Mindlog: "I mean, once you are traditionally married to him, having a child for him... you can't easily change your mind again and Look for another man!?".......So wrong, traditional marriage is the easier to end, as in many communities, it entails refunding the bride price paid to the intending ex-husband in comparison to the one done in a registry.
Such marriage is transactional, the man wants a wife and children in Nigeria as back up while the "wife" in Nigeria wants steady income and most times still have sex with other men while still being "married".
I know a Nigerian man who is married to a Dutch and based in Amsterdam, he did go back to Nigeria to marry a lady from his place and now have 2 children. The man got the information that she is steadily sexually active with a guy and she didn't deny it, he threatened to throw her out of his house in Lagos while she threatened to report him to the Dutch Embassy in Nigeria for bigamy as it is a criminal offense in Netherlands, which would get the man prosecuted and spending some time in prison....Uncle, has now kept quiet despite the pressure from his family in Nigeria to throw her out of "his" house.
Lol... What audacity from that insidious woman. He had better do a DNA test on his 2 kids in Nigeria.
FreeStuffsNG: Nurudeen Jackson Adeleke reported that he attended Jackson ville State University, Jackson ville.
Everything con Jack together. orishirishi. smh
It will be the 1st wonder of this world if Sen. Adeleke still submitted fake credentials again. I will be shocked beyond shockability if he is found guilty of forgery.
I keep my fingers crossed and believe he is innocent for now.
Meanwhile, I am still standing on the mandate of Asiwaju Tinubu. Asiwaju is the best and most brilliant among all the candidates vying for the Presidency. Vote for Asiwaju Tinubu. check my signature for free stuff!
Islie: Adeleke’s certificates show Osun governor-elect obtained bachelor’s degree 24 days after finishing secondary school
Potential criminal implications of Ademola Adeleke’s academic record are a key prong of Gboyega Oyetola’s prayers before the election petitions tribunal in Osogbo.
These series of horrendous blasts are inside jobs done by those with links to the Russian leadership led by Putin to deflect attention... This is the way dictators behave and consolidate their grip on power!
Faiththatworks: I always start by making my bias very clear,I will vote Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu for president of Nigeria next year. I shudder at the noise coming from the camp of the opposition against the suit worn by his Excellency Sen Shettima 2 days ago at the NBA conference. I have always been an advocate of allowing the citizens hear what the transformational plans of the presidential candidates of the different political parties for Nigeria will be next year,alas the mob crowd shifted from critizing their presentations to clowning about Sen Shettima suits. From Asiwaju's Tinubu certificate to Sen Shettima connection with Boko Haram,to Muslim-muslim combination,now it's the suits,all of these while we allow the crazy mob crowd deprive us of the opportunity of listening to policy decisions that will affect everyone's life for another 4 years. Asiwaju selection of Sen. Shettima is nothing short of that of a calculating political strategist,for the 1st time since Democracy was restored back in 1999,the real Hausa citizens have a shot of getting into the power. From Alh Atiku in 1999 to Gov Yaradua in 2007,Alh Namadi Sambo,to Baba Buhari,it has always been one Fulani man exchanging the baton of leadership between themselves,while the Hausa men were just left as appendages of the Fulani. I keep saying the silence of the Hausa men on the BBC Bandit of Zamfara documentary should scare any Fulani man,the Hausa men are plotting, reorganizing and strategizing on how to take over power. 2023 is a power struggle in the North,Sen. Shettima represents a break away for the average Hausa from the hegemony of the Fulani. That's why I'm sure it will be a battle in the North, Alh Atiku and Sen Yisuf Datti represents a continuation of the old order,I also think it will be a terrible mistake for anyone to underestimate the prowess of Sen Kwankwanso up North. 2023 election will be very interesting especially in the Northern part of Nigeria. God bless Nigeria.
Senator Kashim Shettima is a Kanuri man from Borno State and NOT a Hausa by ethnicity. Hausas predominate the North East of Nigeria and parts of Niger Republic.
Flashback to 2015. There has been serious uproar about how GEJ was handling his presidency vis-a-vis insecurity and the corruption amongst his ministers especially that of the oil minister and Stella oduah. The problem that seemed to stand out from others was the supposed overbearing attitude of his wife (Patience Jonathan) that made many to make her the butt of jokes and even GEJ was blamed for handing over governance to her.
She was truly overbearing because this was reflected at a PDP stakeholders meeting when Amaechi Chibuike (the present minister for works) was talking at the podium. Patience Jonathan went straight to the podium and snatched the microphone from Amaechi and began to berate him. Amaechi, pain and embarrassed, could not do much because she is the president's wife so he went to sit down but later moved out of the meeting. This was all televised on national TV. Although other untoward attitudes of Patience had unsettled some PDP stalwarts before this incidence, but that one with Amaechi marked the start of disintegration of the PDP under GEJ. The PDP governors of the North had been considering backing out of the party. Now a willing tool in the person of Amaechi had been discovered.
