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abujasingles:
English no be our papa language. Free dem o jare.

A language that is compulsory from primary school to higher education schools

By the word ' real ' reason, you set forth to create a clear picture, but ended up with a blurred image.
Apart from these positive reasons, there are some other negative reasons why ladies don't marry their boyfriends.

Corleone7:
Sex is everywhere now and any man can get it anywhere. That a lady denies him sex is not enough to make a sensible man think of marrying her. It's true that men could go extra miles to have sex with a new lady but men are gifted in one thing - they can separate SEX from LOVE. Ladies need to concentrate more on what makes them indispensable other than sex... Stop misinterpreting a man's urge. Urge for sex isn't urge for marriage

U have said it all baba .[color=#000099][/color]

The op talked about regular sex from a girlfriend figure. If the man is not interested in any marriage, he should spell it out from the beginning. Many girlfriends that give regular sex to their unmarried boyfriends, do so with eventual marriage at the back of their minds.

rahymat:
Very true op can u imagin my cousin's ex saying he dumped his ex because hes tired of too much sex later askin my cousin for sex my cousin dumped his sorry ass before makin her his next victim

Explain, please

Fmartin:
no. Bt at least someone who pass through sec sch. Should b able to make even a bad sentence in English.

Please, what do you mean by a bad sentence in English?

Iamsynord:
Regular sex can never be a determinant for love or even marrying someone.

If regular sex really matters negatively,how come a man and a woman that keeps having sex at will and most times, stay together and wax stronger in love in a marriage of 30 years and even more ..

As long as u are sure that only u is doing it and she is not cheating, there is no reason not to marry her.

I beg to differ, please.
Regular sex is something associated with marriage in many Nigerian cultures, and even in the Christian faith. Now a man that should spend for his traditional marriage, coupled with white wedding is receiving all the benefits of marriage free of charge, the chances are that he would relax and the free sex would begin to look common to him.
In the long run he sees a lady prettier than the former, and goes for her. Variety is the spice of life. Had he paid some price forthe first, he would have thought twice before dumping her.

JohnNgene:
Nothing at all. Ok, maybe the likes, shares and five-minutes fame. Lol

Then, it shouldn'tbe a big deal.

Evina:
Oh but it's worse with these banks!

So long as your deposit wouldn't make the bank sneeze if you choose to close your account with them, then you don't deserve customer service! In fact, you aren't a customer!

That's the mindset they've got.

That's it. All of them are guilty of it.

Please, I would like to know if one can win a prize by being the first to comment on nairaland. I have seen people struggling so much to be the first to comment on this site that I wonder if there is something to win by being so.

ril19:
A

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2n2k:
http://www.dailytrust.com.ng/news/general/n-assembly-inserted-n40bn-road-projects-in-2016-budget/142248.html

So it is now the responsibility of the federal government to build Town Hall in some people's village? Impunity in Nigeria has no limit.

My dear, it's so appalling.

priscaoge:
Even with d rate at which guys expose ladies unclad pics online, so many idiotic n senseless girls still do that Now in d name of "Love" or doing something crazy n fun with Ur Boo.. Ka'm nukwa

No8: Ladies should know when to walk away from any abusive relationship. He slaps u now that u guys are just boyfriend and girlfriend, have u ever imagined what will become of u when he finally walks u down d Alter?

I see nothing wrong in washing his clothes or cooking for him. That doesn't make me a slave! If I spend the weekend in his house and he has some dirty clothes in his laundry basket, do I need Amadioha to tell me to wash them and keep his closet neat? Or do I need Sango to tell me to cook n stock his fridge? I love to see my man eat n appreciate my delicacies! That will make me know d food he likes most, how he love it to be prepared etc. Now I know he love Ofe Oha, Ofe Onugbu(Bitter leaf soup) Ofe akwu, Ukwa and Jollof rice and appreciates how I cook them. So Op tell me, if I allow him to be patronizing Mamaput and Crunches, how will I know this? Well different strokes for different folks! Whatever rocks my boat might sink Urs! To me this very one isn't slavery as long as I don't live in his house with him.

Let's talk about respect. Girls that do all the OP listed above and the ones that don't do them ,which group is accorded more respect than the other.

kestolove95:
Rebel's aeroplane..burn d sh1t to ashes, while d coward remain wia he belongs

Strong man, thank you!

[quote author=Topleague post=44642214]you could have address the message instead of this insult.[/qu
ote]Does she owe you explanation if she had done any abortion?

petrov10:
coming from some jobless person that can't even sing in his own bathroom

How do you know that he is jobless?

petrov10:
coming from some jobless person that can't even sing in his own bathroom

How do you know that he is jobless? ?

rubsaphy:
I saw him recently, he looked lost and broken. I don't know how to mend our broken bond. It feels awkward just being in his presence. it broke my heart into a million pieces when he called me on my birthday crying like a child. I want to let go and forgive, but with everything that happened it soo hard. I just can't seem to forget.

I agree with you. it's so hard to forgive. But the grace of God can enable one do that.

Estharfabian:
Some men Love 'em big...some love 'em small...its your preference. Ain't Your fault.


