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The kind fear wey dey grip me ehn,na Only God know! .. The end is not near,The end is here! #Lord Have mercy on me.

The kind fear wey dey grip me ehn,na Only God know! .. The end is not near,The end is here! #Lord Have mercy on me.

cococandy:
But they just got married
Or am I confusing them for some other couple?
I hope you guys find peace

this wan no know celebrities. Their marriage lasted a bit long sef,i expected this earlier.

Duru009:
Am surprise as you are.... .
I tot she was a wife material ..

Wife material,In this generation of ours? Among celebrities? Azu ikpokpo!

Daslim180:
Abeg forget that thing it's not gonna work. Take me has your brother then I married to someone who has done sextape before. Won't you be ashamed of me for dating or marrying such person. And one more thing, has dem dey Bleep her, the sound she makes nko oo After I faint finished, she dey go her parents house sharp sharp

Lmao! You are not serious.

Senorprinz:
i'll turn her to sunderland, collect enough 3 points, then relegate her sharpaly. no time to be forming humanitarian.

God bless you!

oluwaseunamos33:
am shorts of words. this same boko-haram by tomoro, u go hear say them kil 45 soldiers. y is it that, if soldiers manage to kill 2 boko-haram, them go kill 45 in return?

i think sey na only me dey rizin the thing sef.

TheRealestGuy:
He died for next to nothing, sounds harsh but very true.

This useless country isn't worth dying for!

RIP to him anyways...

#Fact

If you love him and he loves you,then i see absolutely nothing wrong with you having sex with him.You lose your virginity now or later,what's the difference?
If you break up with him cos of that,it's not as if another girl won't open her legs for him.
In this time and age,who Virginity don epp?
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Follow your heart.

Sit him down and talk to him about it.How would he feel if you were the one cheating on him with different men?
Make him understand that by cheating,he's hurting your feelings thereby rendering you an emotional wreck.Make him understand that he's killing the love and trust that you once had for him and that if he kills it eventually,you'll both cease to be companions and confidants.You'll both just be sharing a house.If after all that he continues,Opt for divorce biko.He broke his vows anyway.

Nobody.

shadeyinka:
OK! When you are through, you can still pm me. We can use the email.
Peace!

alright Boss

analice107:
Yes, its a good thing you came to this section, for If your faith is not tested, how can you say you are a winner? Have you ever seen a champion who never fought any battle?
To be a champion, you fight and conquer.

To be a winner, you endure and push to the end.

To be victorious, triumphant, and an overcomer, you MUST be tempted and overcome the temptation.

So, yea. Here is a slimy pit full of lying and deceitful demons.

Here is where you'd know if what you have been holding unto since if faith or fear.

Here is where you'd know if you have been sitting in church hoping you'd be a Christian, just like an Agbero sitting in a garage, hoping he'd become a car.

Here is where you would know if indeed you know what it means to be a Christian. It is your Testimony that will sustain you.

If you don't have one, then how did you become a Christian?

Yeah, this is the place to be.

If you are still afraid of looking satan in the face and say 'Get out of here', then question your faith, and toughen up.

Compared to what awaits you in future as a Christian, what these Apostles of Satan do here is a walk in the park.

Be ready.

Thank you very much.
What is the need for God to test my faith since he already knows the eventual outcome (being omniscient)?
Does God love me so much to send me to hell if i don't love him back? Even if my deeds are just.
Why must my existence be made a competition between God and satan? Did i ask to be born?
Two Supernatural entities gamble with the soul of a helpless creature like me? Wetin i do?
A man was crucified in a small village in the middle east thousands of years ago,what does that have to do with me? A young boy in Africa,wetin konsine me?.
Out of over 5,000 religions each with their own versions of God/eternity,what make just my own real? I consider another religion as folly,just the way someone else considers mine.
If God knew a soul not going to make heaven,what is the point creating it? He gave us free will,right? An omniscient God gave me freewil cos he already knows what i'll opt for,why should i then suffer for it?
Religion seems like mind control to me but on another hand. How come the bible carries deep messages that relate with our lives,How come end-time prophecies are just coming to pass? So I dunno what to think!

shadeyinka:
There is no problem asking about things. I am a practical and pragmatic person by personality. I just don't believe a doctrine, I want to understand why!

The gospel and God is easy to understand if you are sincerely looking forward to clear a misunderstanding.

The world of the Christian is like a battle field. Many times, you do not get what you want under fire of the ememy.

Please check out these two post below and if you are on WhatsApp, you can pm me and we can chat in privacy. I can God willing answer most of your questions.

PART 1:
https://www.nairaland.com/3423081/real-fake-student-university-heaven
PART 2:
https://www.nairaland.com/3436394/how-improve-spiritual-cgpa

Shalom!

I'm not on whatsapp,for now i'm only active on facebook.I'll go through the threads.Thanks.

ItsQuinn:
I prefer to be a lone wolf, solitude is the best feeling ever, more privacy, no drama no worries and more happiness

solitude sometimes becomes loneliness,don't you think so?

shadeyinka:
@ analice107, @ 4everGod, @ menxer

The difference between the Christian view and the Secular view is that between light and darkness. Its the same choice that Eve had to make in the Garden of Eden.

