₦airaland Forum

tintedniggz:
is either you're lazy or you don't know how to cook?

tintedniggz:
what did do you display/sell?

untildotcom:
Op abeg look for that girl for me and win a prize

tintedniggz:
Nice idea but all i see is cooking

Winna01:
is it a trade fair or cooking competition? I don't understand o

KingEbukasBlog:
Nice pictures amokeme ... I no commot for trade fair ... so I no come get pictures

ebyoma:
I Love this mehnnn!!!

Sixix:
Are you mad? Do I sound like my parents deprived me of love and care? Do I sound stupid like you do?

You need to know your class. We are not on the same level.


This is what you get when a coward f..ool keeps pretending like a woman

KingEbukasBlog:
Will you also accept the pay cut and stagnant position ?

MarieSucre:
Adaeze003

My dear, as a woman you must submit to your husband, in all things. I tell you from experience. You see even if you had a twin brother, by virtue of him being male, he will grow to be more sensible than you are. It does not matter whether he has made grievous mistakes in the past or he has indulged in rash decisions. once he gets married and he assumes that title "Head of the House" or "Husband", he automatically gets magically imbued common sense.
Now you must understand that your husband is the God you see, throw away all talk of partnership, is there any partnership between God and Man. NO!! God is forever above man, as your husband is forever above you. You must grovel at his feet, contort yourself to the point of elasticity and numb your emotions, because the only feelings that should be your primary concern in that union should be his. You must do everything for him short of worshipping him. You are lucky to be married. Some women are still single and anytime they pass a bustop or junction, people spit at them and throw rotten tomatoes at them. Do you want to be one of those bitter single women?

Listen, any thing that is wrong with any relationship is the woman's fault. She needs to check herself to make sure she does not lose him like a toy to some other woman. Is he cheating on you? Then you must either be dressing like an old woman or not giving him enough blowjobb. Is he beating you? Then you must either be a nag or a stupid housewife who brings no monetary value to the union except maybe do all the housework and take care of both your children. Check yourself. Men are too rational unlike emotional and confused women. Check yourself Nigerian Woman.

Finally. concerning this topic, here are some definitions of what submissive means.

adjective
-Being subjected to an action without producing a reaction.Taking no action.
He remained passive during the protest.(grammar)
-Being in the passive voice.(psychology) -Being inactive andsubmissive in a relationship, especially in a sexual one.
(finance) Not participating in management.
(aviation) Without motive power.

So this is not a case of him getting your opinion, he doesn't bloody need your input. Did David need his previous wife opinion before marrying a new wife? NO! If he wants to bring in the whole village into his house, then he bloody well can. He is the head of the family. Its his house, he paid a lot of money on you, you're his property. You will host his guest, cook and clean after them. If you cannot do that, then he gets another girl to do it simple. /

Kondomatic:
I am not talking about what a man may decide to spend on his wife. It gives us joy to spend on our women when we have.

My problem is the money we pay to marry a wife. Some states in Nigeria will give a list of items that is worth almost a million naira when you want to marry their daughter, now tell me.

How can you claim equal with someone who paid all that to have you? It is impossible

Like I said earlier, it gives us joy to spend on our women.

Being able to take care of your wife and kids is an achievement on it is own. I personally don't understand why a woman would reject financial help or gifts from her husband if there's no problem between them.

That one pass me.

KingEbukasBlog:
But wait ... what do you mean by " equal rights with her husband " ?

Kondomatic:
I hate what I am about to type but I kinda agree with the person you quoted and technically speaking, wives in down here are being bought which places them well below their husbands.

To begin with, a man owns the house, I mean the building they live in, most girls cannot marry a guy who doesn't own a house. The man most times pays the rent if they're staying in a rented apartment which makes it his house not their house so he can bring in whoever he wants to so far the person is not a crook.

Finally, consider what the men pass through, when you see a woman you want to marry, her family will tax you mightily and when you pay everything they asked for and pay a certain amount of bride price, they will hand the girl over to you.(isn't that business?) keep love aside please, this is pure business arrangement, you pay for their daughter before she becomes you wife.

