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Bea1234:
I need online dating apps that is free of subscription. I only know of michat.

But which is better between Tinder and Badoo.


Like for Tinder, share for badoo

Badoo is 100% better than Tinder.

Ilamina:
They are so hardworking, intelligent
They are always in the sciences in school

They never fail, so strong, not scared to die, they don't struggle with anxiety

They are so blessed

I just love their life
There's this delta state girl in school always hanging around the cool white guys in school because she's in the sciences and very smart and hardworking

Delta girls are beautiful & hardworking. I've been to some villages in Delta state and confirmed it myself

It makes you weak. It will look as if you just finished craving with ur wife. Simple

Lutherblaq:
They say Forgiveness is the firs step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions.

Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors.

Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside.

As a man/woman, tell us;
Can You Leave A Good Woman/Man Because They Slept With
Someone By Mistake?

Point of correction, a God - fearing woman cannot sleep with someone by mistake. If she does, she's not. It's as simple as that .

On several occasions. I don't know what came over this lady. There's a time we fought each other like enemies, I yabbed her and I blocked her and she blocked my number too. Early last month, I saw her missed calls and thought what has happened to her. I called her after a week and she called me that she want to see me. I thought she's found herself in one trouble or the other. On getting there, she apologized for what she did earlier and I also apologized. She said she misses me that she want to f.. k. After that, she gave me the days she will be off duty that I should come and do the do. She called me 4 days ago to come and f.. k her. I didn't pick her call. If some women likes you, they will tell you. That's my own story

Judd007:
He is generous, I never liked Davido before, but now am beginning to know I was just beefing him for nothing,
You see Burna boy? that na…
I beg Davido no vex for me, to be better person.

Davido's family members are generous. I've had encounters with his family members. They are so good. I've slept in theirs house at Country Home in Ede, Osun State without them knowing my family members.

Good day nlanders,I will make this short as possible.

I arrived France early this year(January) for my postgraduate studies

Just after some months,I met an eu guy. It was love at first sight. He is good looking,well to do,takes care of me ,and infact I am begining to feel that the talk of western men not spending on women is a myth.

He proposed august and I was excited but worried about how fast things moved. I am yet to get used to this new environment .

I informed my parents but they are not as excited I am reasons being that they wanted me to settle with a Nigerian with papers. They have been citing how westerners don't value marriage,easily divorce etc but I am cool with him.

He plans to adopt my daughter and I bring her over,but my parents insist on my daughter growing in Nigeria till she is 18 so that she doesn't get polluted with LGBTQ,atheism and other strange influences .

I am really confused about everything and have been praying for God guidance.

What if the Nigerian men in diaspora are not forthcoming?but they don't see it this way.

I will be waiting in the comment section.

I use the head of your parents and your daughter to beg you, please don't fall for the trap ooooo. If you enter one chance, you will forever regret your actions ooooo. God bless you.

The information given here is absolutely wrong. If it's from the writer, it should be corrected. How can she say 'she supposed to have served in 2001 (22 years ago.) That means she shouldn't have served again in 2023 cos is above 30 and constitutionally, she's not supposed to serve again. There's something wrong with some people ooooo

fergie001:
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ebonyggurl:
I mean having regular sex does not 'loosen' the vjay. The only time a man's organ can cause harm is when he does forceful penetration especially without pre-intimacy. That act weakens the pelvic muscles.

Ebonyggurl from Ile-Ife. I'm also from Ife. I will like to meet you one day

Nairalandhero:
Am I finished?

I was just goofing around on Facebook and saw one pretty sister and that was how the Casanova spirit inside me pushed me to send her friend request which she accepted after two days.

Some days later, I sent her that hand wave on Facebook messenger, she responded and that was how it all started. Something in me was saying take it easy, but this spirit of Casanova was really prepared to deal with me.

After I applied some pressure, she accepted and she even told me she did not want any unserious fellow but I keep assuring her I am different that my love is here to stay

Deep inside of me, I only came for the tithe and offering.

