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chukwuma0000:
hey my brother never you listen to whatever these folks might be telling you here,
just thank God that you just see the need to make a U-TURN to live a purposeful life ,it means God loves you and he wants to save you

I witnessed an ordeal yesterday at one of the biggest market in THIS country ,
a girl was like going to and fro around the market as if she was looking for something to buy, she wore seductive cloth with her boobs pop up in other to attract men and she came to one of the shop close to ours the owner attending to her wasn't even concern about her looks because we are all facing bad market , do you know that the girl was even surprise that she didn't capture the attention of our neighbour she then drew her zip down ,she didn't know I was peeping at her her ,after negotiation she worked out disappointed because the man don't even ask for her number or even looked at her ,
few minutes later I sight from our shop and saw this same lady with one other lady on mini she was well known in the market as a 'onye olu' which means a harlot ,I now found out that they came to slaughter guys that are easily attracted to their body , though I don't have time but beware of such women because they will definitely ruin your life.

That’s because of bad market for you, the traders, and the girl that caused her to be soliciting for clients directly.

Christ can't struggle with Satan in you. You must yield your heart to God, while resisting the devil.
What I am saying is that your deliverance is in your hand. Love the Lord Jesus Christ and fill your heart with his word. Continue that way, and before you know it, your present problem would have disappeared for good.

EastGold:
You know what?


Cut off that preek pushing you to olosho

The Bible says anything that will not lead you to heaven, remove it

You sounded like NwaAmaikpe

You tried very much.

She is not the original writer.

The man did the right thing ; he wasn't training a girlfriend, but rather his wife since 1997, 21 years ago.

Dottore:
I had invited a girl on a date. I thought we could start something serious. Her father is a Secondary School Teacher while her mum is a trader. While we were considering where to go she said she'd like to go to Sahara Restaurant that she had never been there and she heard it's a nice place. . I had gone there a couple of times. This restaurant is a classy restaurant run by Arabs in Enugu. she came with 2 other girls, all were provocatively dressed and chewing gums without the slightest care in the world.
. A conversation ensued between btw us through text:
Me: babe I thought this meeting is for the both of us.
You didn't tell me you are coming with your friends.

Babe: what's wrong with my friends coming with me.
I also accompany them to meet their bfs. Besides
they are bored in the hostel and we are hungry.

(they were busy going through a big leather bound colorful menu book and placing orders)

Me: I didn't plan for this. I have a budget for our outing.

Babe: duuurrr! (carelessly chewing gum with clicking sounds)

I kept my cool as they chattered about school and gossiped about their school mates. In less than 30mins the food started coming, the only thing I could recognize was pizza which they say they'd prefer as 'take away' and a bowl of shredded Chicken Sauce. Among their orders were two glass cups of a drink I couldn't recognize and a slice of lemon hanging on the tip of each of the glass.
The waiter brought a printed bill with a shiny steel cone that they use to cover bills. I opened the cone and looked I saw N17,300
I had ordered and paid for bottled water while I was waiting for her to come.

I gently stood up, left and drove straight to another eatery.. I didn't bother switching off my phone because of 3 lousy girls. I managed to silence it though because the calls were incessant followed with countless messages that first started with insults then calmer tones of "apologies"..

Nonsense

Despite your protest, she still didn't get it that you would prefer your bills to be low.

NwaAmaikpe:



I always prayed to God not to give me a daughter.. Because I know preek doesn't have conscience.

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Nnaa, sorry. That’s how life is; but we must learn to let go. He has finished his earthly journey, and has been called home by his maker. The responsibility of living in this world and making your family better rests on your shoulders. Be strong and let go. I actually felt the same way when I lost my mum about four years ago.

You forgot to add the author's name.
Tony Nnadi

Kasie!

Nnaa, what of making it a regular feature of your blog to reunite lost family and friends, for a specified fee?
It can be weekly or every two weeks. Just feature it there and when people contact you, tell them there is a service fee.

