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Wish u luck!

Dont relent in the search, it must surely come your way.

You could go for her if u really think you have feelings for her, afterall, its beter to explore a relationship that could make you happier and is enjoyable.

However, just be on the look out for another job.
In case anything goes wrong (either it gets to the alter or it crashes )

There's nothing wrong with an office romance, just dont allow it to get messy. Its usually for matured minded people.
GOOD LUCK!!!

are you single or married?

ITS NOT ALL THINGS THAT SHOULD BE ANALYSED!
SPEEKING IN TONGUE IS A GIFT OF THE HOLY SPIRIT. AND ITS NOT EVERYBODY THAT HAS SUCH GIFTS. THERE ARE OTHER GIFTS OF THE HOLY SPIRIT LIKE COUNCEL, HEALING, INTERCESORY ETC.

SO WE MUST NOT SIT IN THIS FORUM AND ANALYSE WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT.
''MY PEOPLE PERISH FOR LACK OF KNOWLEGE''

IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND WHY SOME PEOPLE SPEAK IN SUCH TONGUES OR IF YOU THINK THAT THEY ARE FAKING IT- LET THEM BE.
THERE ARE SHEEPS AND THERE ARE WOLVES- (GOD HAS ALREADY MADE THAT KNOWN IN THE BIBLE)
DO NOT JUDGE SO THAT YOU SHALL NOT BE JUDGED

THE THINGS OF THE WORLD HAS A MUCH DEEPER MEANING THAN WE CAN SEE.

YOU MUST ASK GOD TO REVEAL YOUR OWN GIFT TO YOU.

Idekeson:
Their answer to this religious foolery is the same old default answer to all religious shortcomings:
The things of the Lord is above human intelligence.
Well, I'm not accepting such simplified explanation to human existence.

WELL I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO YOU, BUT THERES A HUGE DIFFERENCE BTW CHRISTIANITY AND SCIENCE. IN THE FORMER , NOT EVERYTHING HAS AN EXPLANATION, FOR IT WORKS WITH FAITH WHILE THE LATTER WORKS WITH PROOFS.

SO KNOW THAT: [b]The things of the Lord is above human intelligence[/b]
TODAY AND FOREVER!

jiggyb:
i tried applying and it kept telling me the page can't be displayed.
has anyone been successful @ applying?
please let us knw the time of day u sent urs in and how long ago.
cheers evry 1.

YOU SHLD CHANGE CAFE.
THE SERVER WERE YOU TRIED APPLYING MUST BE HAVING SLOW NETWORK PROBLEM AT THAT TIME

True love will find you- its just a matter of time.

GIRL, JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART.

WHEN IT COMES TO MATTERS OF LOVE, YOUR INTUITION IS THE BEST ADVISER
LISTEN TO IT.

cutiepie18:
I was talking to this guy one day and he told me this:" he said that girls need to fall in love to have sex but guys need to have sex to fall in love".

Both statements are wrong.
sex has nothing to do with FALLING IN Love.
You could have sex and not be in love and vice versa.

By marriage- do u mean like reception after wedding?
IF YES
Then it not really expensive, it all depends on HOW BIG you want it to be.
The venue. food/cake quality, designer gowns and suit, number of invitees and types of invitees etc. are what makes the difference.

Shinkafi- just think about it as a birthday party with more guests, family and in-laws and go ahead and celebrate.
The couple tend to be happier if a party was celebrated (reception) after their union has been blessed rather than just going home after a registry.

DONT MIND YOUR FRIENDS, U BET THEY WILL BE THE ONES TO HAVE MOST FUN ON THAT DAY

IS DAT REALLY YOU OR YOUR YOUNGER BROTHER??

@interested ladies should mail u?

OGA SIR, WAIT FOR US OOOOOO TO MAIL YOU

How your ego must be booming with all this your posts.
Are you for real or do you just dream and decide to write up a topic

pearldrops:
this thread still exsist

THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GIVE ME A SUITCASE OF CLOTHES TO WASH,
BUT PLS SPARE ME THE IRONING

THATS A CHORE I HATE MOST. NOT EVEN MY OWN CLOTHES

@Kimba

Laughs!!!!!!!!!
Its as if you got the point.
thats what my pals said too when it happened.
Because he changed his mind soon after he got to the country.

laughs!

[color=#990000][/color] HIMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!

BLAME HIM!

I HAVE NO BIZ WITH THE OTHER LADY.

whitelexi:
For the Men:

I'm a man and i can tell u, sometimes its just so frustrating to stay with a particular woman because she brings u nothing but stress, she nags, she's rude, she's demanding, she's materialistic, she gets so annoying that u wonder what u were looking at when u started dating her in the first place!
But still, the women are humans and can change if they know what's hurting u, All it takes is some quiet time together, good dialogue and everything starts resolving slowly.

For Everyone:

Take it or leave it, u were attracted to each other in the first place and if u're already married, then u're left wit each other for life! the best way is not to fight a stranger or call it quits and expect to not be hurt, if u think u got your revenge by leaving a man or woman who cheated, then you're wrong, all u did was give him/her his freedom to continue with the other person.
Everyone deserves a second chance but not many give it

A MAN THAT CANNOT RESPECT YOU AND ZIP UP HIS D*CK WERE OTHER LADIES ARE CONCERNED IS NOT WORTH IT.

MEN SHLD ASK THEMSELVES: CAN I ACCEPT IT IF THE CIRCUMSTANCES IS TURNED?

@beyunce

for you, i wouldn't mind even if i caught you in bed with my grandfather's father.


EASIER SAID THAN DONE!!!