Last weekend she visited me in her Rav-4 and we spent the weekend together.

On Sunday morning, she asked me to drop her off at home which I obliged.

We drove close to Artillery Barrack where she pointed at the Army gates and she asked me to drive in.

I thought she was joking, but she was not. We got to the gate and the soldiers at the gate were saluting her.

At that point I didn't know if the car's AC went off or I accidentaly turned it off, but I began to sweat.

Luckily she did not notice. I dropped her off and she pecked me and told me to go with the car and use it as she would come to my place after service to discuss about our marriage. I managed to drive out of the gate.

Later in the day she came as promised and ask if she surprised me. I said not really; that I was proud of her...meanwhile I had peed like 20 times already.

Just this morning, she fully introduced herself as Major ENE her only two brothers are Lt Colonels in the Army and she is the only girl of her father who is a retired General.

I know I am dead, but I don't know how dead I am.
My wife and kids are due to return next week.

Please I need help.

O boy, u don jam am. Na God catch you. U know what u will do, just relocate your wife and children to another town or else, your innocent wife, the children and urself are in hot soup. I rest my case

DaddyFreeze2020:
Why will you try to sleep with married women coz they're your Ex.
Karma is waiting for you in front and the woman you marry will surely be raped right before your eyes and your children slaughtered like fowls while you're helpless

Your brain needs to be tested. Why this kind of statement. He's just giving us instances and u are mentioning his wife and children. Be mindful of your utterances.

Pearlpop:
Rubbish post.

I'm against extra marital affairs.
The question is why do married women go back to their exes for sex? What is wrong and why do married men with beautiful wives at home still go outside?

Let me give you simple answer to this questions according to my own experience.
1. When your wife (virgin) wife says she's not in the mood to have sex for almost two weeks.
2. When you didn't live together and once u come home after your trip and sleeps in the children's room, that shows no sex.
3. When she complains about body ache alot.. without sex, that shows she's up to something.
I have more but let me stop here, if I am the man, I swear I will cheat 1000 times.

I support this assertion 100%

The ball is in your court. It's either you stay in Nigeria where the tax isn't much or you japa and pay much tax. But I will advise you to japa for the sake of your unborn generation. Give them the best education over there.

met guys
both nlanders
and all I see is lust
have Neva felt wad love is, u met a guy an u think his d man for u but within few sec u noticed he wants the cookie and when you refuse he calls you names
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what's this thing called love?

I don't believe in love either. I have been molested with so-called love. I've been scammed. I don't believe in love at alllll....

Ibtxxo:
I need a practical analysis and business details

Just pick one business idea and drop your plan

POS business and sales of food items

Newton2024:
Can daily sex with my wife makes me lose weight? Is sex an exercise?

You want to die early ni? Why sex everyday?

Karen2024:
I have been housing my boyfriend for months now... meaning he's squatting with me. This useless good for nothing guy brought in another useless lady to sleep with her on our matrimonial bed, he had the guts to cheat while I tame my desires to have taste of other men. Should I send him packing? I'm still contemplating...

You said you are single and another one matrimonial bed. Which one should we believe now? Your words are conflicting each other

I am very sorry to say this, most ladies from Oje area in Ibadan that I know cannot stay with a man. I've heard it from friends and colleagues and I've also witnessed one. Beware of Oje girls ooooo

Saintinoo:
I see so many men on.romanceland adoring and worshipping virgins, the truth is that no man will ever want a woman with 20 to 30 body counts or a woman with a borehole type of kpekus. Until you are in a relationship with one of em virgins, you will sometimes prefer to remain with that hoe.

I am not saying that guys should marry whores, infact, i resist any temptation that will allow me converse with hoes not to talk of dating or marry one, but looking for a virgin is no better, they also like the hoes have so many negative attributes such as;

1. Severe manipulation
2. Nagging
3. Gaslighing and lies
4. They tend to control their man
5. Sturborn and lastly, most virgin ladies are nacissists.

