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I am sure that by tomorrow you will receive a quit notice from your parents if they don'wait till the beginning of next month to properly serve you and kick you out

*just joking*

sanpipita:
Haha they have been attacking Marc Elias and his team, more litigations are happening, think by June they will conclude most redistricting.

That man and democracy docket are doing a great job defending democracy.

The current GQP wants the fugitive slave act laws.

They also want to turn America into Gilead and the handmaids tale, they are the Taliban of the united states

Even in countries where abortions are illegal women don't even get the death penalty but the Texas GQP and the entire GQP is out of control democrats must message on this for the midterms.

Hopefully democrats hammer on the message that voting for this current republiQan party is suicidal.

They have no platform and nothing to offer anybody under democrats this week congress passed bills unlike just passing federalist judges which republiQans are only good at.

They should also hammer on what they have done

Sunny Hostin spitting fire yesterday.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fFPXgZX9kM

While you are at it add this one too.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z_gHMILzSyQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usryT1v-EzQ.

Raumdeuter take your time to watch this so much for the pro parents party you don't want me to vaccinate your kids or let the wear mask yet you want to police my trans kids.

GQP hypocrisy

sanpipita:
It's strange how America are having data problems, and now the released data that missed 18m people is being used for redistricting.

I am just glad that democrats are winning the redistricting battle against the Republicans this time around.

sanpipita:
Another pro life death bill

Folks like Raumdeuter have a lot of explaining to do when it comes to this extremist disgrace of a political party that he supports.

They have nothing to offer no platform just divisive hate bills,what a shame.

The fact that they are conceiving dangerous bills like these should alarm everybody.

Kobojunkie:
FGM, yet another reason why mothers need to have a conversation about the direction and future for their children.

The reason these evils persist is women allow them.

Sadly you are right the disadvantages of patriarchy still exist today because some women are the upholders of the patriarchy.

I call the patriarchy princesses they enjoy putting another woman down to please a P**nis.


Women need to do more for each other and support one another and stop competing with ourselves and becoming our enemies.

Stargurl20:
Lol ... Even females who are genitally mutilated still have urges and find sex pleasurable when they meet a man with good skills.

Right, and the ignorance of these people says a lot.

With more advocacy hopefully FGM becomes a thing of the past.

Stargurl20:
As for those who always claim that men has higher libido. Well, sorry to burst ur bubble. You're ignorant, coz women's libido is higher. They only tame it to make them not appear loose due to the society we found ourselves.


Men just give lots of silly excuses to cheat.

Exactly and women have just been taught to be discreet about it.

Why do you think that FGM is still practiced because of the false belief that some misguided adults can control a woman's sexual urge.

Stargurl20:
I stumbled on this on NL and I was totally flabbergasted by the comments by most NL's men. Like..... What the f**k?! Who trained these men? This Nigerian society has totally failed and our thoughts has been badly infected(not excluding my self). I'm not a feminist, but it hurts whenever I see this. Most parents have failed. They keep training girls (I'm not saying it's wrong to train gurls) that will end up marrying the boys they've failed to give proper training.

Who the hell gave Nigerian men this mentality that cheating is normal when it comes to men? I'm a Muslim and I wouldn't deny the fact that it is stated in the holy book that men can marry upto to 4 wives provided he can do just among them( which I personally feels it isn't possible). However, my religion didn't emphasized cheating or justified men's right to cheat and inflict trauma on their partners. In fact it's totally against Zina(adultery) which also happens to be one of the major sins in islam. I believe christian religion isn't left out as well...

Having read through various comments made by NL's men, I realized these men are nothing but narcissistic who will wish for someone else's daughter what they would never which for their own daughters , sisters or even their beloved. Why?!
They were encouraging this poor lady to move on, manage the man and justify his cheating acts not caring about potential STDs this man could infect this poor lady in the future.

I can't say for the entire world, but for Nigerian men, most I would say (coz some still made reasonable comments) are hypocrite with no orientation about how women should treated.

If efforts are put into training them same way women are trained to respect their men, their men's emotions and everything, they wouldn't have grown with such decayed mentality.

When people tell me that there is no inequality, sexism or misogyny in Nigeria I just show them Nairaland.

The average Nairaland male is a representative of the broader Nigerian males and how they reason and that is very shameful

irunoko:
nonsense ideology.if God didn't want Women to work he won't give them hands, brains and legs to work.