Mophasa:
Every worker deserves a wage, I didn't bill him, known him for over a month without seeking for nothing! Was jux in a tight corner, I cud have asked anyone

Nnaa, next time ask for services charge, even only if successful would they pay, it's still pure business deal. Maybe, if you have been asking for a fee, you won't have been in a tight corner to have needed someone to settle your bills.
Actually, many people don't like being asked for money, most especially people from the western world, or those who have lived there.
Bear the insult and move on. He could have refused giving you the money. Or simply ignore you. Or even rebuke you. But calling you a fraudster isn't the way to go about it.
Africans ask for help. But learn your lesson, and use this to enhance your dignity in future dealings with others. NEVER ASK FOR MONEY, EVEN BORROWING.

‘HOW MYSTERY COUPLE I HELPED TO SECURE ACCOMMODATION DISAPPEARED WITH MY SIX-MONTH-OLD SON, HIS SISTER ’

‘How mystery couple I helped to secure accommodation disappeared with my six-month-old son, his sister’ ON MARCH 11, 2018 3:49 AM, IN CRIME GUARD, NEWS

By Dayo Johnson, Regional Editor, South-West

A six-month-old boy, Ayomide Olamilekan, and her two-year-old sister, Blessing, have been missing for the past one and a half months in Owo, Ondo State. *Ayomide … Stolen almost one and a half months ago The incident took a twist when police detectives picked up the mother of the children, Abimbola Alabi, following suspicion she might have colluded with a couple, who rented a room in the house where she resides at Okedogbon area of the town, to commit the crime. But since the incident happened on January 30, nobody has contacted the parents of the two children or family members to ask for ransom. This has suggested that the children were not kidnapped for ransom but for some other ulterior motive.

However, the case appears to have gone cold after four suspects were quizzed and no evidence found linking them to the matter. Sunday Vanguard gathered that the couple, suspected of abducting the two children, had moved into the house and warmed their way into the hearts of the children and their mother. Police source hinted that the couple did not disclose their identities or provided any guarantors before they moved into the one-room apartment. It was gathered that the mother of the abducted children, Abimbola, 23, was the person the couple met at home when they were looking for accommodation and she reportedly linked them with the caretaker of the house whose wife just gave birth to a baby and was preparing for the naming ceremony. A source said because the caretaker was too busy attending to the naming of his new baby, Abimbola was the person who collected N18, 000 from the couple as rent for six months and handed same to the caretaker.
Rapport
The new tenants were said to have quickly established rapport with the two children following which they were allowed by their mother to mingle with them without any premonition that danger was lurking around. On January 30, Abimbola, it was learnt, was washing clothes in the backyard of the house when Blessing, one of the children, approached her to complain she was hungry. Six-month-old Ayomide, strapped to her back, soon joined his sister to say he too was hungry. Meanwhile, the mother, who did not want to interrupt the washing of clothes, asked the children to exercise some patience to enable her finish the chore before giving them lunch. It was at this point that the woman among the couple reportedly volunteered to help Abimbola take care of Blessing and Ayomide while she was busy doing her washing. The mother was also said to have agreed to the offer of the woman’s buying biscuit for the children in a nearby shop. After finishing washing clothes about an hour later, Abimbola reportedly went to the couple’s room to check on her children only to find the room empty. But not suspecting foul play, she returned to her household chores until it was getting late and she became agitated and started looking for Blessing and Ayomide.

