Oh sorry about your miscarriages. But shouldnt that tell you to stop? Dont you care something bad might happen(God forbid though)?My mum had 8, but this is the 21st century. Please IMO, its time for you to put a full stop! Enjoy the ones you have now.

Haaahaaa nawah, thats sooo funny. He wanted you to put up a show for his sisters and you didnt understand! Men sha and there wahala ! Well,I also had to go on my knees to greet my in-laws when I first met them. Still do sha cos they're yoruba and thats there style. But sometimes I just do my thing, they're not too particular about such sha so am cool with them.

@nawah. Hope? Lady better be sure! Have you heard of the word family planning? Except of cos if youre an obasanjo or abacha or babangida.

I'd rather have chem stay than yinka. He does absolutely nothing to entertain viewers all day long! At least chem gives us some kind of raz comedy/entertainment now and then. Yinka is just soo not it at all. I think he lied his way into the house. He said he's a musician, a rapper to be precise. But did anyone notice on sunday after the show when Frank was playing the drums and gideon, chinedu and yinka were supposed to be free styling, gideon and chinedu were really doing there thing but yinka could not even flow! At one point he ran into the kitchen, probably to avoid been embarrassed! I was sooo shocked! It was like I thot he said he had a rap album but was only looking for a record label to release? I really think he should go. He's not entertaining at all.

Exactly six months before my sister died, I had a dream. In the dream, she had called to tell me she was very ill and that the doctors said her disease was incurable and they had given her six months to live. It was really upsetting cos a day after, my father-in-laws friend who is a man of God came to the thier place to pray with them and my my father-in-law called us to come and join them. While praying, he turned to me and told me that the spirit of death is hovering over someone(specifically said a female) in my family and that I would not be called home to go and bury anyone in Jesus' name. Meanwhile, my sister in Abuja had a quickining in her spirit one night about the same period to pray, not knowing what to pray she started praising and the holy spirit ministered to her to pray against the spirit of death. She even thought it was my mum she was praying for cos my mum had had a dream that my late dad came to take her out for an outing but he left cos she was wasting time.

Anyway, I was really scared by my own dream and had called my sister then and told her to be very prayerfull. Some months later I was called and told that my sister was ill and was on admission and had been diagnosed with typhoid fever. The typhoid level was quite high and gotten into her central nervous system according to the doctors. It has gotten into her brain and so she started to hallucinate. It was like she was loosing her mind. Well the bottom line is, I was called about three week after she got into the hospital, exactly 6 months after my dream, and told she had gone.

That is my worst nightmare ever!

kaygirl, youre really cute. Just saw your pic in your profile. Mr. Admin sure is lucky!

come on dafman. Are you saying you cant see the cute lil snazzy in that pic? Dont tell me youre jealous.

My shoes aint tight. As a christian, there are things to be expected eg. obstacles to your faith and all kinds of persecutions. You'll get by with faith, by trusting in God and not reading your Bible up side down and wanting on the spot answers.

@seun, you definately dont know what it means to be an atheist. So who will you be repenting to?Its either youre really lost/confused or just been plain patronising to the christian faith.

Well said abuguy. I remember some months before I got married, at a friends birthday party, I was discussing with some friends. I was a single mum at that time and the topic of discussion was marriage. I had told them then that if I didnt marry my husband(we were dating then), I was never going to get married. Few months later my husband and I decided to get hitched.

Honestly, I meant what I said then. I was getting tired of the dating and breaking up thingy. If Neeyee and I had not gotten married, I would have resigned to a life a single motherhood with my son. If I felt like having another kid along the line, I would just look for a candidate and have another while maintaining my single status. That I would have done then, but now its a different story. It can really be tiring been single out there especially with married friends who have loads of kids. If age is not on your side, the feeling gets worse. Its not the best of options, no one would support you, but it IS the best option for some people.

WOW, now thats a good oppurtunity to french kiss the hell out of her! HEEEHEEE

Words of wisdom here from seun. I agree completely!

He would probably nuck her on the head and tell her "na you papa go explode"

If you deny him before men, He will deny you before his father in heaven.

Seun:

I will choose Satan immediately. Later I can repent. And if my wife is a Christian, I will tell her to shut up and choose Satan on her behalf. Later she can repent, too.

so Mr. Admin, what if your wife is a muslim? Or Jewish? Or athiest for that matter? And what will you be repenting from? Me thought you was athiest?

@ilovepda. Am sorry to say this but that was a very dumb thing to do. What was your aim? What were you planning on achieving? Were you hoping she'd get angry and dump her husband so you'd take over? See, she just laughed at you, and how does that make you feel? Fulfilled? I doubt much. Stupid? Probably.I never thought you would be ---- enuff to do that. A real pity. Why did you bother to ask our opinion in the first place if you knew you were going to tell her? All the opinions here said dont, so why ask in the first place?

Sorry for been too harsh, just trying to keep it real.

Well, I think you can take super appitite. Its an appetite stimulant or something. Makes you want to eat all the time.

Why am I not suprised?

