nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

Providea suggestion on the way forward.
Let her bear her baby. If you feel the man is a potential husband material, let them marry. If not, let her carry her pregnancy

ivolt:
Superstition and Ignorance is a dangerous combo
as it makes the victim susceptible to every ridiculous
beliefs and conmen antics.

What is even more disturbing is that the purveyors of this nonsensical
beliefs seem to think their opinion is superior to all others because
they "experienced it" when it is nothing but an extension of their
confirmation bias rooted in lazy thinking.

An innocent bird which missed its way was killed to assuage the anger
of a man who refuses to take responsibility for his own life.

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There are so many things you don't know.

Approach the pastor's wife and tell her that she plagiarised your work. For a start, she must acknowledge you as the composer.
Then, the monetary aspect would be settled according to your wish : paying you an agreed sum once, or paying you royalty.
I am not in the music industry. But I know of the acknowledgement stuff. If she refuses to acknowledge you, threatento sue her and be sure to carry out your threat.

maxysmith:
The only church i can never get married into is Jehovah witness but i don't think church should be a barrier

They are nice people.

I like your poem. Are you the composer?

You probably have had sex with her. If it's so, talk to her in a gentle way, concerning the abnormality of her ambition. It's very wrong for them to start a relationship if both of you had been intimate.

She doesn't have hijab on in three of the pictures.

You first gave the condition of quitting. You should have used a better language. Next time sound sweet, while maintaining that you are yourself and not another, like her sister's husband.

Very very rare to see a woman who will love you through thick and thin. I don't mean who would still be answering your wife, but rather who knows that marriage is about two persons who chose to love each other despite all the inadequacies.

osazsky:
pls sir most people giving you their contact are scammer , dey prey on their victims and want to collect ur money pls don't visit any native doctor or pastor. meet your own pastor discuss d problem with him or her, join any group in d Chc. and let ur pastors intercede for you.don't go to any mountain of fire DAT always have issue with how Chc money is been shared or any white garment Chc.meet ur own pastor god can do it if u believe. even fast and pray yourself and god will answer your prayers I have seen people with worst problems. like a guy in my Chc who always had sex with snakes until he took it upon himself to fast for 5 days and behold on the 4th day he stopped having sex with d snake and till date he has never had such experience now he is married with children ,or another one DAT got healed of kidney problem during hot praises. for 9 months now he has not gone for dialysis , god is real, and he is very close to you, he is even with you now as u are reading my comment. I pray god delivers you amen, talk to ur pastor this is a small problem

He actually requested for pastors that can help him.

pennywys:
brother I have the same case here, mine used to come every night for sex mostly when I slept alone, every night I see my self swimming in the river with women. There was once I dreamt swimming in the river, when I came out to put on my clothes lI saw silver bright spoon under my clothes I took it home when I explained it to someone, he said I possess of a marine spirit. At that time I was blessed whatever I do was fruitful. There was once I friend of mine wanna arranged her for me but I refuse because I was a hard core christian then, I prayed and fast thinking that will give the solution am dying for, but all to no avail. As at now everywhere is stagnant and she didn't come for sex most often, and I'm learnt she is angry claiming she was the cos of my blessings and now decide my fate. Now am looking for a way to make peace with her, since religion I thought could bring succour to my problem failed. Taking about relationships, my relationship with ladies don't last for a week, they must be reason for us to quarrel. I'm really frustrated right now

Religion might not help you but certainly the Lord Jesus Christ can help you.
END TIME PERFECTION MESSAGE FELLOWSHIP, G32 GANGARA STREET ANGWAR SUNDAY, KADUNA.
But first, you must repent. Then secondly, you must have faith that God is greater than Demons and so, is very capable of delivering you.

nevilbot:


Rhesus factors does not prevent males from getting a lady pregnant nor does it stop a lady from getting pregnant. What it does is cause spontaneous abortion or miscarriage in d lady after activation by attacking and destroying the fetus cus it sees it as a strange foreign body. And this only happen for d second and subsequent pregnancies and not even the ist pregnancy and delivety .

I don't bliv in his ogbaje marriage story too but your suggestion on rhesus is wrong and needs to be corrected cus of misinformation. Thanks

Please, try to believe his account of his spirit wife. It's real.

nams77:

I like your chain of thoughts but to answer your question, spiritual wife/husband are just appellation we coined. The proper word is demons/evil spirits. So you can't be expecting offspring from such liason.

You can expect children from spirit husbands or wives. I witnessed a deliverance where the lady was told that the reason she couldn't keep earthly relationships was because of her spirit husband, with whom she has had four children. Of course, you don't expect these children to be earthly children.

Angelcute:
do they come in shadows or physically at times....is it possible to feel their presence

Since it didn't happen to me directly, I can't say whether one in spirit spouse relationship could feel the presence of the spirit spouse. All I have written came from personal testimonies of people that narrated their ordeals to me and testimonies from deliverance I witnessed.
In one instant, God revealed that the lady have had four children in the spiritual world, and that is why she couldn't keep any relationship; she's been married severally, and divorced severally.

Angelcute:
please don't get this twisted but how will you know you are into a marine/spirit marriage

Mysterious happenings. Sexual contact in the dream. Inability to keep earthly relationships. Some spirit husbands or wives Could even fight the earthly spouse, wounding them, sometimes killing those that don't have abundant grace.
They might make her not to conceive, have miscarriage or even die with pregnancy. Mysterious happenings.

Has a solution been found for this your friend?

kobijacobs:
I didn't bother reading the gibberish, the headline is enough for me to say what I have to say. Since when has nairaland become a solution place for spiritual problems? infact notin to say again

You are just very ignorant. I don't mean it as insult, please. There are so many things you don't know.

Go to END TIME PERFECTION MESSAGE FELLOWSHIP, G32 Gangara street Angwar Sunday, Kaduna . You must be ready to repent of every sin before God can deal with your situation. I think they have a website . Just search for End time perfection message fellowship in Kaduna, they also have YouTube channel.

I can understand your pain and agony . But, let's be honest. You initiated her into sex, and you are living in another state or city. It's possible that she became Hot and couldn't hold off the urge any longer. However, I blame her for not confessing before you found out.
Now the solution is, if you still love her, and she still loves you, then pick yourselves up and move on together.
Committing suicide because of the misdeeds of a spouse is not thoughtful at all. Your life didn't begin with her neither will it end with her

Be the peace maker of the house. If both are professing christians, let them be guided by the word of God. Pray earnestly for wisdom to talk to them at the right time. Let them see how short this life is, and so must be lived in love

LuvU2:
Flavour is overrated

The post isn't about his rating, but about his attitude towards MBGN winners.

Seek for more evidence, if you are so inclined, or confront her with the one you have and find out why she has to think about the guy's toasting, instead of telling him that she is a married woman.

Don't loose hope; you will get your own job. Your father's reward shall never be ytaken away.
Congratulations to him for the testimony.

EgunMogaji:


Even the girl that sells rice to workers on my site is being wooed by at least three bricklayers, and that's just on my site alone

Hahaha!

spartan117:
Hijab is only meant for d daughters of poverty stricken brainwashed almajiris
Even their sons now wear hijab

Exactly

He did his reception according to his means. I like that.

Thanks.

How do you know that the business you are promoting is not a scam? How does Y know that X's business is not a scam?

CrEaToRmalden:
Ntoooorrr

Is that all you have for him?