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In a similar situation ... she texted me on fb saying she misses me and stuff .... heaven knows that for now,I still love her,so much.

virtual3xpert:
How about a whatsapp group then?
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Smallish:
It's exactly the same with me, I went through my depression alone with no one to confide in even though I have people to talk to, I realized they didn't even care enough to know something was off with me. Seeing good friends being there for each other makes me more sad cause I feel like I'm the only one alone.

same thing here....people to talk to but no one to confide in,it's terrible...all I do is read some threads on NL.

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Communication died,and I and my girl broke up on the 2nd .....mehn,love to me is a highly flawed concept I will never be part of,ever!

I think the story is figurative,it holds deeper meaning.

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iamFaity:
some questions are better left unanswered.

I love this.truth.

mhisbliss:
thats exactly what I expected you to say

A complex universe couldn't have come by chance, it would be ridiculous to think so.

mhisbliss:
science

Science doesn't cause it, it only seeks to explain.

MariamAlheri:
Here zinny dear, try me.

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Zinny25:
I am hrt broken, depressed and sad. I feel worthless. This life makes no meaning to me anymore. I'm down emotionally and psychologically. I need help, I need someone to pour out my heart to

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HayatH:
I'm not going to write paragraphs for you to understand because people like you never listen so I'll break it down for you.

Islam is perfect. All these violent shit you see that are caused by muslims doesn't mean that the religion is violent. We as muslims have flaws. These extremists don't represent us.

“Fight against those who do not obey
Allah and do not believe in Allah or the
Last Day and do not forbid what has been
forbidden by Allah and His messenger
even if they are of the People of the Book
until they pay the Jizya with willing
submission and feel themselves subdued.”
9:29
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Indeed it isn't violent. Smh

HayatH:
So what you're trying to tell me is that just because there's people supporting these Terrorist groups, that the whole religion is violent? I don't know where you're getting your false information but the only time Mohammad SAW fought was during battles with infidels. Show me proof that Mohammed SAW killed innocent people. Terrorist have no religion. Islam is perfect, muslims aren't.

Islam is perfect? You are a joke.

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bemind:
Dementia can make you say things that have no basis with reality because the individual is no longer fully in control of his thought processes. If you go to a mental hospital and see aged patients at the later stages of this condition, you'll see that sometimes they cannot even recall their own names or the faces of their blood relatives. Just like every other part of our body, the brain also can get sick sometimes, just as organs like appendix, or heart or kidney can fail, the brain can degenerate too.

I am saying when you are in this condition, you loose your ability to recall things and acquire an over-active imagination. Pray it doesn't happen to you and you find your self saying funny things as well. In a normal society the family members will be available to care for their grand uncles/relatives when they fall into the hands of illnesses such as this. They say things like "Grand Uncle its ok, I am here, there is no river here, you are in the hospital, you will be fine". Instead of taking every word he mutters as fact and acting on what can only be described as an overactive imagination.

Someone confessed to killing my brother and many other people and you call that overactive imagination?
We never told relative about the accident,so how did he know?
If he was no longer in control of his thought processes,how was he able to remember the people he had killed and was about to kill?
You are very funny.

OP,love is turning you to a fool.So you still need to ask if you should leave her?
Bragging about how she was with you when you had nothing is cheap emotional blackmail.You even paid for her younger sister's post utme? You are a joker! . . . . DUMP HER!

bemind:
Just pray pray pray that one day, when you get old and frail someone in your family doesn't tag you as a witch/wizard. Just remember this day in 2016 when you called your aged grand uncle a wizard. Have you heard of dementia before? Please read up on it. Older people are usually victims. My bro, pray you are not a victim of dementia when you are old. Because it is then people will start to call you wizard. People with Dementia loose parts of their memory and this progressively gets worse. It is not usual for patients to make fictitious claims as the ones you noted.

Today is 15th Dec. 2016. I hope you will recall this day, when you yourself gets old, may be you hit 77 years. White hair, white beards, a walking stick, glasses to aid the eyes, then add this to grand children who have been unable to get jobs or sustain a viable business who then tag you as a wizard that is responsible for all their failings.

Pray pray pray that someone else in your family doesn't point at you as the cause of all their woes.