However, please don't lead her on. Coz U Obviously do not LOVE her..All You care about is her body. that isn't Love...



go look for a skinny lady to mess with.
LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!

I disagree with you on the love issue. The OP wants, in addition to good character and intellect, a slim, or not so fat lady for marriage. He has seen the character that he wants , but her shape is making him afraid, hence his coming to this forum.
Mr OP, since she is ok character wise , and the intellectual aspect ok, too, then, consider marrying her.

chriskosherbal:
Oh my God.

And MURIC would come and talk about those in Edo. Why can't they feed, cloth and shelter these?

Deboxoxo:
Hmm

I think u should go see the doctor

Exactly. But also counsellor

victorazy:
Get ur fact correct sir. I said "Jesus is God in form of man"j

You don't have to argue with them, Bro. if Jesus own remedy isn't working for them, let them find their own remedies

am0sn0nyu:
I SUPPOSE ANY OF YOU AFRICAN CHRISTIAN CONVERTS SHOULD BE ABLE TO PROVIDE A RATIONAL ANSWER

SOURCE

Just die the real death, and offer the real sacrifice for your own seed.

Gaddafithe2nd:
Monday to Thursday in govt schools in Lagos, christian takes 4days to lead school assembly while, Fridays is for only muslims. Have they not christianise govt schools in Lagos. During Governor Lateef Jakande's administration the rules that was stated is Monday, Tuesday is for christians, while wednesday is for moral lessons and Thursday, Friday should be for muslims.

Then, you people should take it up with the govt.
We have even other religions apart from Christian and muslim. Traditional religion, Eckankar, Grail Message etc

Now the title is really really repulsive. The op wants to justify the abduction and forceful conversion of Christian girls to Islam.
A Christian charity rose up to the need of the hour and provided shelter and feeding to IDP'S, and all the Muslim group could do is to criticize and incite hatred against christians.
A Christian group doing the work that MURIC ought to have been doing!

daretodiffer:
Wrong question!
The logical queston is `Why was it built?.


I don't know why these people areguing with them.sef. Get Alhaji Sanni and his cohorts involved and watch how it plays out.

U should not forget who built because, you won't expect Christians to teach Islam or lead in Islamic prayers.

mmsen:
As much as I despise all religion, Islam really does stand out as the ultimate doctrine of failure.

If they are so concerned with the plight of these children why do they not do more to ensure that they don't have to leave the north-east in the first place? Is it not their religious dogma that has lead to their displacement?

Exactly, my dear!

vedaxcool:
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I think ingrate describes you and those fanatical elements who convert children incapable of understanding the complexities of life from the religion of their parents all because they suffered want. your pastors have a reputation of raping little boys and lusting over married women ...... do you want us to go down that way?

only shameless fool would under the pretense of humanitarian relief convert kids such conversion never last because it is based on deceit. Like I said govt does not need help from such useless groups whose agenda is dubious, criminal and immoral.

What is your solution? You don't want me to believe that you expect a Christian charity to start teaching Islamic religion?

auwal83:
SHEER NONESENSE.
WHY SHOULD THEY CONVERT THEM TO CHRISTIANITY. THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE AND SURELY NOT HUMANITARIAN. THEY HAVE A HIDDEN AGENDA.
THE POLICE MUST COME INTO THIS.

So you want a Christian charity to start teaching Islamic religion?

Gaddafithe2nd:
The greatest hypocrite are christians, they disturb public buses with their evangelism, they decorate government institutes with christmas trees, turn our public schools to christian schools yet muslims would never alleged them of Christianising Nigeria but let muslim try this they will keep wailing. Hypocrite christians

Example of the public schools turned to Christian schools.

vedaxcool:
Just came to read hypocritical xtians expose their treacherous selves to the public. Why should an idp camp be managed by a religious body? MCAN shouldn't go down to the level of noise makers whose entire brain is hard wired to shout Islamization, they should simply communicate to the authorities to change the management of the camp from fanatical group to a non religious group. shikena. This sort of bigotry is not new.

You just exposed your ignorance. The Christian IDP's camp is a charity. Govt didn't fund it. Your question should have been what stops the Islamic organisations from erecting their own camps, so as to preserve their religion? And the Muslim people are very rich, plus the fact that charity is cardinal to their religion.
There's no denying the fact that for them to be in Christian controlled camp, they will learn or be affected by Christian ways and teachings. The solution, however, is for the Muslims to build their own camp.

ddippset:
Very spot on! How the PDP people and their supporters get the morale and the guts to criticize the new administration is beyond me! Its just like wike blaming and beating his son for being thuggish or obasanjo blaming and critisizing his son for being ugly. its just a big disgrace!

Come, you no dey fear? OBJ would arrest you oo!

Young man, if you have the vision, you can quit your job; but remember, it may be very hard along the way. The decision should be yours. What if, after quiting, you don't succeed in music, that is becoming a star, you have to take responsibility for your decision. You have to have right attitude and be happy all the time of your trial. You may also succeed, not as a musical star, but as a producer, manager etc.
Another thing I would like to ask you is whether you have flair for music naturally.
Also, have you graduated, still in school, or never been in a high institution. It would be good to have some degree while you go for music, so that if music doesn't work, you fall back to what your degree can offer you.