My advise,
Beg him and give him time, if after a set period of time and he is still adamant,
baby girl move on.
Love forgives and forgets, so if he loves you, he shld be able to forgive you.

its not as if he caught you making out with the guy ojare

The most stupid is letting him know HOW MUCH I LOVED HIM.
Its better to allow the guy to be the one that love you more.

Posted by: papermoon
SWEETY, did u leave something with him that you need to go and collect ON HIS WEDDING DAY?

[/b] LOL, thats was a nice one papremoon!

Posted by: Dojo
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Don't attend the wedding. Anything can happen there that'll embarass or humilate you

Posted by: Oyin100
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It's very obvious he doesn't deserve you, or your presence at his wedding. Don't give him that chance to hurt you again since you admit you still feel for him a bit. There are better men out there, and more interesting weddings to attend!

[b] THATS WHAT MY INTUITION HAS BEEN TELLING ME. DONT KNOW WHAT HE HAS IN STOCK FOR ME

Posted by: chinani
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My dear, you deserved much better than this man gave you. Do not go to his wedding. He has not earned the privilege of your presence. Weddings are for family and friends. What kind of friend has he been to you? I think it will be better for you in the long run that you do not have to see him swear to love another. And what are his motives? You know him best and you have said he is a "proud person" so which stripes will he show now. Has this dog man learned new tricks. I think he wants to show you off as a pretty girl at his nuptials. He wants to be able to gesture at you and say, "Before I married I had girls like her he he he." Not on my watch!

THANKS, U REALLY DESCRIBED WHAT I FEEL HE CAN DO.

AND FOR THE OTHER HOUSE MEMBERS, I REALLY APPRECIATE YOUR REPLIES, THOSE ASKING ME TO ATTEND AND THOSE FOR OTHERWISE, THANKS A BUNCH!!

Are you "Abialistic"?
Why only in ABIA state?

Pls Abia-kwenu!!! oya were are all the single ladies from the state.
You people should put the bobo out of his misery ooo

MY DEAR, JUST BEWARE.
SOME ARE FRAUDSTERS.
FIRST TEST HIM AND BELIEVE YOU ME THAT HE WILL FAIL.

SO BEWARE!!!

My dear try your best to 4get the fool and move on ok

yeah, i guess am trying to move on

queen
Let him know life still goes on without him joor.

Thanks! but how

hotstepper
He would understand that you can do without him and that the holy ghost that told him otherwide would surely give you someone better, Take heart and see it as the way God wanted it.

LOL. thanks Hotstepper, i have always enjoyed your posts and replies.

yeah! i have moved on but i still have this tiny winy feeling for him, thats why i have stopped communicating wt him, so i dont want that to affect my next relationship ( i will sure shine my eye)


how come the guys are not replying or is it that they have this ego and loves to see their 'Ex' at their wedding.

Pls dont allow your friend to ruin your career.
If she doesnt want to stay or do the work, then its better she resigns.

LADIES PLS GO AND DO THE TESTS OOOO.
CA CERVIX IS THE HIGHEST KILLER OF WOMEN, NEXT TO BREAST CANCER.
THOUGH BREAST CANCER IS EASILY DETECTED BUT CA CERVIX IS NOT SINCE IT GROWS ON THE INSIDE. A PAP SMEAR TEST EVERY YEAR WILL DO THE TRICK. ITS BETTER TREATED WHEN DETECTED EARLIER.

THOUGH THE TEST IS QUITE PAINFUL BUT ITS ALL FOR THE BETTER.

Thanks Busta!!!
But He is a proud person and i have the feeling that he may want me to see that he has ''Arrived'' Lol

There's this guy i dated , we loved each other and wanted to get married but he travelled to UK and then two months later he broke up with me on the excuse that the "Holy Spirit" says other wise, through an e- mail
Though we still maintained communication because i believed that he may come back (How naive i was anyway).

Now he told me that he is getting married ( to a lady i have seen with his sisters in his picture when we were dating, i asked him on who she was then, and he said a friend).
Though being a born again christian, he swore that he has nothing to do with the lady. And i believed him (Love is blind )
Apparently he had both of us and was trying out his luck!

He still wants to talk to me and always like to know what am up to etc.
But i made a resolve never to speak with him for now. Since he did not appreciate the three years we spent together. The way and manner he even broke the relationship is most annoying - With email .

Now he wants me to attend his wedding?
Should I?

people in the house what do u think?

JUST GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR!!!

(A word is good enough for the wise)

: darqly,

Just eat lots of carbs, fats etc and relax your self, you will get to add a few flesh here and there.

but remember, its easier to gain weight than to loose it!

Hi Tonisafe,

I have been invited for an interview on 1st May, at the office of the consulting firm.
I will give you the load down of how it went after.
Thanks for posting such vacancy!!!

members of the House keep it up, i appreciate those that post and those that reply. its good to have such a wonderful community

well, dont know what to call mine.
But and afraid of SNAKESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!
even typing the name gives me goose pimples

You have to be strong for your Aunt, if you dont want to loose her.

You have to Bundle her to the hospital in any way possible (either by getting her children and other able bodied men to force her to the hopsital)
What the naira land members have suggested medically is what i think is wrong with her, but the major problem is getting her there. SO FORCE HER.

Dont paint the picture bright for her, tell her that if she doesnt get medical attention she might then get ready to die (and i bet you nobody wants to die, yet).

As for the pastors ( fake) just dont waste your money. because they might treat?? her and after a while, when it may get worse, they will run away. then its may be too late.

Sorry, i may be sounding too pessimistic but my mum had a medical issue and didnt want to see the doctor. we had to bundle her there and after the operation, she is thanking God for giving us the will to apply force on her.
she is even better now .

so pls dont relent, the earlier the better,