I think men should go for cool headed and respectful ladies, mannered ladies irrespective of virginity or not.

For me, your comment is 100% correct. Even more. Most virgins are manipulative. They complain alot, when it comes to sex, that's when war starts. I prefer to marry a non-virgin than a virgin.

LocalStandard1:
For some time I've been meaning to put up my personal opinion and review about Nigerian girls here. After the rave about Yoruba men married to plenty Igbo women thanks to this elections I think now's the right time.

Igbos girls are clean, dress well and are on average fair skinned. But then what? I mean, let's also talk about the inside or characters of them.

Igbos girls are very materialistic than average, very condescending and rude than average. Igbo women are also very wicked and oppressive to people under them. They are more likely to kill a spouse and even run with valuables. Let's be honest here.

I am personally more attracted to Yoruba ladies and many times I end up discovering their tribe after sometime. They have the chocolate complexion and a better skin torn to me, if natural. Yoruba girls are also more open and level headed even more accepting. Personally!

But then we most talk about the Yoruba ladies' other side too. They're very promiscuous and cheaper than average. They're also not very clean and lack a good dressing IQ. I personally think the South West have the highest paternity fraud cases in Nigeria. They're loud and more out of control even in public.


South South girls are too violent and combative, very rude too, they're the kind that give men high blood pressure. "Hookup" seems to be there second name. But I think they're beautiful too and can cook.

Middle Belt women to me are the best. They're humble and manoeuvrable. They stick to even the most struggling man, through thick and thin. They're generally beautiful and naturally so, with the best skin complexions. But they're cheap and very much so.

Core Northern ladies. I can not really put them anywhere aside they're beautiful, quiet but some say that's only pretense.

But at the end of the day, Igbo ladies are too over hyped and exaggerated. Ehn too much!

Igbo girls like 💰. First thing, I'm hungry, I want to buy food, how much, #3,500. Another thing, money, money money. How will guys won't be running away from them. They are promiscuous. It's what happened to me few days ago.

ChizzyBuna:
Na you dey carry the belle
Omo which kind dullards full this forum.
Abortion wey girls dey do like say na normal normal. U come here dey talk rubbish.. as long as pikin neverc form
Nothing dey wrong. My only issue her be say she no gree. If u can't give mature advice then please leave

Your utterances isn't good this time around. Nobody will help you with what you've just said. I just pity the lady involved. If we caution some girls, they won't listen, they will see us as old-school. But at the end, they will be coming to nairaland for stupid advise.

ChizzyBuna:
Only mature response
No jokes this is serious matter

To be candid with you, you didn't do well. In the first instance, the person you impregnated is your course mate and u still depend on the stipends your parents give u for upkeep. Anyways, you have to carry the cross yourself

LarochelE:
I don't know what I've done wrong. When I met my woman in 2020,she had a child. She told me the whole story behind the boy and her ex. We started dating nonetheless, even though the story she told later prove to be false. But I loved her and the boy respected me and follow my lead.

However, things started going really bad since last year. Sex becomes an heavy duty. About two months ago, she told me we should put a brake to sex and focus on raising her child if I truly love her. Why will I keep spending but then you let me realize I can't access your vagina? And you don't want me to find sex elsewhere. Despite all my begging for sex everytime she always refuse. I told her best friend about this and she told me to be patience with her. But I'm tired. All my earnings, I used most to take care of her, and we've not even married yet

This morning, she told she wants to change the school her son is attending and gave me the bills. But because she Just next my house and denied me sex, I was angry.

Now, she blocked me for voicing out. I have called to beg, she isn't hearing any of it.

I'm just confused at this point

You are a big mumu... I don't think your kind still dey dis world.

drololaaof:
Story story , of what use is it to us ,we are not novice ,you are not the only one in USA, nobody is asking you for direction . The road is not even shown in detail . Why not trek there and tell us your experiences?

