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Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

Ur d most stupi......d thing I came across your blood and another blood,bros Ur caught btw your love and your blood.

Hmmm
Wish I know u I just 4 slap you bad

IyaebeTheGreat:
What happens to forgiveness, what did Jesus say about forgiveness. This pastor is a case of " practice what I preach but not what I do"

May it happen to you so u can forgive.tag me

Is it possible getting a second wife that treats my first kids as her own,I'm scared.
Im opening a trust fund for my kids plus the rent from the house can take kia of the school fees incase of Demise.
My lovely wife just strayed ,changed till my family supported me to divorce her.

I just planted enuff cameras 2 watch my kids as my new nanny takes over but still ponder how can a mother abadon her kids for a federal govt job offer dat looks like scam

Ibral1:
They will come am also waiting for capturing going to 5month

Okay but I'm sorry to tell you that they scammed you if your appointment letter was from November last year.
Do you have an office now?
My wife have been in Abuja since lying ,sleeping waiting 4 capturing.
Have u gotten your office,any role assigned to you.

https:///civil-service-commission-raises-alarm-over-fake-appointment-letters/

A lady I met here has given up have been waiting for 3 years thou she had given up.


https://leadership.ng/federal-govt-warns-job-seekers-against-fake-appointment-letters-in-circulation/

Wish u the best.
On my own part I'm about divorcing my wife

SyrusdeHansome:
God will give u dis same pink lips

This not from God but man made.

SyrusdeHansome:
If any girl disfigures me because of relationship isuue God knows i'll also disfigure her times two. She can't make u this ugly while she's there galivanting with different men nd u're there doing nothin.

What disfigure u know how pink lips balm is,hez a lucky guy so cute.

ettaetta:
Saw this on facebook and decided to shate, A man took to social media to share the picture of how he was before and after his ex set him on fire 💔

Wow priceless cosmetic surgery ,pink lips,he is finer and hotter now,lucky him so cute.

Need see his ex for such surgery

MT:
People die during the daytime

Daytime better atleast witnesses go de cos if this woman died yesternite,hmm I'm finished,a single mum with her two kids,I was trying 2 be nice.
She came not 4 sex but I dashed her sum properties she took dis morning.i mean y go to sumbodys house wen sick

Allardyce:
For him to present himself voluntarily to the police and the staff who gave a little details of the situation shows that there's more to this case.

Some people are just walking corpse, that's why I don't allow any friend most especially girls spend more than 4hrs in my house.

I rembered this case,a lady came 2 my house yesterday with her two kids,around 9pm started running fever,I said God ooo let day break,gave her drugs told her why cum my house while Ur not well,pls her coming not 4 sex ohh,6pm I don boil water serve them food ,bf 7 dropped them off.
Please don't allow visitors sleeping in Ur house ohhhhh mostly strangers.

chiboycue:
If your wife has gotten her employment letter from a ministry, department or agency , then she should report to work in her new office for screening and proper placement based on the certificate she presents for employment. A personal file containing photocopies of her employment letter, certificate of medical fitness, academic certificates, state of origin, birth certificate etc. would be opened for her by her employer and she would be place in office based on her academic qualification.
After proper placement, your wife's employer would make arragment with Integrated Payroll and Personnel information system (IPPIS) officials to come and capture her for payment of her salaries. You wife would then register with a pension manger like ARM pension so that part of her salary could be remmited as her pension savings.

All this done 3 months ago but y no office till 2day

yeyebrity:
It may or may not be a scam. I know people who got direct and genuine FG employment. It's been more than a year and they haven't be captured.

From what I heard, capturing a newly employed FG worker has been politicised. If you know someone at the top, it may be easy for you, otherwise, you will have to wait for a while. In fact, a lady I know has been waiting for 18 months.

Ask d lady might be same backyard,no genuine appointment takes long.Is taking long cos the cartel looking 4 short cut to fix in name

Floxytran:
I see most people commenting na scam na scam but I have a slightly different opinion.

1. Has she completed the documentation in the said agency and it has been confirmed that they are all in? Some indications will be to have written letter of assumption of duty and a staff file must be opened for all new intakes. Which means by now they must have been assigned staff ID number aka File number.

2. If number 1 has been done, the payment will now depend on the agency and how fast they can complete their documentations, pass to salaries and wages which will approve the new intakes, then pass to IPPIS if it is a federal govt agency for payroll capturing.