Tinubu (of ACN as at then) was watching all these as it transpired. Then he noted the friction between Amaechi and patience and also the already weakening alliance of PDP governors of the North. He decided that was a moment to strike!
That week that Patience Jonathan shamed Amaechi at the podium, the latter was invited by Tinubu and then the various defections and counter PDP moves began. Then what followed was the alliance talks to form the APC from ACN of the North (which received majority of the disgruntled PDP northern governors) and ACN of the south which already had strong presence within the atates of the South west. Amaechi who was hitherto a strong PDP link and PDP stalwart in the south south and south east regions had been shamed by Patience and was now a potential weak link to the party in that region. Tinubu approached him and formed an alliance with him, so began the war to bring down the ruling party.
Fast forward to 2022 and a similar trend is playing out. Wike incontrovertibly is a strong man to be reckoned with in PDP, for it was him who provided the emotional and financial war chest all those times that PDP flimsily hung on to relevance. He kept the spirit of the party alive all through these past years when even GEJ who is an ex-president on the party could not muster his own strenght and relevance to pull the party together and hold the people united. Wike braved it all and held the party to be relevant in tbe South South and South East. He had alliances with Makinde of Oyo and kept in touch with the vocal Ayodele Fayose of Ekiti in the south west, who also vowed to be a die hard PDP man.
All these while Atiku, who is notorious for whimsically adulterating political parties like a petulant child changes toys, was lounging in Dubai. And when the time came for Wike (who now believes that he had the right to the presidency on the platform of the party he has held together), and truly who wouldn't aspire for such too, Atiku jetted back into Nigeria to snatch that moment from Wike, enabled by his northern brother who Wike had also trusted until the last minute when he stepped down for Atiku, paving the way for him (Atiku) to have a majority vote against Wike.
Wike has the arsenal to decimate the PDP as far as the south south and partially the south east is concerned and this is a fact the Northern PDP should realize. Wike is pained and rightfully so on three fronts:
First, he felt cheated that someone who was not with him all the years he invested into the party came overnight and clinched the slot from him accompanied by the betrayal of Tambuwal which allowed Atiku to win the primaries. And before you justify Tambuwal's betrayal as "his choice to support whoever he wants", know that he and Wike reached an understanding of alliance up till the last minute of his defection to Atiku's side. I can't think of any way Wike annoyed him right there at the venue of the primaries to do such at the last minute. It will have been more humane (this is not to say that politicians have humane attributes though, but there is even a code of honour amongst thieves) of Tambueal to have made his mind know from day one so that Wike could have been given a chance to reconsider his options before the primaries.
Second, the unwritten zoning agreement within the party which if strictly adhered to, should favour the unanimous emergence of Wike as a Southern aspirant on the party platform has just been broken with the insistence of Atiku to contest the primaries.
Third, an undeserving Atiku after winning the primaries amidst backstabbing should as a matter of sportsmanship, akin to what Tinubu did, approached the other contestants especially Wike and forged a proper alliance with him. This alliance should possibly include the promise of the vice presidency slot to him, irrespective of the fact that Wkie publicly declared that he will never be a second hand man (vice president) in Nigeria. But Atiku made no such attempt. Even after a party committee was set up to chose between Wike and Ifeanyi Okowa, at which point Atiku had the free pass to appease Wike, he still decided to chose Okowa. This is of course apparent in Atiku's fear that Wike is a man like him - difficult, egoistic, rebellious, corrupt, sometimes recalcitrant and a potential troublemaker; all problems that Obasanjo had from Atiku as his vice president. So Atiku will not love to have the same sword he used passed over his own head, thus his choice of Ifeanyi Okowa, a more malleable person, as his running mate.
Now Tinubu has seen this crack and like a reharsh of 2015 strategy, has gone for the southern strongman of the party, with the hopes of forging an alliance and decimating the chances of the party in the south south, and maybe in the south east, come 2023 general elections.
I sincerely feel that if BAT could claim "investment in the APC" as a reason for a right of passage for him to emerge a candidate in his party, why can't Wike also claim same in PDP? This is irrespective of the fact that this strategy may be counterproductive as it did with the APC who lost the chance to field an egghead like Osinbajo as her candidate, a choice which would have prevented the problems associated with a Muslim-Muslim ticket and a move which would as well placed the APC a formidable opponent towards the rising popularity of Peter Obi who many is seeing as a viable alternative to the vibrancy, great health, oratory prowess and youthful strenght that they were denied in Osinbajo the moment he was stopped from emerging a candidate of the APC.