Thanks choice.A, I really needed some one to Amen that prayer for me cause am really concerned about that so called Kinky church.

Hebrews 13:9. Do not be carried away by all kinds of strange teachings. It is good for our hearts to be strengthened by grace, not by ceremonial foods which are of no value to those who eat them.

@jigman. Its now something dey happen! 

Our Father in heaven, we worship you. We praise you and give all glory and honor to you. Today Lord I ask, in the name of your holy Son Jesus.Who you sent to the world to deliver us from death unto your salvation, your Son whom you gave the name, that every knee must bow to the sound of the name Jesus. I ask oh God, deliver us and our children from people like the reverend of the kinky Mary Magdaline church. Who are decieving people in your name. Father in your word in John 10:10, you said that the devil's purpose is to steal, kill and destroy. That is exactly what this kinky church is trying to do. To steal and kill destinys and also to destroy lives. Father I pray in the name of Jesus, that you paralyse their activities in Jesus name. Even in the lives of Nigerians and people all over the world. Father help us to resist the devil that he might flee from us, grant us the grace to draw near to you so you will also draw near to us. Purify our hearts oh God so the devil will not outsmart us, for we are familiar with the devil and all his schemes. Forgive our sins oh God, in deeds and in omissions. Lord cleanse our hearts.
Help us to guard our hearts and deliver us from all evil. In Jesus Name I pray.

sorry to disappoint you loverbwoy, but there's no shower hour on BBN.

Hey, did anyone notice? I sent a shout out to nairaland to the show via SMS. Guess, not. Well, the shows great and am enjoying it. My money is on Ebuka, he's so cute. He went to University of Abuja and also stays in Abuja. He's charming even in real life!

I agree with babymine especially the value of the relationship part. My brother-in-law and his wife were practically married before they were officially married. So when they got married it was nothing exciting,it was just like legalising what already was. I believe that when a couple get married, they are to have a kind of honeymoon. It doesnt have to be the conventional travel around the globe honey moon. What I mean is there should be a certain period of time after the wedding whereby they are to relish in their new union, blush about certain things and just naturally be excited with the marriage thingy.
If you were living together before marriage, there is no excitment in tying the knot. I believe when there is a new wife in the house, it should be an exciting moment for the family of having a new addition and wanting to pamper and pet the new addition before reality sets in. Those who are married will understand they initial IYAWO, AMARYA & (dont know the word in Ibo) period. Like in the case of my brother in-law, there was no excitement period after the wedding. It was like everyone was just happy to got it over with. She was already like part of the family and so noone even called her iyawo for up to a month. Things just went on as usual. If you intend to get married and have a good marriage, I dont think co-habitation is neccessary. Humans all have flaws and must work on their marriage for it to succeed.So if you find out the person has some flaws you now break up and find someone else? You'll cotinue doing that for ever cos we all have flaws.
Maybe Ive said too much, maybe I'm not making sence, but thats still my 2 cents.

Thanks donnie, for the info. Cant make it though. I plan to visit my mum/siblings for easter in Abuja.

Wouldnt our kids look divine?

WOW. rolly thats mine too. Proverbs 3:5-6

I can do nothing with my human understanding, I need God to direct my every path!

@africanboy, I agree with you completely. I mean, whats all the fuss about? As long as you and your spouse are ok with it and don't consider it as been distrustful(if theres a word like that), then why not? My Husband even answers calls from my mum if am not available to tell her am in the bathroom or something. Honestly I don't understand why this is such a big issue here, I guess it just depends on the couples concerned and there level of understanding and maturity.

@max, of cause you lost a day! After taking a whole barrel of that!

Hey kimba, I dont think anyone here has said not speaking your local dialect makes you a lesser human, so take a chill pill and calm down. Everyone is just giving their opinions, no one is disputing anything with you.
I also beleive people should move with time and the changing world whatever but that doesnt mean they should loose their identities in the process.

Hello nicola, why not announce your arrival in the new members thread? Wecome on board anyway.

@chinani. If you want to live and work in Nigeria, then service is important except if youre over 30-i think- or disabled or have done some kind of military service here in Nigeria. Its an experience that you'd live with and learn lessons from whether good or bad. I had a friend who was posted to cross rivers state. This girl is Hausa, Muslim,born and raised in kaduna and had never travelled past Abuja(except to Lagos). She had a terrible experience but you never hear her whine about it. She accepted it as one of those things and will always share the experience with anyone who cares to listen and laugh about it. She made new friends and learnt about the culture there. She fell in love with a guy there and learnt what it felt like to love someone and having to let go of that person cause her people wouldnt have accepted him.

I beleive that nomatter how terrible the experience, its left to the individual concerned to make something good out of it.

@flower, ok I get your drift
@bluenubian, well the trust is there in my marriage and I still answer my husbands phone. For my husband and I, its no big deal. Its a matter of opinion and IMO, its absolutelt silly to let my husband's phone ring off when am there and can answer it for him. I also have his email password and since I get on the net more often I check his messages and print them out for him. I even reply some. That to me is trust!