I rest my case

I'm with u bro number 1 not done ,no ID card,atleast person suppose don get job portfolio,if fake as me suspect,I'll just cripple the man on one leg,problem is dat my wife put her whole hope on d job but iv told her severally Na scam,outstanding 500k was paid during Xmas with other applicants so the cartel had a nice xmas

Gentlerespect76:
Very very correct.

So waiting for capturing u sit at home one year with appointment waiting for it,my mind no de there my issue Na my wife wey leave her house chores wan live for Abuja,cos me tired.

Dolphinlove:
@op capturing takes six months sometimes, some might even wait upto a year before capturing

So d person stays at home 4 months now waiting 4 capturing is like getting an appointment letter and u stay at home for months waiting for confirmation letter.

My sister if Genuine u commence work waiting for capturing and when captured u are paid arrears ok.
To me is all scam cos no govt employs sum.few months bf handover.The 2 million was paid 2 years ago.

LZAA:
Haaa!!
Your thoughts are valid
Na Scam na

Me know Na scam cos they are looking 4 ways to enrol some into their pay roll wch is taking time and my wife so gullible believing the uncle involved ,well I'm by the side watching cos wat raised my suspicion was dat Christmas was coming and next appointment letter came and all paid and funny my wife left kids with me to Abuja waiting for capturing.

I have told her don't see her dis weekend we call it quits ,I can't be a player and goal keeper in the house and same time Nanny If is a genuine job ,they send you sms but the fraudster uncle keeps telling them today ,tommorow next week ,

I told her from day 1

Good morning all.Please Genuine Civil Servants working here,How long after getting your appointment letter does it take you to do capturing.

I have a problem my wife was given an appointment letter since september last year and have been awaiting to be captured into the government payroll.
To me she has been scanned cos getting an appointment letter is easy very easy from Abuja ,but getting captured Na the Koko cos not easy getting paid.
Me as a man ,iv done my part but from day 1 I told her Na scam but u know with women.This Jobs are organised by a syndicate ,like I heard they were like 40 taken,and I believe all they are waiting for is May 29,they slug in their names ,the man is his her uncle but I might expose him soon as all transfers made via my account.

I need hear from genuine civil servants pls.
Total each candidate paid was 2 million.

Good morning all.Please Genuine Civil Servants working here,How long after getting your appointment letter does it take you to do capturing.

I have a problem my wife was given an appointment letter since september last year and have been awaiting to be captured into the government payroll.
To me she has been scanned cos getting an appointment letter is easy very easy from Abuja ,but getting captured Na the Koko cos not easy getting paid.
Me as a man ,iv done my part but from day 1 I told her Na scam but u know with women.This Jobs are organised by a syndicate ,like I heard they were like 40 taken,and I believe all they are waiting for is May 29,they slug in their names ,the man is his her uncle but I might expose him soon as all transfers made via my account.

I need hear from genuine civil servants pls.
Total each candidate paid was 2 million.

ruffhandu:
Thief and killer! What does he mean by that, 'initial hussle', 'scratching 49k...'?
Jokes aside, i learnt there is mental ill-health in this man's family.
Only God knows the number of deaths this man is responsible for since his time as governor. Only knows all truth.

Ya his two brodas are mad even himself de semi Mad orders killing without knowing.
The mother was mad,his daughter is mad,madness runs in their family

SmartPolician:
Enugu people have totally destroyed his political career. I can imagine how Father Mbaka will be laughing at his loss at the last senatorial election.

The senator representing Enugu East should make sure that the police investigates his brother's assassination and bring the culprits to justice. Political assassination has no place in modern democracy.

Talk sense who is Mbaka is he God?

9jagovernor:
Exactly what I'm facing In my newly rented apartment.
Although I've spent a month plus but this particular incident happened when I just spent about 2 weeks in the house.
I brought my gf to know where I'm now staying and as soon as we entered into the house, the landlady whispered but I ignored since she knows my name why not call me by my name.
The second day as my gf and I were going out she started ranting that I should not be bringing ladies into her house that her house is not a brothel.
I was like since I parked into this house how many girls or ladies as she seen with me? I kept quiet and let her say all her nonsense. I just told my gf let's go.
Thank God I only paid 6 month plus agreement... Cos I can't see myself staying in that kind of house for long.

Haha I had a nasty experience in Aba Ogbor hill.I paid 4 a mini flat ,was enjoying my house till ladies started coming was hell,infact ladies come,I take shoes inside,This woman will go take fuse out,heat go dey do me till I buy generator.

