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Politics / Re: Osun APC: Can Aregbesola Give Oyetola The Ambode Treatment? by akinade28(f): 8:50am On Feb 18, 2022 |
Proffwhyhurry12:Yes, he did well in this regard. Every other education policy he made was a disaster. Let's call a spade a spade and stop making ambiguous statement. |
Politics / Re: Osun APC: Can Aregbesola Give Oyetola The Ambode Treatment? by akinade28(f): 8:45am On Feb 18, 2022 |
Alexis11: Don't mind him jare, who knew Aregbe before 2004? And the lies he told then was to replicate what Tinubu was doing in Lagos. I remember their slogan back then "AC, eessi wahalai" meaning AC, no wahalai or problem. It is usually baba Sala's son that use to anchor his campaign program on TV. Rumors has it that his mom is the only osun indigene. His father is from kwara or kogi. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Osun APC: Can Aregbesola Give Oyetola The Ambode Treatment? by akinade28(f): 8:35am On Feb 18, 2022 |
Johnnyessence:This was purely Aregbesola's handiwork, why are you trying to put it in on Oyetola. We already know you and your leader are known for lies and propaganda. Terrible lies. The truth must be told always. mind you, I'm not a member of any party, I'm just a concerned citizen. |
Romance / Re: Advantages Of Marrying As A Virgin by akinade28(f): 2:34pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
You better keep your virginity for yourself because you choose to glorify God with your body. You will shocked that all these points don't apply in marriages all the time. Your virginity is for you. |
Politics / Re: Osun 2022: You Are Not God, Can’t Determine My Fate, Oyetola Replies Aregbesola by akinade28(f): 7:47pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Mooh247:APC is known for hardship, propaganda and white elephant projects, but Oyetola has shown himself to be different than his APC predecessors. That's why he has the heart of the people. Likewise Osinbajo. I will gladly vote for them if given the party ticket even though I hate APC with passion. I guess our voting choice should be based on personality, and not their political parties. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Osun Guber: Aregbesola Moves Against Oyetola, Declares Support For Adeoti by akinade28(f): 10:11pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
TheNiceGuy: You mean he should continue progressively with all the nonsense Aregbesola did in Osun state, so he can plunge Osun state into more debt. Aregbesola is just jealous the citizen and civil servants within Osun prefer Oyetola's regime to his own and is ready to sabotage him at all cost. As far as I'm concerned Oyetola is the only seemingly reasonable APC personality that has governed Osun state. Akande and Aregbe never cared about the plight of the people. They prefer their white elephant projects not minding the consequences of their actions on the average osun citizens especially civil servants. FYI I neither belong to APC or PDP or any other political party. I'm just a concerned Osun citizen 4 Likes |
Events / Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by akinade28(f): 10:31pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
I'm going to give a different opinion based on the comments on this thread. I'm also an introvert who likes a cool and quiet life. When I was younger, i hate unnecessary attention, popularity and the limelight with passion. I love it when people don't notice me, I just do my thing and get out. I could only keep very few friends. But as I am growing older, I have come to realize there are games of number in life, you just need to learn how to mingle, and relate with variety of people, though you need to take necessary precautions. Being an introvert is not an excuse, because there are certain position you can never reach except you are popular ( a lot of people really know you), no matter how good you are at what you do. For example; politics, business and the cooperate world. One of the reasons we will keep having dumb leaders emerging in Nigeria is because the smarter and better ones are not popular at the grassroot level. People will only vote for people they know and are familiar with. Though you might be better than others, there are certain opportunities ( e.g brand endorsement deals, awards based on voting, official post based on voting) you will never get or know about except you are popular. In the world of business, if people don't know you, you are on your own, you will see inferior product and services sell faster than yours. That is human psychology for you. Though getting people to attend your ceremony might not seem important, but there are other vital things in life you will definitely need popularity for. I know it is not within their comfort zone but introverts need to develop their social skills. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: Christianity Makes Me Feel Cheated At Some Point. by akinade28(f): 9:24am On Feb 12, 2022 |
Even king David in the bible felt this way. He explained this Psalm 73, you can read other simpler version aside KJV. So don't get tired of doing good bro, you are on the right track. Gal.6.9 So don't get tired of doing what is good. Don't get discouraged and give up, for we will reap a harvest of blessing at the appropriate time. (NLT) |
Travel / Re: The Saudi Arabians Treat Us Like Animals - Black African Maids Cry Out For Help by akinade28(f): 12:51pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
