freecocoa:

Are you sure you are ready for that?

1000% SURE.

freecocoa:

OP congrats on becoming a mother,I'm praying to be where you are very soon,I'm seriously yearning to be a mum. I don't think I'll miss being a spinster o but I guess I'll never know till I'm taken.

Can I take you?

Idowuogbo:

Odiro easy na ,guy u wan fry d pikin brain ni,abeg sofri sofri o.Lola wud b bck in no time,she just go wan literature festival go collect award.

Trouble maker HAPPY NEW YEAR.

Inked_Nerd:

@Nj girl: Chei, my dear are you well? What is it that is keeping you from comprehending simple information? Are you so desperate to continue trudging with this thread that you insist that there is something I have against you? I hate having to repeat myself so talk notes and please pay EXTRA attention this time because it appears that focusing isn't really your forté. I am not, and I repeat, I am not one of those people who "unleash their real life frustrations on online characters or one of those people who cant make a decent argument without getting all nasty about it". Sorry sweetie but you're not that special for me to actually go out of my way to have an ill feelings about. If I see a topic or discussion that is of interest to me, then I will throw my two cents in. Just because I have chosen to address you specifically doesn't mean I have anything against you or that I am lashing out at you. If you have a problem with the fact that unlike other people here I addressed the flaws within your topic in a more indept manner then that is not my problem. You need to learn and understand that part of being an adult and having an adult conversation is knowing how to discuss topics without always taking a personal offense to it when you don't find the persons response particularly appealing. As for you telling me I could have stated my flaws in a more "ladylike" mannner, that demonstrates the manner which you think since you seem to be under the impression that there is a particular type of way I should speak since I am a woman. The only one downplaying the issue of domestic violence as a whole is you and your tippy toeing ways within your response. Go re-read the intial replies and the reples of others and tell me what is difference is between them. Majority of the people who addressed you in a similar manner as I did are men so please tell me why you didn't sit here and call them out for them replying as a whole? Roland17, sexkillz and 25omega addressed you in a direct yet shorter manner yet I don't see you telling them to "stop acting like men". If I wanted to have a personal "beef" with you, I would have called you out directly and told you straight up. I don't bullshit when it comes to things like that. Had having a beef with you been my my objective, I would have made it very public and you would have known. I'm straight foward when it comes to things like that so don't even use your notion of creating a beef as a means of responding to my comment to you.

You saying that I should do something about genger inequalities if it upsets me just adds onto the fact that you know nothing of what you're saying. The tuth of the matter is, I already work and volunteer for gender based and orientation based organizations that promote help and outreach to both sėxes. Like before, I have stated that on Nairaland in the past. I don't know what it is that you do in your free time but I'm not one of those womanists who complain about things and don't actually do anything about it. I actually do try to make a difference no matter how small it may be. Perhaps if you didn't assume things [again], then you would have known that. If you truly believe or think that you presenting falsified, hypiocritical, and sexist information about domestic violence then I think you may need to rethink using the term 'femnist' and your views on feminism and domestic violence because cleartly you don't know or understand the foundamentals of feminism. Feminism [or womanism if that is a term you'd prefer to go by], is not about getting back at the other side by means of the same treatment. Rather, it is a movement that involves the empowerment, advacement, equality of women in every aspects of life. My objective as a womanist is not to try to bring down "the man", but rather like the feminist movement, it is to work towards anti-domination for the liberation of all humanity, against misogyny, intimate exploitation, violence and aggression, and to raise consciousness and socio-political activism by observing, analysing, debating and challenging dominant and oppressive ideologies pervasive in mainstream society; as well as providing a space to share advice, musings and feelings in a non-therapeutic manner. So unlike the comments [i]you[/i]were making earlier, they don't fit into what it is that you claim to stand for. Like I said before, yes I will agree that there are more male abusers than female but that's not to say that women don't do it either or that its ok for a woman to just take up the notion that equality means throwin' some fits up in the air to make up for past grievences. Me responding to the the thread as a whole has nothing to do with me not liking your thread [or you as a member]. I'm replying to this thread not because I hate, dislike, or have a bone to pick with you and the topic, it is because the topic of femisim, equality, and domestic violence as a whole is something that I am aactually passionate about. Just because you're choosing to bypass the fact that I addressed the fact that I don't dislike your thread doesn't mean it wasn't stated. You can keep claiming that I don't  like your thread but the truth of the matter is that me liking or disliking the thread is irrelivent to the actual content of our conversation. If you or anyone else wants to view me as a "blabing frustrated sister", then you're more than welcome to. I have no control or objection to you thinking that. Ultimately that is up to you.

who wan read all this, this girl you too serious. u no get bf abi na gf. you need some distractions.

ebonyvibe:

i have JESUS more than you can think of. What is wrong with ma$turbation; it is christian like you that mislead people.

Where does it say in the bible not to ma$turbate; if men didnt you will like to see the number of violation cases rise a hundred fold in the court. It is healthy and natural can you say that you havent ma$turbated before.

People like you lead other to the pits of hell out of you over religiousness; christianity is your personal relationship with good not a set of laws to obey.

Can I buy you a king sized d[i]i[/i]ldo for your next session?

lola.luv:

lol

I really like having you around, Coco!