But at this point, an egoistic Wike will not mind sinking the PDP just so to prove his point. And an equally egoistic Atiku will not mind pushing his luck to the last just so to prove that Wike is irrelevant. Two points of return has been passed. The first point of repair was immediate post primaries when Atiku could have appeased Wike with something as ordinary as an official visit to him in Rivers state, the second point of repair being his chance to choose Wike as running mate. Sadly a point of no return has been reached and for the two giants, is a fight to the finish.
While your claim of placeholder deserves consideration, you are indeed wrong in the bolded. Yar'Adua had what is called Mennier's disease which had many complications associated with it, renal problems included. It was just a matter of time before the inevitable happened.
Tinubu on the other hand appears to be suffering from an early onset of the problems of advancing age. Some people like OBJ, are blessed with delayed onset of these inevitables. What this means is that there is no chance for rapid deterioration in health like it happened in Yar'Adua's case. So BAT may go an uneventful 8 years.
But truly, I still have my concerns, for an ailing BAT is incomparable to an energetic Òsínbàjó and Peter Òbí. However, time is the only referee in this instance.
Having said that, I hope that whoever clinches this position between the duo of Tinubu or Peter Obi should as a matter of urgency start moves, subtle, covert or otherwise to commence true federalism if he really wants to show Nigerians that he has their best interests at heart.
The productive people are bleeding and the goose that lays the golden egg is being starved. And this is serious injustice that must be addressed first to ensure that every other thing falls in line. Obasanjo brought some semblance of balance into the polity when he became the president and the peace was apparent in his reign.
True federalism will significantly reduce the power in the centre, thereby reducing the perennial struggle for the seat in Abuja between the various ethnicities and nationalities in this country. A sanwó-olú in Lagos will not be desperate to clinch the seat in Aṣọ Rock because the monies there will not even be worth the trouble. He will prefer to see the presidency more as prestige than as enrichment. He will rather stay in Lagos where the money is and the citizens will also be a winner because they can hold their governor who is closer to them in a small Lagos to account better than they can do to a Sanwó Olú in a larger, more difficult to administer Nigeria.
Also true federalism could be a first baby steps to regional system of governance that brought the much needed developments to all the regions at their own pace in those previous golden years of Nigeria. No thanks to Aguiyi-Ironsi who destroyed such lofty and great arrangement that plunged us back into the abbyss.
True federalism will ensure the North adopt the trajectory for development, away from this current mode of paratism which their leaders have kept the citizens in falsely believing is the way to live their lives. With federalism, the North will see a thriving, non-religious extremist states thriving and to avoid going hungry because the handouts from the federation account is no longer forthcoming, the citizens will be irked to push their leaders and reconsider a way to fully maximizer their own potentials of religious Ness, agriculture, culture, solid minerals and tourism to also generate wealth for their region. There is a country in Eastern Africa whose Muslim population does not go to mecca for their hajj. They created their own hajj in their country and they're fairing well. A religiously tolerant, beautiful, digital, literal and modern Northern Nigeria could work to create a hajj for Nigerian moslems in the North and before you know it, the entire subsaharan Africa and Africa at large could soon start seeing Northern Nigeria as a viable, religiously acceptable hajj destination for those not able to afford the financial demands and stress associated to pilgrimage to Mecca.
If we experiment with true federalism for some years, we can decide if it is best we retain it or move again to trying out regional system.
Omonieme: Lol. Shettima achieving exactly what he sets out to achieve. Deflect attention from Tinubu's no show while garnering more publicity.... As they say, no publicity is bad publicity. Ya'll continue the Shettima challenge which makes people talk more about him, watch his presentation which actually was brilliant and gain some more votes. Yeye. Always prioritizing non issues. Na everybody dey sell him market abeg. Shettima Gan Don sell him own the best way he sees fit. Me, I'm thinking of upgrading my car so, I Wan sell my 2004 Camry. E dey my profile. Check it out and let's deal
Lol... Nicely put.
Nigeria cracks me up with the impulsiveness of people who jump at every artificially-generated topical issue to gain web traffic to their crappy blogs.
I've used virtually all their products, including hair clippers, AAA and AA batteries, chargers, both 10,000 and 27,000 MAH power banks, extension cables, car charger, freepod 3 and they are all working till now.
After years of purchase.
And by the way, make sure you charge all your new devices 100% before use, so as not to kill the battery.
chimeremodlyn: A basic 2 child has no business using biro until basic 3. All in all, use patience and teach her. I tried it with my daughter and it worked. She has a very wonderful handwriting now. Pls always reward her anytime you notice an improvement. It will ginger her d more. Your child shd also be introduced to the cursive or nelson handwriting. It may make her slow but you will achieve result with patience. Also, buy many handwriting books. It helps too
1stGenAmerican: There are conditions like Irlens Syndrome which can cause this but that doesn’t mean this is what is happening. Diagnostics won’t hurt.
Practice will be one of the best solutions but I want to remind you that there is a known link between intelligence and bad penmanship. Don’t panic. Some of the world’s smartest people have bad handwriting and your child’s being messy doesn’t mean that you aren’t raising a little genius.
