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Just wasted my time watching this match,now I no fit chop this night.

Oladeep:
Don't worry...It will surely be a success.

amen

angelboy01:
I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.

She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.

Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.

Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.

One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.

I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.

It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.

I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.

Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.

Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.

In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.

Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys.

this is not the appropriate place to post this,get a lawyer,he or she will help you with the divorce and you wont spent close to 650k.

Giddymoney:
The topic should be :

*A prostitute wears Pant and bra to her birthday *

Is that a Love Machine at the last picture?

I swear,u get sense

Oladeep:
Got there early and got on the queue, we were given numbers and ushered into the immigrant section. Medicals, birth certificate, police report , Passport photographs and international passport were collected and later we were called to take our fingerprints. Then a young black American lady called me for the interview which went thus.
VO: Good morning
me: Good morning
VO: What's your surname
me: Told her
VO : Who petitioned for u ? , What does she do?, How long has she been in the US? Do u have any pictures together? Are u married? , do u have kids?, asked for my parents names and also asked questions about my other sibling that was petitioned alongside with me but hasnt gotten an interview date yet. Then finally she said I will just go ahead and approve ur visa and gave me two white papers. That's all

thanks alot,mine.might come soon,so I wanted have an idea ..thanks

Oladeep:
Guys...to God be d glory...My Visa was approved today.

congratulations,can you give us the transcript please

Alezy:
madam Amebo. Hawayu

I dey oo

mhizenugu:
Tell us, what happened?

my friend called and as amebo that I am I asked ,how is dad and wife doing? ,he said it is a long story, I said make it short,the babe was already pregnant before my friends dad took her abroad,my people na one day my friend dad went to work came back and couldnt find the babe and the baby,where she go dem dey no no...I hope dey find her though,this happned last month ooo...

emesv26:
is not yet late Run for your life....

I swear,am.surprised

mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

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ehehehhe,tomorrow you will come here and say my wife is driving me crazy,now you have seen the signs and you planning to overlook ba?dont worry marriage will tell u whatsap.

No wonder oyinbo men no dey like work,they rather baby sit,honestly I think now I understand,dont know why a man will work hard for his money only to loose it to one stupid,greedy Nigerian babe...I think most guys always see the signs but rather ignore..how can a man of 45 marry a lady of 23 and you expect her to stay with you when she get oversees...
A friend told me that his dad wants to remarry,I asked how old is the girl,he said 25 ,I then asked how old is your dad,he said 55 ,I laughed and was like is he planning to take her overseas when they marry?he said yes...I told him your dad is on his own,the babe is only loyal because she is looking for every opportunity to leave the country. Which Nigerian babe will marry an old man? I saidbetter advice your dad...my dear if I tell u guys what happned last month between them overseas u will be amused..

austyn0:
Abi?...And your head was "bigging"...

yes na..lol

austyn0:
A girl asked your man for his number in your presence and made that statement?....

Damn!,, that lady has got no chill,, I can only imagine

abi nah,my guy just replied her,he said trust me u dont wort her rival..

austyn0:
Seriously??

Wetin you do the girl?

I no no oooo

austyn0:
You sure sey this sister no cast her friend because she refused allowing her to be part of both the sex and the money? Fear women

I dont think so,am not saying its not possible but some girls do the extreme,imagine I went out with my bf and a lady sitting close to where we sat publicly asked my bf for his number and said abi your dick na for only her? And that she can Bleep anytin fuckable,I felt really disgused..no shame whatsoever....its annoying..may God save guys from the omo shepeteris wey dey out now...

Am not surprised

Perfecter4real:
Days of baby mamas. First it was nadia buhari, then Yvonne Nelson and now linda ikeji Who's next?

Toyin aimaku

Goldenboy007:
Interpreter for who? And interview together with who? Can you clarify your questions ?

I meant when you went to the embassy for your interview

Goldenboy007:
I remember how they denied a girl that won visa lottery. I used to think it was automatic ! She came from Ibadan and she actually looked like someone selling vegetables in the market. She came with a guy she claimed was her husband or boyfriend . it was obvious she was not educated but she said she had HND and she is an Economics teacher or so. The VO just asked her to define economy of a nation na there wahala started o !!!! The guy she brought sef looked like an arrangee !! I was shocked when the VO said you are not qualified for the visa..she didn't even show any reaction, they both left !

There was this other old ibo woman o, when they gave her visa she just bursted out in a loud Ibo praise song !!! We all started laughing !!!

There was this fine young lady next to me, she won visa lottery, when she saw that they denied the other " HND" holder, she said she was just going to say she had OND. I asked why she isn't with any arranged husband, she said her boyfriend left her few days before she discovered she won a visa lottery! I wished my brother was around me, we for do wedding for both of them ceremony for interview room! Lol!

All the old women were given visas and women with babies.

Ok , you will all want to ask about mine, it was a family based IV status so there was no stress,

sorry to disturb,just saw this now,where you allowed to take the interview together or you were interviewed individually,and is there an interpreter as of the time you went

A cheat will always remain a cheat,buy a cheat an aeroplane,she will cheat on the buyer with the pilot..so

Alezy:
lolz....hello Victoria, longest time. U left me hanging sha o

haba no oo

On judgement day,e go take like 100000 angels for heaven to separate fight wey go happen between white women and Nigerian guys wey don scam oyibo.

Kxngstein:
Fellow Nigerian youths brace yourselves for another embarrassing comment from this man

we are really waiting

crisycent:
Sorry to say, you are about to marry a fôolish man! Any man that hides his child from anyone is the biggest föol on earth.

the truth is that the lady should better ask questions well.....

steph2sweet:
Pls matured minds in the house, i need an advice. I just got the shock of my life today. I got to know that the man I am planning to spend the rest of my life with has a child out of wedlock. I heard this from someone close to his family and I confronted him about it. He said he is afraid to loose me, that was why he didn't tell me about it. That he doesn't have anything to do with the lady that gave birth to the child for him, and that the lady is already married. I am just short of words.

sister,that was what my ex told.me then,that he as nothing to to with the woman who gave birth to the child,was my sisters mechanic who happens to know him that told my sister that he is married to the woman and that the probability of him divorcing the woman is extremely low...so shine your eyes,before u enter one chance moto

olasaad:
the papa na photographer now so maybe he's the one taking the pictures

lmao,are u sure you are a good christian?haha

taylor89:
I just wish casper Nyovest, Nasty C and AKA are Nigerians








Those guys are super good together







Big boys who doesn't flood the media with gucci and prada








Though Efe is still far a better choice to Buhari

bad shield..lol

Chai dem just waste money to do wedding for dubai

TonyBankz:
Ah as in eh,d tin taya me..im get d 1 i get her name lah..WF BARBIE BAHD GAL

your own better e get one wey hin name na sokoto sokoto,no worry hin friend reqest go tey cos I no go accept am

I dey wonder how hin baby mamas go dey feel#cheapiguess#lmao

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