Its all about Trust and Dependent on the Source (God the Creator).

Satan says:
1 Don't trust God, He doesn't want you to be like Himself
2. When you take the leap, you will truely know ALL things and thus be independent from Him
3. It is actually delicious, God doesn't want you to enjoy yourself

The three above is the system on which the world and secularism is based. Secularity says, let's remove God out of the equation, we can solve our own problems.

Here I rest my case

This is starting to happen to me.I no longer put that God factor into consideration like i used to.I pray God delivers me,I shouldn't have sat down to think about some things and more so i shouldn't have come to this section.indeed,Ignorance is bliss.

Mine has been hiding over the years but it started to set in last year when i graduated from secondary school,no more friends.My family sef na another story,To me,my mum and dad aint married,they just share the house.That really affected me and since my dad finds fault with almost anything (he has very good sides though).
This minute i'm talking to someone,next minute i just want to go home for no genuine reason and when i get home,bam! Back to books,films and my phone.
Sometimes i just conclude that life has no real purpose since even with everything,you'll still die.
I just manage to talk to friends who think everything's perfectly ok with me but deep down i don't feel any connection with them.The only person i'll say is my closest friend now is my bae,she loves me understands me perfectly but are we gonna last forever?.....May God deliver me,it's not every feeling that can be penned down and stroked into sentences.

placeofallure:
Curiousity kills the cat, why do you wanna know?

Well let me just say I wasn't crazily in love with him. He was the one who was heads over heels in love. He was nice and considerate and didn't want me to lack anything. He taught me selflessness. He was about to get me a car when he died.

That wan na cat,me i be human being!
Sorry about the loss.

placeofallure:
My ex provided me with everything. I mean everything. Money for hairdo, wardrobe allowance, changes my phone like clothes, pocket money, then I never use my money for anything. He has gone to be with the Lord and he is sorely missed.

Sad story.Sorry about that.Were you really inlove with him?

Doing all that will not embarass him,It will only embarass the girl and her family the more.He chose to thrust without using a condom and she consented,was she blind? it's not as if she was forced!
You think telling his boss,his pastor will do you any good?
Them go just dey laugh on top your matter.That's a lesson for the girl,you don't open your legs for a man when you're not at least 80% certain of a future with him and let's say you want to enjoy yourself,use a condom.
Even if you're to take legal actions against the guy (which i don't really think is necessary) it should be after the baby is born and when you've confirmed that the child is his.
IMO,nemesis will surely catch up with the guy,He was never mearnt for her.

Let's say the Man manages to take responsibility,what happens next?
It's funny how a young girl could not commit abortion but almost commited suicide which would automatically result in the death of the innocent child.Who know if the baby has or hasn't been badly affected by what she took?
I don't think i'm going too far if i say she deserves all she's going through right now,i still would say the same thing if my sister was in her shoes.
But all the same she's still family.
Take the guy out of the picture and focus more on your niece,even after making her realise it was all her fault,show her love then when she finally delivers,She should try to make herself more useful.My take.

cococandy:
I don't resent my fellow women. If anything I'm a champion for other women and their wellbeing.

What I resent are topic titles like yours that repeat what you've heard without accompanying research to prove it. You need to start knowing women outside of your usual circle.

you don't resent your fellow women,is it the same with them? Hw sure are you?
98% of women are just like that,jealous,resentful and they can gossip and backbite for days.My neighbour can tell angel michael what she saw satan doing at God's backyard.

How can a guy like me know what women really want? When women are a confused set of people who don't even know what they want.How?

Kgdavid:
It is better to use your free will to do something stupid than to have someone arrogate your will for their own pleasure. Please, you northerners should do your best to enter the 21st century with the rest of us.

And stop stealing our christian girls to marry off to your sick, depraved brothers!

Muhammed was a heartless paedophile,you shouldn't expect anyless from his blind followers.

analice107:
What happened in Eden had nothing to do with knowledge, Wisdom or perfection. For Adam had all of that, but only didn't know it.
What God was teaching Adam was CONTROL.

In Life, CONTROL IS EVERYTHING.

Adam was given charge of all things in Eden. Everything. Adam had absolute power. What ever he decided to call anything those were their names till today. But God needed to teach him to put that POWER UNDER CONTROL.

Adam, you have the power to do it, it is right there before you, but walk away.

Let me create a scenario for us.

You are a father. A wealthy father. Of course your son can't lack in your house. If it's bread, there's every kind of bread. White bread, brown bread, corn bread, wheat bread, all kinds. Nothing lacking in the house.

Now, you needed to go out, but your son was left free at home. You call him to you and say, " Son, am going out, i"ll be back soon. Everything is at your disposal, only leave the wheat bread, don't touch it. You tell him the consequences shd he touch it. You left.

Sometime later, A stranger comes in talking about the wheat bread you instructed him not to eat. Doubt and mistrust gets planted into your boy. He begins to think, "Daddy doesn't love me as he says he does after all".
For how can he keep me from being like him? Now, he has forgotten that he is indeed like you, for the son of a goat is a goat.
And in a bit to be like you, finds out that he has lost the very essence of his likeness with you. although, still retains the image, but the likeness was gone.

