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The baby will be fine, God will sort him out.Yes I think the guy should accept his responsibility. But its not going to be that easy. From her story, it was just a one nite stand or something. The father will really have a hard time accepting the situation.

If youre not married yet then I guess you know what to do and if you are , I really dont know what you should do. Goodluck though, may God grant you wisdom on how to handle this.

@papermoon. The kabiyesi's son you were talking about, was his wife from the north cause I think I know who youre refering to.

Depend on how important his vows are to him. If he made a vow in the presence of God and loads of witnesses, he'll pay if he breaks those vows.

@debbieolat. I dont think teju is seeking for financial help from him(correct me if am wrong teju), I think she just wants her boy to know his dad. As in have a father figure.

I dont know, he didnt out any age .

@skidoc. Not really. I still stand by what I said, we'll see, time will tell. He said he last time he checked(October 05), thats a long time if I might say so. Their are lots of bellas on hi5, maybe she decided to change her identity .

wow! africanboy, why do you think he needs to prove he loves kids to anyone on NL?
You dont need to have kids to love kids. If fact some people love kids more when they dont or cant have thiers.

I dont think he means a slap in the face. It could be on your hand or back or lap or something. Also, it could be something they picked up at school or in the home sometimes.

May be your younger brother is jealous of your son. Is it possible that your younger brother was the baby of the house before your son came? He might just be angry and frustrated that your son is taking all the attention from him. It might be futile trying to discipline him and all, that could make him hate him even more. Just make sure you make him understand that calling your son a bastard is not acceptable. How old is your brother anyway?

Eastcoast:
seun, i thot u said u licked ice cream only during festive periods. hmmm it's like things don dey beta for u each day.

my sister abi oh! Thanks to nairaland!

Who is talking about evil spirits here? She said he used his kids for money making rituals! _{*rolls eyes*}

Just saw your profile and youre just 19. It really must be difficult raising him alone. What about your people, is anyone chipping in some help?

@tonisafe and kenniy.Has it occured to you guys that maybe shes using an alias on hi5? If you know what she looks like from mags, check again, you just might  be 

Wow teju, thats a cutee youve got there. I think a man has the right to know he's got a child, its not like he's denied him. Yes, I'll say its a good idea to trace him. But how will you go about it?

I will pack my remaining children without carrying as much as a pin from his blood money house and leave! I dont know if I will call the police on him but i will definately submit his name on my prayer list!

@free
Yes free am serious. There are times when carrying a pregnancy to full term is deadly to both mother and child. Should society now allow a woman and her unborn child to die cause abortion is illegal?

@skido. yes I'm acting . Why not ask him if he knows me ?

The real granpa is chiref2b.

@kenniy. May be and May be not
@seun. Yes I actually know George clinton(thats if he exists). A-hole!
@skidoc. Maybe am psychic.

To a large extent, its the woman's decisionn to make. If a man wants to have a say in the matter, he should decide before the woman gets pregnant. He should decide to use protection or abstain cause once its in, the woman holds the aces. And whether he likes it or not, if she decides to have the kid, he should be able to contribute to his/her upkeep. So guys should make the decision before it happens if not ,

yeah i just remembered, Bret Hart

Paddy sure is cute, i dont blame your friend tectona. Tell her to keep dreaming cause dreams do come true.Maybe we should get him to come to nairaland .What do you think?
And gabng, giving her his number wouldnt make much of a difference cause if you know paddy as much as you say you do, then you'll know that paddy only answers calls from numbers(with names) he has stored on his phone. So get him to store her number on his phone first if not she can call till kingdom call and he wont answer .

The hart brothers. Owen and what his name again?

To hell with the devil-stryper

Letting your man do the cooking can too will spice up your marriage and make him in touch with his feminine side. And that gets him mushy!

Layi, you must be the youth presido in IKD.

Well sometimes if I want to get my husband all chummy and deeply in love all over again, I just bring out the wedding pictures and he gets all teary eyed,mushy, chummy, etc
Will post some more spices later.

thanks nikinash, thats exactly what I told him from the beginning. As far as a wedding is concerned(in Naija sha), you work with how much money you have at hand.