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Over the years,i have been a victim of blind dates..some were intresting and some were not.
I would like to hear your opinion on how you felt when you finally got to meet your blind dates,was all the body description and sweet voice accurate or was the person exaggerating
Was the time and energy you put towards making a blind relationship worth it

Cabsso: end time tins

Mods...he is all yours

Ezigbom:

Essay o,nobody ask you of letter

alstacs: Wish I could be your father in law. With this English of yours, you will never move close to my house.

mk i hear...wtn u go do dt guy weh write alramin

But den na wao,if d man no see any woman to knack? ,im 4 go ashawo joint na

isaiahethan: Pls how many words of essay the man requested

heheheh...he wasnt told,jst write your heart out

ESULAALU: OP, what is going on? Is it your brother that circulated this story on facebook? I dont understand you or are you simply passing off a joke as being real?

am nt aware if he posted it on fbuk and am sure he wont so his frnds wnt get to ridicule his girl's pop.
But dis story z real and i hope other fadaz wont emulate dis new trend

koolg: these nairalanders no go kill person sha
and to the topic, the man wants to keep it for future purpose. collateral!!!

abi in case ma guy go kn de display wtn im no write 4 d essay

pastor prosper :
After d marriage am sure the father -in-law would still demand that the son-in-law write an easy before sleeping with d wife.

na dt time im go knw d meanin of wtn davido sing as GOBE

Tats: There will be an outcome and I'm curious what it will be if he does write the essay.

Deny the guy marriage to his daughter if he is not satisfied with the essay or allow it to proceed if he is satisfied?

dts why i soo much wanted him to write it

Afta death z it immediate judgement or judgement wud only kum on d last day wen d trumphet z sounded

maclatunji: Nothing wrong with it. I would gladly write him a dissertation.

heheheh...d man go read tire b dt o

stan4b: They should jail him with cows.

tank gawd say u nobi judge o

crowntoro:

looks like you've fu.cked up serveral time durin an interview

The guy shud jst go ahead nd write it,afta all he z a graduate,so d fear of grammatical errors are tanish'd....BY D WAY,mayb d gurls fada wants to knw hw gud d guy z upstairs apart 4rm his results...JST MA OPINION SHA

RollingFella: quite a task. the father inlaw must have sensed some few things during the course of discussions with your brother. some discussions must have transpired to warrant writing the essay. hence,ask your brother to tell you in detail what actually led to it.

hmmm...am on it!

glorybasseymma: even if d daugher was a princes dey would even ask of such.guy if ur bro accepted to writ dan dat is good 4 him.cos if na me i no fit writ am ooo.even dey r many fish in d river

The guy agreed sha,based his argument on the fact that since both of them are inlove,then writin an essay wont deter him.

Why is it that we humans so much fear death?
The puzzling question is that,is it death we fear or what lies after it...the afterlife
Feel free to share your opinion.

I was made to understand that in most European countries,the onus on who to finance a wedding/marriage lies on the bride's family.
Due to most African traditions,this responsibility has shifted over the years to the groom's family,as is seen that the husband is the head and should finance it.
While some traditions coherently stipulates that it has to be co-financed by both families,so as to remove every thought of husband owning the wife or vice versa .

In your candid opinion,which family do you think the onus of wedding/marriage financing lies with and why

Good day folks,am really intrested in your opinion about this issue.
The father of my brother's fiancèè asked him to write an essay on why he wants to marry his daughter before his approval would be given.

As a guy if you were in his shoes would you go ahead and write the essay or not? And if you are a lady,would you do same, if it was asked of you

Na wao,american way of life dey baffle me at times...jst bkus say u nd ur gurlfrnd get kwanta no mean say u go de upload her nude pix 4 site nah..