The thing cum much I knew where d lady was going ,one day I cooked ,bought drink we ate and drink,we fkkkkd ,since she de royal was happy but no more girls in my flat.She cooks 4 me,other tenants never knew ,my flat and her palor have connecting doors.Wow I lived there 4 years free,day I packed out was day she travelled.i heard was behaving like a lunatic cos she no see my free dk again.

Was not married was a property she inherited from the fada

NIGERIAJAGAJAGA:
not only government workers salary, they must compulsory it for private sectors also to increase staff salaries.

Private increase from where ,to steal to pay you,no go work.
What will happen then?

Kidnapping will increase
Robbery will increase
Crime and all will increase.
Lots of people will be homeless as house rents will skyrocket.
.Bigger problem coming WHY?

DEATH RATES WILL INCREASE

modelsms:
Labour party won Enugu fair and Square.

I urge them to go to court and reclaim their mandate.

Peter MBAH term will be shirt Fake NYSC discharge certificate.His loss will be based on fake certificate.

QUOTE ME

lexy2014:
What exactly didn't he put right?

The electroral processes,Even JAMB don comot hand ✋ 4 analogue and paper and using CBT wch is electronic while INEC still packing waste paper.If INEC were jamb then our education is finished

Newsmic:
https://igberetvnews.com/1441108/2023-election-nigerians-courts-choose-leaders-goodluck-jonathan/

Miumu man,had opportunity of putting things right but as a drunkard he is didn't,
All we just need in this country is electronic voting and zoom the country moves.
How long we gonna be on analogue mode

Jostoman:
Nigeria is a Scam, i will never waste my time on nigeria election again, infact na thunder go fire anybody wey go tell me to come out and vote that my vote will count in any nigeria election again

Bro I feel Ur pains likewise me.Till we start Electronic voting and do away with paper voting.
Very painful

azraeljaheel:
this country dey on a free fall. feels like nothing is working.


please why is nobody saying about opay.. for like days now you cant do anything with The account. money sent to you wont drop and even if you try sending out The Person wont recieve it..

this thing is really tiring i swaer.. hunger Don nearly kill me

Opay Kwa hmm,I'm enjoying fair money moved my running around money to it.but I'm scared sumtimes,can't wait 4 this rubbish to end so I close my zenith accts

Penguin2:
Gay? Fiakwa!

Well, let’s see how things go.

My own is let PDP not win.

APGA BEST OPTION

toxict14:
Peter served as chief of staff and commissionerof finance to ebnano government and he milked Enugu dry leading to his arrest and detention by EFCC.
Why should we vote for such a man?
Chijioke Jonathan Edeoga of #LabourParty is our choice.
He is competent, has character and have always opposed the evil Ebeano political family in Enugu state.
#Edeoga Ejebego.
#LABOURPARTY FROM A TO Z.

Ur correct used our stolen fund set up PINNACLE OIL and selling fuel at discount to us ,discount that he plans to recoup ,he is crying not cos the gubernatorial election,this man invested billions to be governor to gburzgburu cos believes once PDP victory is sure,with wat happened he is scared of his investment.

Gburzgburu just told him no refund of payment.

KARMA is sweet ,after many years all you stole taken back from you

MBAH you will never smell government 🏠.

Penguin2:
My problem is that this split opinion between Frank Nweke and Edeoga might end up working for the PDP guy.

There should be a United front going into the election to avoid dividing votes.

Ya Ur right but Frank will win,Even Mbah his people knows him as a thief,he is Robin hood coming to thief Enugu State dry and share to his cronies and Chimaroke

Penguin2:
I heard it’s even Edeoga that Gburugburu wanted to give PDP ticket.

Yes Edeoga Na Nsukka Man,but to me FRANK NWEKE NEED TO TAKE IT
EDEOGA has questionable character and is a gay man ,a known gay in coal city,iv noting against gays ohh but his Xtcter no be am.

FRANK NWEKE JNR IS THE ANSWER.

MBAH WILL LOOT ENUGU STATE DRY,WAS AFTER CHIMAROKE GOVT HE SET UP PINNACLE OIL FROM LOOTED FUNDS FROM STATE AND TODAY SELLING FUEL AT DISCOUNT RATE TO US AND PEOPLE HAILING HIM .
MBAH WILL SHOW US SHEGE.

FRANK NWEKE JNR IS THE ANSWER

Penguin2:
You are also forgetting that he was nominated by Chimaroke.

That is even a bigger burden to his candidacy.

Yes nominated and d gubernatorial form hijacked after dummy gburzgburu sold it for billions of Naira.

FRANK NWEKE I WILL VOTE.NO LABOUR THIS TIME NSUKKA HAVE RULED