Its no big deal. If he's nearby, yes take it to him. But I dont expect my husband to start bringing the phone to me ringing all the way, to the back yard when am doing laundry or something just cause he respects my privacy and doesnt want to answer my phone for me! Even if its to say hold on or shes not available. Why should he let my phone ring off if he can answer it? My God, this is your huband or wife for christ's sakes!

Well, I for one speak my native language to my kids. Its the little I can give to them and make sure that in this "global village" world, they dont get lost wandering where they originated from.
One thing I dont allow though is anyone speaking to them in pidgin english. That I will not allow,at least not at this tender age(4 and 1).

LOL

Thats nice to know Brenton, glad I could help. Shes with the Swedish embassy now? Thats nice, shes really moving around. The experience will be good for her I guess. Oh well, more luck to you!

Well, I received this too at different times,obviously from the same person. Guess he/she forgot they had sent it to me before cause I didnt reply.

Hi
I'm Carol Oneil, born in USA, lived in Amsterdam, Netherland.I love making
Friends from all around the world, most especially
Christians. I saw your ID in www.penpals.com
I work in my church as a Youth director and also work for the U.N.H.C.R as Staff in the refugee department, and also serve the World vision as director to Canada two years ago. I Will like to meet you in person so that we can up lift The name of Christ Jesus and see why best we can Promote the gospel in your country. There is a youth Conferences coming up soon both in Germany and Gambia respectively.This conferences are Free, the Sponsors will be responsible for your air ticket, both in the Germany and Gambia, the Conference committee will also fax a letter to the German embassy with in countries, so do not worry about the Visa, these conferences are sponsored annually by UNICEF, United Nations Security Council and First Ladies of Presidents of United Nations.
All you have to do is to apply to the conference Office telling them that you want to attends the youth Conferences that will be taking place in both the Germany and Gambia. This is the email to Apply, kaneroldy@yahoo.com, tell them that I recommended you, this is my email address caroneilo@yahoo.com.
I will love to see you there.
God bless you. Have a nice day.
Thanks
Carol Oneil

AND

Hi
I'm jesssi blier, born in England, lives in Amsterdam,
Netherland.I love making Friends from all around the world, most
especially
Christians. I saw your ID in www.penpals.com.
I work in my church as a Youth director and also work for the
U.N.H.C.R as Staff in the refugee department, and also serve the World
vision as director to Canada two years ago. I Will like to meet you in
person so that we can up lift The name of Christ Jesus and see why best
we
can Promote the Gospel in your country. There is a youth Conferences
coming
up soon both in Netherland and South Africa respectively.This
conferences
are Free, the Sponsors will be responsible for your air ticket, both in
the
Netherland and South Africa and the Conference committee will also fax
a
letter to the Netherland embassy with in country, so do not worry about
Visa, these conferences are sponsored annually by UNICEF, United
Nations
Security Council and First Ladies of Presidents of United Nations.All
you
have to do is to apply to the conference Office telling them that you
want
attends the youth Conferences that will be taking place in both the
Netherland and Soth Africa. This is the email to Apply,
scottsmithmm@yahoo.co.uk, tell them that I recommended you, this is my
email
address jessica_shelly32@hotmail.com
I will love to see you there.
God bless you. Have a nice day.
Thanks
Mrs jessi

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@seun . Are you serious? WOW!Well, right back atcha!

Hey brenton, this is your lucky day! Am not sure about the rest of the family but I know claire. She works with the Australian High Commission her in Nigeria. The address is:

2940 Aguiyi Ironsi Street
Maitama,Abuja
F.C.T Nigeria

I'll send her numbers and e-mail to your box.

I met her in Abuja when I worked in a company called Tulip Press, we used to handle all the printing jobs for the commission.

I pick my husband's calls and my husband picks mine when either is not available.

Wow. malik, thank God you said it. I didnt want to be the one to say that udaiya's posts are always incomprehendable. I always get a headache trying to understand what shes trying to say.

Udaiyah, please try to proof read your posts before posting cause you always end up saying nothing.

@JosBoy. Well honestly I dont know what should happen in this kind of situation. We as human should try to distinguish ourselves from dogs. Its a dog that goes and gets his mama and sister and daughter and son's girlfriend pregnant. I dont know how to talk to a dog or how to advise them for that matter. Am sorry, but I hope am not offending anyone. Thats just my take on this issue.

