ignis:


From your comment, it seem you don't know anything about the rape act. For your information, I'm privileged to lead an NGO where we help rape victims get justice.
Rape does not necessarily involve the use of peniss.
Any form of forceful penetration is rape.
Which evidence does she need when OP have admitted to have forcefully pulled her jeans and fingered her.
For the fact that a lady went to a guy's house does not mean the guy have the right to have sex with her. Consent can be given and withdrawn at any point in time.
Do you know it's possible for a man to rape his wife?

Please, increase the volume of this message. Maybe you can create a comprehensive thread to educate guys on what rape means before they get into trouble. Maybe, they will listen to you since you are a guy.
From some of the comments on this thread it obvious a lot of them don't understand the term "rape". They are simply ignorant.
I am proud of the work you are doing with rape victims, please keep it up.

McTobe:
70 times 70 times. Seriously I have learnt not to take everything my spouse says seriously but she must not discover that otherwise it will hurt her. Also I have vowed more than 20 times not to argue with her but you see yourself arguing again and again. My last working solution is to just listen as if to a radio when her argument button is activated. But honestly why the big gap of understanding between men & women?

Because the reality is that we are different, we are wired differently. Women reason emotionally, men reason logically. It is like speaking different languages. So both parties have to learn to speak each other's languages.

advanceDNA:


U are not looking at the data before you.. u are just creating hypothetical scenario that doesn’t add up here...

From the first subject on top u can deduce this girl is among the top 3 student in her class..
That subject was her poorest... she got 67 (class average) still, she was overall third in that subject....
please madam where are these very brilliant student when someone that got 67 came 3rd in the class for that subject....


Madam, I don’t know how you are seeing this result....it not possible for someone to make an 1st and second in all individual course and end up with 19th position out of 25....

Is it not the individual subject that makes up the over all..??

My point is that the overall position may not be wrong but the issue is with the position she was given in each subject

advanceDNA:
how can her position in all subject not be less than 3rd and she now come in 19th


I suspect the teacher is practicing witchcraft.

It is possible, if the pupils overall scores are very close
If 10 students score 100 in a subject they will be awarded 1st position
If 10 students score 99 their position will be 11th
If the remaining score 98 theirs will be 21st.
I guess this might have happened
Plus it might be the different subject teachers gave grades to the students, hence the errors in the subject grade

BluntNigerian:
FROM MY INBOX.



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Please He Needs Advice.

My advice to the man is that he should use his head. If he dies today, this same woman would still find means to take care of her family all by herself, but the "dead is already dead". So it is better for him to stay alive to reap " the fruit of his labours" over his family.

BluntNigerian:
She's a working lady.
Read the post well..
She just wanted to frustrate the man.
Just in a bid to make him realise that N50K is not enough any longer.
Rather than her to use a better approach for communicating such, or to cut down on the type of food, or her methods of buying food-stuffs

Honestly, you are very correct. As a woman, I hate it when women act unreasonably. This man has been trying his best and he has just started a business for crying out loud. If the business fails, she will be first to blame him. What happens to cutting cost and managing for the main time. Or better still use her own money to sustain the family for a while till her husband's business is stable.
This why men should look beyond shape,face, color and IQ when choosing a wife. Men should consider emotional intelligence as well

Yes o, most times I wear makeup only on special occasions. I don't like stress jare

Kobojunkie:
Those opinions stated in Peter and Paul's letters directly contradict even Jesus Christ who claimed that He alone is Head/Master over each one who belongs to Him, declaring that all are equal in the Kingdom of God.

Why they did it, I don't know but since we are called to trust in and obey the Word of God, Jesus Christ, not the opinions of men, it doesn't matter what there opinions were at the time they wrote those letters.

So the letters of Peter and Paul are the opinions of men?
Sis or bro, you don't need twist the bible to suit your own selfish opinion.

Kobojunkie:
In the Bible submission is a curse which God placed on marriage, and it is that same curse that God then sent Jesus Christ to redeem men and marriage from.

Anyone who chooses submission in marriage is a fool.... that is the Bible's message. So stop reading that book upside down.

Mark Zuckerberg's wife is his partner, not submissive in anyway or form. If you don't even know this, you are already plotting your way to disaster ahead.