Nicely put 1stGenAmerican.
A lot of folks that grew up being criticised and looked down upon [with dyslexia and Attention Deficit Disorders] went on to put up stellar performances in various fields of human endeavor as child prodigies and influential adults.
IamMobisola: Ask any woman you know who uses vibrators and tell them to tell you the difference and which one they prefer. 98% will tell they prefer vibrators. Lol, that's why I never want to go down that route of ever using a vibrator because those things can do miles of what men can't dream of doing when it comes to pleasure.
Forget oo
What's stopping you from using it for that brain-altering experience? Enjoy the pleasures of self-discovery from a "rabbit vib" if you can handle it... *smirk*
The female orgasm is often depicted as the center of a woman’s sexual satisfaction and the ultimate goal of sex. Your wife is not getting this experience during sex with you and that’s the reason why she got a vibrator. But I can tell you that you got a good wife. Do not listen to people telling you that your wife is going to cheat on you with another man. Never. If she was going to do it, she would have started it without thinking of getting a vibrator. I personally bought a vibrator for my wife so that she can pleasure herself when am not around. She has described it as the best gift I ever bought for her. As a married man, it is your responsibility to satisfy your wife irrespective of how tired you might be. The good news now is that you guys have a vibrator and this makes your work easier. Call her in privately and have a romantic conversation with her. Tell her to bring out the vibrator and that you want to experience it too. Be romantic at this time with smiles on your face. Kiss her gently and passionately. Gradually move your tongue to her breast while your fingers already gone to her clitts and her hands grabbing you d**k. Keep it that way for 5 minutes or more. Then go down for oral with your tongue. Pay attention to the clitts while doing that. And finally give her the vibrator to use while you start the job. Make sure she has space to place the vibrator on her clitts while you do your job. Go slowly so that you don’t cum quick. The goal is for her to reach orgasm first while you finish it up. Say some smooth sexy words while doing your thing. Boy after this, she will be hopping on you like a dog. Stay blessed and enjoy your marriage.
The thread was actually so useful, and to some extent it reduced derailers from destructing posters' thread, and I feel bringing it back with a modification which is, instead of Romance section only we are making it, for the whole Nairalander.
The last time someone commented on that thread was October 11 2015.
So come in, let the off topic discussion begin... No dulling..
I wanted to let you know that I had a convo (using standard negotiations skills) with the moniker "S*l*y*f*x" on Sunday the 21st of August and he gave me his word that he would NOT harrass and troll you again. I was starting to get annoyed due to the derailment of that FA thread... so instead of repeatedly having the mods to ban the moniker, I got that intuitive nudge to engage him because there had to be a "deep psychological trigger" for his actions... and it worked! So the de-escalation of the situation through negotiations sometimes works better than the outright banning of a relentless troll.
He also has a newly registered NL moniker from 22nd of this month [ August], but he'll definitely NOT do the relentless trolling again because of the regard he said he has for me via our convo and you have to just ignore him as well. I remember that you shared my thread post on the Japanese reality TV star/wrestler who took her life in 2020 because of cyberbullies. Her suicide should never have happened if STRICTER CYBERBULLYING laws had been implemented in Japan and indeed the entire world.
Side Note: Do you use the NL "Report Button" as well? I personally use the NL "Report Button" with "Rules Violated" numbers of : 19, 2, 3, 8, 9, the most. So in the event that you get hit by some other troll, first use the NL "Report Button" with "Rules Violated" numbers of : 19, 2, 3, 8, 9.
I'll talk to you soon "brown sugar"...
P.S. I posted this today, the 1st of September 2022. I originally wanted to post this earlier on the 24th of August 2022.
XshegzzyeeiX: The trend in the world especially in Africa’s most populous black nation Nigeria is that women now sleep with dogs for money.
While many people don’t know the effects of having sexual intercourse with animals including dogs, the craze for material wealth through ritual means is the reason behind the growing trend.
A popular socialite, Dr Kemi, said recently that a billionaire told her they pay young girls huge amount of money through their agents to have sex with dogs for ritual purposes.
Also, an account of a Lagos Nigeria young girl who bought a Lexus Jeep and changed her apartment to a highbrow area of the city within a few months of sleeping with over 10 dogs, lost everything when she was infected with a disease medical doctors are still struggling to heal.
“My Virgina is smelling profusely. The virgina itches me all the time and there are wounds in my private part which made my legitimate boyfriend leave me,” a young lady in Lagos Nigeria who has been sleeping with dogs secretly was quoted as saying.
Medical experts say it is impossible for a person who had sex with a dog or a religion or other animal to live longer under any circumstances.
While some Nigerians are expressing displeasure over a video posted on social media of women having sex with dogs, medical doctors say the negative implication of such an act is high.
