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You still want her because of her family connections, obviously.

Wi3ter: Another classless mumu. Your aunty's life is in serious trouble and you are here thinking about cashing in ? why are Nigeria women like this for f*cksakes ?

Seriously? Well, what are we classless mumus gonna do about it?

Well my Aunt's life is not in trouble, shƺ's a B.tch in her own right and he's a d.ck in his. Ideally suited or what? If there marriage is in trouble, how the hell is that my fault? If he on his own decides to send money for mƺ, I should decline abi? Abegi.

[quote author=Abeg_gi]Despite your attempts to paint youself innocent and the victim in this matter, it is obvious to anyone astute enough, that

-you were an enabler
-you absolutely earlier on knew what he was up to, and you entertained it
- you are partly to blame for this mess.

If you must teach anyone a lesson, please start with yourself.[/quote]JESUS H CHRIST!!! How on earth a♍ I an enabler? How wouls I know what he was up to? Now that's a big lie. I'm trying to paint myself as innocent, I a♍ INNOCENT! I never ever initiated a chat, and whenever we chat I'm simply polite and courteous for my aunt's sake.
I don't care about him in any way.

Idowuogbo: Amya, set him up. U b lasgidi finest na! Do ya ting!

made in biafra: tell him to send some dollars first of all!!

That's my plan exactly.

First off, let me start by saying this is a 100% true. If any one knows me on Nl, they'd know I don't make up stories.

My Dad's youngest sister is 39. she just got married last year to an AA guy she met on an online dating site. They got married here in Nigeria, so she has to be in Nigeria for 2 years before gets her green card to join him.

The guy has been to Nigeria a couple of times, but I haven't met him. He sent me a friend request on facebook, and earlier in the year, he asked my Aunty to give him my bb pin. We started chatting innocently. I call him uncle, and he calls me 'my sexy niece' he always try to chat me up every other day. After a while the communication stopped. We didn't chat for 2 months, but I could care less.

Yesterday, he went on full toasting mode. Telling me his marriage between by Aunty and him is over, and how he's always been in love with me and want's to marry me. I was trying to see reasons with him (more out of respect than anything else) why the liaison would never work, because his wife in question is my Aunt! Plus I have a bf I love.

He went on to say "Bleep tradition! Bleep family!!! I want you to be here in new york city with before the end of the year. We'll get married here and bla bla bla" It was shocking and traumatising.

I'll never be foolish enough to fall for that crap. But I may just teach him a few lessons never to mess with a naija girl (by chopping him mugu)

I really don't know whether or not to tell my Aunt about this and make it a family issue.

"Jude says" . . . "Jude says"

You're a grown a.ss dude! Don't you have a mind of your own? You're taking this bros before hoes thing to a whole new level.

I believe that deep inside you, you know the right thing to do. You're just here to validate what jude says. In your heart is a whole different matter.

1. If you really L♥√ع her

2. If you think you guys would make a good life together

3. If you are ready emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physical.

Then go ahead and marry her.

Tall, handsome and rich.

But seriously though, I have a friend who is 6'3 to my 6ft we make an odd pair

This dude is weird!

abby88: @Amya, it's not that i want him back but i also wonder whether i should hate him or be good to him because if he is HIV+ then surely he has saved me.

You say he's asking you to be patient with him. Meaning he probably sees a future between you two. He's probably staying away because of all he put you through, and sees it as a way to atone for all his wrongdoings in the past. Or he's got HIV and wouldn't want to pass it to you or he doesn't even know where he stands yet.

If you think he trusts you enough to confide in you, ask him to tell you exactly why he's avoiding you. You can also broach the HIV topic yourself and watch his reaction.

Funny you only talked about your fiancées part in the last few lines.

And what scene occurred after the kissing, Se.x? If it's what I'm thinking, then you messed up real bad.

Now the deed's been done, just tell her you're already involved with someone else and can't have a relationship with her.

Except ofcourse there's something you're not telling us.

Someone who you claim cheats on you, dumps you, is someone you want to take back with open arms? HIV or no, you are clearly sick upstairs.

[/quote] Im bored & I just bought schinapps... Im high.[/quote]

The bagger can go to hell for all I care. Adjust to win him back? Nah! If I see him drifting, I do my own drifting.

Is there a story behind this or what?

Vacora: Saw Dark Knight Rises and it is a brilliant conclusion to the trilogy. Christopher Nolan is a legend.

The joker was Batman's arch nemesis and he was able to show how lacking Batman was as Gotham's hero. He describes himself as an agent of chaos and shows the audience how human beings no matter how noble can turn against other humans just to survive. Ironically, he played his "jokes" and watches people with plans fall all over themselves. He is able to take Gotham's finest and turn him into a villlian - Harvey Dent aka Two Face hence weakening the fight against crime in Gotham.
Perhaps people need to understand the plot, the characters and the underlying messages of the Dark Knight trilogy before dismissing the "Joker" as satanic. Heath Legders performance as the Joker was brilliant and he outshone Jack Nicholson's camp and cheesy performance
The Denver incident shooter was a psychopath plan and simple, blaming it on a film or a fictional character is laughable and bordering on the ridiculous.


" You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain " Harvey Dent - Dark Knight

Spoilers alert!

morpheus24: No, He very likely has a mental illness possibly schizophrenia, so did the guy who shot the congresswoman.

Schizophrenia is a manageable mental illness. The Dr Jekyll and MR hyde syndrome is not necessarily a good vs bad thing. It doesn't make a person a serial killer. His case may be mental, but he's not necessarily a schizophrenic.

cap28: when will the US govt stop sending deranged patsies to kill their own citizens?

this was a false flag incident designed to enable the US govt pass gun control legislation - stop drinking the kool aid people.

The conspiracy theorists are here!!!

The holmes dude is clearly a psychopath. Blaming it on The Dark Knight's joker is shedding a bad light at such an awesome movie.

The holmes dude is clearly a psychopath. Blaming it on The Dark Knight's joker is indirectly shedding a bad light on such and awesome movie.

^^^ the bold 5 part was where he messed up real bad.

I knew there was something fishy about this story.


>>>>FAIL!

If I'm so sure he wants to chop and run, that may be the reason for dating player dude in the first place.

There would be definitely no punny. I'll ruin his game and make sure he leaves with frustration and low self esteem by the end of the day.

Because I can't help it. I'm way to deep for it to be mere specifics.

pleep: You men are fools. Money is tangible and has concrete value, girls come and go.

you are the same ppl who complain about gold diggers.

I wonder oh!

SMH @ thread.

Rocktation: You don't want to lose someone doesn't necessarily mean that you won't let them go when push comes to shove. There's no harm in wishing that there should never be a reason to lose them (before you lose them).

Exactly!

Accept her terms. Take the job.

But whatever you do, DO NOT marry her.


And for those saying he should base His decision on emotion rather than his future, you should know they are just dating, not even engaged! For all we know, maybe he won't get married to his girlfriend whether or not he takes the job. This things happen. BTW who would want to get married to a no-job-having loser? Who?

Take the job. Make it all up as you go.

Death is not something we can control. When we say we love a person so much we can't live without them, what we really mean is we don't know how we'd cope when that person is no more.

Op, try falling in love for a change. That way, words like this will take on a whole new meaning for you.

@freecocoa it's literal to an extent you know . . .