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Ekele007:
The rate of sexual Immoratilty in our society is getting worst everyday. Initially, the internet and mobile phones was not as popular as now and the fact remains that 90% of youth can afford to buy a browsing phone with a minimum of � naira subscription possibly midnight sub to monthly subscription. The Bible made mention at the last day knowledge will increase. I still ask myself if knowledge increases would it be a good thing or bad, just like in the days of Adam and Eve. They ate the forbidden fruit hoping to be wise as God!...
Nevertheless, social media as Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp are the very best we use everyday but for what reason?
Most people we look up to as elders, brothers, sisters, fathers and uncle have misplaced their priorities which tend to hurt the growing population.
Imagine so-called popularity​ celebrities going live on Instagram naked, some dancing naked, commenting and motivating evil, accommodating evil activities and upholding evil gathering...
This isn't funny at all, we've lost it all! Teenagers now see sex as a way of belonging to the elderly. Every day you come online is the same sexual Immoratilty that people promote in other for them to have recognition. The devil is tricky, today you'll hear no bra day with hashtag, another day it's a give away on Instagram for best twerking and all sort of rubbish!!!
God save us as we find our paths back to him!!!!

May God bless you for setting up this thread. Immoral Sex is now a serious issue as it has destroyed many people and prevented them from accessing what God has prepared for them.
I think a change in who we celebrate as individuals will do a great change in our life and conduct as a whole.

Good day everyone. I have been on Nairaland for a while and I have noticed a few things about this place that is a reflection of our society as it is.
I noticed that evil is celebrated (Evil in this context refers to something that is unpleasant ; an experience a person would not want to have and does not desire his loved ones to have).
I read about cases of rape and the responses from some men was disheartening. Stories of sexual and social activities that utterly defy morality and sanity are rampant, and have totally depraved the minds of young men and women to the extent that people have become desirous to see naked bodies. It has become unacceptable and disgraceful to be sexually pure and morally upright because you will attract insults to yourself.

These occurrences have utterly but subtly changed the values of our society but I believe that I can make a difference and you too can do the same. It starts with my values; those things I hold in high esteem and that person(s) whose approval mean a lot to me. Ask yourself the following questions :
Do I value self-control (do I celebrate fornication and adultery or applaud sexual purity)?
Do I value a godly home (do I live with the consciousness that I am leaving a legacy for my kids)?
Do I value righteousness-the right standing with God (will I weep and I for a brother who fell out of faith or will I make him a topic of discussion)?

If you are a Christian ask yourself : "when was the last time I felt unhappy about the sexual promiscuity and hypocrisy within the church? "

Please can we be accountable to one another to become ANOTHER KIND OF MEN? You and I can make a difference if we are surrendered to the LORD and truthful to one another.

I believe that it is still possible to be righteous and holy in this generation.

It is still possible to be righteous and holy in this generation.

A man whose attitude indicated that he didn't even know his own heart followed Jesus-Peter
A thief followed Jesus -Judas
Two brothers with self promoting ambition followed Jesus- James and John
Tax collectors and wine bibers followed Jesus.
A former prostitute,a husband snatcher, pharasee (teacher of religious law) followed Jesus. After considering the life of Jesus Christ ;how he never turned any person away from following Him and how He made no distinction between people regardless of class, gender academic qualifications I understood that Jesus did not discriminate. This character of Jesus Christ is exposed in His church too, every kind of person is within the congregation.
After reading your post I am convinced that you have not understood that the "church" (in the context you used it) comprises of people God is working on. So, about "Runs girls" better than "church girls" for the reasons you mentioned I propose that you give people time to change.
It's an opinion. However what you choose to do depends on you.

