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Marriage doesn't change anything about sexuality. You will still desire sex just like when you were single. The idea of getting it anytime you want it is fallacy. If you believe marriage will automatically help you escape from sexual immorality you will be disappointed when you eventually get married.

However, Marriage coupled with self control is a potent weapon against sexual immorality as a christian.

Millenniumlady:
Amen i tell you delivery is something i'm always afraid of as a lady i don't even know how I'll cope if i get married cause it scares me sometimes I'm thinking of adopting when I get married but Nigerian men won't accept that

Who will give birth to the one you want to adopt?

Skyfornia:
SMH...

*I have noticed with increase how some certain people on this forum abuse other individuals whose views are contrary to their own belief or dogma instead of expressing their arguments in a more mature and reasonable way.*

A journey through some of their previous comments you will also notice that some of these abusers are Atheists and people addicted to hard substances.

You go about pouring out your vituperations on every thread, creating nuisance and getting supports from your kinds...for your mind you feel say you be James Bond.

Now to the business of the day..

Some of you believe that some radiations can can attack a cell in human body.

You believe that consistent usage of x-ray machines can cause harm to the body.

You uses phones that recognizes your thumb, eyes and face and respond instantly.

You've seen or believe there's a technology that detects when someone lied.

Yet you find it difficult to believe that a technology such as 5G is harmful to humans or cannot have negative effects to a human body? Now I'm not saying that I have a proof of it's danger but the possibility cannot be neglected.

Your claim is that 5G is a non-ionizing radiation yet ultraviolet rays, Microwave which also are among the non-ionizing radiation are reported in most cases to be harmful to humans and animals.

Chinese, the originators of 5G are busy destroying the masts and *you are inside your small village abusing and cussing them.

Your colonial masters are determined to destroy all 5G programs in their territories, and you that studied physics in one local university in Nigeria is out here exposing your ignorance.*

I weep for you.

You are also one of those insulting others on this forum

Tsolutionifede:
alao Johnson , 009342167, wema. I need it now, don't bother sending it again if u fail to send it today

Ungrateful beggar spotted

efighter:
We are treating all cases. The only death recorded is of someone who has underlining illness and has just returned from medical check up abroad. All other cases are being treated. Corona is in trouble. This is Nigeria, not USA or Italy or Germany where the coward Corona has been killing them like local chickens.

We are Nigerians, we are above diseases and death. We tamed Ebola, humiliated Lassa Fever, now we are burying the coward Corona once and for all. We Nigerians are the saviour of the World

You have a positive mindset. I like that.

crackkhaus:
If not for the fact that these pastors, reverends, and priests love to see themselves as authorities, what stops your priest from joining you and your intended in the presence of only parents and siblings?

This could be done in the church still, or in an open space.

A large gathering of so-called faithfuls/believers serves no purpose beyond fanfare.

Do you think there is any church that imposes wedding on its members? If you want to marry and approach your church for this particular arrangement you are talking about, they will gladly do it that way.

fados4sure:
Good! Did you take note of where stated that you should only reference those you know for minimum of six months? I don't know you, I don't know your source of income and I don't know your purpose of opening the account.

Here you tried to feel like a demi god by telling him you can't help him. Now, judge yourself.

fados4sure:
I have both and it's 12 years

Here you declared that you have the solution to his problem.

EliteDude:
Nice one!!!

Is gaming shop reaaly a long term investment? Personnally i feel we'd get to the time when people wont
Need to go to a bet shop to bet, technology would change alot of things bro, i feel in about 5 years time from now, bet shops would phase out.
Remember back then when we'd to those shops that rent out Video CDs and Cassettes of Foreign and Nigerian movies.
Then everyone started BUYING THEIR OWN CDS AND CASSETES.
Please dont mis-understand me, just thinking long term and would love to know your tnoughts sir.

There was also a time people used to make calls with public phones until it also phased out and everyone started making call with their own phone.

TrumpDonald2:
Send me a message on whatsapp

Where is your phone number?

TrumpDonald2:
That will be an MDX sir.

Can I see a picture? I am serious about this.

TrumpDonald2:
There's a clean Hyundai Sonata 04 model, Acura TL 03 model, Camry01, Corolla 99, Honda CRV 02 etc

Can I get an SUV with AC for 700k? I am in Port Harcourt.

helinues:
Only heavy downpour can quench the fires..

This is beyond having sophisticated fire fighting equipments .. The solution lies with mother nature

You can't see rain when there is fire outbreak. It has never happened.

Awoo88:
Make sexual advance at her, if she is a good woman she will stop. But your could also.loss your friend

I don't need that. I have my own wife.

CyberWolf:
That you are talking to your friend’s wife behind his back is already a big problem talk more of sending her money.. you’re very stupid, Someone needs to tell you that. Why are you very close to your friends wife? ... You better tell your friend now and apologize before it gets out of hand, after that, block her and delete her number.

You are wrong. All of us were in the same fellowship in the university so she knew me even before they got married.

Working for these companies is not the ultimate in life. So many of us commenting have had this experience. One thing I discovered is that continuing to pursue a job with these companies can render someone's destiny useless because they may not employ you even if you apply a million times.
Don't even make the mistake of thinking that those who work with oil companies are richer than others. That's a myth. There is a business you will go into today and in the next 5 years you will even be far richer than the managers of these companies you are applying to.
There are many free websites where you can advertise your services and money will start flowing.

Larryfest:
Let her husband know before it gets out of hand and your "generosity" is termed something else..