Even though it is not healthy to sleep with an animal, women whose video went viral on social media about such acts with dogs, are likely to spend 14 years in prison if caught by the police, even though science says they can’t live up to these years.
chocolateme: I met him in NYSC camp on the second day of camp, and we became friends but he wanted more than just being "friends" I seriously declined because of fear that it may be infatuation and the normal camp brief hookups and games. He never relented, he persisted, I stood my ground even though I had feelings for him. Just protecting my heart and emotions. And wanted to know what happens when we leave camp. I have a family friend from home, we are not close but our parents are and attend the same church. Hardly talks with her but we say hi once in a while. Coincidentally, she was in the same camp as me and we met and still say hi once in a while. A few days later, we started talking small talks starting from church stuff to camp gist. I was supposed to meet my friend (the guy) on the Bonfire night so we sat together, gist, and catch fun that day. I cooked with my platoon members that night, I got tired but I rushed to the hostel to go and bath, freshen up and come back to the campground. I just laid on the bed to rest for a few minutes and slept off, when I opened my eyes, it was last 7 am the following morning lol. Missed calls from him almost banished my phone. A few days to leave camp, my friend(the lady) kept telling me about meeting someone on that bonfire night, from her gist, it was love at first sight. She was eager to introduce him to me. Fast forwarded to after camp, we all found ourselves in the same city of the state but at different PPAs, we meet at CDs too. She invited me to her house to come and finally meet her guy. Lol. I went and surprisingly it's my friend(the guy) if you see the shock ehhh!!, He was more shocked than I was. All those while after camp, we communicate but not as before because I still refused to date him, just following my heart but he respected that and stopped pressuring me. All I observed in their relationship is that she loved him way more than he loves her, she sacrifices all to the relationship but he was just not into her. She tells me everything when we talk on the phone or meet, and I encouraged her too. He doesn't cheat on her but he just doesn't feel the same way. I once called him to meet, I warned him to leave her if he couldn't reciprocate her love, he swore that he is trying to love her the same but it's not working but that he is trying to make her happy. She put a lot of energy into that relationship. We all later stopped communicating, life goes on you know. I never met or spoke with either of them since then till now (10 years later) I never told her that I knew him before they met nor did I tell her that he loved me and was after me before meeting her. He told me then after we met at her house based on that introduction that he was tired of sitting on the grass waiting for me on that bonfire night, that when he knew I wasn't going to come out after not answering his numerous calls, he got angry. He saw a babe sitting on her own and he felt like talking, he walked up to her and initiated a conversation, then next thing she started calling him nonstop and all that, that he never knew she would fall this much in love with him. She told me the same thing about how they met. She said it was love at first sight for her. Last year, a number chatted with me on WhatsApp but refused to disclose his identity, about three times. This month, the same number came again with checking up on me, I insisted and he opened up and it is him (the guy) hmmm. Like 10 years later wow! I inquired about her, he said it never worked and that she is now married with about 3 or 4 kids, wow!! Cool.
Now he has come again. He still loves me and wants me forever. Years have passed you know. I don't know what to make out of this.
Posted for you guys to read and enjoy. I don't need any advice, I know the right decision to make when the time comes. Thanks, family
Question is... Can you identify the true love of a man when you get to see it? A lot of women can't, because of overanalyses, so they stumble hard... real hard. *smirk*
ubunja: 80/20 is in full effect. women are congregating around a few men to the exclusion of the majority. at least in the west. (see the 2 pics below) but this is nothing the red pill didn't predict. we been saying this for years. women want money from men but at the same time women have made the government their provider and have also become financially independent, so no one must be surprised men are becoming increasingly single. this is also why I've never subscribed to that "You don't need women to be a man just succeed and you're a man". nope. success without women is always a miserable existence for men cause they get lonely easy. in all my writings I've never talked about sexual temperance and sexual control cause I've always operated from the viewpoint that most men are struggling to get sex and telling someone who's starving for puccy to deal with puccy in moderation has always been hilarious to me--- how you gonna be moderate and have self control around women when you're not getting any women to begin with?
what most men need is women, especially sex. that's what male loneliness is all about. it's also why for ages, even before that article on THE RISE OF SINGLE LONELY MEN came out, I put that display picture on my profile that explains what male loneliness is.
even before that article came out,, I knew a lot of men were lonely, that is, not getting sex. and it's funny how a lot of men don't wanna hear anything about sex and will go to great lengths to call you shallow and desperate for always talking about sex and not other nobler things like building your career etc,, but the same men, after building themselves find that women are not exactly streaming to them, and they're left lonely with all their achievements. as said article has revealed.