So why did Peter and Paul in the new testament give the instruction that wife to submit to their own husbands?

Op, you are not looking for submissiveness, you are just looking for a puppet who you can control at will. Hence, you will find independent ladies with high IQ intimidating.

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BuuriMo:
Prayer Point: Every Attempt To Convert Aso Rock To Retirement Home For The Elderly & Sick , We Cancel & Destroy it IJN

Big Amen

Men always blaming women for their woes since the time of Adam and Eve. Yet, you people says no woman can control me.
Men should take responsibility for their actions jare
Any man that can control his appetite for women has solved half of his problems.
The reason why most men want and chase after money is just to impress their women ( mother's, wives, sisters, concubines, crushes, girlfriends and daughters)

Op, I have been in this kind of scenerio twice now, though I never dated them but I really liked them. The first one happened 6 years ago, we are both not married till now. He will tell me " why are all the good girls I meet AS, and the crazy ones are AA?. AA girls have broken his heart several times.
This choice of marriage partner can be hard for some people. Those that got compatible spouses ( medical, physical, behavioral, spiritual, mental) easily don't know how lucky they are.
Imagine someone on this thread saying that he doesn't want to marry an AS, because they are all AA in his family and he wants to keep his family bloodline pure, as if AS individual chose the sickle cell genes. What a sickening mentality!

Claire104:
I'm AS and my husband used to be AA so we thought.. our 2yr old became sick last month and we had to do genotype and we discovered that he is SS. We have 2 kids already and we decided to genotype for everyone again...
I'm AS,my husband is AS, first child is SS and second child is AS.
Try and do your genotype in different places o before you get married.

I have heard at least four couple experience this wrong genotype testing, only to discover they were both AS when one of the children fell very sick. It is quite unfortunately. I pray God give you the strength( both emotional and financial) needed to take care of your children

2008

Recently, I did a calculation with my sis-in-law who is a teacher in a private school. Her Annual net salary is around 240, 000 while her class alone makes 1.3million annually for the school.

elantraceey:


It's quite sad. Reason why as a single lady I'm working tirelessly into getting multiple streams of income including those that won't require me leaving my house. I'm not even the 9-5 type in the first place. I'm just currently looking for one to have some corporate experience in my books.

Career ladies that intend to have children should know how to plan ahead at least 6 months after delivery for child's expenses before they think of getting pregnant. Little babies needs utmost motherly attention and care at those infant stages of their lives and shouldn't be traded for anything else.

Yes, i totally agree with you. Also, a understanding and supportive spouse will also ease the journey.
I like your financial goals, passive streams of income is the best.

elantraceey:


I'll gladly tender my resignation letter. All this slave trade in the name of a job.

That means you have other ways/ options to sustain yourself, so others don't. It just the sad reality that some women find themselves.

lagosrd:
Hopeless mothers everywhere. So what is her gain now after labouring fo 9months and she couldn't wait for just 6months to make sure the baby is matured enough to stay without the mother.

Everything is not evil spirit as we can always avoid catastrophe like this.
3month old baby, that woman will leave my house. The work she went for now , she won't be able to do , even the money she makes there will be spent be her alone in most cases.

This is a good example to other young ladies to allow their children to grow before returning to work. If the work will not allow you take care of your kids, abeg find alternative one.

The very careless and hopeless creche too also ignorantly left the poor child to die and they couldn't explain. No even in this yahoo days I can never leave any of my children to complete strangers Never.

Meanwhile, if your pick your child at the creche and there is a pattern of always sleeping abeg go straight into the class of the teacher , open her bag and see what she has been giving them.

Do you know some careers give as low as 6 weeks maternity leave to women or else forget about your Job?

YourFavEvangeli:


The babymamas won't take orders from bosses?
This is why I say men don't know what they want yet. One minute we're shouting that women must contribute something to the marriage and not be a liability, the next minute we're roasting them when consequences like this happens.

What makes you think a woman will be happy to go back to work after 3 months of delivery?