‘Children taken away in vehicle’ .
A neighbour was said to have informed her that she saw the mystery couple boarding a vehicle with the children some hours earlier. A search party, according to a resident, was organised to locate the children without success while the matter was reported at the Police Station, Owo. The police was said to have suspected the mother and detained her as a primary suspect. Sunday Vanguard gathered that detectives, following the circumstances surrounding the disappearance of the kids, worked on the theory that she might have collaborated with the abductors. A police source hinted that the couple appeared to be from the South-South region of the country going by the description they had of them in the course of investigation. One of the neighbours, who spoke, believed the abduction was well planned by the couple, saying it was clear that the sole reason for their renting the house was to perpetrate the kidnapping. “This ugly incident happened exactly seven days after the couple moved to the house. The mother of the abducted kids was washing clothes when the six-month-old boy and the sister were crying for food and the woman among the couple came around and offered to assist the mother to take care of the little boy”, the neighbour narrated. “She took the boy who was strapped to her mother’s back and the older child followed her. She told their mother that she wanted to go and buy biscuit for them in a nearby grocery shop. “It was several hours after the new tenant failed to return with her children that she raised the alarm.”
‘Police shocked me’
Speaking with Sunday Vanguard on phone, the mother of the abducted children, Abimbola, expressed shock that detectives, instead of helping to look for her kids, locked her up for days. According to her, she was locked up twice by the police who said she was the prime suspect in the case. She lamented that even family members of her husband suspected that she colluded with the mystery couple. But she denied any underhand deal in the case while nonetheless admitting her carelessness in entrusting the children to total strangers. Her husband, Lekan Alabi, absolved Abimbola of complicity, adding that he trusted her and did not suspect any foul play. “It was after I informed my family members that I trusted my wife and that she couldn’t be involved in such dirty thing that they asked the police to release her from detention”, he said.
Lesson for people
Contacted, Ondo State Police Command image maker Femi Joseph said the police had exhausted all leads in the case, including the allegation of complicity on the part of the mother but “we are still working on the matter”. Joseph confirmed that the mother of the abducted children was arrested as the first suspect but was later released, adding that “we cannot hold her perpetually”. He said “signals have been sent across the country to show that the command has not given up on the investigation and that we are still working on all leads”. According to him, the whereabouts of the kids and their abductors remained unknown. “The mother of the victims had been invited but she told us that she had no personal details of the tenants before giving them the apartment. This is wrong and careless. “We are still on it; we will do our best to get the children freed and the kidnappers arrested. “But this should serve as a lesson to people. How can you rent your house to unknown tenants? "

Vanguard News, A Nigerian newspaper and Online version of the Vanguard, a daily publication in Nigeria covering Nigeria news, Niger delta, general national news, politics, business, energy, sports, entertainment, fashion,lifestyle human interest stories, etc © 2018 Vanguard Media Limited, Nigeria

Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/03/mystery-couple-helped-secure-accommodation-disappeared-six-month-old-son-sister/

weezweezweez:
see how nairalanders turn to counsellors... bro, I advise u go see a professional counsellor like me...

There are professional counsellors here.

If he still watches porn, it can lead him back to masturbatio .let him continue to do what he did that enabled him stop mastubation.

So sad.
Despite that God sent her a saviour, she refused to be saved.

Thank you so much!

amani63:
This Hand got me laughing

Is this not wild human hand

I beg my sister or brother carry her go hospital

I cannot find what is amusing here.

BBC News

Jemma Lilley and Trudi Lenon murdered Aaron Pajich 'for pleasure'

By Jamie Duncan Melbourne

28 February, 2018

Aaron Pajich was murdered by Jemma Lilley and T Lenon in 2016



Inside a nondescript brown brick house in suburban Australia, Jemma Lilley and her housemate Trudi Lenon hatched a plot to make history as serial killers.

Their first and only victim was Aaron Pajich, 18, a slightly-built and trusting computer game enthusiast with Asperger's syndrome who thought he was among friends when he was murdered inside the women's Perth house on 13 June, 2016.

In November last year, Lilley, 26, a British immigrant, and Lenon, 44, were found guilty of Mr Pajich's murder, despite Lilley's belief that police weren't smart enough to catch her.

On Wednesday, the Supreme Court of Western Australia gave the pair a maximum sentence of life in prison with a non-parole period of 28 years.

"You killed for your own pleasure," said Justice Stephen Hall in sentencing.

How the plot began

Lilley arrived in Perth from Stamford, Lincolnshire, in 2010. She had a troubled childhood and developed what prosecutors later said was a long-term fascination with the horror genre, murder and serial killers.

Image copyrightWA SUPREME COURTImage captionJemma Lilley enters a shopping centre on the morning of the murder

They say she regarded Freddy Krueger, the serial killer protagonist in the A Nightmare on Elm Street film franchise, as a hero and allegedly once told a friend that she wanted to take a life before she turned 25.

In 2012, with her visa almost expired, she married a gay friend who later died. His best friend introduced her to a friend of his, Lenon, in 2016. The pair became close very quickly.

At that time, Lilley was working as a shelf-stacker at a supermarket. She had also published an online novel that had a serial killer theme and a central character known as SOS.

Lenon, a mother of two boys, had been engaged and was a "submissive" in Perth's bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism (BDSM) community.

She went by the name Corvina in the BDSM scene, and bore a tattoo from that relationship that was effectively a brand of ownership.