Please put your entire comment in quotes

obiekunie2:
bros if them leave u ba?

u go climb that woman!



if not for your long throat on the woman she wouldn't be asking you for money!



she was aking you for money bc she has seen u hav interest in her.


tell urself the truth.

Everyone is not like you

CAPSLOCKED:
THIS IS HOW THEY START. SOON THEY'LL START SUBMITTING WHEN THE CASH STOPS COMING FREELY.

WHY NOT TALK TO YOUR FRIEND TO FIX HIMSELF IF HE'S BROKE?
IF IT'S A CASE OF GREED FROM THE WIFE'S PART THEN IT MUST BE TACKLED BEFORE SHE DECIDES TO SIGN UP ON CODEDRUNS OR INMESSAGE.

My friend is financially okay

GraGra247:
Seconded!! Clearly tell her that going forward, she gets any money she requests for through her husband.

Problem is that once a woman forms the habit of begging men for money outside her marriage, not too long afterwards she'll end up in their beds one by one.

So better be careful.

Thanks, this is what I will do.

Please I need a piece of advice on how to handle this situation.

I have a very close friend and his wife has asked for financial assistance severally and I obliged. The problem I have here is what will my friend think if he should be seeing a bank alert from me on his wife's phone?

The woman has been calling my line since the beginning of this month which I have continued to ignore. She would later send text asking for financial help and this kind of situation is very confusing because you might report to her husband and they will both turn the whole thing against you.

Please what should I do?

Ximenez:
Yes I understand you. Most of the times i even force my girl to accept gifts from me because it makes me feel more like a man and take control of the relationship.

But if it doesn't happen that way let's say to you, are you that wretched in life that you can't buy your own things?
I only spend on girls that do not have sense of entitlement and gold-digger instinct, because they are rare to find and they make me happy.

Unlike majority of the hungry girls from hungry homes we have around. You take them out for a date, they eat like pigs and then take away some for their family at home, they will even ride with you in the car their father couldn't afford, and what do they have to give? Just vagina. Only their vagina gives them this sickling sense of entitlement. I just pity foolish and desperate guys with no proper training, they will continue to be at the receiving end of this nonsense.

You are very insulting. What makes you think you are richer than their father?

All I see here is poverty. You can't see this among the elites. They have a way of settling their scores.

Nukilia:
Heaven rest his soul!
This should serve as deterrence to other Nigerians who are noise makers in a foreign land.
You can't leave a confused nation like Nigeria where every kind of nuisance is allowed and go to the US and constitute nuisance to a sane society.

The way worship houses and clubs blast sound all over the country is a sign that our mental health as a nation needs to be properly assessed.


#RIP

Is the US a sane country? I would rather live in Haiti than live in the US where you are not sure of seeing the next day because of mass shooting that can happen at anytime.

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, events like this makes me ashamed to be associated with Christianity and sometimes I'm tempted to join Islam. Majority of the bastards we call pastors are wolfs in sheep clothing. Christianity habours so many madness. No Islamic cleric has been caught in this sexual mess because they are guided accordingly by the tenets of Islam. Is it a coincidence that 3 pastors have been disgraced in few months and many more to come? Islam will soon take over Nigeria cos shameful incidents like this will make many Christians convert to Islam

Christianity is a personal thing. I have no business with the conduct of any pastor. What brought me into Christianity is the love of Christ and knowing that Jesus is the truth.

OruExpress:
In Igbo cosmology, Ala, the earth, delivers messages using pythons. We believe that if you understand one thing you understand all things. Those that observe the python are observing the rivers and those who are observing the rivers are learning about Ala.

In the beginning of the world all was water. This water is called Oshimirri. Yorubas call it Osun Oyi. The primordial water where all things come from. When Oshimmiri formed into Ala, the streams and rivers remained and from then the python emerged.

the Python is the messenger of Ala. And because it was on the land before man, man had to negotiate with the python to inherit its land. The Python is the true land lord in many communities and the laws of the land similar to lease agreement. An oath ancestors make with Ala in order to remain worthy of the lands gifts. Every now and then a python emerges, and performs a function similar to a land lord touring their property.

Where the pythons meet, shrines are build because the presence of Ala is concentrated there.

Some people believe we worship pythons or even the shrine. That is not true. We respect the python because it was there before us and seek to live in peace with it as tenets on this earth. Shrines indicate where spirits gather and the python being the messenger, knows where.

The earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof. Every part if this world belongs to God Almighty and not to any Python.

PureGoldh:
I am Burnaboy 's fan but Truth be told... What Burna Boy did no make sense at all.

You don't know what's troubling the guy... He should have let the guy be... After all the guy paid for the show and he is present there..

Meanwhile... My people... If you need Original Pure Honey

Call or whatsapp me on the number attached to my signature below

I like your comment but I don't need original pure honey

Nigerian depression- Suicide, US depression- Mass killing.

[quote author= post=81036499]The first 3 comments and many comments after them actually posted the same thing!
That tells you how the mind of an average Nigerian youth work.
You don't need any scientist to carry out any research about how an average Nigerian youth think anymore.

Una village people no dey better person life?!
Dem no dey helep person for their life?!
Na so dem wicked reach?
Even if dem wicked dis much,
dem no fit gather kill all these evil and corrupt politicians for d country oppressing your lives?
What a Crude and archaic mentality!
Orisirisi something.....


It is just so appaling bro![/quote]You have not had any experience yet.

This is nonsense. Whatever you offer to someone as a gift is no longer yours. The man is foolish and does not love his children.

KY JELLY is the solution to your problem. I encountered the same thing in 2015 after I got married. Apply KY jelly on your genital and hers too. Then go in gently but bear in mind that it can take up to two weeks to gain entry.