In an attempt to take over your place, he lost the very power that puts him in your place.

In a move to Infringe on Gods sovereignty, he became a rebel who ran away when no one was after him.

Obedience without any room to disobey is not complete obedience.

You most have the power and choice to obey or disobey, without which, you can't truly say you are faithful. You have to choose what to do. You are a free agent not a robot.

This is what makes Christianity the hardest faith to adhere to, because you are enjoined to willingly, acceptably walk away from what you have power to do.
You are told not to Lust after a woman/man, but the woman/man is right there before you. Take your eyes and mind off.

Thou shall not steal, but you're hungry and have no food.

Thou shall not lie; but they said the job is for people whose age range is below 35, and you need this job. so, you have to reduce your age.

When your enemy is hungry, give him food, pray that he prospers even when his prosperity will make your life miserable.

When someone slaps your left cheek, turn the right let him slap; even when the enemy takes advantage and slaps your mum before you, tell your mum to turn the other cheek.


POWER UNDER CONTROL. That was what is was all about.

this topic has been bothering me for quite sometime now.Thanks a whole lot! You're not an ignorant christian.

Acidosis:
Meanwhile, it happened to a friend as far back as 2013, its been a long time now but I can remember the advice I gave.

Discuss with your woman and see how you can nail him completely. What kind of pictures did she share with him? Is there any evidence to show that she sent the photos via WhatsApp, BBM, etc.? If the answer is Yes, then the recommendation I'm about to make is not useful.

If the guy personally took the photos with his phone, frame him up and label him the thief that stole your wife's phone.

The kind of treatment he'd get will shock him. Do not act like a chicken, send him a text and call him the thief! He'd be too shocked to take any immediate action.

In fact, I'm beginning to pity that guy, if only he knows the treatment someone got for blackmailing a friend, he wouldn't engage in such.

He'd be severely dealt with for stealing and for blackmail. Even if he gets away with the latter, he won't get away with the former. He must explain how he got the photos, reasons he kept the photos, and what he intends to do with the photos.

Wa gbayi...Blackmail is the worst imprisonment.

What if i go broke or i die? Leaving a wife and innocent children to suffer
What if i get bored or tired? (i'm only human)
What if she stops loving me? Or vice versa ? (that's very possible)
What if with time she ceases to be the woman i fell in love with? When she changes physically and in other areas.
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I may change my mind later
but for now,marraige? No be me.

anigbajumo:
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Thanks for your response.

Bro,right from ages nd over the years,religious nd tradition av mixed up in the northern part of Nigeria even before BUHARI was born.It is hard to see any traditional gods in the core north,wat they belief in is Almighty Allah not to talk of other religion. You can't dissociate religion nd tradition in northern part of Nigeria (I mean core north) not the like of North central even thou most of them are Muslims dominated states.

Pls don't dwell ignorance of what you don't knw.Stop deceiving people here pls.

Amir,is just like religious leader that explain more about religion to fellow muslim.You can't see Amir to interfere in any religion issue outside Islam,Amir is an Islamic leader that has nothing to do with Christian but Islamic matters.

Sultan on the other hand is the number one recognized Islamic leader in Nigeria,nd the Paramount traditional ruler in the northern part of Nigeria (scroll up nd see where I wrote Tradition nd religion av mixed up in the north). All these things have been there over the years.Christian has nothing to do with this,stop all the nonsense of islamization of Nigeria.

About Army jihadist.Islam has nothing to with terrorist,is far from our religion. Let me ask you this simple question.If truly terrorist are Muslim, why did terrorist has killed more than Muslim in the north even their territory of attacks in Nigeria is the north which is Muslim domain,85% of terrorist attacks in the word are Muslim dominated countries,why?? Or did you mean terrorist (claimed Muslim) will be happy to kill a fellow Muslim.

If they are truely muslim army jihadist, why are they killing Muslims (reduce the number of Muslim in the world)??Terror attacks has been going on in Muslim dominates countries than any other country in the world just to tanish the image of Islam but it can never be successful coz Islam is the only religion blessed by Allah.

If islamisation of Nigeria is agenda of northern leaders,they would had accomplished that when the likes of IBB,GMB,OBj are head of state.
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It's as real as real can get man!
'Islam is a religion of peace'
that to me is sarcasm of the highest order.

May 8,1999.

I think it all depends on the people involved.I'm in a no-sex relationship.We've been together for almost 2years and it's been a very blissful love affair all through.To be honest,i feel like a fool sometimes but i can't help it,I love her so much and she also loves me.
She one of this 'Virgin till marraige' freaks just like her senior sisters,.But do i have to complain? She made herself clear right from time.
Sometimes i'm like 'I dey nack other girls,my girl dey lock up,imagine!'

JackBizzle:
You must not have heard of the Arab/islamic golden age.

If you were not religiously brainwashed and also a habitual lie mohammed, you would have realised by now that many societies/cultures/religions contributed to science in their own way.

To credit christianity with modern science is a gross overstatement and hence a lie.

#Word.