A certain man had an expensive calabash that his neighbors envied. Probably, because this man did not know the worth of his calabash he began to leave it outside beside a trash heap. So his neighbors sometimes threw some trash into the calabash. Every weekend, refuse collectors came to the compound but did not pick up calabash even though it was beside a trash heap because they noticed that it was expensive and thought to themselves that it meant much to the owner who may have mistakenly left it there. Even though the assumption of the trash collectors concerning the attitude of the calabash owner did not make sense to them they continued to ignore the calabash weekend after weekend. This continued until one day, one of the trash collectors decided to take the calabash away from the trash heap and brought it to his home. His wife began to cook with that calabash after cleaning it up. The neighbors of the original owner of the calabash recognized the calabash but could not throw trash into it anymore.

Op, the value which a person places on his property determine the respect people will give to that property. To you virginity means nothing but to someone else it could mean so much. You do not have to be offended because someone else loves a woman that you despise, if you do so it does not speak well of you. People have a right to value things even though you do not value the same things.
Live and let live. Live respectfully so that others can simply live.

Good day ma. I think that for anyone to know how to operate within an organization he must understand the tenets of that organization and to be happy in any organization one must have a good working relationship with the staff of that organization. Christianity is not in any denomination, Christianity is not in a code of conduct but Christianity is relationship with God through His Son Jesus Christ.
I may not be able to answer your question correctly because your situation can be likened to a person who enters a house without being invited, begins to work as a house servant without being employed and got "insulted" by a servant in the house. The first instinct is to walk away afterall your were not employed there but if you were employed your first response will be to report to the house owner. If you had a relationship the Jesus Christ you would have been praying to God already concerning the matter.
There is much to say but I normally like my responses to be brief.

Good day co-laborers in the vineyard of our Lord Jesus Christ. What I share with you today is a hymn that ministered to me and I believe it will minister to you too. You may need to use Google to get the tune of the song but reading the lyrics alone will also bless you.
Here it is :it is titled ONLY REMEMBERED.


Fading away like the stars of the morning,
Losing their light in the glorious sun—
Thus would we pass from the earth and its toiling,
Only remembered by what we have done.

Refrain

Only remembered, only remembered,
Only remembered by what we have done;
Thus would we pass from the earth and its toiling,
Only remembered by what we have done.

Shall we be missed though by others succeeded,
Reaping the fields we in springtime have sown?
No, for the sowers may pass from their labors,
Only remembered by what they have done.

Refrain

Only the truth that in life we have spoken,
Only the seed that on earth we have sown;
These shall pass onward when we are forgotten,
Fruits of the harvest and what we have done.


THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.

Refrain

You are right. God despises it and if anyone says otherwise he/she would need to revisit his/her relationship with God. People who are born of God do not make it a practice to displease God, if we make it a practice to sin against God it could actually mean that we were never His children. Good work op.

You are not different from any human being, emotions build when there is steady contact. This advice may be different from what you expected but it's worthy to note.
I noticed that you said you wanted to make love to her but you do not want to commit such sin. You need the help of God to overcome any temptation especially when your mind is already yielding. Have you ever prayed to God concerning this desire that you have noticed in both of you? I believe that God can orchestrate an event that will separate both of you and still remove that desire from you. For her sake, do not confront her until you have spent quality time praying on the matter.
I hope to get a righteous feedback from you. Shalom.

This is true. Well done sir.

It is true that demons have infiltrated planet earth , the word of God (Bible) attests to that. However brothers and sisters in Christ, God has not given to us the spirit of fear, but of boldness, love and sound mind, because of the Holy Spirit's power in us we do not live in fear. The world is indeed deceived but the Holy Spirit guides every child of God into the truth. There are demon manipulated people everywhere but we do not fear, God has let us remain on earth so that by the Holy Spirit's power at work through us they can be free and Jesus Christ our Lord is glorified over and over again.

If it is God who wants to show you something through the dream, He will cause you to have the dream again or even make it clearer so that you won't need interpretations. However talk to God concerning the dream, tell Him everything including the fact that you can't remember all of it.

Good day brother. I think I was mentioned so I am here to respond. I have nothing to say except that the spirit of the anti-christ is already in operation and is turning people not only away from God but also against the Savior of the world, Jesus Christ. When I have something more detailed concerning the topic I will respond again. Thank you sir.