adaxme:Yes, the male that were castrated were called enuchs. This happened generally in middle east. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Hoodlums Attack Aregbesola’s Campaign Office In Osogbo by akinade28(f): 8:09pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
holluwizzy:Aregbesola is known to use propaganda to manipulate people. He can promise you 50 naira and tell the whole world he has given you 500 naira. Now, he's using the propaganda against his own party members who don't belong to his faction. Note: I'm not a fan of both Aregbesola or Oyetola. I'm just an observant osun citizen |
Celebrities / Re: Sammie Okposo Apologises For Fling With American Lady, Seeks Forgiveness by akinade28(f): 11:25am On Jan 25, 2022 |
wisdom042:He is a gospel artist na, his source of livelihood is the public. If the public start dragging him because of his mistake it might end his career 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: . by akinade28(f): 12:51pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
JESHAL:Yes, I agree men face those underlying factors especially verbal and emotional abuse. But you capitalize the main reason for women intiating divorce is just because of incentives. The rate of divorce is also increasing even in the non-western world where there are little or no incentive for women. Those grandmothers didn't have the opportunities women have nowadays in term of education, job opportunities, political power, owning properties and Financial empowerment. Some of them endured toxic marriage, a lot those grandmothers stayed to work out their marriage because they have no other option not because they enjoyed doing so. Men were the breadwinners and had political power. The women will go hungry if they don't stay. The crazy feminism we see nowadays is just certain women retaliating against the suffering their grandmother endured in the hands of men over the ages. No one wants a toxic relationship. I'm not supporting " crazy feminism", I believe it is replacing a problem with a worse problem. I believe both genders should learn how to collaborate and live peacefully not becoming each other's sworn enemy. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: . by akinade28(f): 12:04pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
JESHAL:It's religion that is making women especially career educated women ok for their men, In western societies where female nature is unfettered You said this, and I asked you a question citing popular examples. You say they are celebrities, exceptions and outliers. Should I have used examples of people you don't know? Then I'm trying to get you, so you mean most cases of divorce in the Western world was initiated deliberately by women only because of alimony, child custody and support payment ( just to rip off the husband) not because of other underlying factors such as adultery, irreconcilable difference, verbal or emotional abuse and sometimes physical abuse? |
Romance / Re: . by akinade28(f): 11:09am On Jan 22, 2022 |
JESHAL:So you mean it is religion that is making Beyonce stick to Jay-Z, the Obamas or all the long lasting marriages in the Western world work? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: . by akinade28(f): 10:54am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Pansophist I really like this post. A lot of men and women don't know the difference between obedience and submission. Some wives only obey their husbands just because they are out of options not necessarily because they respect them. Another example to show the difference between obedience and submission is when a wife tells her husband I want to go to Lagos. The husband says "I don't want you to go so I will not give transport fare. The wife cannot go to Lagos just because she doesn't have money for the transport fare or any other option. This is different from another woman who has transport fare and could easily make the journey without the husband noticing, but she choose not go to Lagos out of respect for her husband and his authority in the home. Some men want a woman they can easily control not someone who will choose to submit to them, so educated women seem to be a threat to them. I also laugh when I see Nairaland guys say all you need to get any woman is money. Men should know that If all you have to offer women is money, you will only attract women that are after your money. If you go broke tomorrow, they will change their behavior towards you or worse they will leave you because money is the only thing tying them down or keeping them in the relationship. They will now start shouting "all women are gold diggers" "no woman can love you except your mother". You cannot buy a good woman's submission or loyalty with money. You will only get gold diggers. Times have changed, women are becoming financially independent, you need more than money to get a good/ submissive woman not a gold digger. Things like character, Intelligence, leadership qualities and physical attributes count. 3 Likes |
