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Vasgas:
OK ma'

Im Sorry, I hope my tone wasn't harsh

Its nice.

But crime may increase.

At least Lagos has been the most peacful among the mega cities we have in Nigeria. But from now I don't know.

Just know that if one road closes another opens.

Maybe good road or bad road.

plusfield:
And if the church cries out against the insecurity, Femi Adesina will say they have joined the opposition.
Femi Adesina is a proof that any conscience can be bought

Other churches should join Redeemed church for protest

AntiChristian:
As if say marriage is important in Christianity! Jesus and Paul for marry!

Which Bible verses supports the OP?

I support#every body must not marry

Vasgas:
I think all of the above can be sum up under compatibility.
Are you compatible?
Compatibility in this case is not about education, social status or family background, its simply about kind or breed. is the person born of God with the evidence of Christ Like attitude? if yes you can go ahead

There's nothing like compatibility here.

These are things that needs to be spelt out before marriage or else, when they pop up it can lead to suffering and frustration in marriages

hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

1.Fertility test.

2.How many children you want to have test

3. Do you think you can deal with not having a male child test.

4.what if a baby doesn't come between us , would you go for a second wife test , or be testing yourself with other men, or Ladies test.

5. What if baby doesn't come between us, what will be our next step to have babies part from IVF.

6.Would you be okay to adopt.

7.What's your stand for adoption.

8. Your family's stand on all these alternative.


These are things I see people go through in marriages

I don't know what to say

Enjoy while it last. You better save some money out of it, you can use to open shop. No job outside o.

It will not last forever

saaron:
When you have a regime that swims in terrorism, sharia and human rights abuse, and tried to challenge America's authority as world police at one time, things like Visa ban is what you get. A regime that does not give a crap about the security of it's own people will certainly not be taken serious by the international community.
Nigeria (pariah state) today is a security risk to America thanks to buhari's directionless regime, hence the visa ban.
The only way to reverse the visa ban is for BUHARI TO RESIGN! Apart from terrorism, he has NOTHING to offer.
#BuhariMustResign

USA are smarter , they know that Nigeria is a terrorist country.

See all roads leading to northern state from abuja is not safe.

The killing of Christian s .
They know that this country is porous. They can be attacked through Nigeria.

So its okay for their own safety

Davash222:
I’m only concerned at Number 6.
Like after paying for shelter, I’ll still have to go inside bush to smoke
Smoking inside the restroom or balcony is one of reasons people pay for rent and you can’t deprive them that privilege!


Btw, What’s ‘Tenets’?

I was shocked to marrow

izzou:
[color=royalblue]I guess that's the genesis of all these

You'll have to fix a meeting with both families.
Divorcing after one-month is sad.

I wish you well[/color]

But it is better.
The earlier the better.

Its just like managing a cheating husband at the early stage of marriage thinking he will change.

This one can cause untimely death for you. She can do anything because of money.

COWBOYFAN:
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen

I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.

Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.

After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.

This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.

Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.

Na Runs girl

Don't you know that mistakes do happen.

Its not as if she purpose lg killed him . or use him for rituals. It,was a fight

NobleAngell:
I think churches should carefully select the kind of testimonies to be shared to the congregation. This will no doubt send a wrong signal to members.

Pastors no get shame at all.

She is returning glory to God in respect to immorality.

African pastors

African pastors.

I don't know whether its a must for somebody to open a church.

But this is a huge surprise .

How can Fulani heardmen take over Yoruba land so fast. Like play like play

Hunger has turned people to farmers

Gowon Gowon.

I thought you know how to fight wars.

Where are your strategies for fighting wars against Biafra.

Use them now.

Haba. And you said you are not regretting fighting against Biafra for their search for freedom

hisexcellency34:
I pray they make heaven

Yea o.

I will make heaven too. Including you

This is why I like Aba.

You cannot be a killer and just go free like that.

Aba people can pursue an armed robber that has a gun

Useless animal.

Breeding bolo boys and girls

osuofia2:
fake news, Fulanis are our brothers and not enemies, the Igbos are are just trying to cause disunity among the Yorubas and Fulanis. The igbo people are our problems and not Fulanis,
The oba does not speak for the Omoalabis,

Thank God. Those almajiris doesn't come to an Internet like this.

The only language they understand is their COW and their religion.

So I don't know the Kind of cheap Internet sympathy you are trying to buy

They will soon throw him I to lagoon

Lack of bathing at nights. Took much scratch body at sleep

America is eyeing them small small

Davash222:
They’ve been the one funding terrorism all these while.

So Americans were right. Eh?

Sorry.

Because you an adventist you think all of you will make heaven.

When most of you dwell in church politics.
Most of your elder s a, deacon s, deaconess are commiting adultery among yourself s.

Their dressing on a Saturday is like a dressing for a club.

Segregation s.

Only what most of you know is to preach" about Saturday worshiping"

If you don't know most of Sunday worshipper's will be at the fore front in heaven than you "the Saturday worshipper's.

Most of you and adultery, gossip, corruption, covering evil are like 5&6

I beg make I hear word

Moko master

Koko master

Baby
Mama consequences

fairfora:
Haaaa! You see why I always say these guys are pure animals ? You keep commiting sin yet you claim to be holy. You keep saying western education is a sin yet, you keep killing people with gun and bomb made with western ideas instead of using only knife, sword bow and arrow. You said western education is a sin but you always make use of vehicles to convey your men and victims instead of using horses and camels. You use phones to post pictures and upload videos of all your events....I wish our region could just break away from this union .

They are devils that needs to be written off from the face of the earth.

Trump please kill them all

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

Yeah.
She needs to get busy. Idle mind at times,,,,

Simplyleo:
Can you imagine this pig.

Shebi you dey relaunch your foolish BSS?

Why not concentrate the 1 million miscreants under you on that project? What is your bloody business with Amotekun?

Then, what is your business with his speech?

Ewu awusa