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It's only a typical Naija guy that would see a babe and start confessing instant love. They may be in a serious relationship, but it doesn't stop them from proposing to random stranger, all just to get punny. Seriously!

Most of them claim they are unattached even when they are. This is a funny trend picked up by people you'd think are even more reasonable. Even married men are not spared. In the last year, 2 married men professed undying love to a cousin. They even brought the whole marriage thingamagig into the mix! All for punny!!!

You're in a relationship and just want to have a fling? JUST SAY IT! They are lots of openminded girls that are not necessarily looking for a commited relationship. They may not even mind, plus the honestly is definitely a PLUS.

For all those who try to get punny, after then what? You just move on?

You're definitely complicating your life more and more.

Hi looking to sublet a room space in an already established office in abuja. If you have that or know someone who has one for a reasonable fee, I'll be most interested to know more.

Must be in Abuja.

Thank you.

I believe she thinks you're a small boy. I think so too. ( No offense)

It goes both ways. Most guys flirt too when they are in a relationship. Their's is even worse sef.

This same way you were insanely attracted to your ex is
the same way you could meet a person you could bond
with too more or less. Never marry out of pressure or
you'll live to regret. Just wait hope and pray till that
perfect girl comes along.

This same way you were insanely attracted to your ex is the same way you could meet a person you could bond with too more or less. Never marry out of pressure or you'll live to regret. Just wait hope and pray till that perfect girl comes along.

190: Like I got lost in urs

You wish!

kpolli: Ogbeni, please stop só bé

You obviously don't know the meaning of what you just typed here. . . I know a guy like u n secretly wish u r the one, so I can know that God is watching. . . . You played up and down, wrecked other girls hearts (cos I can assume you have been banging girls up n down). . . You now want to settle with the one that took ur shitt the most. . . . Truth is that u probably deserve to marry her cos if she was dumb enough to take ur shittt for this long, then she is dumb enough to marry u. . . But truthfully, if you really have any feelings for her, let her go. . . She is not the one for you, cos from day one, ppl always know when they have met the one. . . . We both know, if she takes u back u wud still eventually cheat on her so save us a topic next year and let her move on

Spot on! The truth is that whether or not she takes him back does not in anyway GUARANTEE that he'll stop treating her bad. The best for both of them is to move on and at least learn from the experience.

190: That is d power of pucee - once you get lost in it

U get lost in it

You guys should listen to
1 stricken- by Disturbed.

2. Collapsing- by demon hunters

3. Let go- by R3d (my best)

4 let it burn - by red

5.Faster- by within temptation

6. Forever- by red

7.Lead us home by demon hunters.

8. Until the end- by breaking benjamin

9. Crucified- by dIsturbed.

10.The wrath of God by demon hunters.

@killz, the way you blab sometimes is becoming really offensive. You think you know so much, while in reality you know so little.

There's a reason women are called the weaker sex, and it's got nothing to do entirely with physical strenght. Women unlike men are ruled my the heart and not by the head. That makes them more emotional than logical. That's just part of their biological make-up. They tend to fall in love so easily. It doesn't make them foolish. They tend to put their whole heart into a relationship and believe men are sincere as they are. It doesn't make them less of a person. Unfortunately, some guys take advantage of the vulnerability of womenfolks and break the heart of these women. They shouldn't be mocked and insulted, rather they should be sympathized with. It's not their fault they are like this. This is why a woman whose heart's been broken many times, may still broken till they find that exception in the menfolks.

For all selfrighteous females who think sex is the do all and be all, Your heart can still be broken whether or not sex is involved.



P.S I enjoy sex for what it is, I don't see it as a prize for a deserving male. Sexual attraction and emotional feelings are two different ballgame altogether
For women too.

@op. Do you really care about him?

beautybaby4me: @poster.what kind of job does he do that exposes him to lots of women?

sweetcocoa: You better loosen up o,btw where have you been?kinda missed you .