The part of the world I am right now, its past midnight and I'm all awake because this. So you better continue or i'd get mad at you. Certainly, this is good, interesting. You are good at writing.

Just a simple question here, is getting a hand job from a massage girl at the the massage parlour considered cheating?

My Xmas happy wish goes to Idowuogbo. I like love that girl already even without seeing her. MERRY CHRISTMAS Idowuogbo.

Reply to Orikinla's 1st comment.


Mr Orikinla as much as you should be commended for your service to humanity through various organization (UNICEF) you worked with, you should as well be chastised for calling these people dogs. Isn’t it hypocritical and unprofessional of you to use the information (classified information at that) you gained about the lives of these people to derogate them? Moreover, I don’t subscribe to your view that “bad marriage” as you put it is the cause of corruption, greed and wickedness in Nigeria and other poor nations. If you say corruption, greed and wickedness in Nigeria and other poor nations are caused by “bad marriage”, how about countries like USA with a greater number of bad and failed marriages, where divorce rate is over the roof top, yet corruption, greed and wickedness is minimal?
Mr Orikinla you are too educated to make such careless statement. “Bad marriages” are not the root cause rather it contributes to it. Corruption, greed and wickedness in these poor nations is beyond naming a single factor as the cause, what we have are lots of contributing factors which includes also but not limited to Ignorance both on the married and unmarried folks like you.
I have read most of your posts here; I think you have a thing phobia against marriage. You always want to justify the reason you are not married at your age but the fact is nobody cares. It’s a free world, you live your life the way it pleases you.
Now I expect you to be a good boy man. Go down on your knees, pray to whatever God/deity you believe in, and ask for forgiveness for you have sinned by derogating Gods creature with such name calling. While you are at it, pray also that God touches heart of Idowuogbo, that she posts a picture here. I’m beginning to have a thing for that girl. She’s intelligent and smart. Funny also, I think she leads a very active life outside NL. And it strikes me too; she’s a real take home to mama.

Are u referring to Mr C0rk?

Idowuogbo:

Obughi mu mere, nwoke ahu bu ewu.I tire for dem nnayi

Ezi okwu, amaghi na i na asu igbo ofuma! Eche n'ibu onye yoruba.
Anya gi a, obu na inweghi foto i ga egosi anyi, ka any lekiri. Onye nile choro ihu foto gi.

Pedophile on the loose.

Idowuogbo:

I think he's needs opa eyin or viagraaaa truly he doesn't seem d able type.

oge nile gi na acho nsogbu. i tire for you ni.

Orikinla:

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Congratulations. Happy?

this man sef, [s]hope you are not looking for people for money r[i]t[/i]tual[/s]   

fake dude. Imagine 'fink' for 'think'.

freecocoa:

I'm sure you wouldn't want to jam the wrath of the gods in a brutal jajantic formatua,guy water my fire. Oh I forgot you have not become,finally I forgive you.

@ Freecocoa, may you forgive that animale. He is rioting and still dancing 'kpafurege' in the zoo. Walk and never stumble. Okpeke oma, you are very gbask. The Gods are wise.

freecocoa:

I fell asleep last night.so you are karid?hmmm well you are not my friend but in the spirit of our kariability make I water you.

Happy monika,dayses be longuata like that of methuselah,may you walk and never stumble,even stumble,may you stumble on the agbalacious ikebe of a biankaful okpeke,may your landlord never see your wife so that your sons may not resemble him,
This is the voice of okpeke cocoa l@ hot,ayam that entity who was tinatoned by chief evangelist emeka on dat brutal day,ayam vibrating from ilya du futo. An attempt on mua is an attempt on no 6 ime ala street,tempt mua anota. One finger for you.
Ayam highly karid.

Biancafull Freecocoa, may you walk and never stumble for its said that, by their fingers and karribilty, we shall know them. This is LSF via Ilya du Lake vibtating from my Ama. The Gods are wise.

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]Yeah Right! Talking about upbringing now huh? Modafurka!

I wonder what your st[i]u[/i]pid parents were thinking when they conceived you! Bloody Goats! What a waste of spe[i]r[/i]m!

Nah, the moderators are all part of the conspiracy to rake in traffic. . . I'll only oblige them accordingly!

So fcck you, and fcck your aggrandizing stup[i]i[/i]d elders! They all can kiss my arse! [/size]

I think sey this guy na gentle man

tellwisdom:

Feechoco, what do u mean d gods are wise?? #where did u get that from??

Na ask her o be like she dey kegite club 

Idowuogbo:

yab ke dem neva clone hin type , he dey jus dey test hin keyboard

hehehhee follow u i resemble fly wey set on top shitzz , bobo u dey behave like giringori

stop d noise joor twitter don get owner

Seriously girl behave. I dont take low roads. Truce!

Goldieluks:

idowu na you this newbie dey yab so?

awuo na muo!! na me this girl wey no get pic dey call newbie, thank ur stars im in a happy mood

Idowuogbo:

Price wetin na meat u dey sell , con hia no dey send dose kain bolo give me

oya adjust

I talk am, this girl dey single, see as she dey follow follow me for NL ROMANCE se[i]x[/i]tion

Idowuogbo:

Emmmmh i don go for dudes d same age as orikinla , u sef don strectch na

:oYou don dey prize na, you go pay o