koseepaaro:

Hi all in the house, there is this girl that I added as my friend sometimes early last year, since I added her as my friend, she will just keep sending 'Hi' to me, through facebook chat each time I'm online but I always ignor her chat. Just about 3 weeks ago, she also sent 'Hi' to me again and I replied her and since then, we have been chating on facebook almost every day and I have even collected her number 3 days after we started chating through facebook chat because I wanted to help her on browsing issue on her phone then. And I told this girl that I'm interested in her since the day after we started chating through facebook but what she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged. So house, what do you suggest I should do about this girl as she keeps telling me that we can only be friends but we can't date as she is engaged?t she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged. So house, what do you suggest I should do about this girl as she keeps telling me that we can only be friends but we can't date as she is engaged?

chi-baby:

Ryt behind u

barlery:

hi ,
am in a relationship and me n my partner have been involved sexually with each other, but recently she starts giving me this attitude n she tells me she wants more of me, she needs me to get involved in her life financially, that dont i ever care to know how she gets money n all. well the thing is its not as if i dont know these things, or am a stingy person, but its jus that am not truly sure if i can trust her,cos she has really lived a life of fun n all but poses she's done with such living, but the truth of the matter is that when she's alone n am not with her i keep wondering if i am the only person. i guess am jus confused and each time we have it theres no lingering effect. i really dont know wat to do some times i want out of this relationship, but i jus dont want to hurt her n make her feeel it was always abt sex.pls i need an advice.

chi-baby:

LOL dat wasnt soo hard was it? Yeh pleased!

chi-baby:

I wudnt lyk to re-watch it sorry. Ok pls get bk to topic, thanks  

chi-baby:

I've seen it

chi-baby:

I see

@amu ukwu

Ok do reply Sir when u've read the topic

kasiem:

Imagine, i went to my gf's house and misplaced my phone. So, trying to get it, i collected hers to dial my line. The name that appeared on her screen was, "CARPENTER". I was dazed and couldn't plumb the meaning of the flummery, cos the girl has shown that work is to fuell the tank, while, another person drives the car.

chi-baby:

Sir u dint reply accordingly to topic  

, and Madam, i think you surprised me, i thought you would use more profanity of me.

Yea, the topic, I'll read more and reply accordingly

chi-baby:

Firstly, ds topic can be moved to whicheva section da Mods deem appropriate, thanks. 

Now to the topic. Whats your take on bad language?

Guys, Do you or do you not mind your partner/wife using fowl/offensive/profane language?

Ladies, same question applies.

Well for me, in simple words, it simply sweeps me off my feet. Soo bad dat if I'm havin a convo with sum1 and suddenly they land da F* word 4 example, it takes me few seconds to re-connect and join the convo. 



Was wondering if its just me. your views will be appreciated, Thanks   

Niklizy:

Ther's ds uncl of myn,works wt d NPA marid 4 14yrs nw wt 3kids.He's carin n responsibl 2is family n ppl arnd.So clos 2d men of God n 9ce 2them bt is wife is his prob.
Sh's so wckd,dnt wnt any family n frnds arnd d husbnd.They courtd 4 7yrs(responsibl 4her edu),b4 they got marid h was warnd nt 2marry her bt h refusd.Sh's nvr aprici8v,h bought her a jip of 1.8m on her last brtdy bt stl say he's nt don anytn.Sh insult im,curse im evn in d presnc of visitors,sh earns 80k montly bt nvr cntributd 2d family affair nt evn her chldrn bt 2b buyn clothes.Her hubby gvs her 50k mntly as fud alowanc bt wen he's bk sh'l only prepar indomie or pap.B4 d 23rd of d mnt,sh'l cmplain dt d mony is finishd(wt insults)he has cald women lyk her 2spk wt her bt al 2no avail.Sh deprivs im of his rght on bed 4 5,6mnths.Her moda wil alws cm 4 1asistnc or d oda n yet stl insult n curse im evn 2is face.Profecy cam dt d wife n moda as gon weird 2mak sur they destroy im(h's bin denied of is promotn as d AGM Of is dp@mnt @wrk,said d wife is bhnd it)h wntd 2divorc bt was askd nt 2,said sh'l liv by herslf.Sh 1nc tld im dt sh wnt 2frustr8 im dt he'l bit her up n sh'l die n aftr her death,he'l als die or go 2jail dt sh wnt 2mak sur sh brngs im dwn in lyf.They ad a fight somtym ago dt d parent ad 2arest im wt policemen.
Now h's so frustr8d,dnt knw wat 2d.3mnts ago h met a lady,h fel in lv wt her n wnt 2kip it ril wt her.I met d lady n oda familis do n we al lv her,bt sh's nt redy 2gv in 2is offa though sh lyks im.Sh said sh cnt due 2som risns n d age difrenc btw them(h's 22yrs olda than her)sh nids your candd advice pls