Gurls masef,dem no go learn,hw u go take pose open ur kpekus 4 ur bf to snap ...ETT johr

If i tok nw,dem go wn ban mee..
But abeg nobi END TIME TINZ b dis

Na END TIME TINS,if ajax beat barca o

Gosh...looking 24,while she z 54,END TIME TINS

bimflash: Water will 4eva b my best drink.....

mk i hear,i go drink am{lacasera}anyday,anytime,anywhere and with any snack...i nd lacasera av bin in a relationship 4 almst a decade..gawd,ah luv dis drink

Barcaboi,me cee jhu....haters always trynaa bring new tactics/methods to destroy a resolute being...aint sayin messi is perfect,buh untill a concrete,convincin and cogent evidence or footage z shown......d whole accusations are baseless,childish,false nd hateful....#there z only one ronaldo dt i knw....RONALDO DE ASIS MORIERA DE GUACHO aka ronaldinho

$wtme:
Pls someone should teach op wot 'unclad'means,ko jasi!!!

hey lady,y dnt u click on d url..d first pics wasnt unclad.dt we all knw,b d rest ar

In today's competitive job market, even getting a job interview can prove to be difficult. So, when you eventually get an interview, you want to make sure that you do everything you can to absolutely ace it.
All too often, people can mess up the interview with ill-chosen comments, and before they know it, they're job hunting again. But with the right attitude and tips of what not to say in a job interview, you will significantly improve your chances of getting the job.
Here are a few things you shouldn't say:
Question: Why do you want the job?
This is your opportunity to show how the interviewer how passionate you are about the job position. Highlight a good reason why you want the job by for example relating it to your education or background and state what it is you can bring to the job.
Don't answer with:
"Because my mum told me to" or "Because it will pay for the rent while I look for a job that I really want to do" - Here, you are immediately proving to the interviewer that you do not actually want the job and you will not benefit or bring anything to the company in anyway.
Question: What do you like to do in your spare time?
This question gives you the opportunity to show the interviewer what your interests are, allowing them to get to know your personality a little bit more.
Don't answer with:
"Going to the pub" or "sleeping" - Employers like it when people can talk passionately about their own interests as it helps them to better understand you as a person. Instead of saying "going to the pub" talk about some social activities you enjoy doing, such as a hobby where you're part of a club or team.
Question: What do you expect to enjoy most about this role?
This question allows you to let the interviewer know that you have done your research and understand exactly what will be required of the job role. State the key aspects of the specific role that you are most excited about.
Don't answer with:
Listing the perks of the jobs such as " lunchtimes," "pay," "discounts," or "holidays" - This immediately shows that you're not hard working and that you're not actually very interested in the job role.
Question: Where do you see yourself in five years?
This is your opportunity to show the interviewer that you are serious about the industry you are interviewing for and allows you to tell them how you want to progress in the next few years.
Don't answer with:
"I see myself doing your job"- Don't threaten your interviewer with the idea that you are planning on taking their job in the future. Although you might eventually get a position similar to your interviewer in the future, saying this will give the impression that you already think you're better than your interviewer, and arrogance is not an employable attribute to have.
Bad Questions
Here are some questions you shouldn't ask:
"Do you really do that? I didn't know that!" - Here, you're immediately showing your interviewer that you haven't done your homework and researched the company before your interview.
"Do I have to wear that uniform?" - Questions like this show the interviewer that you have a poor attitude and you care more about what you look like rather than the actual job role.
"Is it okay if I just take this call?" - This highlights to the interviewer that you are not serious about the interview and are more interested in your personal life, demonstrating that you are unprofessional as well as rude.
"What's the holiday and sickness policy?" - Before you've even got the job, you're showing the interviewer that you're planning your days off. Asking about sickness also shows the employer that you're likely to have a lot of time off work.
Bad Statements
Here are some statements you should avoid:
"Sorry I'm late." - You're immediately demonstrating to the interviewer that you are unreliable and have poor time management. The last thing they want is someone rocking up to work half an hour late every morning.
"I didn't like my previous employer." - Even if this is the case, this is something the interviewer does not need to know. It can reflect badly on your character and is unprofessional.
Finally, don't swear in the interview, it's informal and very unprofessional.

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