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leke12:
birds of the same feather! A married woman has no right to cheat, and if u wanna cheat first, return the guys money he spent on ur wedding, stop bearing his name and pay back his dowry. How can my wife tell me we have equal right? Even the bible and Quran doesn't support this. If u ar cheating on ur hubby, I pray u are caught soonest

but a man does right? And it's always about the money yeah? smh. It is well

leke12:
u missed d part he mention d lady is pregnant

yeah I missed that part. Doesn't change the fact that he should have minded his business. And who cheats with a pregnancy anyways? I don't want to believe they are dating

leke12:
birds of the same feather! A married woman has no right to cheat

where did you see married woman there? Are we on same page here?! Mtcheeew

I bet if this was the other way round, the guy will be praised and called a "sharp guy" hypocrites everywhere!
If he was related to you, a friend or someone you know, ill understand. But this is just plain silly and shows he was actually checking the girl out too. Cause I don't understand why he didn't concentrate on the game he went there to see.
What makes him think the bf is a saint?? They might both be playing themselves for all we care.
Mehn loneliness is bad, who gets tipsy in a life game? This guy is the definition of loneliness!
Guess if he had a date to the game, or any other friend at that (be it male or female), he won't be poke nosing. Get yourself a girl and stay out of people's business!





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I missed the part where he said she was pregnant. Who cheats with a pregnancy?? I don't want to believe they are dating.he could be her brother/cousin or friend. Cause the whole thing doesn't make sense. People should mind there business still

Godswillnwaoma:
100% true

Never let a girl know how much you love her.

It's better you act as if you don't love her.

Treat her like a rag then she will love you.

Be nice to her then she will take you for granted. So show some bad boy character and don't be a yes man

Don't be too close to her, give her some distance and she will value you and this is where economics comes which says that scarcity creates value.

Don't give her much money even if you have much to spend, but make her believe you have money by spending it on yourself.

Don't call her everyday keep some space.





This is the policy I made about women and it's worked and keep working perfectly for me.
Op if you like emulate me or you keep being mugu to women.

wow! I just feel sorry for whoever you are dating right now... I'm sure you will be bold enough to tell your sister's bf to treat her like rag (that's if you have one ) it's nobody's fault you mingle with the wrong kind of ladies. Or maybe you experienced some bad examples from your parents while growing up. Probably your mum treated your dad badly despite him loving her with all his heart. Of you are a product of a broken home and yu have also had some bitter experience with ladies. I'm speaking psychologically now. I can see through that picture.. and what I see in someone in great pain. Give love a chance
Deny this all you want for NL sake. But as long as deep down you, we both understand what I'm saying

LORDSAMURAI:
Its still a man's world

and who is dragging that with you
My post is to encourage women into doing something meaningful with themselves. Or did you see in my write up where it argued it's a man's world or a woman's world?
Anyways since you decided to say it's a man's world (which nobody dragged with you in the first place) I hope you have something to show for yourself and not just carrying the "it's a man's world" like a tittle on your forehead.

I love success..
I love to see people succeed.
And more so, when it's a woman succeeding!
It gladdens my heart. It shows we are correcting the "it is a man's world" mentality.
I'm happy that more women and young girls are looking into legit things to make money
I'm happy that the number of female entrepreneurs are fast increasing in Nigeria.
Marriage shouldn't be an excuse why you can't succeed..
Having kids shouldn't draw you back either..
Every woman has that super power in them deposited there by God.
There is a warrior, a fighter concealed under that pretty and soft looking appearance. Some women just need that fighter spirit to be awakened, And when that happens watch the world crumble under your feet.
I'm proud to see women supporting and being a help mate and not a liability to their husbands.
Gone are the days when women are oppressed because they depend on a man for everything. Now women are standing up for themselves financially.
You don't have to be a prostitute to survive,
you don't have to be a man's puppet to live.
You may be born into a poor background,
but your background can't put your back on the ground!
Get your hands busy,
engage your mind into doing something meaningful and legit. Have a possibility mentality and watch God bless your hustle.


Lalastisca more women need to see this.... don't you think?

Teempakguy:
Maybe that's because you insult them based on their height.
The fact remains that people who are put in an unprivileged situation that they had no choice in, get very angry when others debase them for it.

so being short is now an unprivileged situation
Anyway, iv never insulted anyone base on their height.

Hahahahah this is just funny.
Maybe he doesn't have battery or MTN blocked his sim

I'm happy about this really...
A banker friend just told me it's 220 now

raayah:
How can you steal someones husband? I don't believe this woman stole anything.

The man is 100 percent to blame.

God bless you for this! Exactly what I think too. But welcome to Nairaland where everybody wants to seem "good" and fail to reason

aalangel:
I hate husband snatchers. Social media can be good sometimes.

the bold is just funny and annoying at the same time. There is nothing like husband snatchers the same way that there is nothing like "he stole my girlfriend"
This are grown a** people for goddess sake! They know what they want, and in this case nobody snatched him. He knew what he wanted. And what "IF" he never told her he was married? Both men and women lie. But let's learn to say this gs as they are!
The wife should face and think of a way to deal with her cheating husband... not coming to disgrace herself. Ok, she came to Nigeria, did it stop the man from marrying the woman?? No! So what is the essence of her coming to Nigeria now
And as for young ladies, pray for direction to know who is fake and real!
And for those ladies that will know a man is married and still go ahead, may same fate befall your daughters

Women will never learn...
She doesn't have any business with the woman but HER damn husband! It seems she can't even face the husband mtchw...