If you have any more aged grand parents/uncles/relatives alive today, you should show them love. Call them and spend time with them. Do not call them witches, how would you feel if the tables where turned when you hit 77?

I didn't accuse him,he confessed.

I once lost a brother,months later my grandpa's brother confessed to killing him.As if that wasn't enough,he also said he was behind a car accident in which we almost lost our lives. At that time,my dad was also facing some financial problems,he was fed up with life,this old-man confessed he was behind it . . . . Immediately he died,things started to fall in place.There are unseen forces,Witches and wizards exist.

torres89:
we are always a replacement to someone

check well

Yeah,you have a very good point.But what if she's just using you to kill time? Or lessen the pain?

torres89:
if I really like her
I play the role of her best friend
then patiently waits till her boyfriend slips..

Then become just a replacement?

That an all-loving and merciful entity would go on to create a place like hell remains plain absurd,no matter how we try so hard to rationalize it.
Most christians don't go to church because they really love God,it's just because the thought of hell makes them uneasy.
I wouldn't say i'm head over heels in love with God (for now),i just wanna find my place with him cos i don't want to go to hell.
I put it to you that the Fear of hell is a million times greater than the hope of heaven.Most christians don't love God one bit,they've been disappointed by him too much times to count,they're dying in fear.

My greatest fear is dying young.

Barristter07:
Shadeyinka




the bolded is a poor logic and in fact expose the can of worms in hell theory further .

Are you rewarded Eternal Bliss based on Your good works or Its an undeserved kindness from God ? in fact many will say its not by power

therefore: If the righteousness of 70 years is not enough to give you Eternal bliss , on what justification does the sin of 70 years make you deserve An Hellfire ?

Good question!

After over a hundred years,i found this thread! . . . . .ANALICE,I'm sorry i came very late. . . . . . . .now back to the topic,the thought of a loving and a merciful God creating a place like hell-fire is disheartening.I Once felt suicide would be a good option since sooner or later,we'll die. . . .but the thought of a place like hell fire held me back. . . I Was just thing 'what's the main purpose of existence?' and since the answer i gave myself was 'nothing' . . . . . . .the fear of hell lásán can roast you inside.

HCpaul:
It baffles me when I see a full grown man vacating from putting his brain into action.

It's sadden how the Christians couldn't find a single fault in the bible but yet keep finding faults in people and other religions.

To be more honest, I abandoned Christianity because of the Christians lies. I hate lies a lot and I couldn't withstand one when I see it.

Now let me spell it out for you, "Christianity is like a prison with befitting interior design, the slaves inside are busy celebrating freedom while encapsulated in the bane of their own enslavement. A sane man came to them and pledged for their freedom but they were busy laughing at him and even name him a slave. The sane man huge them to at least go outside the building to see clearly the structure of the building and what it really look like on the outside, but they wouldn't listen. Some few among them went outside and apparently saw the structure of the building and come to realize that it was a prison. They went inside to tell their other folks but they still resisted them and call them brainwashed slaves.

Sometimes, when religious people don't go beyond the scope of their religion, they may never see it clear picture. It's not all about God but about primitives men of old who got nothing else to invent except religion - an abiding delusion, a lasting ignorance and eternal misconceptions of the world view. They used their primitiveness to view the world and to their amazement they coined god.

they coined god? I agree that religious extremism and dogma has caused more harm than good(if any at all),but you shouldn't go to the extent of saying they coined 'GOD' .God's existence is far too evident to be denied.It takes real logic to fully come to terms with the fact that not everything can be humanly rationalized.

I'm good at anything except joking with my life.OP,Talk to a pastor about it,pray and fast or better still pack out! The spirit has really been patient with you.this is africa! Spiritual forces operate on every level.

Floxyluv:
It's one of those things. It's really not easy to deal with, but you have to try as much as possible to stop thinking of that situation that's making you depressed. Meet people, lively people, friends and family that will encourage you and make you happy.

Avoid listening to depressing music, watching depressing movies or listening to depressing stories and more importantly talk about it with someone you can trust.

And remember, you might not be able to control everything that happens to you, but you can control how you react to them.

Chose to be happy, and be happy. Cheers.

I just can't trust anybody,no matter how hard i try.