hypergamy declares women want someone who makes more than them,, yet the same women are screwing nobodies and getting pregnant for nobodies. how do you reconcile the two? well hypergamy IS NOT sexual. what turns a woman on is the same regardless of a man's financial position. if a woman is turned on by muscles, she'll be turned on by muscles regardless of the guy's job status - just that if muscle guy is top achieving, a woman will deal with him PUBLICLY,,but if he's a broke failure, the woman will deal with him SECRETLY. at either state, muscle guy will get the puccy. it's why/how many times, broke men and successful men end up dealing with the same type of chicks. cause both are what turns her on. now, Since a lot of women are putting off marriage till later, it means hypergamy is at pause till such a time women want to get serious and settle down. which also means women are thinking with their vagina until they decide to settle and have to use their brain and start being choosy and selective with whom they associate with and start having standards,
this is the door I have always preferred. deal with women on a lust level while they're thinking with their vagina, cause then they're not using their brain and are not rational. let their lust turn to love. fucc them until they catch feelings. and they start asking for more out of the situation. there's no relationship whereby a man holds the most leverage as a relationship that starts as a sex thing and a woman gets caught up in the ecstasy of the dicc that she asks for something permanent. you hold all the cards and if you're really as toxic as the best of them, that's when you'd ask for a baby. remember a baby is quickly becoming today's virginity. when no woman is no longer a virgin cause all women are hoes babies become the next best thing.
in all this talk about the Rise Of Single Lonely Men, guess who's not lacking for sex together with the usual suspects (rich men, celebs etc) ---> baby daddies. especially multiple baby daddies. women will always fucc the father of their kid. no matter what.
if men are no longer getting sex and there's no longer any sexual security for them, then making women pregnant all over doesn't seem as bad an idea. modern problems require modern solutions. I'm just saying. and please no man must come for me cause of this baby mama talk I have flue and a headache lol
"I have flu and headache"... Lol That got me cracking up here.
actually over population is a hoax used to push different agendas. Numerous studies have showed the world population is infact declining. What's tricking People is that they live in cities and see how everywhere you look it's just people people and more people,, truth is we're not overpopulated, we're just crowded in cities. A trip to the countryside/villages will show you just how empty vast lands are. In certain European countries they're even trying to incentivize people to make babies,, cause everyone's just aborting and aborting. Google "Demographic Winter" for a more indepth look at the world population problem.
It's not coincide that even in the US of A , the land of women's rights, women are actually starting to be denied the right to abort. Cause you can only abort so much until the population and future of a country starts to be in danger. Elon Musk is maybe the most high profile individual who's been speaking on the world population problem so far. In many countries (US included) population is no longer at replacement rates,, the rate of people dying is actually more than the rate of people being born. More people are dying than are being born. And the most obvious problem with this is that in 40/50/60 years there's going to be a very large old age population which can't work and relies on government hand-outs and pensions while everything rests on the shoulders of a very small young working population. That burden they won't be able to carry and the system will crush.
To avert this disaster, many governments in the West, started importing people to boost populations via immigration programs. Previously racist countries that wanted nothing to do with Africans started allowing African immigrants arriving by boats to settle in their lands. It's one of the biggest reasons even America is allowing people to enter via the Mexican border. Its a matter of national survival. Some countries like Japan are already facing extinction in the long term. No Country can long survive if there's more people dying than being born.
True that... Even in Asian countries such as Japan and South Korea, married couples are putting off having children just to be all by themselves, just as global fertility rates are dropping in industrialized or Westernized countries.
LordAdam16: It's Zach's fault. If she's in her 20's and you are significantly older, smash and move on. It's Hollywood not rural Utah.
What could have possessed him to believe Pugh will be with him in the long run? Forget Black Widow. Pugh was part of the all-star 'Little Women' cast in 2019 and her romantic interest in the movie was Timothee Chalamet for crying out loud. No one with her pedigree is dating a 45+ year old. From Emma Watson to Chole Grace Moretz to Zendaya. Even them Emma Stone set would not date a Zach Braff, no offense.
So if he was expecting the Pugh dalliance to last, he was deluding himself. Dude is literally a FOG (F*ckable Older Guy) who stuck around too long. All hot Hollywood starlets screw gorgeous older men from time to time: They don't date them.
That is how Brian Austin had young Megan Fox and instead of a smash-and-flee, he tried to monopolize her and ended up a cuck.
With that said, Zach is hot and would have no problem getting chicas. If he wants a relationship, he should seek out them Lyne Renee and Mozhan Marnò or wait for the likes of Briga Heelan and Jennifer Lawrence to be done with their first marriages. Or pretty much just lookup Nathan Fillon's dating history, note the age gaps, and apply same filters during his search.
Or he gets with a young B-list or C-list and hope she never blows up. Kinda like Julian Brink and Maddie Hasson.
Not every lady is a Rosamund Pike. And only Heaven knows what Robie Uniacke has had to endure.
Won't lose sleep about him tho'. Dude can literally step into any club in LA, on any night, and walk out with two younglings who are just as pretty as Pugh, just not as famous. Enjoyed watching him in Scrubs. BTW, he's never married, so his head is screwed on right on the sh*t that matters.
