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jmoore:
FYI: Virginity is not the only thing I seek, other good qualities of a virtuous woman are included too. But virginity can never be negotiated. My life, my choice [/font]

Jengbetiele:
I just have a feeling this may be useful here for some categories of students. Let me quickly share my story with you....the best sermon is one's personal experience. I left secondary school in 2004. By 2005, I got admitted to a state university in Ekiti State. After two years of studies in Ekiti state, I discovered the program I was enrolled into was not accredited. To make the story worse, nearly all lecturers in the faculty of science avidly disliked everything about the program. It was called SLT then.

Consequently, they mark down our papers. Not only that, they called us all sorts of names like NFA, unfortunate students and the likes anyone who attended the university and did that course can attest to what I am saying. My dad happened to be a staff of the University, so I told him about the poor grades, everything I heard about the program and the intensity of the lecturer's hatred for the program all to no avail. All he said was whenever students don’t want to read, they come up with different flimsy excuses so I kept mute.

After five years of my life in that school, my dad was made one of the board members of the faculty so he saw the whole results since the inception of the program. He saw so may spill over students from year 2000, and the fact that the program has not been accredited. I was in 500 level (final year) then with a lot of carry over courses.....carry over is not a big deal in that program....people had 15. It was so worse that from 300level, you can be so sure you are already a spill over student. My father saw how bad it was and he immediately invited me to his office for a meeting. He blamed himself for not listening to me when I complained 3 years earlier and he said he would want me to transfer immediately. That was how I took my transcript using his influence. I was the first person ever and possibly the last person to get a transcript from the program. I returned to 200level in another school entirely when I ought to graduate with maybe a third class or a pass.

I wasted 5years of my life in Ekiti state University and as a result, i was so sad and depressed. Merely sitting with my younger brother's age mate turned my stomach in anger. Infact when I got to the new school, my own younger brother who I happened to be ahead of by 3years became my senior. The retrogression started affecting my grades such that attending classes became a burden. Along the line, I sat myself down and reasoned deeply about how my life has been. For crying out loud, I used to be one of the best students in secondary school. I was only unfortunate to have attended the wrong program in Ekiti. Though I wasn't given any certificate despite the number of years spent but what about the life lessons I learnt?

From that day onward, I made a concrete decision to change my attitude towards my new classmates and I began to humble myself to a fault. Above all, I began to see my new school as the golden opportunity to start afresh again. My declining grades all of a sudden began to soar so high such that I had 5.0/5.0 in one of the semesters with a bit of dedication and I ended finishing top 5 out of the class

Today, I am currently in Canada on a graduate program fully funded by a Canadian university. Up till now, I am yet to spend a dime of myself in Canada because the scholarship covered everything. Guess what? I even got two scholarships from two different universities and just last week, I got another funding again. Yes just last week! What if I had committed suicide then? Would I have seen the goodness almighty God has packaged in my future today? What I am saying in essence is you can fall as much as possible but whenever you fall and refuse to rise again is when you failed. The righteous shall fall seven times.....but they shall rise again.

Conclusively, whatever the case maybe, dust up yourself and try again. Do not give up so easily because winners never quit and quitters never win. I am sure very soon you gonna look back and smile. Every successful man or woman at some point had a share of that gloomy period when you feel you are all alone and the world is about coming down on you. But I am happy to announce to you that alot of people have tread this same path and today they have become success and point of reference in the society. My brothers and sisters, it is never how far, but how well and tough time never lasts tough people do!!!!!!

WoodcrestMayor:
People get money for this country sha


Amokeme....i sight you.

Been a while

harristo:
Imagine, only the guys on this thread are the ones condemning her actions, all the ladies are just praising her, Mtcheeeeew

slim19:
how bout the backside

14teenK:
If this makes front page am through wit nl

omooba969:
I like your siggy & it shows how beautiful you are in your head.

Nice 1 babe.

MzPecs:
Who looks down on mathematics?

tonytony208:
Hmmm...I love ur simplicity too. Them simple smile on ur simple looking, but thought-inspiring face really got me scratching my jaw in deep thoughts.

Love Machine:
Since you can't give him sex,don't complain when he goes out to look for it then.

chymystique:
I dont date for money so if the guy says "no money in the relationship" I wont be bothered a bit.. Yet to see how much money or things a guy will gimme that will give him the guts to ask for sex like its his birthright. As a guy spends on me, I reciprocate

chymystique:
Must Relationship be all about sex? Its time this generation get a grip huh

Shugaryme:
well said sis

freshcvvs:
You mean you have never requested anything from your boyfriend/fiance/husband during dating before because he doesn't have or because you don't care?

A simple yes i havent in both instance or no should do.

MRBrownJ:
a child or a home is exactly the same thing when it comes to "HONESTY ABOUT ONES PAST"..... no 50 shades about it.
now, if you believe that its best to bury your head in the sand about things that are related to your life, then so be it.

the son that you'd rather "ignore" is an heir to your husband (therefore has legal rights to your family wealth), just like a house that you decide to conceal is part of the family's property (unless stated otherwise)

freshcvvs:
Hope you haven't or didn't request for anything from him during your dating period since you don't care about what you had before you got married, so giving you anything or expecting him to give you anything before marriage would be nothing but hypocrisy.

lastpage:
Let us say she is SS... and did not revel it to her husband who is AS.

They then have children who are sickle cell inherited.

That is still as much LYING as telling him she is AA.

if Saraki filled an Asset declaration form, and he "intentionally or forgot or omitted to mention" that he has five houses in Ikoyi....

He would have committed an offence

What about if your husband "forgot" to mention it to you at the time of marriage, that he has another woman carrying his pregnancy...

Would you consider him a liar?

Source the Geese, ...Source the Gander.


Lastpage!

freshcvvs:
Meaning you don't mind if your husband refuses to tell you about his owned properties?