Fashion / Re: Unimaginable Things Women Did In The Past For Beauty (Photos) by akinade28(f): 9:30am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Women don suffer for this life o, all in the name of fashion. I find keeping of head inside cage at night to avoid rat and the Japanese darkening of teeth the most hilarious. The Chinese Feet binding looks horrible. All these bleaching, fake hair, big ass and boobs, plastic surgery trends might soon get outdated. Our unborn generation will laugh at our fashion sense. 48 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Hate Women Including My Sister. Please Is This Normal?? by akinade28(f): 7:05pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Jman06: The 'outside women" you hate are also someone's mother, sister or daughter. They are also greatly esteemed by their family. Those you admire might be a pain the neck of other people. You can't separate a woman natural role or place one above the other, a woman is a woman either as a daughter, sister, mother or daughter in law. Your mom is your Dad's wife even before she became your mother. And your sisters are either someone's girlfriend or wife. You might also have a daughter whom you will love dearly. Women will always be women, but factors such as age, maturity, life experience, religion, temperament/ personality type, motherhood can make our action vary to different individuals or at different point in time. 3 Likes |
Religion / Re: Folorunsho Alakija Preaches The Gospel On Streets Of Lagos (Video) by akinade28(f): 4:07pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
This show that all the riches in this world can not satisfied the hunger within the soul of man. Indeed, the creation was made to please the creator. This is maximum fulfilment 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Virginity At 25! by akinade28(f): 6:21pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Airforce1:No matter how unattractive she looks, I am very sure if she wanted sex she can easily get it. If some men can sleep with goats, Mad women, 3 year old girls, won't they jump on a fully developed lady. There are men that will be willing to pay her for it sef. There are are virgins by choice not because there are no opportunities |
Romance / Re: Virginity At 25! by akinade28(f): 6:09pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Airforce1:There are countless sex workers, they are not all the same, if one refuse, there are plenty that will agree once money is involved. I can see you don't want to agree that male virgins are not weaklings but strong men who have self control, and that are "virgins by choice" and not because there are no opportunities. No point dragging the matter any further. |
Romance / Re: Virginity At 25! by akinade28(f): 5:32pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Airforce1:In this world where there is free sex everywhere, you can even pay for it, i don't believe people are virgins just because they lack opportunities. There are virgin men who made the choice not to have sex and i don't see them as weaklings, it shows a great deal of self control and restraint on their part. |
Romance / Re: Virginity At 25! by akinade28(f): 5:17pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Airforce1:if i may ask, how are virgin men weaklings? |
Romance / Re: Virginity At 25! by akinade28(f): 5:14pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
MediMedi:Beyond feelings, sexual debut ( sexual initiation) comes with its own responsibilities (physical, mental, emotional, financial and believe it or not spiritual responsibilities as well). Are you sure you are ready for that? Once you start it might be difficult to go back o. Sexual Abstinence till marriage is still the best |
Romance / Re: One Fact Every Wig Wearing Lady should Know. by akinade28(f): 9:08pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
Grandmeister:ok, I get you now 1 Like |
Romance / Re: One Fact Every Wig Wearing Lady should Know. by akinade28(f): 9:03pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
socialmediaman:it is as far as am concerned, but it still depends on individual taste in fashion |
Romance / Re: One Fact Every Wig Wearing Lady should Know. by akinade28(f): 9:02pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
Grandmeister:I'm trying to understand you bro, are you against the use of wigs or just against the race of the wig( European or Indian)? Do you prefer afro wig to European wig)? Nobody is trying to look like a white woman 1 Like |
Romance / Re: One Fact Every Wig Wearing Lady should Know. by akinade28(f): 8:58pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
Toks2008:Do you guys know that there are cornrow wigs nowadays 1 Like |
Romance / Re: One Fact Every Wig Wearing Lady should Know. by akinade28(f): 8:56pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
socialmediaman:not to all men though. Some men just don't like it, they believe it makes you look like a man |
Romance / Re: One Fact Every Wig Wearing Lady should Know. by akinade28(f): 8:54pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
GodIsBiafran:I hear you, afro is still easier to maintain compare to cornrow 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: One Fact Every Wig Wearing Lady should Know. by akinade28(f): 8:53pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
socialmediaman:yes, we do. |
Romance / Re: One Fact Every Wig Wearing Lady should Know. by akinade28(f): 8:52pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
Grandmeister:My brother you can't compare women those days to nowadays. There are easier and better method of doing things now, in which the use of wig is one. Some indian ladies no longer keep waist length hair, they now prefer shoulder length hair. Biko no stress somebody's daughter unnecessarily. |
Romance / Re: One Fact Every Wig Wearing Lady should Know. by akinade28(f): 8:48pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
GodIsBiafran:Low cut is unfeminine in our culture except that it is becoming acceptable in recent time |
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