Secondly stop giving excuse or justifying lazy men or men who wait for their wives to bring money home.its not because more women. Are working,it's because they're lazy.laziness is a choice

Thirdly there is no Human being that cannot be challenged.youre not super human or god.you don't know everything so you need people to challenge you (positively) so that you will not be satisfied with mediocrity and be forming man on top emptiness.every human needs someone to check them otherwise they'll misbehave and it's not gender specific.a woman can challenge her husband, likewise a husband can challenge his wife

Fourthly if you look at the way God created the world,he did it in such a way that There'll be no poverty and people will have everything they want but because of greed and foolishness, Africa is poor.that was definitely not God's design for Africa looking at the number of human and natural resources we have.if we have a world where women and men are all wealthy, NOBODY or no man will be hungry to dominate another person or gender.na poverty tendencies dey cause all
this domineering behaviour and tendencies

He knows that he is saying nonsense so just ignore him.

Kobojunkie:
Humans are incapable of loving each other unconditionally - this is a known fact.

You choosing your mother over your wife is a choice you make since you want to believe in the myth of unconditional love.

Ask theforth if he is the only child of his mother as if the mother does not have a favourite child and if she faces a dilemma between her kids she may not pick one over the other.

I agree with you that no love is unconditional not even the love of mothers that is the lie these women basers in Nigeria like to tell themselves why can't their fathers love them unconditionally too . They're quick to use that line to pit mothers-in-law against their daughters-in law

This is one of the dangers of bring politics into footballbut to be honest everything we do is politics and it can never be taken away.

Sad day for Chelsea FC.

My tired is tired

Unlimited22:
At the height of the pandemic when Stamford Bridge was a sanctuary for NHS workers all these idiots cropping up like mushrooms after a downpour were all clapping and cheering on Roman.

The same UK have clubs that are owned by Qatari and Saudi Arabian investors, one of which was a very recent purchase.

Lmao.

Don't mind them this is how they pay an investor that has brought money for them..

donjazet:
It really isn't. The governments of Europe have genuine concerns of the triggering of war in their backyard. They are desperate to stop Putin at all costs. It's not only Abrahmovic being targeted and even if it was, the Man deserves it. He has a strong hand in propping up the Putin regime.

My own is that the UK has to consider the fans and workers. They can't allow a top club to sink.

They should get out.

The sanctions on the club makes no sense and it is a bridge taken too far.

Unlimited22:
When Mou was talking about campaigns we thought he was joking.

Man was spitting more facts than a cobra foes venom.

He was always right there is an agenda against the club.

To think I just received the news hours after it dropped this news makes me sick to my bones as a fan of this club for close to two decades.

I am livid the players, staff and others don't deserve this humiliation and wickedness.

This was calculated.

donjazet:
Abrahmovic, do the right thing if you love us as you claim.

This is not about Abramovic this one na serious wickedness when dem don dey plan since.

Shame on them.

Unlimited22:
Hearing that Three UK Has suspended their partnership.

And we have Jamie Carragher advising Thomas Tuchel to go to Manyoo on live TV.

I don't think this now has anything to do with Roman anymore.

They have been waiting for the perfect moment to unleash their hatred against the club.

This is not about Ukraine or Russia this is pure evil.

raumdeuter:
What exactly is the bill against "most especially trans" like you posted.

So its hypocritical to say minors should not be mutilated and wait till they are adults before making decisions like sex change?
So they wont be hypocritical govt should wait and let children be subjected to hormone therapy and surgeries?

Go back and read my earlier comment before you quoted me I said they are attacking the LGBTQ community especially the trans ones.
I did not state that it was only the trans people they were targeting especially does not mean only.
You in replying me forgot about the don't say bill targeted at gays.
It is hypocritical that for a party that supports limited government and does not want government regulating their guns or religious beliefs want to regulate the private lives of other people yet they claim to support liberty

As long as many doctors have affirmed that gender-affirmation surgery and what is on ground to trans is okay I don't see why government is targeting them other than the fact that they are just engaging in culture wars and obsessed with people's lives it reminds me of the outrageous law Alabama passed that would have denied health services to trans who does that?
Listen to the experts not politicians profiting from toxicity harming young kids and the transgender attacks are beyond puberty blockers blah blah blah.

https://www.eqfl.org/news/2021-medical-care-ban

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/mar/23/anti-trans-bills-us-transgender-youth-sports

https://www.aclu.org/news/lgbtq-rights/doctors-agree-gender-affirming-care-is-life-saving-care/

raumdeuter:
No one is against getting them therapy and psych treatment

What they are against is specifically

This is outrageous and alarming because it will put those kids in fear and give them suicidal options if the health experts have agreed that it is a dangerous act then I agree with them stop policing the personal choices of others that don't necessary harm the society.

It is very hypocritical for a party of limited government to be policing the personal decisions of others under what form leave health workers to do their jobs.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/03/02/texas-republicans-trans-kids/

raumdeuter:
You mentioned that the GOP was attacking trans and which way are they attacking trans?