My brothers in Christ. The only remedy for this world's problems is Jesus Christ. Let us make it our responsibility to intercede for our immediate family and make sure Satan has no one of our own under his control.

Fellow Christians, God has a way for everything. As children of God we should do everything according to God's way.
We know that God wants each person to get sexual pleasure only in marriage. Getting this pleasure by any other means is a deviation from God's way. Whether sex doll, masturbation, adultery they are all deviation from God's word to us.

As a matter of truth the invention of sex doll is totally satanic. Satan hates everything God holds dearly. A satanist once said "the family is enemy number one". Fellow Christians let it be known to you that God is the orchestrator of marriage and family. Adultery and other sexual perversions including sex doll is an attempt of Satan to destroy families and individuals.
There is so much to say but I just want to make my response short. Please let submit yourself to God's way.

You have spoken well sir Lightblazingnow. The world is indeed blinded by Satan and it's painful to see professing Christians allowing themselves to be entertained by the same thing God hates. Many people are already slaves to Satan and will never be free until they realize that only Jesus Christ can deliver anyone from the captivity of Satan and ask Jesus to set them free.

Fellow Nairalanders, God has a remedy for a world in chaos, a perverted world, a blind world, Jesus Christ is God's remedy. As a Christian will you administer God's remedy to the sick around you?

Our Lord Jesus Christ says that if anyone is belongs to God such a person would listen to His words.
Fellow Christian, no one can serve two masters, you will either love one and despise the other or be faithful to one and be unfaithful to the other, you (or anyone else) cannot serve God and anything else. You cannot be the temple of God and still defend sexual immorality; God does not like it.
God commands you to be Holy because He is Holy. If God commands you to do something it means that you can do it and God will give His Holy Spirit(Helper) to as many who set their heart to please God.You already know that God is the just (righteous) Judge. If God commands you to do something you can't do then there is no justice in Him, but you and i know that God is just and will never do wrong. God says avoid fornication (sexual immorality) it is because God knows that you can stay away from it.
Please, i beg you do not compare yourself with the world but evaluate yourself with the word of God. Stop doubting God.

Good day fellow brothers and sisters in faith. By the grace of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ I desire to share something concerning sexually explicit materials (sex stories, movies, animation, comic etc) with you, I believe it is God's mindset concerning it. I do understand that you know a lot already but for love sake I'll still share.
Brother and sisters, like everything else, God has prepared someway by which sex should be glorifying to His holy name. Bear in mind that everything God has made,He made because it pleased Him to do so ;including sex.
Sex movies, comic, stories and animation portray sex as the ultimate end of every contact with the opposite sex regardless of marital status, for these X-rated materials no marriage vows are uttered and no marriage blessings are bestowed and it is sex all the way. God is not pleased with fornication or adultery therefore you cannot be entertained by the same things that grieves the heart of God. If you do so you are taking sides already with those who hate God.
Now, the bible tells stories of real people like you and I. The only difference between then and now is the technological advancements. However the bible is concerned about God and the peoples response to God on several occasions because to God people are more important than technology. This is how the bible talks about sex, citing Genesis 4:1:
Adam had sexual relations with his wife (NLT)
Adam knew his wife (KJV)
Adam slept with His wife (MSG)
No where in the bible was sex explicitly described, if God did not dim it fit to describe in detail something so obvious in the bible why should any of His children dim it necessary to go after something that God does not give. Friend God is not happy with you if you are feeding on sexually explicit materials because you are leaving your Father's table to eat from the table of His enemy.
Now that you know God's perspective and way concerning sex, you can choose whether to please God or to run after the lust of the flesh. Now you can choose between God's way or the ways of those that hate God. Let your relationship with God mean something to you.The matter now belongs to you.
I pray that you choose God. May God bless you as you honor Him.

References: 1Peter 1: 13-16, 4:2-4, 2 Peter 2:7-9, Galatians 5:19-21, Colossians 3:5, 1 Corinthians 6:13, Romans 13:13, Ezekiel 22:11.