.

Realtalk20:
He sounded unstable and depressed throughout the video .

Will Smith is like one of those people that keeps giving and giving no matter what you ask of them. Now that's not a bad thing except you are married to someone like Jada who is a taker. such people will take and take until your well is dried up and you have nothing else to give.
Will Smith throughout this video looked like someone whose well is dried up totally..

He seems detached , emotionally exhausted and unstable. Some people said what he did was good by slapping chris rock , he was standing up for his wife , really ? Was she standing up for him when she dragged him out on live national TV and told him about cheating on him repeatedly with kids ?

Will Smith's life is a lesson to all wise men, becareful who you marry.. becareful whom you go on one knee and propose to. Be very careful.

Will Smith looks like one of those men whom we will wake up one day and hear that he shot his wife and kids to death one morning.

It's sad how marrying the wrong wife can change your trajectory. The saddest thing is, he was happily married to a decent woman and had a son with her who is normal until he met Jada and cheated on his wife

Well said

CoronaVirusRelo:
Panicking and recording a video

Short people are naturally foolish

why the generalization?

shortgun:

You are beginning to sound like a misandrist.
I don't need to be a woman to understand your point.
Commonsense is not enough?
BTW, men suffer more in marriages than women but that's not what this post is about.

I'm not sounding like a misandrist, I only replied you in your own words. Nobody is talking about whether men or women suffer more in marriage. I only gave you reasons why women age faster than men and the things you should watch out for. But you are trying to downplay the reasons, making them infinitesimal to suit your own narrative.

shortgun:

Child bearing is a natural process and house chores is a physical activity.. I don't see how any of these should adversely affect a woman or make her age faster than how her natural clock ticks.

Wives of "wealthy" people who are in the same age bracket with their husbands will also look older than their husbands....I can give you numerous examples.

A man has nothing to lose getting married to a woman who's 10 or 20 yrs younger.
That's my post in summary.

No one is saying child bearing is not a natural process or housechores isn't physical activity, I am saying the childbearing process and multiple domestic stress changes a woman's body hence making her age faster.
If you like marry a woman 50 years younger than you are, once you start subjecting her to too much stress without good food and rest, she starts ageing faster.
You will also understand my comment when:
1) you start carrying pregnancy and giving birth to children
2) when you have your own work cut out for you and still have to meet the domestic needs of 2-5 extra people

shortgun:
The ideal age difference between a man and his wife should be between 10-20yrs.
When you are 50 she is 40 or
When you are 60 she is 40.
When you are 70 she is 60 or
When you are 70 she is 50.

We all know women age faster than men, don't marry women in your age bracket they will be looking like your mum in the next 10 years.

Also, save your future children the pain of caring for 2 old sick parents at the same time.

The only reason why women age faster than men is because of childbearing and stress due to housechores.
My agemates and people younger ones that have gotten married and have kids now look older than I am. You will think they are my big sis or aunty. I was surprised to see the major changes in my bestie's body all within a space of few years, just because child bearing and child raising
Marrying a younger person will not slow down this process especially if you still subject her to the hard life. It will only give you the opportunity to age simultaneously with her.
If you treat your woman right, get her all the help and resources she needs. Give her good foods and peace of mind. This will slow down the aging process.
You will hardly see wives of wealthy and comfortable age so fastly, except they are subjected to the hard life.