Awwwww I missed you too dear. Gave NL a little break. But I'm back now. You'll see me around now.

To an extent, I'm that jealous girlfriend. I rummage through my bf's phone every other day, read his pings, messages e.t.c and as expected there'd be something definitely to fight about.

While I'm not as the lady in the post, but who knows stuff like that don't grow on you. Who says I won't grow into all these! He says he finds it sexy that I'm jealous, and he actually looks forward to our bickering and making up soon after. (weird right?)

Who are we to say the guy doesn't like it? Well after reading most post about it. I know I definitely have to loosen up and be more trusting of my bf so I won't end up pushing him away. I can't bear the thought of becoming like those people.

Some Orobo's are hot in their own right, some are not; some Lepa's are hot in their own right, some are definitely not. Whichever is your choice, go for it!

Some Orobo's are hot in their own right, some are not; some Lepa's are hot in their own right, some are definitely not. Whichever is your choice, go for it!

Some Orobo's are hot in their own right, some are not; some Lepa's are hot in their own right, some are definitely not. Whichever is your choice, go for it!

She must be new to know they don't do that!

@OP. I actually understand how you feel because I'm going through the same thing. But I really don't bother about it because I know I don't have a problem. It's there loss.

This is one heck of a confusing story. I won't even bother trying to make sense of it. I'm out!

Jeez!!! I'm not a runs girl, and my boyfriend is not a maga. I rarely ask him for anything, and I'm a true definition of an independent lady. I want to spend my money on you, cool, you wan to spend on me? Fine! You want to see me? Now, that bill is on you. Except, I want to see you (probably because I can't stay one more day without seeing him) then, and only then will I pay my own ticket fare. As pinkdaisy said. It's not about the monetary value, it just goes to show our own value to your life!

Now people, stop calling me names. I just expressed my opinion, express yours too and walk.

If the guy invited her down to naija, then he should foot her fare. If she invited herself, she should foot her fare, period.

@MBJ why are you screaming blue murder? This is Nigeria, and these are Nigerians. This is the way it's been done here. I can't spend a kobo to see my bf. He'll take care of ALL the expenses except ofcourse I want to be generous and split the tab. And he has to ask, plead possibly and not just assume.

I really wonder the what kind of cowardly guys Nigeria is churning out these days.

Ah my first day in the uni. I had come from that day with the intention of leaving that same day. So I just wanted to pick up some forms, the admission letter, do what I can for that day and go back home. Intending to go back and forth like that till I secured an apartment near th campus and move.

I had come in that day looking all fly and glamorous like a fashion model strutting on the runaway. I was wearing a black net top and a jean. The net top was actual transparent and the jeans was really tight. I cat-walked to the school gate where lots of security personnels were sitting, probably checking for ids or throwing jabs at themselves, I'm not really sure. I ignored them and about to strut to the safety of the school when I hear a mind-numbing "HOLD IT!" It was one of the security people, and he was talking to me. Around me people were busy walking into the school with nobody harassing them.
The security douchebag was a woman. She looked at me and still in the bitter military voice screamed "GO BACK!" Why? I asked even more perplexed. You cannot wear that ( she eyed my outfit with disdain) and enter here. I said "why" and I suddenly became invisible to her. I kept asking why, and she continued ignoring me. With shame and embarrassment and gawking onlookers I turned back and headed home. Apparently, there was some dress code thing (which I knew nothing about) going on.

I came back the next day properly dressed, and watched as some poor girl was harassed by the same security guard. I smiled and walked in.

Nope. Lots af dirty linens floating around here.

hi too. . . you know i can't smoke alone, you are my smoking buddy

tellfoolish how are you feuding?

na wa for this mata o. Na im wahala be dat o. I sure say him don break correct girls dem heart say na religious person wey never do him want. Well, God don catch am!

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=856116.msg10060823#msg10060823 date=1327674194]Delusional imagination is a mofo huh? [/quote]Close? Not close?