Almost all the short people (male and female )iv met are very rude and defensive...

Fanirandele:
Emotional abuse can be worse because it's usually harder to prove so people will keep telling the victim she's just over reacting or spoilt. They've ruined that girls self esteem which is what abusers do, with that she won't even be able to stand up for herself. Let her get a job no matter how small, gradually her self esteem will increase

I think she ruined her selfesteem herself...

cococandy:
So what if another man doesn't want her?
Is her existence centered around being wanted by a man?

I'm sorry I don't feel for her.

She even let her child get taken from her without a fight because she's afraid that if she fights back the man won't want her again.
Make she suit herself for there.

God bless you for the bold... I don't understand o

KingEbukasBlog:
Same with the man .. y'all both marry each other's family

nobody is disputing that

Can't she leave the house for him?? I don't just understand some women! The child that would have made her stay in the house has been taken away from her, so what is the point of her staying there exactly!?
Does she have a job? A business? Or any source of livelihood? If the answer is no, then I "pity" her.
Clearly the husband is just a man by default. How can your mother come to your matrimonial home to take your child?? And her excuse is your wife is not the kind of woman she wants for you!
Na wa o... things are really happening.
I tell ladies, if your mother in law doesn't like you, and you have searched your conciense and it's clean, please leave her son for her... The pain you will go through then can't and will never be compared with the one you will face if you go ahead and marry him! I'm very sure the wife saw all this signs and still ignored them. Like it or not ladies, there is nothing like "I'm getting married to my husband alone" that is a lie from the pit of hell, when you are getting married, you are getting married to "his whole family" take it or leave it, it's just the bitter truth.
I hope she sorts her self out before it becomes any worse

Congratulations...

They should settle out of court... for the sake of some innocent students amongst them.
The parents should come together to replace/repair damaged things. Simple!

jamarionj:
You Have to Sacrifice Something
I haven’t met a single entrepreneur that didn’t sacrifice something when they were first starting out. Most often people give up a better paying job, health insurance, and retirement benefits but it usually goes much deeper than that.
Entrepreneurs often don’t have the freedom to “leave work at work”. I know many that are “always on” (myself included). They need to consciously force themselves to stop thinking about the work that they do because they enjoy it so much.
When you are trying to make ends meet as an entrepreneur it is also hard to give yourself time off because if YOU aren’t working than YOU aren’t getting paid or moving any closer to where you want to be.
Many others give up time with their family (the very reason a lot people think “working from home” is so great) or delay having kids entirely.
The same goes for owning a home. It’s much harder to get a loan these days when you are self-employed than if you are a typical salaried employee. Underwriters want to make sure you run a proven and profitable business over the past couple years.
And lastly, most entrepreneurs actually downgrade their lifestyle to work for themselves, not the other way around. They live with roommates or parents, eat ramen for dinner, or move to the cheapest countries in the world just so they can do work that matters.
All this to say: being an entrepreneur isn’t always glamorous.
You’ll need to give up something you want to do the work you are passionate about!!!.

this is true but not always the case...

"Culture of violence" Really?!

Decently dressed and still beautiful!

I just hate ripped jeans! Both on male and female... I don't just understand the motive behind this act
Are you practicing madness

That gown is lovely!
She looks so beautiful

The only thing I like there is the Cape jacket.... asides that, nothing more.
The whole combination just looks somehow

Didn't know he was Dr sid's father... (never knew he was dead sef )
Continue to rest in peace sir

I don't see anything wrong with no.7

KingEbukasBlog:
I am being nice ... that's why I am asking for the opinion of others who are experienced in some way

Please let me derail small. What is happening in your halls Wby are the guys shouting?

Back to the topic

KingEbukasBlog:
I have always wanted my first relationship to lead to marriage and had given pejorative opinions on relationships that cant/wont lead to marriage . Now I'm older , and I think that's a wrong stance on relationships and think your first relationship should not lead to marriage . Am I wrong ? And you know it could be really bad if your woman should find out that she is a mere object of social experimentation that would help mould your marriage with another woman entirely in the future
cc : Ishilove , mrsphyno Mrsprof, MrsPhyno , amokeme and others ... please help What do you think ?

at the bold, you are also a mere object of social experimentation too.. looking at it from your perspective, because you both are in it together. I'm saying this cos, if it doesn't lead to marriage, there will definitely be a lesson to learn and an idea on what and how you want your next relationship to be. E.g she might want to correct somethings she didn't like about you in her next relationship, or want to inculcate some good things she likes about you into her next boyfriend. And you'll do same. By so doing you both experimented with each other to help mould your marriage to the different people you will get married to..
And having the mentality that your first relationship will be the last (asin, end up in marriage) is wrong on so many levels. Compatibility is KEY and in a situation where you both are not, but you just want to keep patching up things just cause you want it to be your last doesn't make sense. It will hunt you later in your marriage.

Stuffs like this don't work in Nigeria... I can't even try it, better you do it manually

Lol, no chill!

Decker:
Actually, those places you mentioned are places some women who are privileged to be born into affluence or who have worked their way into financial success, usually hang out on days that aren't even specially recognized.
So, when you use the word 'materialistic' as a tag on women who would request to spend valentine's day in such places, it's doesn't quite seem right, because ladies, like the one's I rightfully mentioned above, aren't actually being materialistic, since they are already used to that kind of lifestyle.

No offense intended, bro. I am not in anyway trying to nullify the essence of your thread.

you spoke my mind.