-Lord
Nothing wrong in a mature older man of 45+ dating a younger woman in her 20s or early 30s. The man just has to make sure he doesn't settle into a predictable rut and be able to activate that primal instinct like a switch.
ubunja: I actually know one or two guys with multiple babymamas and I don't see them self-destructing... Even the bums with multiple babymamas are not exactly self-destructing, they're what they've always been: bums. Don't mistake Africa for America.
The few guys I know with babymamas are not even suffering,, on the contrary they're the guys who always have someone to call when they need the most and have women who'll drop anything to come to their aid in their hour of need. But let me tell you I know good upstanding gentlemen living their life by the book who don't even have anyone who'll sacrifice for them when they need it the most. And there's only so much even a true friend can do for you before he cut you off as a liability and face his own problems. How many friends will consistently visit you by your hospital bed till you recover? How many friends will consistently visit you in jail till you get out? Not very many. You can talk about your own family,, but truth is a lot of guys are not maintaining good family relations and there's plenty of grudges and sibling rivalry between them and their brothers and sisters, and few can count on their own blood in their hour of need. I've seen that shít play out and seen the babymama come through harder for a man than his own family and friends. If you think I'm talking trash, Here's a sobering fact that a lot of guys will not want to admit: Your own sister, your own blood sister, will be more loyal and do more for her baby's father (married or not) than she'll ever be or do for you. Am I lying?
Now am I promoting immorality and irresponsible behaviour? Maybe. But I'm thinking in terms of self-preservation. I wouldn't want to be a 90 year old man who has no one checking upon him just cause I never had any kids cause I didn't want to overpopulate the world or I didn't want to have kids out of wedlock. Let me tell you, At a certain age it won't matter how you got your children, what will matter will be DO YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN AT ALL? A lot of us have uncles etc who have good relationships with their children who they got under suspect circumstances, and at that stage no one is talking about where that kid came from but that the kid is here and they're a blessing.
We can talk about getting married but we know the divorce rate. And honestly speaking if we as the red pill discourage marriage then the more a man needs to have children with different women cause tomorrow is not promised and all the money in the world won't matter in your old age as much as having your own kids (regardless how you got them) be around you. It may seem like I'm talking a lot of bullshit,,, but men don't have a lot of people to count on. And it will actually be irresponsible of us to let men go into the future without Plan B , especially since we're talking down on marriage.
I don't know man,, but that's the way I see it. It would be nice to hear what other guys think though.
1stGenAmerican: I don’t even live in Houston and if any of those people that moniker claims had sex with me recognized me by seeing my picture, they saw me in a Harris, Montgomery, or Fort Bend county criminal court or in a district deportation/removal process hearing which is very telling about them, not me. Texas is one of the states I’m licensed to practice in so if a criminal recognizes me, I wouldn’t be surprised (plus I’ve heard more than once that I’m ultra-fine and pretty damned hard to forget, toot-toot, there goes my own horn).
I’m here for discourse, not to insult others or entertain trolls. Interesting that out of all these men that claim they slept with me, NOT ONE OF THEM can tell you my government name or anything else about me. The unnecessary, unrealistic slander is real. We move.
Yeah hon... I know. *smirk*
Ms. ultra-fine and ultra-sexy had to "toot-toot"... You're an audacious female Homosapien. Lol
Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate you!! Noooo. I dropped out of high school. Here in Japan, many many peoples saying other peoples like me, "low level". So, I'm a low level person! Very very far from academic profession or something like that.
Yes, I think most of Japanese peoples respect and love Emperor. But few peoples don't like Emperor. What I hate is some of them are doing anti Emperor march. When I got to know about them and when I watched their march, I felt so bad and angry.
I really didn't know about that! When I got to know about some Japanese words also using in English, I was very surprised! Like Tsunami, Emoji. Wasabi, Karaoke etc. This is very interesting to me!
Yes! We maybe read or watched same news! I think one of difficult things for non Japanese peoples live in Japan is language. If they couldn't speak, read and write Japanese is not easy to live in here. So, I think gift that kind of thing is good idea and good help for them.
Anyway, AlphaTaikun san, you like reading Japanese news? Is it interesting to you? And I forgot to ask you about your family home library! You read a lot of encyclopedia books? That's amazing! When I was a kid, I loved picture books, not encyclopedia books And I still have it!
When my kid was a junior high school student, every morning that school had reading time for students. About 15 minuts to reading book. Students can bring their books to school they wanna read or they like to read. But no manga, no picture book etc. Like, novel is ok, but manga is no. I liked that system? program? in my kid's school. Reading book is good things!
Thank you so much! I really appreciate you!! And same to you! Have a wonderful weekend!
@Peacefull, hope you're doing OK in Japan? I've been off this forum for a couple of days now to reflect.