Lenon struggled financially after her engagement ended. When Lilley visited Lenon's home in May 2016 and saw its parlous state, she offered to move Lenon and her boys into her home. Lenon agreed.

The women were already sharing homicidal fantasies in conversations and in online messages, police say, building a dominant-submissive friendship, with Lenon doting obediently on Lilley.

Image copyrightWA SUPREME COURTImage captionSecurity footage captured Lenon (top, with trolley) and Lilley (below centre, in black) shopping a day before the murder

They used the codenames SOS and Corvina. Prosecutors say their exchanges intensified rapidly until, within three weeks of living together, their bizarre plan reached fruition.

Thirteen days before the murder, each declared themselves ready to kill.

In an online exchange, prosecutors allege Lilley wrote: "I feel as though I cannot rest until the blood or flesh of a screaming victim is gushing out and pooling on the floor... I cannot shift this belief that the world has become not only ready for me but it needs me to be ready."

Lenon allegedly replied: "It is definitely time - I am ready, you are ready".

Vulnerable victim

It was Lenon who identified Mr Pajich as a possible victim, the court was told. She met Mr Pajich while they studied at a vocational college and he became friends with her 14-year-old son.

In the weeks before the murder, Lilley and Lenon shopped at a hardware store on three separate occasions to buy goods including a circular saw, bleach, cement, a drop sheet, a large plastic barrel and some acetone.

The day before Mr Pajich was killed, they bought a total of 100 litres of hydrochloric acid from separate stores in Perth.

Image copyrightWA SUPREME COURTImage captionPart of one text message that police say was sent by Lenon to Lilley

Mr Pajich has been living as a boarder with Adrienne Reid since 2016. They met through their church. On 13 June, 2016, as they ate breakfast, Lenon phoned Mr Pajich to invite him to her house.

Ms Reid dropped him to meet Lenon and Lilley at a shopping centre before 10:00. CCTV showed Lilley and Lenon meeting Mr Pajich in the car park and driving away.

Mr Pajich thought he'd be swapping computer games with Lenon's son as he walked towards the house, which had a sign reading "Elm Street" on the gate.

The court heard that once inside, Lilley jumped Mr Pajich from behind and tried to garrotte him but the garrotte snapped.

Then, Lenon pinned the 51kg (112lb) teenager on the floor as Lilley stabbed him three times - twice in the neck and once in the chest.

"[Lilley] murdered Aaron Pajich for the euphoria and exhilaration of it," prosecutor James Mactaggart later told a jury.

Police say the attack most likely took place in Lilley's lounge, where a large square of carpet was cut from the floor in what they say was an attempt to remove blood stains.

Image copyrightWA SUPREME COURTImage captionPolice say carpet was cut from the floor beneath where a rug is seen in this photo

The women moved Mr Pajich's body to a specially prepared room with a white-tiled floor that was lined with blue tarpaulins. It contained a gurney and a bright red utility cupboard when police found it.

If there was any plan to use the acid on Mr Pajich's body, it never happened. The women buried him in a shallow grave in their backyard.

Lenon's son later unwittingly covered his friend's grave with concrete and red indoor tiles after the murder.

CCTV clue

Ms Reid reported Mr Pajich missing on 14 June after he did not come home, wasn't at his usual haunts and did not return calls or texts. After days with no sign of Mr Pajich, police appealed for public help and delved deeper, checking his phone records.

They found the last call he received came from Lenon, and that led them to her house on 20 June.

A subsequent search revealed the body, dozens of knives, a bone saw, scalpels, a machete, and an alphabetised handwritten list of torture techniques.

Then, incredibly, police found CCTV evidence recorded by Lilley's own home security set-up. Wary that her collection of motorcycles might come to harm, Lilley had installed a motion-sensing CCTV system at four points outside the house.

Image copyrightWA SUPREME COURTImage captionA set of knives and a bone saw (left) recovered from the house

The footage captured Mr Pajich entering the back door of the house with Lilley and Lenon about 10:00 on the day he died.

About 10.30, it filmed Lenon leaving the house and entering again carrying a large knife inside a sheath. The CCTV was later switched off.

Following their arrest, each woman accused the other of the murder. Lilley said she was sleeping when Lenon murdered him. Lenon admitted only witnessing Lilley kill Mr Pajich and helping to conceal the crime.