By telling male not to participate in female sport? or by criminalizing all transitioning for all minor?

If the GOP has lost its way by protecting minors from mutilation, its the Liberals that have found their calling in approving sex change for minors, having boys play girls sport and decriminalizing crime?

I said the LGBTQ most especially trans people it did not exclude that the LG in it,don't say gay bill attacks the gay community so why is that?

The GQP has lost its way because it keeps going against what it preaches or claims to expouse liberals don't always support the same thing and have never been as hypocritical as conservatives.

You have not explained the bill and their obsessions with books banning in a nutshell you have not said anything

What some of these children need is help/therapy not attacking them and criminalising things that may cause them to commit suicide that is not how you solve something that you see as an issue.

These kids may end up going suicidal and it doesn't really change anything just taunt them.

raumdeuter:
The current law does not say anything about it, Just like you dont need a current law to explicitly say "You can flog a child to death" before you propose a law that "You cannot flog a child to death"

Or better put, You cannot transition a minor law is because the law is silent on it and anyone can do it without breaking any set law. Going forward now, There will be a law against it

When there is no law, there is no crime

You missed the LGBTQ part.You only talked about the trans bill part and I don't have time on my hands to go back and forth with you.Budaatum had time to but it seems he forgot the "don't say bill" part.

Explain to us the "Don't say gay bill" and the GQP's attempt to ban books they don't like.

I find it odd that a party of limited government and liberty/so called freedoms is very obsessed with policing people's lives.
Imagine a party and believer of state rights one clown of a woman is proposing criminalising out of state abortions like as if such legislation does not hamper the territorial sovereignty of other states lol.
The GQP has lost its way.

The sad part about these alarming bills that will be hard to enforce is that it will only turn citizens against one another and it is thanks to the poison 4 years of Trump did to America.

sanpipita:
But most conservative laws don't give this exemption, in Poland a woman died despite the fact the pregnancy was a threat to her life, Texas and Florida are making strict anti abortions and people are not seeing the problem.

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2022/jan/27/protests-flare-across-poland-after-death-of-young-mother-denied-an-abortion

The sad part of the abortion bans is that they don't really stop abortions anywhere in the world they only make quacks and life threatening options become available

The new GQP agenda this midterm is to attack the LGBTQ community especially trans people

Missouri is proposing a bill to ban women from getting abortions outside the state.

This attack on people's liberties from the so-called party of liberty is alarming.

I have been saying this since the time of agent orange that the modern republican party has no platform apart from culture wars but expect poor illiterate dummies to keep voting them in.

budaatum:
First thing that will happen to Nigerians once we realise heaven, and hell, are on earth (especially if we also abandon the selfcentredness that makes our concern be about our individual soul), is the eradication of breeding grounds for mosquitoes, because we must have learnt that heaven can not be dirty, and we must know how to clean up hell.

Oh my God.

Buda

Magnoliaa:
Ion know what conversation it is you guys are having nor have the full range for it, or even the context... I'm addressing this your particular line. People use it a lot.

Quote me anywhere. It's WOKE People, I mean it, saying it all loud as it is, it's WOKE people that **usually** put in practice what they come online to preach.

That's the way you people believe we pound fufus for our boyfriends in real life. Like, why do you all assume people around us do not know who we are or what we stand for? Why do you think we shy away from or cut down on some of the things we believe in? There are many a relationships I've forfeited; others I'm willing to let go of because of my equality ideas. If I don't do some things because of my principles/religious beliefs, I can do same or even so much more for my support of women's rights. And this applies to other women of the same leanings, especially on this thread. I know they won't mind me speaking for them here.

I honestly think 'y'all' should cut us some slack. (I'm not saying you in particular). Compromises are necessary sometimes in a relationship, so even if a feminist falls short in some way, it's fine and realistic. When they do and bend, they're hypocrites who don't practice what they preach in their intimate spaces; when they don't and remain strong-headed, oh, they're being hard and unrealistic and will die lonely. No man will put up with such rigid standards... Best believe others are true to their ideals, the same way you are or you feel you are true to yours.

Shey one say, I'll be the kind of woman that'll be submitting my salaries to my husband ehn. Ka sa dupe lowo Olorun na if I (manage to) marry by forty. No wahala.

I have seen my fellow Woke Partner that's how stars do

Grandmeister:
What has America got to do with world war 1 you political neophyte? And if you meant world war 2 it was Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor that brought the USA into the war. You go about regurgitating propaganda laced news without having an inkling of what you’re saying.

You that you are not a political neophyte if you were smart as you wanted to sound you would have known that if the Germans had not attacked Americans on ship in an attempt to put the British in hunger and told Mexico to attack America they would not have gotten involved in world war 1 in 1917.

Go and read it up