So she was bought and cannot be equal with you.

A lot of things need to change for our women to enjoy certain privileges in their marriage.

There's this outdated mentality of some ladies that "her money is her money but her husbands money is their money" meaning that the pays almost all the bills and yet they clamour for equal rights.

It smells like nonsense.

KingEbukasBlog:
... twas a success though but its kinda sexist . Men and women should be given equal opportunities . Even Fadugba said : "We could organise one for the guys , that's if they need it " during DLD class and I was like wtf .

KingEbukasBlog:


And I thought you even sat on the front row

DangotePikin:
Even though, you will not agree, I am of the opinion that you have been showcasing the characteristics of a feminist of late. I still don't know why many ladies don't want to be called a feminist. Feminism is not necessarily a bad thing. It is only in this part of the world that people view feminist as a disrespectful woman.


I want to understand how you view the role of a woman in a home better.

If your husband wants something to be done using method A, and you want it to be done using method B, which is actually a better method than A. Let us assume that you have tried to make your husband understand that method B is better, but he still insists on using A. What will you do next?

(a) Reluctantly agree to use method B, since that is what your husband wants.
(b) Happily use method B, since your husband is the head of the home and he insisted that you use it.
(c) Stay out of using any method, and let your hubby use anyone that pleases him.

Question 2:
Let use assume that your husband finally used method B, and it happens to be less effective than A.
How will you react?
(a) Make him understand that he needs to agree with you before taking any decision
(b) You will not say anything about the shortcoming in the usage of method B, and make him deduce facts by himself.
(c) Make him understand that he needs to step up his game as the head of the family

If you don't want to reply on Nairaland, we can chat outside.

DangotePikin:
I don't know if I'm the only one that have noticed, but you've changed. I also do not know if it's a good thing or a bad thing. You are more raw and direct on Nairaland nowadays. Also, physically you look very different. There is a chance that you've had certain experiences recently that has changed the way you see things. I'm just guessing though. Happy new month. The month of the first quantum leap of the year.

KingEbukasBlog:
Proverb 31 woman - apparently , you attended the programme

NigeriaKitchen:
Miracle just happened....the boy had been crying and refused eating since he checked his JAMB result according to the mom, which was one of the reasons everybody wanted to do anything possible to ensure he gets admission this year, and I was already considering schooling abroad but we all are afraid of that....but then God did wonders yesterday.

I just received a call from the boy that his real JAMB result has been released by JAMB because they had issue at their center, so the system submitted their test without completing it...and one of the JAMB officials at their center on the day of the exam called Abuja central server office to report the issue....so finally, JAMB recalculated their result because it was only 40 questions that was automatically submitted initially according to the little boy....he's so brilliant everybody was worried how come...

So...his real JAMB score now is 240.....and his personal instructor is still not satisfied because the boy is good and in fact, deserve to win JAMB award of best candidate.

So all issues solved....thank you to all that contributed to this thread...thank you....God bless you all...God still does miracle to those that believe and trust in Him....God just answered the little boy's innocent prayers, may God be praised forever!!

feran15:
Thank God you said you added that you were an optimist... but be honest.. that cutoff mark is not going to drop to 160

NigeriaKitchen:
lol, not me, I have grown past that stage of life lol, thanks all the same....it hurts...wonder what he will doing for the next 360days

iamrealdeji:
why are you so annoyed with the guy for doing the right thing? I know your type. What if the guy cheats? Do you have to compare yourself with guys? Or are you the one that takes care of your guy's needs? Nothing goes for nothing. Guys have the right to cheat because we take care of you,but you have no right to cheat except if you're the one that spends in the relationship.

NigeriaKitchen:
Please I need covenant university admission requirements.

I want my little nephew to school there.

He wants to study engineering; any of Civil, Electrical or Mechanical Engineering.

He cleared his WAEC

Anyone with Babcock admission requirements should also help me asap pls.

Cc: amokeme

Thanks