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Kaytrump001:
There is a guy call ayomide,and the female called nifemi, one day there is a party going on in there village,so this two cosine meet at the party, but the two familie member like there self, it happen that they have to live with there sister together,for more:[img]https:///3Oa5YuP[/img]

And you go follow dey shout say SCHOOL NA SCAM.

DonBenny77:
Na wah!
human being life sake of sheeps and goats

This is to show you how they see people through their eyes. That is why they can kill without reconsideration. We are just goat & sheep in their

Abfinest007:
He should complete his jail terms oo

Someone that will MOST LIKELY be in one high class hotel fucking nigerian girls and popping more bottles and flying out of naija

PoliteActivist:
Who senior the president??

Corruption & Chinese loans

GREATIGBOMAN:
Source?

Why did he stop the interview at Netflix if I may ask?
Since it seems he's catching fun by doing interviews.

And how come they all had Job openings at same time

There is always space in the pot for the right ingredient.

Samakus:
What do you guys think? I should confront him or let it be?

Seems you are living in a free house or you stole the money you used to pay rent if not you will have enough right to open your door and ask him EXCUSE ME WHAT DO YOU WANT? when you ask him 2 or 3 times then he will get the message. If he no correct himself then na full time confrontation and warning.

You don't hesitate when handling such matters if not it will become tradition.

Ordinary bird wey wan build nest for my balcony i use broom kill all the children and left the dead children for the bird to come back and see. E come be human being. I go pour you palm oil and look you deep in your eyes to tell you it was a mistake.

U no fit come out confront am? U come here dey complain.

Make she go do am for her papa house.

Ghester:
He should treat himself na, He's rich

Have you been to the hospital and seen the amount of rich people there? In the end we are all human and sickness or health does not recognize your wealth.

Just saw it online. He even had to cancel a show because of this.

Oh men. I feel sad for him.
Which kyn virus be this again

una kidnap am, com force UNKNOWN SUBSTANCE inside him hand, com dey video am abi?
- that is the Police Press release statement

Bonavi:
1 Vote Atiku by typing 1
2 Vote Tinubu by typing 2
3 Vote Obi by typing 3

Voting starts now

seems you are looking for how to cure boredom.

OyeofIkoTuN:
You no sabi maths?

You wan learn programming ?

Na church programme you go fit arrange be that oo..

You don't need maths for that kind programming,just CRS.

and you say you are a child of God with this kain blasting.

Maybe you look like Buhari

Crvrider:
Try training two boys all by yourself and come give us the feedback...feeding, rent, medicals, schooling, clothing and plus the fact that you're out in the morning only to return at night.

Are you done?
Seems you know so much about her than the rest of us. You even know when she comes back home.
Well done.

Crvrider:
Pathetic response. You seem to judge and blame her for everything without first putting yourself in her shoes. It's hard enough for two parents how much more one.

You talk about burning bridges like you think it's a convenient thing for her to do. My wife's friend lost her husband in a car accident. After the burial, all his family members promised heaven and earth. Trust me when I tell you that today it's a different story, no one wants to help. When you don't know someone's story, next time, show empathy if you can't offer help.

See how your example is in total contrast with the narrative. But feel free to see it your way.

See how you get carried away by emotions and the woman's side of the story. Now who is the judge? Have you heard the boy's side of the story?

Have you sat down to think that those boys might actually be the true victims of horrible parenting in this matter? Or you are just being SYMPATHETIC.

Instead of giving advice from your phone, Why don't you show sincere empathy and ask the woman for her address so you can go there and sit the boys down for a chat yourself. Do that if you really have interest in helping but you will not.

chccho:
Oga Judge so after all this your condemnation and blames how have u helped the poor woman with any solution your whole epistle is full with negativity no meaningful contribution. Clap for yourself o

Help which poor woman? See how you get carried away by emotions and the woman's side of the story. Now who is the judge? Have you heard the boy's side of the story?

Have you sat down to think that those boys might actually be the true victims of horrible parenting in this matter? No, you only think one way.

Solution? What can your online advice do? Captain HELPER! Why don't you ask the woman for her address so you can go there and sit the boys down for a chat yourself. Do that if you really have interest in helping but you will not.

enonche85:
I totally agree with you on this, but the deed has already been done. What's the way forward now?.

