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KingEbukasBlog:
1. Research on other motivational speakers , know their names . Most of them are authors , read their books

2. Watch videos of them speaking on YouTube . You can also attend events where you can listen to motivational speakers do their thing .

3. As you go , pick a mentor out of them , one that appeals to you

4. Internalize the way your mentor speaks , his attitude and how well he relates with his listeners

5. Transfigure his style - alter it to suit your uniqueness and develop your own style from there

6. Practice Practice to firmly establish this unique style of yours . Read books that can help you grow your social intelligence - how well you relate with people and even motivate them through your words , facial expressions , body language etc . How to connect with your audience and keep them engaged through out your speech .

7. Work through social media to build your brand . Start a Facebook/Twitter/YouTube channel - you can grow your audience .

8 . Create your own motivational quotes , make your own videos and share through these platforms .

9 Be prepared for criticisms even very harsh ones from the public . Don't internalize them or else they will affect your self-image and you'd lose confidence . A motivational speaker is expected to exude confidence

10 . Remodel your style through the criticisms from the public .

11. You can write your own book as you grow as a way of establishing a good reputation - this is very important

12. Your growth and new found popularity will attract event organizers , schools , churches who need motivational speakers during their programs

Note : Expand your vocabulary , improve your eloquence and grammar . Attend English classes . Know more languages if you have a bigger dream to speak to people of different languages . You can read books like Public Speaking for success by Dale Carnegie to give you ideas on how to develop yourself into a great public speaker .

Goodluck !

greatnaija01:
ok but where do you know that u are coming to?

KingEbukasBlog:
baby

Hugo55:
Kano on my mind. can we relate pls

wintersnow:
Would love to serve in kano tho..but am a guy..
Would it be OK with you?

wintersnow:
Would love to serve in kano tho..but am a guy..
Would it be OK with you?

Boyooosa:
Dogs will be mad at you, their existence rely on it.

thepussyhunter:

the list is pretty long but i'll mention but a few (the importatnt ones)

1) love.......like love love and not just love.............................you know theres this extra feeling attached to the normal feeling of being loved when the love is from a lady you love (dont know if i made sense but hope you get cos its quite difficult to explain)

2) food/cooking.........i know its not suppose to be an important thing to want from a lady but when you 're me (who's a huge lover of food and tired of cooking for hinself as a bachelor) you'd understand

3) children......not saying i'll make her my breeding entity or i wont marry her if i love her and she cant have children...........just that i love kids and a lady can provide that

4) emotional support.........forget all this macho man shiiii, a guy would always need that one person to make him feel alright during critical situations and a lady can and are usually the best candidates esp when she knows her onions

5) sex..........like hot sex.......with all dem boobs and sweet pussy.......yep ama booby man

6) spiritual support..........this shoulda been num 1 but i have me reasons for putting it here..........ever heard the saying ________ (sorry i don forget the saying)..............just know i'd need that from her

7) kisses...........this is diff from sex...........i love kissing and i'm a kiss freak.........i cant possibly kiss a guy so yea i want kisses from my woman everyday

8.) respect........yea its normal

9) loyalty......

10) someone to let me take care of her.....i no want any boss lady......i need my lady to allow me be the man and take care of her

11) an intelligent lady......my children cant be inherit dumb traits abeg

12) lady with focus and who isnt overly broke
etc.............like i said there 're a lot but these are the most important things i need from a lady................sorry if i bored you with the long epistle

you asked for it

Ifakiland:
Loyalty is everything to me....I deserve it and I demand it.
I need trust also, I wanna be able to give my gf my atm card with pin and not worry abt missing money.
I need down to earthness also, no forming posh, eat that chicken with ur hands woman, don't wast calcium.

ped007:
Guys nkor

Suspect33:
the same people clamouring for leadership to extend to the youths of this nation are the very same people ridiculing Yul for contesting for governor, na sense una no get, now i know why buhari is the president of Nigeria, Y'all are sheepishly gullible

Chukwudi4naija:
I hope the question you're solving on your question paper is different from the two questions I am seeing? Question 2 requires you to prove that the sum of square deviation of the parameter estimate is equal to zero. It is quite a long process that may take 30 minutes to solve. I know you wanted a straight question that requires just writing or solving what is in you're note. Although the Lecturer's grammar is poor.

hoesaintloyal:
You are mistaken.

I do voice out my emotions. Someone who understands me would know something is up when I'm oddly quiet.

I just don't see any reason to being unneccesarily loud and angry.

I guess I'm just the cool headed type.


For example, this evening my neighbour cut down the plants outside my house claiming they grown too much and would give room for bad people to hide and cause harm. To be honest, I was distraught because I intentionally left them to grow big enough to shield the house from outside.

I've known the woman to be the nosey type and it was way out of line for her to cut plants that aren't within outside her compound. She claims she didn't know I was around.

Instead of getting angry and talking loud or disrespecting her, I thought to myself like well, the plant will still grow again or maybe she would eventually take responsibility of being my gardener.

So was I being stupid or emotionally incapable for not reacting? Afterall, they are only plants.

hoesaintloyal:
Na wa o!

I doubt if i'll ever be driven to that brink of madness.

sekxy:
my spec

ChilledPill:
Which kind man dey bow for woman like this having a handshake with his two hands with a woman....

Confused977:
Send me ur number. The email wahala tire me.

Confused977:
Pls I am still open to more opinions. Thanks

tosyne2much:
Amokeme comes to mind. I like the lady sha


She has good comportment, very humble and matured

DOUBLEWAHALA:
you guys are not even talking about life or how secure the part of sokoto he is, is





maybe he is not getting enough enjoyment in sokoto like people in eko and abuja gets


or this biafra thing is high that side
the next place where bokoharam will start there next operation might be there

guy start making arrangement to leave that place
noting you said u want to do that you woundnt do







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