During the five-week trial, Lilley spent five days on the stand while Lenon remained silent.

She said the intense murder-themed exchanges she and Lenon shared was merely role playing for a new book.

Matthew Stray, who worked under Lilley at the supermarket, testified that she confessed the murder to him five days after Mr Pajich went missing but three days before his body was found, sounding excited as she described it.

Mr Stray said Lilley told him that "the police were so dumb" and would not catch her.

Horrified, Mr Stray intimated he may go to the police, but Lilley told him she may "have to make the problem go away", later sending text messages suggesting she'd made up the story.

Image copyrightWA SUPREME COURTImage captionPolice say this room was sealed and concealed, and contained a cupboard, a gurney, a towel and a mop

Another co-worker, Jeffrey Burling, testified that Lilley told him she "wanted to be a serial killer and she wanted to leave her mark".

It took the jury just two-and-a-half hours to find both women guilty.

On Wednesday, after the sentencing, Mr Pajich's stepmother Veronica Desmond said she hoped the pair would "rot".

"I hope you live to regret what you've done," she said.

Jamie Duncan is a freelance writer

'Bucket list' killer Jemma Lilley gets 28 years for murder

Your intention to make some points with the priest's style of preaching was defeated immediately you went after preachers that collect tithes. The fact still remains that the Roman catholic church has her own problems -so many of them.

Some school authorities actually frown at sexual harassment. I remember when prof. Ilochi Okafọ was the VC of unizik, and a particular prof, who had been in the habit of harassing students , had his appointment terminated. This is after he was caught in the trap set for him.

Why do you want to discard the instructions of your parents? It's really great that you are still a virgin at 24. It's not abnormal, but rather the right thing. Stop thinking of having sex with girls before you graduate. It's probably as a result of wrong seeds sown into you by Satan's prisoners, who think they are acting modern.

shadeyinka:
Careful Sis
I perceive you feel honestly justified until you reverse the table and see your own child doing exactly the same for you.

At that time, your views would be ultraconservative to your child. Like
"...Satan is a morning star: I want to be going to the Luciferian Church.

You will then most likely feel like your parent felt when you declared your independence

But at 24, she is an adult who could choose her own religion.

Lesbians have flooded this thread with 'embrace what you are 'slogan.
There is power in the blood of Jesus Christ to deliver you. Just show enough hunger and thirst for righteousness.

NwaAmaikpe:



People think I am partial because I love lesbians and detest gays.

Don't think I am judging you because I already did.
All homosexuals will go to hell but lesbians will not because they are naturally wired to be at least bisexual.

Sadly, you can't change who you are. It's ingrained in your chromosomes.
You were predestined to be amongst the condemned.

Just enjoy your life and embrace who you are while you await your judgement in the afterlife.

Is this a solution?

NoBorders:
Don't try this bypass! It's not worth it,PayPal will find out somehow and your account will be blocked and your funds will be held for 180 days(6 months) . Have been a victim not hearsay.

After 180 days, what happened next?

Cash out from crypto currency first. Then, if your job is disturbing your needed attention in your investments, please quit. If not, continue with it. So many people keeping paid jobs are still there cause of extra savings they make from such.

publicenemy:
Tribalistic bank. they only employ igbo people. 99% of their staff is igbo.

Please, do you have the statistics?

trustyshoess:
Snake venom is merely modified saliva, or a combination of many different proteins and enzymes. Venoms are very different from poison, they're neurotoxins.
The proteins and enymes in venom will have been denatured and therefore lose their potency due to heat during cooking so will pose no danger if present in consumed meat

Exactly. I often wonder why the eagles and the honey barger eat the head of the snake first without the venom affecting them

He needs deliverance. Find somebody who is full of God and talk to him.
Alternatively, God can still deliver him by his own earnest prayers. The truth still remains that whenever and however his deliverance comes, it is in his hands to drive Satan away by thinking right thoughts. Let him think of how to please God so much that God's presence would fill his life.
If he continues to yield himself to God, he will continueto have victory over sin. Let him know forsure that Christ can't struggle with Satan in him. It needs his surrendering bad thoughts to Christ and always moving with the determination to please God.

kinibigdeal:
The prophesy of King Solomon is here

Aisaiah