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Didn't correlate btw the two thread till van snickers pointed it out.

[quote author=Mynd_44]It is not illegal, it is not morally wrong, so its fine by me[/quote]Aside the obvious awkwardness between all the parties involved, it'll in more ways than one complicate the life of the Op and the whole family.

Imagine a situation where his brother and his wife are having some marital problems and he sides his brother, and she sides her sister. . .

It's not impossible just mightily weird.

[quote author=Mynd_44]It is not illegal, it is not morally wrong, so its fine by me[/quote]

Van snickers: You and Seun should hook-up!

Battyman J Is so gay!

Jakestar: Before you know it Naija peeps have acted & produced that one and released part 1 - 4. With one random title. . Smh.

Yeah, and the title would be- Last flight to New York 1&2

You guys should give the fella a break. If he says he wrote it from the top of his head, he probably did. Give him the benefit of doubt.

Thumbs up for the write-up.

Connoisseur: A time comes in a man's wen he gets bored and tired of the games he used to play. At that time, nobody tells him to settle down. We all have diff versions of a fairytales wife to be but when the time comes, we'd know how to be real.
It's so fun been with diff girls @ a time but nothing beats been with one woman who has given her everything to you in marriage

Word of wisdom.

To rid the universe of people like you.

I think (emphasis on the 'I') men are more prone to mixed messages than women are. Now, I'm talking in terms of the general male/female relationships, rather than specifics such as dating problems and all what not.

Men are the most confused specie on planet earth, in that they have not made up there minds as to what the perfect woman is. They make it all up as they go, and their mind changes as the weather. For most men, one day it's slutty and crazy, and the next is sweet, nice, plain and simple. The same man may finally marry some religious zealot and still expect her to be all of the above depending on his mood.

I partake in lot's of intellectual discourse with guys, one day, they vote Miss-independent-no-nonsense-hardworker-who-foots-her-own-bill-proudly as the real deal, the next day, it's Miss-you-must-do-everything-for-me-because-it-bloats-my-ego. They want someone who's great in the sack, who drives them crazy in bed, they end up marrying a virgin because hell, she's a VIRGIN!!! She's untouched!!! Who know's where miss slutty sexual dynamo has been, or will be? They ask. They tell you they love you cause of how you are so natural and modest, but you can't help but see how their eyes practically ravish the skimpy clad girls. They love you because you're a sexy vixen, but they tell their mum to arrange a God-fearing good girl for them for marriage.

There's no getting it right with them. The best thing you have to do, is just to be you. Never go changing your self for a guy. There are exceptionally awesome guys out there that will see you and love you for what you really are.

So he says

Like you were giving her the money for free.

What are you asking for exactly? Permission from us Nlers to continue the affair or to move on? Continue with him ojare. What do we care?

Fat girls are sweeter in bed

Why people would bother to reply this made up crap is really what amazes me.

4/10

Not particularly impressive.

Are kids in anyway part of this arrangement? @OP

Dipwater: If u like treat me like a king,like ur boss or ur best friend if I don't wanna be nice ,there is nothing u can do to change me.but if I am in luv,I will even lick ur feet to make u happy .its beta to be in a relationship with a guy dat trully luvs u

Simples!!!

luckgames: Women are not whores
Women or men are not innocent in this real life game
Women are good in " lies and deceit" secretive , keeping information and manipulation of weak men
So, Sis
The game goes on
Dog eat dog world
Sad YES

So what I say is true yeah?

queensmith: God is going to bless you! Its a sick game to them you don't understand these are sick men!

They don't want a woman thats open for a fling, they actually want to fool, mess with and embarrass a girl. They get a damn sick kick out of doing it.

Some go as far as having 2 families or keeping multiple 'fiances' when they are and have been married for donkey years!

Seriously some men are incredibly sick it's unbelievable. Meanwhile if you even say you don't want anything serious or you are not in it for the long run these men will do anything to change your mind.

Pathetic sods.

I tell you my sister, really pathetic!!! They have some sort of psycho depravity where they derive pleasure from breaking down the guards of innocent girls through lies and deceit. People like that are the first to call women whores, I really wonder what they'd call themselves.

Yeah, and as slimyem rightly said, take it down a notch or two. You've always policed threads when you weren't a mod, I really wonder what you'll do now. Scary!!!

luckgames: After pass it around and round
Now
You want somebody to take ownership
Hell NO

Seriously? I don't know, but I do know these jabs you throw are too cheap for even you. When you have a real argument, notify me.

pcicero: only you have dated Nigerian and non-Nigerian men? Hmmmm... You must be a veteran in the game o. Methinks it's because Nigerian men know people like you, hence their unwillingness to commit themselves to anything serious.
Their is love at first sight though it's ability or inability to work out depends on the people involved. There are instances of people who courted for years and ended up separated. Yet, I have friends who told me they loved girls on their first meeting and ended up getting married.

WTF are you saying? I'm saying one thing, and you're saying something entirely different.

Yeah . . . Another problem I have with my nigerian brothers is their ability to see the truth and still turn a blind eye. Everyone knows what I'm talking about, but some pretentious folks will still want to attack my personal life.

Idowuogbo: We operate d same o!

Areaaaaa!!!

Abi o my sister!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]No one can make my stay unbearable! [/color]

Don't be so sure. You've crossed me several times, I still hold a grudge.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Lemme try to analyse the rationale behind this thread.
The women are pissed off at all the women bashing thread and you hit back is that it OP? It's gonna be fun here.
*following*[/quote]This is NOT a male Naija men bashing thread. Just saying what I know.

[quote author=Sky-walker]Typical Naija girl blaming her failed relationship on Nigerian Men.So its only Naija guys that go around looking for one night stand and pretending? its very obvious you have not see how other people of other nationalities run their own game apart from the romance books and movies you watch so you get brainwashed to think guys around you are the bad eggs while the good ones are other nationalities.[/quote]I've been around and in no way am I disillusioned by books and movies. I've dated Nigerian and non-Nigerian men. Men cheat generally yeah, but Nigerian men go the extra mile.

Tyche: Is that what this thread is all about?

Does it look like that to you?

There must be instant attraction before I agree to date a guy. If there was none, then whether you like, chase me for ten years, I'll never give in. The more you do, the more you piss me off.

^^^ I'm sure what you've come across is a Nigerian men bashing Nigerian women's thread. Yeah?