chi-baby:

If dat puts food on your table sweerie. Now tell me wat sensible/responsible dude wud use a username lyk urz?
Exactly my point, pityful.

2buff:

I agree with the opening post (not so much the use and drop part) but the general message.
If a girl expects that all she's bringing to the table that is "our life " to be bossoms, vag, and 10 layers of makeup and that's it . . . The girl go wait.

Women need to read and acquire some knowledge. Nothing is more frustrating than a 25-makeup-lqyers chick that can't even keep up an interesting conversation.
It's like "did you seriously think because you've managed to buy brazilian weave you should now not bother to work on your mind?"

chi-baby:

Yes I did. They do mayb out of pity, wateva. Cuz mosta y'll situation is pityful 

chi-baby:

Nigerian girls dumb, Nigerian girls easy, Nigerian girls urgly, Nigerian girls have nothing to offer, Nigerian girls . . . .

And To think dat some Nigerian males act soo senseless dat u wonder if they are 4 real?
I actually think sum[b] nigerian girls act silly[/b] jus to be on the same page with the dudes cuz boiii da dudes are dammn silly

2buff:

I agree with the opening post (not so much the use and drop part) but the general message.
If a girl expects that all she's bringing to the table that is "our life " to be bossoms, vag, and 10 layers of makeup and that's it . . . The girl go wait.

Women need to read and acquire some knowledge. Nothing is more frustrating than a 25-makeup-lqyers chick that can't even keep up an interesting conversation.
It's like "did you seriously think because you've managed to buy brazilian weave you should now not bother to work on your mind?"

Missy ★ B:

Awww! I did not only understand what you said, I also commend your English.  

We are all beautiful the way we are - Fearfully or wonderfully made.  

Cuddlemii:

First of all, I must give it to Naija babes anytime any day

1) What we possess is what most white women pay so much in acquiring (cash and pain) via surgery. We don't waste money on surgery cos we have it in abundance. Some peoples own sef na curse, to be continued is written on them.

2) We are home makers and not slave makers- We cook, clean and cater to our men, we don't order our men to do the chores or wash our undies.

3) We can't seize our men's international passport and report them to the police because we were raised right to pamper our men and not taketh by force

4) Our naija men want us, adore us, need us and get seduced by us. What is wrong with their oyinbo men that they have to wait for naija men before they can date or marry. If they can't attract their kind, they are not woman enough then.

5) Naija babes don't need to buy affection cos we have the weapons already to a man's heart. Why do the white women spend so much for affection?

6) If you like marry white, asia, pakistan. Naija men always come back to have a Naija wife here.

7) Naija babes can marry a man from any country without being a slave, selling their birth rite or washing undies for the whites.

Unfortunately we posses a lot as a Naija woman.

There is no place like home jor, Charity begins at home!!!

Come home and marry your women, we would not make you do groceries on your own, we wont starve u with only vegetarian diet and yogurt, we would not ask you to do the dishes, we would not ask you to take out the bin, we would not ask you to walk and bath scooby, the dog.  We are bloody endowed, know our culture and u would still be the head and not the maid!