Otitipupa:


He was the only one willing to take me in. I planned to stay a short while till I could get a job and accommodation. I have no other option than to put up with him for now.

How do I rescue the girl?

Rescue yourself first.

Otitipupa:
She has been staying with us for over a month now. I don’t even know how they met each other, he just brought her one day and introduced her as his girlfriend.

I have tried to tell him it’s wrong being with an underaged girl but he told me to mind my business. I can’t say much to him because I don’t have a job and I’m squatting with him. He is the one feeding me and giving me money to go for interviews.

He is treating the girl really bad. I sleep on the floor while they sleep on the bed. One night, he wanted to have his way with her and the girl said she was tired. I heard him tell her that she is not a real woman that is always ready to please her man. He threatened her he won’t marry her again. She told him she is sorry and allowed him.

He has slapped her 2 times in my presence. He is treating her like a slave. I am afraid to advice the girl to go back home as she might tell him.

The guy is a notorious cultist and I don’t want to step on his toes. Please how do I report this matter anonymously to the right authorities without it backfiring me.

We stay in a akwaibom

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You should have hid your location with a fictitious one.
You have to leave since you spoke and he refused.
But give him one last advice. If he really wants to marry her, he should pay her bride price.
On another note, why do you stay with a known cultist? Don't you love your life?

If after speaking with him, he still doesn't want to change, involve your pastor, both families etc.

MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.

Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.

After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.

I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.

Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.

I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.

The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.

My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.

The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.

Please advise me.

Something is still missing. Have you taught your four year old daughter sex education? Or moral sex education?

Get a moderate one room for her. Help her to be getting some income.

That she cannot do without you is emotional blackmail.
It shows how desperate she is to tie you down.
She might indeed love you, but forget about her expression.
If you like her still marry her, but certainly not because she claimed that she can't do without you.

Looking critically at your situation. The task and responsibilities ahead. The divorce that is ongoing.. Plan for your means of livelihood and how to pay your bills without begging any relation.
Respect for yourself not to get involved with someone who you don't really know much about..
These thoughts can help you put sex off your mind.
But the feeling you are experiencing is natural, especially to someone who was once sexually active.
When the divorce is finalised, you may remarry.
Do you mind telling us why you left the first marriage?

Please, allow her to marry one of the suitors seeking for her hand in marriage.
You will have peace of mind that you obeyed this instruction.

I have noticed that married people hardly continue to stay in the same house they were previously living with their spouses after their spouses' death.
What is the wisdom behind the act, please, somebody.

ijustdey:
............Threatens Them With Suspension



http://saharareporters.com/2021/12/21/nigerian-tertiary-institution-sets-taskforce-arrest-pregnant-students-nursing-mothers

Sahara reporters ought to have checked the rules and regulations of the college to find out whether there is such law there.

Happy birthday to you nne ọma.

Idamond:


I no fit tell person say I no get wen I get, as i dey talk to u now because of giving I never pay my landlord because I use some part of my rent help person..
I'm a type that love given but these one is too much, just these noon someone (my old friend) sent me a message on Facebook I should help him. this my guy is someone i don't chat with but I was surprise when i saw the request message.

I no mention anybody name,so no be mocking.. I just feel heart hunt sey person dey beg me for something persistently even after telling d person my problems...

Pay your necessary bills first. They are not luxury.
Budget money for everything including giving, and your savings. When giving, don't tamper with your savings except in rare cases, like a family have terminal illness or you are led to give specific amount to someone without their begging.
Like someone wrote above, thank God for the position he has placed you in. Do everything not to feel bad about their begging, but still no when to say no. When you have exhausted your budget for the month, it is not lying to say you don't have money.

Chat the woman up and find out why she is cheating on her husband.

Myhusband:
dogs are lovely animal, there is this Lady in my school then, she'd feed this dog in their hostel compound food every morning, you will think she owned the dog, the dog is so fond of her. there was this unfortunate day that she planned to do her birthday in town with her friends, she was about to leave the compound and the dog started barking her, barking that she teared her clothes, she didn't want her to leave the gate, this barking was much that they've to held the dog for her to go outside, she never spent 10mins in the bus she boarded when they had a terrible accident, she was the only one that died instantly, the rest of them only got injured and survived the accident



I started believing the story attached to dog since then

I assume that the dog saw the spirit of death following her.

blizard44:
Omo.

Na between Devil and Blue Sea be this o.

Wetin you dey find for north?

Go Asaba or Uyo go stay.

Even if money no dey, we no go find you and we no go hear long story .

You are funny.

She can still live a normal life, while taking her drugs as recommended.
She can still marry a negative person and he won't be infected. HOW?
By the time the viral load in her has been diminished, she won't be able to infect another person, provided she continues with her medications.
Cheer her up.

Ignore your wife. Love and care for your mum the more. God bless you.

Follow your heart. Every human is born free. No man can cage you. If you don't want a cheating husband, don't listen to his pleas.

Qatar2022:

What's the morals of this your comment?

That we should accept cheating as part of marriage.

That she is one with your children won't make her take good care of them. It depends on individual differences in character.

True love only exists in Christ.
Forgive her and tell her how you felt let down by her text.

Congratulations to him.

mimimiles93:

12 kinds of people protesting EndSars
1. PDP members and supporters.

2. Relatives of those President Buhari probe and eventually jailed.

3. Those who are paid by opposition party.

4. Those who see it as an opportunity to wake their dead music career.

5. Those who are being pressurized by others to join.

6. Yahoo boys and girls.

7. Cultists.

8. Those who see it as an opportunity to see or meet their favorite celebrities physically.

9. Those who chase clout.

10. Those who see it as an opportunity to steal people's phone.

11. Those who go there to look for husbands.

12 Those who go there to toast ladies.

Don't be stupid. In your evil mind, these are the only reasons people are protesting. May God have mercy on your soul. Push it.

YoonSung20:
I'm packing my bags

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You will corrupt the place immediately.

sinkhole:
Maybe she recorded herself on the phone doing the thing
RIP sha

I feel the same way.

Osobi32:
Stop it pls...... How will a man impregnate a lady and elope only to return after eight solid years to tell them stories. Some men are without conscience! No matter how good he was to her, that single act alone has destroyed everything. If he had stayed with the lady and take responsibility i am sure that his life would have been more better.

You are not giving him the opportunity for repentance. Everybody deserves that to move forward after backwardness.

Lead him to getting his own means of livelihood. A must. Don't do sex again. You don't want to make the same mistake again. This is a sober period.. Let it be so in all ramifications. Serious hours. Serious time. No room for I can't do that kind of job. He must earn his own living.
I am saying all this because you still love him. And I like that. Now, don't be soft. Be hard so that he can really take care of you.

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dangermouse:
Very tragic. They should have eloped instead of killing themselves. Rip

That's what will come to play when they open up to people and discuss the source of their worries.

Explain in detail how you caught them. Didn't they lock the door?