@9ijaMan

Ive heard all that before but thanks for taking out time to make the explanations anyway. My purpose for asking the question has been achieved and I dont feel the need to continue on that issue cause thats not what the topic is all about. CIAO

dont worry about the corrupt government and the fighting, it wont affect your visit. Just amke sure you dont go to maiduguri, onitsha or any of those states rioting. You can come to Lagos. Its more peaceful, though you have to be careful with the area boys.
We Nigerians are known to experts in the suffering and smiling business. So you'll have fun when you come.
Also, since youre not Nigerian, it wont really be held against you if you dont do the postrating thingy. Just feel free and enjoy yourself when you get here. ciao

Hey Josboy, long time. Where have you been?

thats a nice picture, dargly.

Anyway, I served in 2001. I had the connections "as someone earlier put it" and so I worked my posting to Abuja since that was were I lived with my family. I was also able to work my posting to Fed. Min. Of Women affairs cause I was pregnant during service and wanted a place I would be comfortable. Anyway, I was posted to the child development depertmanet and further to their work place Nursery and creche' behind the police head qtrs in Abuja. I had a very nice time there and I also learnt alot in that day care. I learnt alot about kids and that has helped in shaping me to be the kind of mother I am now. I never really liked kids while growing up, I was kinda spoilt so kids were like competition to me. But going and working in that place opened my eyes to alot of things about children and child handling. I learnt so much about kids, there temperaments, eating habits, learning abilities, thier differences and so much more. I thot it would be a good place to laze and sloth during my service year cause I didnt want stress but am a better person from the experiences I got from that place. When my son came, I could take him to work with me and it was soo nice spending all that time with him.

I know alot of people who had a hard time during thier service year and I feel for them. I thank God mine was not so bad and the experiences from that time has helped till date. It was not a waste of a year for me, it was a very good year for me.

Youre welcomed yewande. Feel at home but dont be deceived by all the niceness, ?. There are all colors of sharks on NL!

OMG michy, thats so funny! OK, now you have to apologise to us on NL for making us laff so hard!

@attans. pray youve not even been chatting with a guy.

yes pls, whats are the answers to reniks guestions?

I dont think I would cause I am someone who can die from just feeling guilty. Besides, I''l get caught by * _{look up}*

@gridlock. Thank you jare. I told him, you dont need to have your own biological kids to love them or know how to take care of them.

I was too scared to watch the video clip 2cantango. I get really emotinal sometimes and I know watching might make me unable to sleep for sometime.
Hello Gotutripin, I dont think it was softees intention to make you feel bad. I think he did well sharing the info and pics with us all. I now have an entirely different view about all this. If you read my earlier posts, you'll see that I have even gone with a friend when she went to get an abortion, though I wouldnt do it, I wasnt entirely agaisnt it. I never knew it was so gory. Since youve made your decision to go ahead with it, may God see you through and I hope you come out of this unharmed.
Anyway, now youve learnt alot from this experience and I know you'll make better choices next time. Do take care of yourself and God bless.

teju,even if she tells the wife and the wife leaves him, he will never even marry her.
Look ilovepda, that man is just playing games with you. He will never leave his wife for you. If you dare try teling his wife, he will just deny you and claim youre chasing him or something. The way he sounds, he still loves his wife and cant live without her. He's just experimenting with you cause he's in a school environment. Just try to concentrate on acquiring whatever cert. you are currently pursuing and get away from that man, never look back and your own man will surely come. Men can be crafty, its a pity you fell in love with him, but fall out of it fast. Face your studies and dont dom that MouthAction thingy with him again. Its not worth it.
Sorry if I was too harsh.

teju, youre soo funny. You mean you said that to your pops ? LOL. I no blame you, na because the man no whip your A$$
Anyways, how far? Have you come to a decision on how to go about finding Tokunbo? Are you even gonna tell him?

Touch me with your hands, Jesus (2X)

Lord dont let me leave, the same way I came

Touch me with your hands, Jesus

wow softee, after seeing those pics I take back everything I said. Abortion is Murder!

Yes choice, I'll join you.

Lord, help us to realise that vengeance is yours and yours alone and that in as much as it feels good to take "an eye for an eye", it is more blessed to turn the other cheek. In Jesus's name we pray. Amen

rikkyjen, calm down already. LOL, anyway, I dont think he can be classified as a gospel musician cause hes music isnt christian and gospel is a word of christian origin.
anyway alfa, I think you might spoil your chances of been an Islamic/Muslim musician if you sing for this guy. If anything bad comes up about him, your own intergrity will be put on the line also.

@desiree, that is very true! I never even thot of that. In as much as its between you guys you should invovle an adult in this decision/process. You know, make it a family thingy so you would look respectable. Wow, there is sooo much to this issue. May God see you through.