I like your mindset, you are one of the few sensible guys on this platform. No sane mother will want to leave her 3 month baby but unfortunately, the demand of certain careers won't permit such. Even you abandon your career for a while because you want to raise children. This set you back careerwisely, what is the probability that you will get a job whenever you are ready to pick up your career, also, your collegues have gone far ahead of you, you will comeback to serve them. Yet, the so call Modern husbands require equal financial responsibilities, they don't want liabilities and they still want to be respected, please tell me how is that possible?
All these are dilema of the modern woman, you either choose a career that will permit you to raise your children, or get help (which will cost you a lot of money), or become a career woman with no family.

The big bang theory

I remember my NYSC orientation at the same camp in October/November, 2015. We bought hot water 50 naira per bucket. It is either you bath in afternoon when the sun is up or you buy hot water in the morning.

Pat081:
why are you people like this ,ex governor of that state use to dance too

You mean Aregbesola?
Osun state is really struggling financially, we need someone who is intelligent, someone who can bring policy that will benefit the state economically. We can't afford another diaster like the clueless ex governor who will plunge the state into further debt with white elephant projects.

Johnnyessence:
of course Senator Ademola Adeleke is the people’s choice and he will emerge as the Pdp flag bearer in the governorship primary slated for next month. Imole de okunkun parada ni gbogbo ipinle Osun.

Can't PDP present a better candidate aside this Demola Adeleke the dancing senator? This man clearly avoided the last gubernatorial debate to avoid been embarrassed. PDP has a better chance at winning if they present someone like Deji Adeleke( Davido's father) who has a precedent of success and connection, or any other popular, intelligent and successful candidate. The dynamics of this coming election is changing because Oyetola has corrected some of Aregbesola's mistakes, omisore and Adeoti are in his camp.

Women are easy to understand jare, the issue is that men expect us to behave like them, so they think we are complicated. Our psychology is very different.

pocohantas:


I’ll leave the road for them. We live to fight another day.



As you can see, this one and majority of his gender would refuse to swerve. That is why they have fewer pictures of three generations. They will na say it is women (wives) killing them.

Whereas the main cause of their deaths are;
1) Coconut head.
2) Taking tramadol to knack younger side chicks.

This is so funny ������

With the drama Aregbesola pulled during this primary, even if his candidate wins the primary, APC will lose woefully at the general election. Because it has become obvious he still want to continue to rule the state and continue with his havoc-wrecking policies and legacies. PDP will win with a landslide victory, no doubt.

Proffwhyhurry12:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic and Osun State University. A proud alumni of both citadel of learning. Kindly tell me where you school?

I also did my undergraduate in Osun state university.

Proffwhyhurry12:
Do you know when they called a policy a disaster? The educational policy you just commended at the same time a disaster. You should've disagree with EDUCATIONAL POLICY AS A WHOLE.

I'm not blind, a policy being a disaster doesn't mean I will not acknowledge the things they did right.
For example: a WAEC student having A1 in mathematics but F9 in every other subject doesn't mean the student isn't a great student in mathematics, but he is still an overall failure because he hasn't met any university requirements.

kongaowner:
90% of you people here are just commenting and supporting oyetola in which you have no clue what's happening in my state. Let me tell you the real reason and the secret of aregbe's greivances, it's all due to Omisore. The truth is Omisore killed Bola ige, Now your friend turned to someone that killed your brova for favour all because of politics.. Aregbe felt betrayed and downsized. So the inconclusive election is the major cause of this. I'm talking as APC exco member

From your sense of reasoning, I can garaunty you are a exco member in Osun west.

kongaowner:
90% of you people here are just commenting and supporting oyetola in which you have no clue what's happening in my state. Let me tell you the real reason and the secret of aregbe's greivances, it's all due to Omisore. The truth is Omisore killed Bola ige, Now your friend turned to someone that killed your brova for favour all because of politics.. Aregbe felt betrayed and downsized. So the inconclusive election is the major cause of this. I'm talking as APC exco member

Abeg, Aregbesola supporters should stop trying to gain public sympathy with lies. You people are now digging up case from almost 20 years ago. Who is Omisore by the way, what is political relivance is Osun presently after betraying the Ife people? Someone who's candidate lost house of representatives position to Ajilesoro just because people wanted to prove to him that his political relivance is dead.