OP as someone said, involve other family members and if they can't abide by your rules they should leave your house when they turn 20 to fend for themselves. Meanwhile if you are still interested go and remarry.

As for way forward, paragraph 2 covers that.

Though there is little or nothing our online suggestions can do for a woman who must have burnt all her important family bridges and caused the damage by overlooking the early rot signals.
I was a very bad child, still a bad guy but there many things my mom must not hear or see about me even as a married man. Why? Because I know she will start fighting against those things as soon as she sees them so i already know it is a waste of time for me to even get involved with such in the first place. She always makes her stance against rubbish very clear.

Come to think of it, you might be shocked to hear first hand appalling information from her neighbors, family and friends concerning details on how she raised the boys. Those boys just might be the main victims of bad parenting. Maybe.

Anobody:
I've tried talking calmly, denying certain privilege and discipline but it keeps getting worse, my last option is to take them back to their father's village before I die of hbp. I'm depressed nairalanders�, please I seek matured advice, thanks.

Please help me push to front page �

You left them to grow wild and free, now you want to bend them when they have grown thorns all over? Ear rings and dreads. What next? Cult codes and drugs? Crime & pregnancy? Regular Gambling? You failed to read the signs early enough. The help you seek now is what you should have done 10 years ago. There is no way both of them could have turned out this way without all your little little silent approvals of their little harmless sins.

Is there no male figure from your side of the family you can talk to? Because for you to bring this matter to NL means you have burnt your bridge with their father's people.
Where is your pastor? Or someone they can respect because from your narration, they have learnt to cover for each other and are now forming their own counrty, soon to overthrow you.

Take them back to the village at this age? After they have blended with the streets this far? Good luck with that.

UpInTheSky:
Or better yet, call the Police on them and maybe even have them spend 2-3 days in jail..

Say goodbye to your sons forever if you try this as a single mom. You have not finished dealing with the influences they are reacting to then it is to go and join them with professional criminals and also brew more hate and disgust for you. OYO

Artisticity1:
Do you mean he has his own crypto...

Oversense can kill. Reduce it

tessybrown:
Na so you fine reach? Abi waytin I go call am?

No be by fine. Man no dey fine.
It is just how it happens for me and many other guys I have seen.
Just last month I know a guy who a girl came to his house with someone to profess her love and desire to marry him. E dey happen.

tessybrown:
Share your experience…

As for me have not o ,I dunno but am still hoping to get those butterflies

I can't count. Right from small. all the love letters & val greeting cards in secondary school before the ones at uni & work places started.
I have even been publicly embarrassed by a lady i had been ignoring and her group of friends. Feels good tho and it gets better when you have a little money & your packaging is on point. You better not know how to fuhck because na there your problem go start.
Real niggas understand

care4you:
Am here to romance your two sacked balls
Ugerrit?

..

Na wah oh. Na ur ferrow man balls u wan Lomance

Oya link it to ogun killings without any forensic investigation or ballistic testing.

Very eccentric man.

But Barbossa was my favorite pirate in the series.

baba will soon set them free and give them scholarship to UK where they will be paid allowance and later return to this country so become governors and senators. one of them may even end up becoming your president in a few years time.

Artisticity1:
The best advice will be... Find something better to advertise... Maybe pampas

Or toothpick

investorcj:
But I need advice if it's right for me to give her my 100 percent even though I don't feel she gives upto 90 percent of her love to me.

She is rubbing shiiit on your face and you're here talking about love. There can be no love without respect.
The worst mistake you will make is to confront her because she will rubbish you by making you feel stupid. That is when you will start hearing those manipulative phrases like JUST A FRIEND & INSECURE & REAL MAN. You are simply begging for attention and respect if you confront her. Let her be in her zone.

open your trash can and put her right inside and see what happens. Don't even bother to tell her why you dumped her. Just dump her like a faulty charger.

Finally, you will not take any advice here. You will still go and beg her to GIVE YOU ALL HER LOVE.

Sit down & Open your hand let Nigeria GIVE you predidency.