That's a great feedback from you.
You forgot the popular Japanese words Taikun, Sudoku, and Kamikaze... those words too are now in use in English language. Taikun is spelled Tycoon in English language.
You know what? There's a great American entrepreneur, author and motivational speaker by the name of Jim Rohn (September 17, 1930 – December 5, 2009) who said and wrote before he died few years ago that all of us on the face of the planet have about 500 unique skills that we can individually pursue in life. Yeah! That's 500 unique skills that we are inherently blessed with.
Some folks left high school and/or college without completing their programs and have CONTRIBUTED MORE to humunity that any other guys out there. They have gone on to become great in terms of CREATING WEALTH and EMPOWERING others to do the same! Some people are better at painting pictures today than becoming scientists or University professors or academics. This is why it is very good for parents to find out what their children LOVE TO DO and then work with professional Career and Guidance Councillors to help these children to determine what they can do as future careers. NOT everyone can be in the STEM career fields.
Yeah @Peaceful, my father bought a lot of books and encyclopedia for the family library as far back as the 1970s and beyond, so I grew up reading widely and I have my father to thank for stimulating the reading skills in me. I also learned drawing skills by looking at pictorial books. I learned from those books and I encourage parents to buy books and CD-ROMS or multi-media encyclopedia for their children of the 21st Century, so that the kids too can get curious about the REST OF THE WORLD and unleash their talents. I loved picture books too just like you but loved reading the large volumes of encyclopedia in my family library as well!
Reading about the rest of the world and peoples and cultures as a child back in the day enabled me to gravitate towards an international career path today, which also enables me to travel internationally.
Oh Wow! It's good to know that while your child was in Junior High School, he or she was exposed to 15 minutes of reading without picture books. It stimulates the logical and creative sides of the brain. Your child should be like 18 years old now I assume since he is done with Junior High School.
Last but not least, yes... I love reading a vast array of news from around the world including Japanese news published online by Japanese English language newspapers. Of course pocket translators now make it easier for communication in this era of multi-lingualism. See the Japanese to English and English to Japanese portable translation device below. Very cool huh?! *smirk*
And yes this is the web link and video below of the language translator devices donated to Ukrainians at the Ukranian Embassy in Tokyo, Japan that you talked about.
SlyfoxxDaMadMan: I don’t speak a word of French lol. But you don’t need to in Geneva. It’s an international city because of the large amount of international organizations there (I worked for one) and most workers there are expatriates so it’s not like the rest of French speaking Switzerland. Beautiful city but extremity boring especially if you’re coming from a bustling city like London which I did.
You’re a good guy. Just Out of respect for you I won’t troll 1stGenAmerican again because you have at least tried to bring some semblance of decency to a thread full of lunatics lol.
So she should thank you for that….
Slyfoxx, you're right about Geneva's boring outlook compared to cosmopolitan London. My Geneva-born friend told me the same too back in the day. Lol.
Yeah, thanks for being a good sport. That's why I had to engage you 'cos nothing happens by accident and there had to be a trigger to have caused you to use different monikers to harass and troll her relentlessly.
You also write very fluently and lucidly. I knew intuitively that you were not just anybody!
SlyfoxxDaMadMan: Let her apologize. I’m tired of trolling her too lol but it’s not just about me. She constantly bullies and demeans other nairalanders she perceives as economically disadvantaged and insults them for their opinions once those opinions are contrary to hers.
My first encounter with her was when she jumped into my mentions calling me poor and asking if I can even afford 3 square meals all because I said something bad about Biden. Plus she is always insulting Nigerians and Nigeria here which I can’t stand. She thinks just because she’s in America she is all knowing and mighty lol. That’s why I promised to put her in her place.
Insightful... We're now headed somewhere. Lol.
@1stGenAmerican is Nigerian-American as you know, and she could be opinionated atimes because she abhors mediocrity, and folks asking lousy questions, that can easily be solved by Google Search, so she verbally externalises that feeling that can seem cocky or arrogant to some here.
She's been to Nigeria like 4 times which is pretty cool (unlike a Nigerian-American female friend of mine who has never set foot on Nigerian soil at 45 years of age as of 2022).
But then she's been helpful to Nigerians and folks here on NL by answering questions and more. I get a sense that she has a heart of gold and is sensitive enough to NOT use slurs and/or speak condescendingly all the time to Nigerians and other folks here.
SlyfoxxDaMadMan: I worked in Geneva, that’s in the French speaking part but I actually lived across the border in France. It’s very close and there is free movement. You can just walk across without any hassle.
True that.
A friend of mine was born in Geneva in the 1970s to a Nigerian diplomat father, and he spoke very fluent French, German and English.
You must be very fluent in spoken French. I wish my French is very fluent... not rusty, but I try to get by while travelling internationally. Lol
There are pocket language translators now for international travelers though.
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