Pls don't be annoyed.

13sense:
To the guys who married blacks america women. I am a confuse fellow and I just want to know.

What is the difference when it comes to a black american woman vs a Nigeria woman in marriage.

Naija woman is better than American woman oooo. Pls don't try it ooooo. Any simple mistake, it's divorce oo

SReporters:
By a sad, confused fellow

I am a man aged 34. I am married with two children. I don't know how people will take it but anyway I have to say it.

I have a child from outside marriage who I got after impregnating my wife's best friend. I asked for forgiveness and was forgiven by my wife.
In
This time around, my wife's cousin is two months pregnant for me and my wife doesn't know yet. I impregnated my wife's cousin when my wife took our children for a one week holiday to her parents'house. I didn't know her cousin would get pregnant.

My wife's cousin has told me that she will keep the pregnancy. Even at gunpoint, she can't terminate it because she loves me so much. I don't know why she's being so childish over this issue.

I don't know how to describe this situation that I am in. I love my wife so much and I can't afford to lose her. I don't know the kind of devil that wants to ruin my marriage.

I love my wife more than any other woman. She won't accept this especially since this is the second time that I am disappointing her.

I am feeling weak and need words of advice or encouragement from my brothers and sisters on social media. Is it okay if I can deny my cousin's wife pregnancy because I have no option right now. Please advise.

https://www.solutionreporters.com/2023/01/02/the-devil-wants-to-destroy-my-marriage/

See grammar, are you dead? You wrote aged 34. Let's be mindful of what we'll be writing. It may be typographical error, but let's be careful.

Even with this ur write-up, u are even dead but yet to be buried. Your prick has landed you into biiggg trouble.

Johnchrix:
I have one single mother that is in love with me. Tho at first, when we first met, I didn't know she had a child because she's very beautiful and young, she's 21. She didn't tell me she had a child tho. The day I saw the boy I started falling out of love for her, I was not happy because I have never dated a single mother. She's very submissive and loving to keep as a lover, she's not a Billings type, she's working and currently lives with her sister.. I just wanted to bleep and ghost her. I'm not really comfortable with the friendship because I feel she might be demanding in future.

You are right but just give her a trial. Maybe she's afraid to tell you in the first instance. You can sit her down, ask her questions on what caused her single mother's stuff. If she has a tangible reason, with her showing you true love and not a demanding type, pls give her a trial.

Love for single Mamas
Some ladies/women are not destined to be single mamas. Some came as a result of rape, when they are still love-blinded and got impregnated along the line while the guy took to his heels. Some as a result of covetousness, some don't want to be controlled by men, and so on. It's not an easy task to be a single mother. The stress of taking care of the children isn't palatable. It's still better for a single mother of one. If it's two or more, such single mother will jumping from one dick to another because no sensible man will put a single mother of two or more in his house (except the man has no family member) or akudaya. Rate at which single mothers are increasing is alarming. I've sighted some cases in my previous write-up on some single mothers I've been engaged with in Ibadan. Some of them don't play with their children and any man who will take them away from their children won't be entertained. The way they suffer isn't good. Some of them could not afford three square meal. Some will be doing househelp to raise their children. Some single mothers don't have manners and some of them are well-mannered. It's an unpalatable situation that brought some of them into single motherhood.
I like to cite cases of single mothers in Ibadan. Ibadan woman are entertaining, good and friendly. Whenever u get an encounter with any single mother in Ibadan and you can proof yourself to be a good man with unblemished character, you will know that single mothers are good. They will make sure you are satisfied, either sexually or otherwise. They won't allow what happened in their previous relationship(s) to reoccure again. Also, single mothers are loving. Don't let us stigmatize them. They want to share their burden(s) with a responsible man or men.
Lest i forget, single mothers struggle to make their endsmeet. If i can get one serious single mama, i will definitely take good care of her and her child.
Let's appreciate single mothers.